Melyoungliving

One thing I can be sure of, no matter what else I do, is that I will always go the extra mile for you.

You will be a part of every decision I make.
I will always consider how things will affect you.

I will listen, and listen, and listen again.

I will show up, even when I am exhausted; even when I feel like I don't have much to give, I will give that much to you.

I will find magic, somewhere, to sprinkle over you, every day.

I will cherish you like the most precious gift I could ever be given, because that is exactly what you are.

Being a mother is not always easy,
but loving you, little one, is the casiest thing I have ever done

You become a parent and everything changes.
You feel. You feel everything, all at once, all day long, forever.

Everything just means so much more.
The smallest things now take up the most room in your heart.

You’re no longer the same person you were before they existed, you are infinitely better;

your heart is infinitely fuller and it just keeps getting better.

Instead of hustling to build a life that looks good,
what if you slowed down and cultivated a life that feels good?

A life that you don’t need to escape for a week or 2 weeks vacation.

A life that you are not wishing away 5 days of the week to enjoy a 2 day weekend.

What if everyday is enjoyable, peaceful & magical 👌🏼

Soul level 👌🏼

Love is patient,
love is kind.
It does not envy,
it does not boast,
it is not proud.
It does not dishonor others,
it is not self-seeking,
it is not easily angered,
it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

~ 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

When you find true love you will feel it fully in your mind, body and soul.

It’s like coming home

Feeling safe & at peace
To be fully yourself unapologetically 🤍

To the strong-willed child
The rule breaker
The free spirit
The wild child…

Keep being your true self.

Regardless of anyone telling you, you’re too loud, you’re too much, you take up too much space.

Grow, get curious, learn, fail, try again, expand & repeat🫶🏻

Parents to these child:
breathe, stop trying to control everything, there is nothing wrong with your child or your parenting.

If you have a strong-willed child, chances are that you were also a strong-willed child or maybe a compliant people pleasing child!

Which strong will seems so foreign to you.

These are the reasons that parents may get triggered if they have a strong willed child.

Your child is a reflection, they will show us our triggers.

Our options as parents are to either just keep being triggered & live in chaos
or find the root causes of our triggers, understand them, hold space & release.

As parents
our goal should be creating
& holding a safe place for our children to grow up in a loving family.
Where they feel safe and comfortable being exactly who they ARE!

Our job as parents is not to make other people comfortable with how we raise our kids.

Lovingly what works for one family may not work for anyone else.

Trust yourself, trust that you are exactly the parent that your child needs to excel in life.
To live a fulfilled, abundant & joyous life 🫶🏻❤️

Children are extremely pure and intuitive, listen to them, they will be your greatest teachers
❤️

The vibration of being who you are
& doing what you love is magnetic.

You will align everything you need
in your life with that energy.
🫶🏻

Ostara Blessings

Today is the Spring Equinox when night and day are both at equal length.

The Spring Equinox is a time of balance of both light and dark, it is a time to look within ourselves and balance our thoughts and emotions and to find balance in our lives.

To embrace our dark and our light equally as one cannot exist without the other. This is a time to stop, relax and enjoy our personal achievements, whether they be from toiling in our gardens, working at our jobs, raising our families, or just coping with the hustle and bustle of everyday life.

What we put into life we will get out, what we plant now can grow into something amazing.

May your Ostara be memorable and your hearts and spirits be filled to overflowing.
🤍🌼

Life gets infinitely
more PEACEFUL
when you understand people can only support
you at the level they can
support themselves.

YOU gently learn that their behaviour, their lack of connection, the way they treat others, you…
Has nothing to do with you, with your worthiness or your authenticity.

It has everything to do with how deep someone is willing to meet themselves, to look at all their shadows and LOVE every part of themselves.

We are all on the quest to find our soulmate
& I believe it is not someone who is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants.

A true soulmate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who triggers you in the area where you need healing.
The person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life and better yourself.

