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Communication in Marriage
God could have chosen a multitude of ways for us to communicate with Him and with each other? Instead, God chose the primary means of communication to be the use of words! God spoke the world into existence (Genesis 1: “And God said . . .”). After creating Adam and Eve, the Scriptures tell us, “And God blessed them; and God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth . . .’” (Genesis 1:28).
While words are important and a larger percentage of our communication, words alone are not sufficient for effective biblical communication. In fact, God instructs us to not let words be our only source of communication. Consider 1 John 3:18, “Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but indeed and truth.” Our words must be backed up by actions.
However, we cannot show love with actions alone because God tells us hundreds of times in the Bible that He loves us. So, we should not only do things to communicate our love for others, we must also grow in telling others that we love them and use well-chosen words to communicate and solve problems and/or prevent them.
Jay Adams writes in Christian Living in the Home, “Communication is fundamental to a Christ-centered home because it is the means by which a husband-wife relationship and parent-child relationship is established, grows, and is maintained. Apart from the open channels of truthful communication that Paul discusses (in Ephesians 4) . . . there can be no truly Christ centered home.”
Communication is a key to building strong marriages, families, and relationships. While some communicate better than others, we all must be growing in the area of communication – in both words and actions.
People can communicate but may not be effective
How to communicate effectively
Effective communication in marriage leads to better understanding and increases intimacy between couples. If you love your partner, make sure that they know about it. ... Keeping quiet for fear of annoying your partner may lead to more harm than good. Being open in all issues that affect your marriage is significant
• Ephesians 4:2 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in love,
 Talk with humility
 Gentleness etc
• Proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
• 2 Corinthians 6:11 Our mouth has spoken freely to you, O Corinthians, our heart is opened wide.
• Deuteronomy 7:3 Furthermore, you shall not intermarry with them; you shall not give your daughters to their sons, nor shall you take their daughters for your sons.
• 1 Corinthians 7:10 But to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the wife should not leave her husband
• Proverbs 5:15 Drink water from your own cistern and fresh water from your own well.
• 1 Peter 3:7 You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.

NEVER GIVE UP, KEEP ON PUSHING

And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. (Gal 6:9 ESV)
I can do all things through him who strengthens me. (Phi 4:13)
For nothing will be impossible with God.” (Lk. 1:37)
Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. (Iss 41:10)
But you, take courage! Do not let your hands be weak, for your work shall be rewarded.” (2 Chro 15:7)
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. (Jer 29:11)
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” (Jos 1:9)
And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. (Rom 8:28)
But Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” (Mtt 19:26)
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. (1 Thess 5:16-18)
Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” (John 8:12)
When a man's ways please the Lord, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him. (Pro 16:7)
And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him. (Heb 11:6)
Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another. (Pro 27:17)
Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. (Heb 12:1-3)
Therefore, having this ministry by the mercy of God, we do not lose heart. (2 Cor 4:1)
But he knows the way that I take; when he has tried me, I shall come out as gold. (Job 23:10)
Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, (Eph 4:26)
More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. (Rom 5:3-5)
Of David. Contend, O Lord, with those who contend with me; fight against those who fight against me! Take hold of shield and buckler and rise for my help! Draw the spear and javelin against my pursuers! Say to my soul, “I am your salvation!” (Ps 35:1-3)
But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God's love abide in him? (1 John 3:17)
Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. (Heb 12:3)

Difference between RELIGION AND SALVATION
Religion is string for better attainment.
Salvation is secured through a perfect atonement. (1peter 1:18-19)
Religion tries to bring us from darkness to light but SALVATION does bring us from death unto life (John 5:24)
RELIGION says we must be found in God's house.
SALVATION says we must be found in him, not having a righteousness of our own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ (Phi 4:12)

"All have sinned" (Rom 3:23) and so all need a savior; "For wages of sin death, but the gift of God is internal life in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Rom 6:23). At Calvary He paid sin's awful penalty for all who will accept Him. His death was not to give men a RELIGION, but to provide SALVATION to all.

RELIGION OR SALVATION
"Salvation is found in no- one else, for there is no other name under Heaven given to men by which we be save" (Acts 4:12)
How clear and concise; there should be neither confusion nor contradiction. There are many Names under Heaven in which we can find Religion; but Salvation can be found in one only. JESUS CHRIST.
The question now is "Do know that Jesus"?

