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Angry people want you to see how powerful they are. Loving people want you to see how powerful you are.

Darkness soothes. It softens the sharp edges of the world, turns down harsh colors, and with the coming of twilight, the sky appears to recede.

The night seems much bigger than the day and in its realm, like the stars that come out to shine, life seems to hold more possibilities.

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ADVICEish is listening...

We all have two lives; The second one starts when we realise we only have one.

What are your thoughts on this statement?

Don't stumble over something behind you.

Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realise you're wrong.

Words can sometimes get stuck in the gut and then in the throat... it seems...impossible to pass them

I went to a book store and asked the assistant where the 'Self-Help' section was. She said if she told me, it would defeat the purpose.

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This is a story to remind us that some of the most important jobs that need to be done are to be kind to each other, to be grateful for what we have, to love ourselves and to not be so hard on ourselves and to give ourselves every chance to be happy.

"This is a story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody. There was an important job that needed to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about that, because it was Everybody's job. Everybody thought Anybody could do it, but Nobody realised that Everybody wouldn't do it. It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have done."

Whenever two people meet, there are really six people present. There is each as he sees himself, each as the other person sees him, and each as he really is.

If you or someone you know wants emotional support, ADVICEish is here for you to talk to and for you to be heard. The hardest thing is taking the first step so when you are ready, take a deep breathe and send a message to begin.

What emotional health needs is more sunlight, more candor and more unashamed conversation

Six steps to becoming a better listener - The Breakdown With an average attention span of 8 seconds, listening to others attentively i difficult. Here's how to become a better listener.

The act of conversing with a stranger on their perspectives on an issue you are experiencing will most definitely yield better results than when you are having the conversation with someone close since there is no holding back. It may not apply in all situations but with a less-known person, you limit the possibility of holding anything back. Thus, you get all the necessary assistance you need to handle the situation.

So, the next time you have some deeply troubling thoughts or problems, consider this; Your solution may be a stranger away!

https://mwenjeri.medium.com/i-confided-in-a-stranger-d78fef637c3

I confided in a stranger …and it felt nice. You can too!

At times, we do not need answers to our problems. We just need someone to listen to and advise us on how to get closer to the solutions by just picking our minds on the possibilities that are within our reach

A Harvard sociologist explains why we confide in strangers
https://qz.com/1808638/a-harvard-sociologist-explains-why-we-confide-in-strangers/

A Harvard sociologist explains why we confide in strangers Who did you last trust with some really personal information?