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A man yearns for a woman’s surrender.
A woman yearns to surrender, to let go of control, and to be taken.
t’s instinctual
It’s a dance
It’s a collaboration
This dance deepens their love, their attraction, their passion.
Her surrender is a gift to herself
It’s a gift of love
And it’s a gift to her man
Just like in dance, one leads and the other follows.
There’s no forced equality, no need to be the same.
Because there’s a knowing that each of the roles in this dance is equally important for the dance to be a piece of art that captivates you.
It doesn’t mean he’s better and she’s secondary or weaker
Her trust empowers him, inspires him, motivates him, and lifts him up
He feels into her needs and her desires and leads accordingly
She surrenders to his direction because she trusts herself in the man she chose and she trusts him that his direction includes and considers her.
It’s what’s best for both of them.
But here's the thing, in today's modern times, we want everything to be equal. And in the name of that equality, the beauty of the dance is becoming extinct.
Our natural way is succumbing to unnatural expectations.
Equal does not mean same.
Love is not a job search, pay raise, or representation of your worth.
There is a place for equality.
And it looks different in your relationship. If you push for sameness in your relationship, it has the opposite effect of what you think it is supposed to.
Men, it’s safe to take the lead.
She wants you to.
SHE WANTS TO SURRENDER TO YOU!
A woman doesn’t yearn for a man’s surrender in the same way.
The music is playing, your partner is waiting, it’s time to dance.
It's time for you to lead her in the expression of your love.

**ras*x **ra *xuality101 *xuality ❤

Sacred S*xuality updated their phone number.

We’re back just like we promised 💛

It’s time for the second edition of Monogamy Disrupted and this time we’re kicking things up a notch!

If a non-monogamous relationship structure has sparked your curiosity in the past, look no further than this night to learn even more about it.

Find yourself amidst loving, supportive, and unbelievably wholesome folks as we all gather under one sky to celebrate love in its most liberating form.

The event is taking place in Mumbai on the 3rd of June and we can’t wait to see you there.

Are you interested? Well then DM us for more details and we'd gladly answer all your doubts ✨

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Swinging is a taboo in India. Swinging should be based on intimacy and connections not just carnal desires. Inviting couples to talk discuss their desires and experience and whats biggest pain points in finding right connections. Learning to explore, share and connect via ta**ra meditation

Ahh, to think of those innocent days where the only thing swinging brought to mind was images of playgrounds and children.

We’re not that innocent now, are we?

For those of you unaccustomed to what swinging means in the context of adult relationships, we’re here to let you in on the basics!

Swinging is essentially a s:xual practice in nature. It is when singles or people in ethically non-monogamous relationships choose to engage s:xually with other singles or couples. “Swingers” as they call themselves, enjoy the process as a means of recreation.

It could involve swapping partners between relationships or just hooking up with other acquaintances in one’s own social circle.

Sounds a lot like polyamory, doesn’t it? But there’s a difference.

While polyamorous relationships allow for and are accepting of developing intimate emotional connections to other people outside the relationship, swinging is purely s:xual in nature.

Of course, this doesn’t mean that the basics of any such dynamic would change. Just like polyamory, swinging also requires open communication, a lot of trust, and selfless affection towards a partner.

Have you ever fantasized about swinging? How did you go about it? Let us know in the comments section!

The Intimacy Curator provides dating, intimacy, and relationship coaching services to individuals, couples, and polycules. To know more, send us a DM on or write us an email at [email protected]

Camp on empty beach to find time travel experience to become an animal you are. 😅😅😅

A couple once asked a great Master, what is the difference between chemistry and alchemy in couple relationship?
And the Master answered these beautiful words:

People who find chemistry are scientists of love, that is, they are accustomed to action and reaction.
People who find alchemy are artists of love, constantly create new ways to love.
Chemistry loves the packaging.
Alchemy enjoys the content.
Chemistry happens.
Alchemy is built.
Alchemy brings together what chemistry separates.~

~author unknown

In our modern world, intimate relationship can be one of the most profound vehicles we have for healing, a contemporary temple in which to explore the mysteries of the heart. But should we choose to approach intimacy in this way, we must prepare for a long journey through the dark wood, and into the exquisite, uncertain, chaotic terrain that we will be asked to navigate along the way.

