AndreaBulIca

A gentle reminder for those women who appear not to get enough hours in a day:

“My grandmother said:
Don't let the pans shine brighter than you.
Don't take house cleaning so seriously.
Wipe off dust when needed, but take the time to paint a picture or write a poem, take a walk, or visit a friend.
Cook what you want, take care of your plants.

Take time to have a coffee, a tea,
swim, go to the mountains, exercise.
You can play with a dog, read a book,
and spend valuable time with friends.
Wipe off dust if necessary, but
remember that life needs to be lived
outdoors as well.
You know this day will never come again.
Wipe off dust if necessary, but
don't forget that you are getting
older and many things you can do now
are not so easy to do in old age.
And when the time comes to leave,
as we will all leave at some point,
you will become dust too ...
And no one will remember how many bills you paid,
not even your clean house, but they will remember
your friendship, your behaviour, and what you taught them."
Rose Vangheluwe

A strong woman does not want you to admire her physical beauty but appreciate her inner strength.

Happy International Woman’s Day to all strong women!

In what kind of surroundings you spend most of your days?

Everything good in life starts with being in the right environment that serves your purpose and supports your expansion.

Some people may have well-paid jobs they love, but unfortunately, they need to tolerate the environment they perform their jobs from, which does not support and nurture the essence of whom they are.

Accepting something you don’t like may be challenging and energy draining.

Most people are sensitive like flowers.

They require a stimulating, thriving environment filled with good vibes, caring and loving energy that make them shine and flourish, the same way some flowers need fertile soil, good quality water, fresh air, a good amount of daylight and love from other delicate plants.❤️

I know for sure that I am like a delicate flower. 🪴

I require to be in a caring environment where I can refill my cup, where I can easily be myself, be as caring and loving with those around me without being laughed at and made to feel awkward for who I am.

Unfortunately, being in employment in some industries, does not always allow us the luxury to choose the people we surround ourselves with etc

Imagine how would be for you to spend your days only with people who inspire you daily, who share the same principles and values and, more important have a vision of a brighter future for themselves and their families.

Great news!

It is absolutely possible to work with such people that support our spiritual and personal growth.

My wish to work with like-minded led me to a community of amazing people that now forms the nurturing base I build on my future, my dreams.

When you find your tribe, you find your path in life.

The power of NOW is underrated.

Some people dream big, others don’t know what to dream at but happy are those who make the most of the present moment and do relentlessly towards their dreams while enjoying their life.

Always keep the tomorrow you want clear in your mind and cling to it until you get it manifested.

In the process of healing my inner child I consciously set myself to the best version of myself as a parent.

I ask to be released from the notion that I have any power or jurisdiction over my child’s spirit.

I release my child from the need to obtain my approval, as well as from the fear of my disapproval.

I will give my approval freely as my child has earned this right.

I ask for the wisdom to appreciate the sparkle of my child’s ordinariness.

I ask for the ability not to base my child’s being on grades or milestones reached.

I ask for the grace to sit with my child each day and simply enjoy in my child’s presence.

I ask for a reminder of my own ordinariness and the ability to bask in its beauty.

I’m not here to judge or approve my child’s natural state.

I’m not here to determine what course my child’s life should take.

I’m here as my child’s spiritual partner.

My child’s spirit is infinitely wise and will manifest itself in exactly the way it’s meant to.

My child’s spirit will reflect the manner in which I am invited to respond to my own essence.

How do you work on your inner child’s setbacks holding you back to become the parent your children need?

Would love to read how other people take care of their younger self.❤️
Share below in the comments.

Happy New Year!🎉

Every soul is hopeful and enthusiastic on the first day of the New Year.

We all hope for the better and make promises to ourselves to work on getting better, creating a healthier, happier, fulfilled life for ourselves and our families.

I wish you all to keep your promises to yourself and go live the life you dream to.

It is NOW the time!

It is only YOU who can make it possible.

Stop waiting as NO ONE is coming to get you where you want to be.

Make life a priority❤️

May you be joyous, thriving and everything else that you need to have the best year of your life.

