Marina Pearson The Unshackled Woman
I LOVE breaking women free from their people pleasing chains to create sovereign LOVE. I propose a new way of dealing with stress.
My name is Marina Pearson and I support stressed out business owners with a special focus on mums and women to stress less and be more so they can build and run their businesses and life the effortless way. For the last 3.5 years I have been focusing on changing the way that we come to our businesses and life so that we can give ourselves permission to be. My work has been included in Marie Claire
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As you will know by now, my medicine is to break you free from your people-pleasing chains so that you can attract, build and maintain a sovereign loving relationship with the masculine. So whether you are single, or already in relationship with someone..
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THE SWEET TRUTH OF RESISTANCE
They (whomever they are 🙈)
"That what you resist persists."
Which, when looking at the evidence, I see this to be true.
When we dont change that thing we know we need to change or want to change,
Either
It wont change
Or
Life will bring you circumstances/people into your Life for you to move beyond what IS holding you back.
I have seen it with my own Life....
In the form of intimate relationships that have taught me that I could no longer not express, if i wanted to have a healthy relationships.
I had to move beyond my fears of not speaking
My desires
My Truth
My Nos
My appreciation
Over the past few weeks I have encountered resistance of all kinds to my Unshackled Circle.
Women who in their heart KNOW they want to be part of it and yet their little girl who fears the outcome of taking the action does all sorts of things (like lie to herself or others, justifies or make excuses) to create confusion.
Ensuring that head and heart are not in sync, creating more noise that now takes up mental space.
I know this well as I have been there too.
And what I have learnt and seen time and time again is that
💃The feeling of resistance is NOT a sign that you shouldnt do that thing your heart desires.
👸Its an invitation to move beyond the resistance you feel and where you, are so you can create what is on the other side of it.
When you do the thing you are resisting and inevitably move beyond it, you get to
☀️Be rewarded in ways that your little mind right now cannot even comprehend or imagine.
♥️Expand your capacity to be with difficulty and challenge.
🐚Gift yourself the gift of LOVE and see that you are indeed deserving of far more than you thought.
❤️Fall in LOVE with yourself and allow others to do the same.
🤗Experience living Life from a place of contentment and Joy.
🥰When you make heartfelt aligned choices they usually turn out pretty damn good 🤣❤️
All of which are priceless.
When you let the resistance win nothing changes and you pay the victim price of
😢 Losing out on the opportunity to create what your heart desires (and more.)
😐Not building the trust in yourself to make heartfelt decisions and therefore keep re-creating the very exeperiences you dont want.
😬Not understanding what its like to consciously choose into making a sovereign decision - a way of being that will serve you beyond that one action.
And of course making a sovereign choice will sometimes lead to a clear NO. And if thats the case, then at least you are free of the confusion AND will have the experience of making a sovereign aligned choice.
All steps in the right direction in trusting and embodying your Queen more deeply.
RELEASE THE RESCUE TO RECEIVE
Rescuing will stop you from receiving.
I used to think that for me to be loved, i needed to rescue.
Rescue men who, i thought needed saving.
It made me feel needed to RESCUE them.
The issue with this, of course, was that it was detrimental to both of us.
I would attract men that i would need to look after in some way shape or form.
So, my intimate relationships would turn into a mother-child dynamic.
I would give and give and give, which would block me from receiving, as it felt deeply uncomfortable to do so.
What this did was immasculate him even further and undermine my feminine role, but as a people pleaser, it was all i knew how to do.
Until i realized that noone needs saving and that i was worthy of receiving.
This was a gamechanger.
At first it was deeply uncomfortable for me to recieve from the masculine..as i carried the identity of
💃The independent woman that can do it on her own.
And yet, on my journey from pleasing to pleasure, i have discovered that the masculine wants to
❤️Serve
❤️Protect
❤️Honour
The thing is, if we are not ready to receive, or receive very little, we wont attract that sort of relationship into our lives or create the intimate relationships we long for as women.
When we shift out of being in a state of pleasing into one of pleasure and delight, we are more able to recieve and be penetrated by the masculine in ways we never thought possible.
We also pick someone that can meet us here, as anything else just wouldnt cut the mustard. 😁
It may feel difficult, like a far off reality, after a lifetime of conditioning and hurt, to feel like you are worthy to recieve or even trust that this is even possible for you...
And
It is.
Our feminine essence is designed to be
🌸Open
🌻Soft
❤️Relaxed
Just like our conchas are...🐚
The extent to which we are able to recieve, is the extent to which we rescue.
The question is, how open are you to receiving?
Does it feel uncomfortable?
or
Do you truly delight and feel deep pleasure in it?
THE ANTIDOTE TO OUR PEOPLE PLEASER
IS simply, LOVE ❤️
A few weeks back I was reading about how Manifestors tend to go into people pleasing ways of being if they are not supported in the right ways.
As i understand It, Manifestors dont like to be told what to do and are
🔥 the firestarters
🔥 the initiatiors
🔥the trailblazers
As children, if we are punished consistently and over time, for this part, we can easily turn to people pleasing, as we see that being any other way is WRONG...
And at the extreme we start to believe there is something wrong with us.
I know i went there and was probably there for a good part of my Life....
Believing there was something wrong with me was a day to day existance....
When i read this, it took me back to the headmasters room at boarding school where I spent many a time, being punished for my "bad behaviour."
Usually I was given a psalm to learn.🤦
Over time, that firestarter part of me started to hide in the shadows as It was too dangerous to have her come out.
Instead a new versión of me, started to spring to Life,
❤️She towed the líne
❤️She did as she was told
❤️She followed the rules
❤️She gagged herself to fit in
❤️She hid her emotions to not be too much
❤️She cried alone to not be bothersome
For a while it looked like being this way was worthwhile as I was making headway in
😲The "being liked" camp
😁The "no longer the troublemaker" camp
At a huge cost to my mental and emotional wellbeing.
🔥The firestarter in me was feeling repressed and started to play havoc as she wanted to come out...
🌊While my people pleaser was playing gate keeper to keep the world safe from her.
When I discovered what was going on, I persecuted and shamed my gate keeper for all the times she had
😐Let me down
😐Cost me money
😐Involved me in relationships that were not right for me
😐Made decisions that cost me emotionally
But all this did was make me feel worse and perpetuated the shame of being me.
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