While a holy dismemberment and reassembling may sound exciting and something to look forward to, we will likely have some pretty contradictory feelings about the whole thing. We want close relationship more than anything, and simultaneously we want nothing to do with it. The archaic fears of abandonment and engulfment circle in the psyche of the personal and the collective.

At some point, we must reframe our view of emotional groundlessness, embracing it not as something to be discarded or transformed, but beheld as ongoing revelation. This may sound like madness to the mind as it does not conform to the dream of manifesting endless positivity or to transcending our vulnerability in some disembodied realization. But buried in the core of the contradictions, in the union of the opposites, the water of life awaits.

In this sense, intimacy is a path of resurrection as well as crucifixion, not primarily a vehicle to remedy our own loneliness, unworthiness, and existential anxiety. Its most sacred function is not to make us feel better or to shield us from the potentiality of heartbreak, deflation, and disappointment, but to reveal wholeness.

In the birth as well as in the death, we will come face to face with the reality of the unconscious self, into uncompromising relationship with the wildness of the disowned internal other, and be asked to embrace the nakedness and exposure that the beloved is wired to call forward.

Nowhere to run. No secret trap doors. No meditating it away. No hiding out in the present moment. The only way out is through. Into the arms of the beloved, in whatever form he or she happens to take. Into our own arms, and into the unresolvable mysteries of separation and union. Perhaps there are none which are sweeter. And fiercer. And darker. And filled with light.~~

~Matt Licata

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“I counted my years and discovered that I have less time to live from here on out than what I have lived until now.
I feel like that kid who won a pack of sweets: the first ones ate them with pleasure, but when he realized there were few left he began to taste them intensely.
I no longer have time for endless meetings where statute, rules, procedures and internal regulations are discussed, knowing that nothing will be achieved.

I no longer have time to support dumb people who, despite their chronic age, haven't grown up.
My time is too short: I want the essence, my soul is in a hurry. I don't have much sweets in the package anymore.
I want to live next to human, very humane people, who know how to laugh at their mistakes and who are not inflated by their triumphs and who take on their own responsibilities. This is how you defend human dignity and move towards truth and honesty.

It’s the essential that makes life worth living.
I want to surround myself with people who know how to touch hearts, people who have been taught to grow up with gentle touches of their soul.
Yes, I'm in a hurry, I'm rushing to live with the intensity that only maturity can give.
I don't mean to waste any of the leftover sweets. I'm sure these will be delicious, a lot more than the ones I've eaten so far.

My goal is to reach a satisfied and peaceful end with my loved ones and my conscience.
We have two lives and the second one starts when you realize you only have one. "~

~Mario of Andrade

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Can you accept everyone is on their own personal journey, and respect that their choices are theirs?
Can you remain non-judgemental?
Can you look beyond the facade of another and empower that person's beauty? Can you see beyond the affects and defects in others and accept them as part of the beauty of yourself, the wonders of nature, and the miracle of love?~

It’s easy to dismiss a woman who has traveled through the darkness over and over throughout a long life.

Mastering death and rebirth in order to survive, within a society that deems it terrifying,

What to do with women who have “remembered” who we are, quietly in the shadows?

As the maiden and mother step back to honor her in the autumn of her life

We take our seat at a table with honor, embracing the wisdom garnered only through the Divine journey lain before us.

We plant the seeds and nourish the growth of the next generation, just as nature would do.

We wear our scars, wrinkles, saggy skin, gray and white hair with grace, dignity and a knowing that we carry some thing within our beings that only we carry, and this world needs.