Love
Andrea

The new year is around the corner.🎉

Reflecting on what has 2021 brought to me and my family, I can gladly admit that I am so happy and grateful for all the accomplishments, the new good habits, the growth, all the precious moments had with my family and the small steps taken towards my dream life.

Doing the reflection thing helps enormously with improving areas of our life and adds up to our growth.

I am prepared for the new year, with new objectives to the life I dream for myself and my family.

Hope you too have taken the time to prepare for the new year, laying grounds for a better, prosperous year.

Wishing you all a Happy New Year filled with prosperity and abundance.🎉💫🎊

Love & gratitude
Andrea

𝕎𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕕𝕠 𝕨𝕙𝕖𝕟 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕕𝕠 𝕟𝕠𝕥 𝕜𝕟𝕠𝕨 𝕨𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕕𝕠?

When you do not know what to do the best thing to do is NOTHING.

Yes, do nothing until you get clarity on what to do.

How you get clarity on what you need to do is by simply quieting your mind and listening to your thoughts and ideas coming through your mind.🧏

For instance, I lately get goosebumps every time it happens to hear some of my daughter’s nursery rhyme play in the background whilst I do the dishes -one of the activities that clear my mind from many random thoughts.

I love children and I love their world.❤️
Who wouldn’t want to be a kid from time to time? I am sure I am not the only one.

By just visualising myself putting myself into creating something for kids, my body instantly fills with warmth and gratitude.

That is a clear sign that I need to check this out and dive into creating something beautiful for kids that will last for generations.

I am sure that I may also get to know more about myself and perhaps a new passion will born from it.

It is worth exploring and committing to it.

It is only through decisiveness and commitment that I can find out if this element adds up to my bigger dreams of making a difference in the lives of kids.

Do you know what you need to do with your life?

If not, get clarity.

If yes, commit to it and work daily towards the life you wish to have.

When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new. - Dalai Lama

Personally, I am not a very talkative person but I am a good listener.

Listening is one of my core strengths.

I can listen for hours to good life stories, get into the story and live the story as I listen to it. And naturally, empathise with the storyteller.

By being 100% present in the conversation I can anytime retell the story that was told to me - memory hack - be present in the conversation, picture yourself as a spectator to their story as it is told.

That is one of the ways I have learnt a lot from other people’s experiences.

Although I love reading books, I also enjoy listening to podcasts and audiobooks and I learn many new things regularly just from listening usually whilst I do things around the house.

What role do you play when chit chatting?
Are you a storyteller or mostly a listener?

Let me know in the comments below.

It is not only about strategy- it’s about the energy that we bring to what we do.

We can be offered on a plate the best-proven system and strategy for a successful business but it is down to us when it comes to the energy we bring to our business and implementation of the new skills and knowledge.

Where focus goes, energy flows.

Hence, we oftentimes get stuck into details of the learning and implementing on our new projects and get distracted from the main goal.

Not to mention that forget to enjoy the journey that we willingly have chosen for us, for our growth, for a better life etc.

Enjoying the process adds up to the good energy.

I have always been naturally driven to give my all into what I do, to put my 100% as I am certain that results follow together with great learnings and success.

It is one of the core values that has brought me to exhaustion on several occasions However, I like to believe that I have now learnt how to put myself into the job without losing myself in it.

The key is always keeping the balance in everything you do.

There is a saying even a saying that sounds something like "Either you do it, or you don’t".🧏

This, tell me how you do things: Do you do it 100% or do you do half ways? so I can tell you if we can work together.🤷

Life is like a carousel, it goes up and down.
All you have to do is stay on.

Hold on tight! 😁

Life is happening! 🎼💃 hold onto those reins!🏇

It is not in a straight line.. and honestly who would like a boring predictable life?

I am sure that I want an adventurous life for myself and my family full of learning and uplifting experiences.

So bring it on…

Taking care of things you enjoy doing expands your soul, you love and become more compassionate and loving with others!❤️

That is what the world needs, more people enjoying their lives, spreading love and compassion.

Hence, make sure you allow yourself to experience more and you will be surprised how many new things you get to learn about yourself.🤸‍♀️

"The only difference between a good day and a bad day is your attitude."

