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It's easy to focus on the negative, especially when worry and doubt rule the day. Today, focus on what has gone well.

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Listening to your teenager with the goal of understanding is a critical skill. It's opens the path to empathy and, in turn, strengthens your relationship.

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At some point, all parents experience pushback on their authority. I refer to this as the Resistance Movement. This is normal and should be expected. How you manage yourself during the Resistance Movement will directly impact your relationship with your teenager.

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Shaming is not an effective change strategy. It creates hurt, resentment, low self-worth and damages your relationship with your teenager. Parents may be using shame as a strategy without even realizing it.

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If you are a parent struggling with your teenager, you may have turned to therapy or family counselling. These avenues can be very beneficial, however, if you are looking for an alternative, you may want to consider parent coaching. ParenTeen Coaching will provide you with fundamental skillsets, mindsets and strategies which can immediately affect your relationship with your teenager in a positive way.
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Parents need to shift the decision-making process onto their teenager. This will foster accountability, good decision making and autonomy.

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Every parent has a vision of who they want their child to be. Grieving the loss of this vision and accepting them for who they are is critical for a healthy relationship. Click on my blog to learn more… https://parenteencoaching.ca/2023/12/get-good-with-what-youve-got/

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Get Good with What You've Got - ParenTeen Coaching & Consulting Get Good with What You've Got - Coaching sessions can be done over the phone, by Skype, or in person and face to face (if you live in Calgary).

No one likes to be told what to do, least of all your teenager. It is easy to use words of control without even realizing it. Pay attention to when your vocabulary includes phrases such as you should, you must, and you need to. How else could you share your thoughts with your teen without using these phrases?

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The key to effective parenting is managing your own emotions.

If you're interested in discovering how parent coaching can help you manage this, or any other hurdle you may be experiencing, feel free to reach out for a complimentary 30-minute Calm the Chaos conversation.

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In an effort to keep the peace, conflict avoidant parents find it much easier to give in to their teenager than to address issues with them directly. Unfortunately, this strategy creates more problems than it solves.

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This old-school thinking didn't work back then, and it still doesn't work today. Engaging with your teenager through respect, understanding and empathy will cultivate a much healthier relationship between you.

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Parenting a teenager often resembles a rollercoaster ride where you swiftly shift from soaring hope to plunging despair in the blink of an eye. One minute, you are feeling great about yourself and your teenager, and the next, while doing their laundry you stumble upon drug paraphernalia, plunging you into a whirlwind of worry, fear, and anger.....click blog to read on.

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Never Match Crazy with Crazy - ParenTeen Coaching & Consulting Never Match Crazy with Crazy - Coaching sessions can be done over the phone, by Skype, or in person and face to face (if you live in Calgary).

Did you ever believe that things would get easier as your children got older? As you may have discovered, teenagers come with a whole new set of challenges, which means parents have to learn an whole new set of skills.

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Guiding teenagers toward independence is a delicate balance for parents. While the natural instinct is to Serve and Protect them, fostering independence is crucial for their long-term development.

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The clash between a teen's need for autonomy, freedom, and independence and a parent's desire for control is a common and natural part of the parent-teen relationship. Both sides have valid perspectives, and finding a balance between the two is crucial for healthy family dynamics.

If you are interested in discovering how to navigate this, or any other parenting struggle, feel free to reach out for a complimentary 30-minute Calm the Chaos conversation.
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I feel a deep sense of gratitude whenever I receive testimonials like this. It strengthens my belief in the significant impact parent coaching can have, both with parents who are struggling, as well as with those who just want to strengthen their relationship with their teen. If you're interested in discovering how parent coaching can benefit you, feel free to reach out for a complimentary 30-minute Calm the Chaos conversation.

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"Change Begins with Me" is a powerful and empowering mantra which underscores the approach parents should take when transforming their relationship with their teenager. When parents adopt this mindset, it can lead to positive shifts in communication, understanding, and overall dynamics within the family.

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Respecting a teenager's privacy can help foster trust and open communication within the parent-teen relationship. It can also empower teenagers to learn responsibility and decision-making. However, it's crucial for parents to find the right balance, ensuring that their teenagers are safe and making responsible choices.

If you could use support with this or any other area you are navigating with your teen, reach out for a free, 30 minute, no obligation consultation.

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Enabling your teenager can hinder their potential to become an independent, self-sufficient, and responsible adult. This behavior often stems from parents' fears and a desire to protect their teen from hardship or failure. While well-intentioned, it can have negative consequences in the long run.

Ending this parenting behaviour can be very difficult, as it is your heart vs. your head. If you'd like to discuss this or any other parenting struggle you are having, reach out for a free, no obligation, 30 minute consultation.

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You're only human. When you could have done things better, saying "I was wrong", or "I made a mistake" will have a much more positive impact on your teen than "Because I said so!"

Reach out if you'd like to discuss this, or any other area you want support with.

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Young adults are living at home well into their 20's. This can be a healthy, interdependent arrangement, or it can be an ongoing struggle. If it is a struggle, feel free to reach out to me for a free, 30 minute, no obligation consultation.

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It can feel very difficult to create clear and consistent boundaries, especially if you've already gotten to this place...but it is possible and it is very beneficial.

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It can be difficult to shift your mindset, but when you do it will make all the difference!

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This can be a hard truth. Knowing this, how can you move forward differently?

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Trying to control your teen will only lead to upset and disconnection. Working to influence your teen will foster a healthy and respectful relationship.

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Although tempting, it rarely turns out well.
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Shifting from parenting to coaching may not be easy, but it very beneficial!

If you're looking for some guidance, call for a no obligation 30 minute consultation with Ken at 403-400-2830.

Parenting a teen requires a shift in your parenting approach. This isn't always easy. For a no obligation free consultation, call Ken at 403-400-2830.

When your child becomes a teen, shifting your parenting approach will benefit both of you. For a no obligation free consultation, call Ken at 403-400-2830.