Wise women, you have earned your seat at the table.
Please take it.~

~Mary Lane
www.divinenourishment.net

art: Jacqui de Rose
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Ancient Blessing~
“I release my parents from the feeling that they have already failed me.
I release my children from the need to bring pride to me; that they may write their own ways according to their hearts that whisper all the time in their ears.
I release my partner from the obligation to complete myself. I do not lack anything, I learn with all beings all the time.
I thank my grandparents and forefathers who have gathered so that I can breathe life today.
I release them from past failures and unfulfilled desires, aware that they have done their best to resolve their situations within the consciousness they had at that moment.
I honor you, I love you and I recognize you as innocent.
I am transparent before your eyes, so they know that I do not hide or owe anything other than being true to myself and to my very existence, that walking with the wisdom of the heart, I am aware that I fulfill my life project [purpose], free from invisible and visible family loyalties that might disturb my Peace and Happiness, which are my only responsibilities.
I renounce the role of savior, of being one who unites or fulfills the expectations of others.
Learning through, and only through, LOVE, I bless my essence, my way of expressing, even though somebody may not understand me.
I understand myself, because I alone have lived and experienced my history; because I know myself, I know who I am, what I feel, what I do and why I do it.
I respect and approve [of] myself.
I honor the Divinity in me and in you.
We are free.”~~

Sacred S*xuality updated their business hours.

Life is a beach

I have seen so many people having s*x. In my temples, sessions, workshops & festivals. It’s become so casual in a way, so natural and normal to be present to and witness, and sometimes support and yet the sacredness of this act, sacred union and the reality of it occurring in public opens my heart so powerfully and touches the deepest part of me that is a fierce and wild advocate for s*xually and soul liberation and expression.

I remember the first time witnessing others making love in a temple and feeling the complete rightness of it. Sharing love & eros as prayer, vibrating these energies into the space and the community to be touched by. Of course I jumped in to this radical expression myself and released the entirety of my embodied shame in my first act of s*x in a temple. My shame literally disappeared and released from my body never returning in this act of s*x, of radical ta***ic awakening.

I remember getting a condom for a lover while he made love to another woman in a temple a few years ago, even helping him put it on then moving away to Priestess the space however I was needed. How right it felt to support love, s*xuality & healing however it wanted to occur. It made me laugh a little - the absurdity & complete normality of it at the same time.

I watched as group Eros was run in a temple a few weeks ago, as groups, triads, couples of different and same genders made love under the full moon in nature.my heart bursting that humanity can return to its wild and innocent state and reclaim our personal and collective s*xual freedom & power.

Grateful to be part of the return of temple movement. Real temples of eros & love on this earth, Wild love burning fiercely through hearts, s*x & souls. Reigniting the inner fires that civilization & socialization put out. This is our power, this is my call 🔥❤️

“We like to think “I want to become myself”.
But becoming oneself is a process of unbecoming.
It’s a process of becoming less and less of what one was and letting go of more and more of what one thought one could be or should be or might be.
Becoming oneself is a process of dying.
It’s a process of letting go, and of stepping into the fire.”~

~Reggie Ray

The Importance of Being Held~~
The average length of a hug between two people is 3 seconds. But the researchers have discovered something fantastic. When a hug lasts 20 seconds, there is a therapeutic effect on the body and mind. The reason is that a sincere embrace produces a hormone called "oxytocin", also known as the love hormone. This substance has many benefits in our physical and mental health, helps us, among other things, to relax, to feel safe and calm our fears and anxiety. This wonderful tranquilizer is offered free of charge every time we have a person in our arms, who cradled a child, who cherish a dog or a cat, that we are dancing with our partner, the closer we get to someone or simply hold the Shoulders of a friend.

A famous quote by psychotherapist Virginia Satir goes, “We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth.” Whether those exact numbers have been scientifically proven remains to be seen, but there is a great deal of scientific evidence related to the importance of hugs and physical contact. Here are some reasons why we should hug::

1. STIMULATES OXYTOCIN

Oxytocin is a neurotransmitter that acts on the limbic system, the brain’s emotional centre, promoting feelings of contentment, reducing anxiety and stress, and even making mammals monogamous. It is the hormone responsible for us all being here today. You see this little gem is released during childbirth, making our mothers forget about all of the excruciating pain they endured expelling us from their bodies and making them want to still love and spend time with us. New research from the University of California suggests that it has a similarly civilising effect on human males, making them more affectionate and better at forming relationships and social bonding. And it dramatically increased the libido and s*xual performance of test subjects. When we hug someone, oxytocin is released into our bodies by our pituitary gland, lowering both our heart rates and our cortisol levels. Cortisol is the hormone responsible for stress, high blood pressure, and heart disease.