What You Say is What You Get

Proverbs 18:21 (AMP) "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they who indulge in it shall eat the fruit of it [for death or life]"
Whether we choose to speak the word of God or our circumstances or the negativities in our world today, the Bible says we shall reap the fruits of our words. When we speak good words, especially based on God’s word, it is to our benefit; when we speak evil words, it is to our destruction.
Here are three things that we can bring upon ourselves through our words:

1. Death
Out of ignorance, Jacob pronounced a curse on the one who had stolen his uncle’s idols, not knowing it was his own wife! He said, “With whomsoever thou findest thy gods, let him not live: ...For Jacob knew not that Rachel had stolen them” (Genesis 31:32).
Rachel later died during the birth of Benjamin primarily because of Jacob’s words.

2. Healing
The Bible shows us one of the keys that brought healing to the woman with the issue of blood: she said within herself, “If I may touch but his clothes, I shall be whole” (Mark 5:28). What she spoke was her faith being expressed, that is why Jesus said to her, “Daughter, thy faith hath made thee whole” (Mark 5:34). That dear woman spoke life and reaped its fruit in her total healing.

3. Defeat
Numbers 13:31 states that, "But the men that went up with him said, We be not able to go up against the people; for they are stronger than we."
By accepting the evil report of the majority and speaking defeat, the children of Israel could not take the land of Canaan for forty years, despite the promise of God that they would.
The children of Israel got exactly what they said. They believed they couldn’t take the land, so they could not, and they did not till that generation all died in the wilderness except Joshua and Caleb who said the can go in and possess the land.

Precious one, we will always reap the fruit of what we say, for the Scriptures cannot be broken. Therefore, speak God’s word over your life, family and situation, and watch the transformation of your world happen.

Prayer:
Heavenly Father, as I speak Your words, let me experience healing, life, and victory at all times, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

5 MINUTES S*X

When a virgin has s*x for the first time with a man, the fact that the rupture of the h***n causes a flow of blood which spurts on the s*x of the man, means that an alliance or a bond has been established between them , and only death can separate them!Originally, When a man has s*x with a virgin girl, he is expected to wash the blood of the h***n and thus bind himself to that girl by a wedding ring💍.
Many men and women will not fulfill their destiny because of the one to whom they gave their virginity. It is because of this irrevocable covenant that God does not want you to lose your virginity before marriage.
When you have s*x with your partner, this is your way of saying, "My enemies are now your enemies, and your enemies are now my enemies; My friends are now your friends and your friends are now my friends; I will stay by your side no matter what, I will never leave you and I will never abandon you. I will defend you to death
You now have one flesh, united soul and body! Here is what the Bible tells us: “1 Corinthians 6:16 ►
“Do you not know that whoever becomes attached to the pr******te is one body with her? For, it is said, the two will become one flesh."
This type of alliance should only be made by those who are legally married. Whenever you have s*x with a person, you make a blood pact with that person at the same time.When God made a covenant with Abraham, it was through circumcision which included a shedding of blood. When God gave Moses the commandments and the covenants, the blood of animals was one of them.
Through s*xual sin, body, mind and soul are linked. Everything that is in the man or in the woman enters the life of the woman or of the man. Through s*x, you receive all the iniquities of your partner's family in your life and even their ancestral curses because the life of a man is in the blood.
Sexual sin can turn your good and perfect destiny into a bad destiny of doom!

You see some girls or women who, after sleeping with a man who has a curse, end up with the same curse in their lives. Things don't work for many people because of the kind of people they slept with. Many have been initiated into things that they themselves do not understand because of s*x.
Even the world of darkness recognizes that s*x is a pact of blood. If you have s*x with someone who is part of a sect, you are automatically initiated spiritually and in your dreams you will find yourself taking part in gatherings with strange people/personalities. The dark forces of this sect will begin to influence your life without your knowing it. This has happened to a lot of people.
So be careful who you sleep with because you don't know where your partner's bloodline and spirits come from. By s*x they can steal your crown, steal your throne, sn**ch your graces, tear your tunic, steal your gold and your silver, change your star, destroy your projects, suck your grace, kill you, bury you alive ...
Many destiny failed because of 5 minutes in*******se due to the fact that energy and spirit were exchanged. Many have killed their future because of a blood exchange.

*NEVER HAVE FUN WITH S*XUALITY👀* 👀👀
You wonder why everything is bad in your life, bad luck follows you everywhere! why you have repeated nighttime diapers (Visiting a husband or wife at night), you suffer from frigidity, you are bombarded by impure thoughts of a past relationship (fantasy) despite you are with your partner or your partner. Yet you are the cause, you sleep with anyone. Then you accuse someone in the village and others even accuse their family members while you yourself are the author of your curse.
The present world system demands that we struggle so much for little things, that's the devil's system. Immorality and fornication is on the trend now... But We can get the things we desire, without much struggle by partnership with the Holy Spirit...and partnership with God demands that we stay away from the things that defiles our body.(This is a formula... .it)
Just like we say our boyfriends or girlfriends cheats on us, having s*x outside marriage is cheating on Christ. Think about it🤔