They will love you unconditionally & guide you back to your power.

Also I believe there’s so many different forms of soulmates, these can come as friends, family, pets, romantic partners….

You will feel at peace in their presence, like you’re coming HOME❤️

They will see you for who you truly are, help you shine your light and share with others ✨

Surround yourself with people that feels good to your heart & soul ❤️

Affirm ❣️

I live my life to experience,
to explore,
to learn and to grow.

My life can’t be
measured by possessions,
money,
status or how others perceive me.

I am me and I am fully aware of that.

I am whole

I am worthy

I am me

& that is more than enough

❣️

Spread kindness
Share love
Always🫶🏻

Your kids don’t need a
Perfect mommy

They need a happy mommy☀️

Skip the scheduled bedtime &

Chase the sunsets with them,

Dance & sing along to your favourite song loudly

Eat & indulge in the delicious foods

Dance in the rain carelessly

Laugh till your cheeks hurt

Let them paint and make messes

These memories will live on forever.
❤️

I promise you
your kids will not remember what you looked like or how much money you made.

They will remember that you were there by their side, always.

They will remember that
You showed up in your realness and rawness & you were always enough!

They will remember the love that exuded from those hugs and cuddles.

Your laugh and smile will live in their hearts and soul eternally❤️

Go on the adventures with them,
Make memories❤️

Message to self:
✨
I no longer run from the depth
of my soul.

I embrace myself for
who I truly am.

Everything and everyone that is not on the same wavelength is meant to go for now.

I welcome the energies that are matching my vibration.

By: ✨💛🌙

In the end

I am the only one that can give my children a HAPPY mother

That loves life & embodies LOVE.

It is my duty to be an example for my children to live my life as FULLY as beautifully & authentically as possible.

Will I encounter challenges, obstacles and pure bs?

Absolutely, more than I could ever expect.

But those are powerful opportunities to teach my children how to turn pain into power.

How to alchemize, & shift from victim mindset to warrior mindset.

it’s in the way I move through
my challenges, I surpass them.

Those will be my children’s greatest lessons & will be skilled tools forever.

How do YOU take on your challenges?

Do you feel your emotions or suppress them?


Be the alchemist to your life❤️

Simply Happy 🤍

Feeling so grateful for this life by my own design.

Our home is always full of love & joy

We never leave a room without saying I love you❤️

My business is ravishing & I have the most amazing clients.

My cup is full, always.🙏🏻❤️

What are you grateful for?

The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice.

Many parents will do anything for their children but let them be themselves.

In raising these tiny humans,
I have lost my mind but found my soul❤️

We all know the saying when one door closes, one door opens!!

Believe that, you didn’t get that job that you were banking for, your relationship or a friendship ended...

Feel it, feel the lost, all the emotions that you are experiencing are all valid.

Take all the time you need to digest, process and reflect.
Know that if this didn’t work out it’s because it was not meant for you and something greater is coming.

There’s no need to play the victim, to wish bad upon the ceo that didn’t hire you, say hurtful words to that ex or friend that couldn’t love you for the amazing soul you are.

Choose to process all these feelings and set healthy boundaries for the future, do not self medicate or suppress all these heavy feelings, this will only lead you into a toxic downhill spiral.

Triggers are so wise they show you what you need healing from.

If these feeling of unworthiness or abandonment resurfaces it’s because there’s a time in your life when you felt threatened, you felt unsafe.

Usually these childhood traumas are engraved so deep in our souls that they become unconscious.

Go back to that wounded inner-child and give her/him all the love, safety, nurturing energy it needs.

Accept that these events, traumas did happen, it did hurt and yes you completely did not deserve them but you are not those feelings, you are more than that!

They do not belong to you, they came through you to shape you, to raise your consciousness, to raise your awareness, to feel empathy and sympathy for humanity.

Accept, feel, release and keep pushing, bigger things are coming❤️

Healing looks good on you🙏🏻