2. CULTIVATES PATIENCE

Connections are fostered when people take the time to appreciate and acknowledge one another. A hug is one of the easiest ways to show appreciation and acknowledgement of another person. The world is a busy, hustle-bustle place and we’re constantly rushing to the next task. By slowing down and taking a moment to offer sincere hugs throughout the day, we’re benefiting ourselves, others, and cultivating better patience within ourselves.

3. PREVENTS DISEASE

Affection also has a direct response on the reduction of stress which prevents many diseases. The Touch Research Institute at the University of Miami School of Medicine says it has carried out more than 100 studies into touch and found evidence of significant effects, including faster growth in premature babies, reduced pain, decreased autoimmune disease symptoms, lowered glucose levels in children with diabetes, and improved immune systems in people with cancer.

4. STIMULATES THYMUS GLAND

Hugs strengthen the immune system. The gentle pressure on the sternum and the emotional charge this creates activates the Solar Plexus Chakra. This stimulates the thymus gland, which regulates and balances the body’s production of white blood cells, which keep you healthy and disease free.

5. COMMUNICATION WITHOUT SAYING A WORD

Almost 70 percent of communication is nonverbal. The interpretation of body language can be based on a single gesture and hugging is an excellent method of expressing yourself nonverbally to another human being or animal. Not only can they feel the love and care in your embrace, but they can actually be receptive enough to pay it forward to others based on your initiative alone.

6. SELF-ESTEEM

Hugging boosts self-esteem, especially in children. The tactile sense is all-important in infants. A baby recognizes its parents initially by touch. From the time we’re born our family’s touch shows us that we’re loved and special. The associations of self-worth and tactile sensations from our early years are still imbedded in our nervous system as adults. The cuddles we received from our Mom and Dad while growing up remain imprinted at a cellular level, and hugs remind us at a somatic level of that. Hugs, therefore, connect us to our ability to self love.

7. STIMULATES DOPAMINE

Everything everyone does involves protecting and triggering dopamine flow. Low dopamine levels play a role in the neurodegenerative disease Parkinson’s as well as mood disorders such as depression. Dopamine is responsible for giving us that feel-good feeling, and it’s also responsible for motivation! Hugs stimulate brains to release dopamine, the pleasure hormone. Dopamine sensors are the areas that many stimulating drugs such as co***ne and methamphetamine target. The presence of a certain kinds of dopamine receptors are also associated with sensation-seeking.

8. STIMULATES SEROTONIN

Reaching out and hugging releases endorphins and serotonin into the blood vessels and the released endorphins and serotonin cause pleasure and negate pain and sadness and decrease the chances of getting heart problems, helps fight excess weight and prolongs life. Even the cuddling of pets has a soothing effect that reduces the stress levels. Hugging for an extended time lifts one’s serotonin levels, elevating mood and creating happiness.

9. PARASYMPATHETIC BALANCE

Hugs balance out the nervous system. The skin contains a network of tiny, egg-shaped pressure centres called Pacinian corpuscles that can sense touch and which are in contact with the brain through the vagus nerve. The galvanic skin response of someone receiving and giving a hug shows a change in skin conductance. The effect in moisture and electricity in the skin suggests a more balanced state in the nervous system – parasympathetic.
Embrace, embrace with your heart.~~

art: Dorina Costras

Men... We women crave your inner Warrior.
Your inner Warrior is the most attractive thing in the world to us. We want to feel that you would fight for yourself, fight for your purpose, for your family, and for us if the time comes.
We want to feel safe, held, and fiercely protected in your presence. This is your gift to us.
When you use your words consciously with purpose, and stay true to your word, in touch with your heart — we melt open to you.
We can feel it in our bodies when you radiate awareness and intention over every decision you make.
Your direction allows us to surrender into our inner feminine. It is the most attractive feeling in the world.
We crave this experience of you and your masculinity more than anything.
Men... are you courageously loving, open, and honest with yourself and with the women in your life? ▿
Is there a woman in your life who you want to show up for in these ways? Or do you desire to connect with a woman in these ways?
In our lives, we must choose to love ourselves with each passing day. In relationship, we have the luxury of choosing to love another every single day.
It is a gift and a challenge to show up together through the moments of highest bliss, and the difficulty that arises.
What is more powerful than “needing” that partner is choosing to stay with them, to learn from them, and to be a united force together.
There is nothing more beautiful in this world than two people leaning into union with trust, patience, and appreciation for one another and for the process.~

~Sofia Sundari

“There she is. . . the “too much” woman. The one who loves too hard, feels too deeply, asks too often, desires too much.