*5 MINUTES S*X*

💁‍♀️💁‍♀️💁‍♀️💁‍♀️🙆‍♀️

When a virgin has s*x for the first time with a man, the fact that the rupture of the h***n causes a flow of blood which spurts on the s*x of the man, means that an alliance or a bond has been established between them , and only death can separate them!Originally, When a man has s*x with a virgin girl, he is expected to wash the blood of the h***n and thus bind himself to that girl by a wedding ring💍.
Many men and women will not fulfill their destiny because of the one to whom they gave their virginity. It is because of this irrevocable covenant that God does not want you to lose your virginity before marriage.
When you have s*x with your partner, this is your way of saying, "My enemies are now your enemies, and your enemies are now my enemies; My friends are now your friends and your friends are now my friends; I will stay by your side no matter what, I will never leave you and I will never abandon you. I will defend you to death
You now have one flesh, united soul and body! Here is what the Bible tells us: “1 Corinthians 6:16 ►
“Do you not know that whoever becomes attached to the pr******te is one body with her? For, it is said, the two will become one flesh."
This type of alliance should only be made by those who are legally married. Whenever you have s*x with a person, you make a blood pact with that person at the same time.When God made a covenant with Abraham, it was through circumcision which included a shedding of blood. When God gave Moses the commandments and the covenants, the blood of animals was one of them.
Through s*xual sin, body, mind and soul are linked. Everything that is in the man or in the woman enters the life of the woman or of the man. Through s*x, you receive all the iniquities of your partner's family in your life and even their ancestral curses because the life of a man is in the blood.
Sexual sin can turn your good and perfect destiny into a bad destiny of doom!

You see some girls or women who, after sleeping with a man who has a curse, end up with the same curse in their lives. Things don't work for many people because of the kind of people they slept with. Many have been initiated into things that they themselves do not understand because of s*x.
Even the world of darkness recognizes that s*x is a pact of blood. If you have s*x with someone who is part of a sect, you are automatically initiated spiritually and in your dreams you will find yourself taking part in gatherings with strange people/personalities. The dark forces of this sect will begin to influence your life without your knowing it. This has happened to a lot of people.
So be careful who you sleep with because you don't know where your partner's bloodline and spirits come from. By s*x they can steal your crown, steal your throne, sn**ch your graces, tear your tunic, steal your gold and your silver, change your star, destroy your projects, suck your grace, kill you, bury you alive ...
Many destiny failed because of 5 minutes in*******se due to the fact that energy and spirit were exchanged. Many have killed their future because of a blood exchange.

*NEVER HAVE FUN WITH S*XUALITY👀* 👀👀
You wonder why everything is bad in your life, bad luck follows you everywhere! why you have repeated nighttime diapers (Visiting a husband or wife at night), you suffer from frigidity, you are bombarded by impure thoughts of a past relationship (fantasy) despite you are with your partner or your partner. Yet you are the cause, you sleep with anyone. Then you accuse someone in the village and others even accuse their family members while you yourself are the author of your curse.
The present world system demands that we struggle so much for little things, that's the devil's system. Immorality and fornication is on the trend now... But We can get the things we desire, without much struggle by partnership with the Holy Spirit...and partnership with God demands that we stay away from the things that defiles our body.(This is a formula... .it)
Just like we say our boyfriends or girlfriends cheats on us, having s*x outside marriage is cheating on Christ. Think about it🤔

SPEAKER: REV PAUL TIA
DATE:
TITLE: KEYS TO OPEN YOUR FINANCIAL DOORS

Last week I preach on topic I entitled KEYS TO OPEN YOUR FINANCIAL DOORS and I gave you 4 keys.
* You know, it is important for the people of God to reach, wealthy because their father in Heaven has everything.
We need to be blessed so that we can those who don't know Christ "that follow us we follow, and He did for us He will same to you.
5. Praise:
2Chronicles 20:22 And when they began to sing and to praise, the LORD set ambushments against the children of Ammon, Moab, and mount Seir, which were come against Judah; and they were smitten.
> Praising God in the miss of your problems 2Thesa 5:18
> Praising God in the of your sickness
These were the situation the children of Isreal found themselves, some countries came to fight them, well prepared with their Ak47s but said the is yours but mine 2Chro. 20:15
> I don't know the battle you're facing right now, but the sent me to tell someone here that " the Battle is nor yours but His.
The Lord will fight the battle for you, all you have to do is praise Him.
6. Love:
1John 4:7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.4:8 He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
> God expect us to show love to the world by loving our neighbors as ourselves, and we do that grace of God come to duel with us, and it is the grace that give us power to make wealth.