It’s true—mindset is everything! Cultivate a positive mindset by recognizing negative thought patterns and countering them with positive thoughts/ affirmations.

Drop 🔥 emoji if you agree.

Growing your inner child is as important as learning how to consciously be the parent your children need.❤️

It is a fact that kids are the mirror of their parents.


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Love Yourself.
Know Your Worth.
Accept Growth.
Appreciate Life.

These things will help you through any situation.

Drop ❤️ if you agree.

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Eleanor Roosevelt

Who does not dream of a better future?

Dreaming is what gives people hope and help them get through tough times.

Cheers to my dreams, to your dreams.

I wish you to start believing in yourself and you dreams.

I wish you determination, resilience and continuous work on yourself to get to be the person who deserves to live those dreams.

Try to propel yourself in the future for a minute just to have a close look back at who you are now.

We tend to see things better from distance.🤓

That close look will help you fill the dots between who you are and your future self.

Drop your favourite emoji if you agree and tag a person who needs to hear this.

Love&Gratitude
Andrea

All successful people advise big dreamers to start before they are ready as learning and experience happen as we go along.

Taking action is the main ingredient to a life of progress and improvement.

It takes courage to do so, to step on a completely unknown path but believing in yourself and doing the work it make you get where you want.

I have been blessed to come across this amazing community of entrepreneurs and a well put training platform that teaches ordinary people with no business experience or tech skills, the secrets of how to build a successful online social media business by following a proven system.

All of it in exchange for a modest cost.
It is such a shame to miss such an opportunity to try out if it is for you or not.

What do you say? Do you give yourself a chance today to look into such an opportunity that may change your life forever?

Type “I do” in the comment below and will send a free training for you to give yourself a chance to experience more.

ℍ𝕠𝕨 𝕕𝕠 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕡𝕖𝕣𝕔𝕖𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕖?

Life in and of itself is neither good nor bad, but neutral.

However, each of us holds the power to choose how we interpret our experiences, which greatly affects the nature of these experiences.

It is said that when we feel the pain we hold inside of us we tend to perceive life through our sad eyes as being bad.
It is down to how we manage our feelings, that determines how we label life as being either bad or good.

There are two aspects - the personal aspect of life that includes how we feel about ourselves, our habits, our thoughts, our performance on the job or on our business which are under our control etc and there is the impersonal aspect like weather, viruses impacting global health, floods, earthquakes etc which are outside our control.

Some things simply happen but as long as we do our best to live up to our potential and have the understanding that in some circumstances all that we can do is just adapt and move on over any frustration or disappointment.

Drop in comments below or to let me know through what lenses you look at your life?

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞.

Be proud of what you value and stand for.

It is time to accept ourselves for who we are and never cease growing into the best version of ourselves.

In the processing of acceptance it is important to be honest and true and feel free to be ourselves.

Stop being too critical of yourself.

Love & Gratitude
AndreaBulIca

‘’Think like a person of action.
Act like a person of thought.” Henri Bergson

Realize and internalize that no one is perfect.

I know for myself at least, I tend to procrastinate because I overthink things trying to figure out the perfect solution or the perfect way of doing something.

OVERTHINKING prevents ACTION.

It's more important to get moving with an imperfect first step than to take no step at all.

That’s how happy successful people define success.

What does success mean for you?

# fulfilment

Food for the thought:

Our self-respect level determines how much we can impact someone else’s life.

How does that make you feel giving a thought about your self-respect?

When do we know that we are ready to start living life on our terms and go after our dreams?

Honestly, as it also happens with getting married or having babies, we’ll never actually be ready to take that leap of faith, but doing it anyway will pay us more life lessons in courage and strength way more than anything else material in this world.

Thank you for this.

So deeply grateful for the phenomenal community I joined months ago.

𝐖𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞!

Live a life of no regrets.

Grab the opportunities when they land on your lap as everything happens for a reason.

Love and Gratitude
AndreaBulIca

It took me some years to get to the point of realising that it is only down to me to create the life I dream of just because I own the power to do it.

I am so grateful to my kids and my husband for coming into my life and inspiring me to work more on myself, invest time and energy in my personal and professional growth and get clarity on what I want and how I want to live my life.