SPEAKER: REV PAUL TIA
DATE:
TITLE: HAVE A POSITIVE MINED SET

* In life, there is something I called the "three faces of man" and they are:
1. How do you look at yourself?
2. How do people look at you?
3. How do God look at you?
* Do you see yourself a winner or a looser?
I n Numbers 13:27-31
The people came back to Moses with the results, but listen to what they said "We went into the land to which you sent us, and it does flow with honey and milk, here is the fruit. V28 But the people who live there are powerful, and the Cities are fortified and very large. We even see even saw descendants of Anak there. V29 The Amalekites live in the Negev; the Hittite, the Jebusites and Amorites live in the hill country; and the Canaanite live near the sea and along the Jodan.
* This were 10 people confesses, condemning themselves
> Seeing impossibilities, but Joshua and Caleb had a different mine set, they have a positive minds
In v30 Caleb silence them before Moses and " we go up and possess that land, for can certainly it.
> The situation you found yourself, how do you see it?
> What do you say about it?
> That sickness, are you saying it will kill you?
* We are in Corona time, what do say? are you saying what everybody is saying? or you are like Caleb and Joshua.
* Look at the miracles God did before them, Manna in Exo. 16:31, Water from the rock in Neh. 9:15
> Look at how God has been good you and your family, the miracles He did, but you open your mouth and speak like there are something's God cannot do

Renew vow and commitment to God your maker.
The first day the preacher preach the gospel and you were touch, you said "Dear God forgive me my sin, Lord Jesus come into my life and make my life a testimony to those who know me, and I will worship come what, I will obey you for the rest of life"

* Will you still worship God in the mist of corona?
* Will you still pay your tithe and be committed the to God and the church?
* Will still preach the word every where you go as you use to do?
# Remember you said "I will worship you for rest of my life"

Even with this pandemic will you still worship God for rest of your life, Apostle Paul said on the last days the love of many will grow cool, will you be one of them? or you will still stick to your words?
Looking at circumstances surrounding us today, I will encouraged every believer to renew your cow and commitment to God everyday.

I took the message to Acheenga valley on Sunday morning during the total Lock of Churches

Rev Paul Tia
Title: KNOWING WHO YOU ARE
Everybody belonged to a family, though some are Royal families and some are not, they know the position of that family in the society, therefore, they know whom they are, the power of the name of the family they carries, so everybody know whom there.
People fear them and respect them not their because of their structures, intelligence or money, but the family name they carry.
The Bible said "you're a Royal priest hood, peculiar people and a chosen generation" 1 Peter 2:9
You're not an ordinary person as people think and see you. God has chosen you even before you were born. Jeremiah 1:5. God has also give you authority over everything Mark 15:17

This morning I want to show you whom you are in Christ:
1. You're a Royal priest hood
2. You have been chosen, that means failure is not potion, that means that you're like a tree planted by the rivers of waters, you will never lack.
3. The power of God is upon you, because He has given you authority to pull down and to built.
Prayer, heavenly father open my to know whom I am in you in Jesus name amen

Don’t Let Your Faith Waver

By Rev Paul

Daniel 3:17-18 “If it be so, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and he will deliver us out of thine hand, O king. But if not, be it known unto thee, O king, that we will not serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image which thou hast set up.”

The well known story of the Hebrew boys teaches us how strong and firm we are to stand and defend our faith. It was a life-threatening experience for these young men who had vowed never to bow to any other god.

The assurance we have in faith is that, the God we serve will never let us be consumed by fire. The boldness of the Hebrew boys was based on their knowledge of the One with Whom they had trusted their lives. Don’t let your faith waver when you are threatened by the fires of this world. Here are three things to learn from the Hebrew boys:

1. They knew the Word
As they saw the burning furnace they rested on the word of God. Isaiah 43:2 says, "When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned;
neither shall the flame kindle upon thee." God’s word dwelt in them, and they were resolved in themselves never to bow, and not even death could cause them to waver.

2. They didn’t give room to the spirit of fear
Fear is not one of the things God gave us. The Bible says in 2 Timothy 1:7, "For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” Nothing should be allowed to put fear in us. Our faith mustn’t waver due to fear.

3. They were fully persuaded
Like Abraham never wavered in believing God’s promise (Romans 4:20-21), Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego never wavered in their faith, for they were fully persuaded, and nothing could make them bow to Nebuchadnezzar's statue.

Precious one, as you acquaint yourself with God’s word and remain persuaded of His promises, let nothing cause your faith to waver in this world.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, remove all fear from my heart, and cause me to be strong in Your Word in Jesus’ name, Amen.