No matter how much you get to earn in a day job, you never get the time you want and rightfully deserve to do more with your life.

We barely get to have some time for our family when working full time in employment.

I know for sure that every person in this world gets to a point sooner or later when they realise that :
👀 they need a change
👀 they need more time and energy
👀 they feel like a hamster on a wheel chasing their own tail etc

However, very few of them see that there is a way to escape that kind of life, the reason why so many people are miserable and even worse- they pass it onto their younger generations. 😟

We need to raise awareness and remind everyone that every single one of us is responsible for the global situation where so many people live in depression, their minds cluttered with negative thoughts that generate only hardships and illnesses. (..one does not necessarily need to follow the news to take the pulse of what is surrounding us)

By doing good to yourself, you do good to others implicitly.

It is still our choice how we choose to live and impact others’ life whether we do it on purpose or not.

It only requires a good minute to acknowledge your worth and stop waiting for your employer, your partner or anyone else to change your life for the better as that day will never come.

We all must believe in ourselves and our power to improve our lives as we are the only ones responsible for our life.

Let’s keep in mind - We are the artist creators of our lives, so we can use as many colours and as many brushstrokes as we want!

Hey, it’s me, a free spirit on a quest to discover myself or better say design myself.

I have started my online business a few months ago after finally deciding to take control of my life and put a higher price on my time and energy to go after my dreams.

I always dreamt of making a difference in this world, impacting people’ lives, bring awareness about the greatness that resides in every single one of us.

It takes courage to start your own business and enjoy the view of your own life from the driver’s seat as it entails:
✔️Continuous work on yourself and your business
✔️Have clarity of the direction you follow
✔️Hold yourself accountable for every action on your business
✔️Keep yourself on track of your path
✔️Resilience to do the job even when obvious results are not being generated
✔️Long term vision
✔️Find solutions to any issue that may crop up along the way
✔️You must make it work no matter what
✔️Be determined to make the impossible possible
✔️You can't resign on your dreams
✔️You get to see the real value of time

Thanks to the small steps taken towards my growth over the years, I eventually started to believe in myself and see myself capable of changing my life for good, achieving the
freedom to live on my terms and invest my time and energy in something of my own rather than a day job.

It’s all down to working smarter, earning more without exchanging your time for money as time is priceless.

There are many ways to make money but no possible way to get time back or multiple it.

Treasure every second you get to live.

And remember - life is too short for you not to take the risks of doing it your way.


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A tree has roots in the soil yet reaches the sky. It tells us that to aspire we need to be grounded and that no matter how high we go it is from our roots that we draw sustenance. Wangari Maathai

We need to take care of our roots first, to grow strong grounded roots so we can develop and reach heights.

Working on ourselves, finding a way to free ourselves from giving our time and energy in exchange for money, working on other people’s dreams just because most people think there is no other way to live our life.

Having a day job and investing all your time and energy just to keep you in survival mode it is not enough to call it life.

Great news! There is more to life!

We need to grow as trees do, with strong roots which keep the tree strong ready for any storm, and sturdy growth.

How can we be ready to face life’s challenges when all we do is just - spend time on others’ dreams and repeatedly postpone ours dreams or even worst just obliterate our dreams from our minds so we can keep our minds and energy readily available to do a great job for our employer and what is left for our families.

I am so grateful that I said YES to this amazing opportunity that I found on social media right in the middle of the busiest part of my life but I dared to take it anyway without thinking of how and when will I be able to do it.

Had I thought of the means of how and when to do such business I would never have gone for it, I would have never met the amazing people I have been blessed with and for sure I would have wondered how could the opportunity have changed my life in better.

I am so happy and grateful I believe in myself with this!

Life is too short to let’s say YES and be open to any opportunity coming our way.

Love& Gratitude
AndreaBulIca

www.andreabulica.org

Transparency is one of the many values I appreciate and live by in life.

It is one of my core values, it is simply in my nature to be open and frank in my relationships with people and I expect the same from the people I work with.

Transparency means being open and honest in communication about everything.

Being transparent is not a weakness but actually a strength at the core level and it is very important in both personal and professional life.

Tell me one value that defines you the most?