There she is taking up too much space, with her laughter, her curves, her honesty, her s*xuality. Her presence is as tall as a tree, as wide as a mountain. Her energy occupies every crevice of the room. Too much space she takes.

She is dangerous.

And there she goes, that “too much” woman, making people think too much, feel too much, swoon too much. She with her authentic prose and a self-assuredness in the way she carries herself. She with her belly laughs and her insatiable appetite and her proneness to fiery passion. All eyes on her, thinking she’s hot s**t.

Oh, that “too much” woman. . . too loud, too vibrant, too honest, too emotional, too smart, too intense, too pretty, too difficult, too sensitive, too wild, too intimidating, too successful, too fat, too strong, too political, too joyous, too needy—too much.

She should simmer down a bit, be taken down a couple notches. Someone should put her back in a more respectable place. Someone should tell her.

Here I am. . . a Too Much Woman, with my too-tender heart and my too-much emotions.

A hedonist, feminist, pleasure seeker, empath. I want a lot—justice, sincerity, spaciousness, ease, intimacy, actualization, respect, to be seen, to be understood, your undivided attention, and all of your promises to be kept.

I’ve been called high maintenance because I want what I want, and intimidating because of the space I occupy. I’ve been called selfish because I am self-loving. I’ve been called a witch because I know how to heal myself.

And still. . . I rise. Still, I want and feel and ask and risk and take up space.

I must.

Us Too Much Women have been facing extermination for centuries—we are so afraid of her, terrified of her big presence, of the way she commands respect and wields the truth of her feelings. We’ve been trying to stifle the Too Much Woman for ions—in our sisters, in our wives, in our daughters. And even now, even today, we shame the Too Much Woman for her bigness, for her wanting, for her passionate nature.

And still. . . she thrives.

In my own world and before my very eyes, I am witnessing the reclamation and rising up of the Too Much Woman. That Too Much Woman is also known to some as Wild Woman or the Divine Feminine. In any case, she is me, she is you, and she is loving that she’s finally, finally getting some airtime.

If you’ve ever been called “too much,” or “overly emotional,” or “bitchy,” or “stuck up,” you are likely a Too Much Woman.
And if you are. . . I implore you to embrace all that you are—all of your depth, all of your vastness; to not hold yourself in, and to never abandon yourself, your bigness, your radiance.

Forget everything you’ve heard—your too much-ness is a gift; oh yes, one that can heal, incite, liberate, and cut straight to the heart of things.

Do not be afraid of this gift, and let no one shy you away from it. Your too much-ness is magic, is medicine. It can change the world.

So please, Too Much Woman: Ask. Seek. Desire. Expand. Move. Feel. Be.

Make your waves, fan your flames, give us chills.

Please, rise.
We need you.”

~ Ev'Yan Whitney
www.evyanwhitney.com

🌀Nicole
Sacred Wild Woman Medicine

Artist~Kokeeneva

B for B**M - Bo***ge - Discipline - Domination - Submission - Sa**sm and Masochism.

A very well known acronym, this is where it’s all about informed consent, mutual decisions and negotiations!

The existence of various B**M specific dating apps shows us how people are not only curious to know more about it, but even to explore it with their partner(s). Since B**M often involves varying degrees of pain, physical restraint and servitude, informed consent is of paramount importance.

Which is why we are all set to talk about B**M today. Check our stories, and ask us a question. We’re here to enlighten your curiosity, and address all your concerns!

**M *x

INTIMACY....
I want to be intimate with you
Not bare bodied and touching
But a different sort
I want to see your Soul as it is
Stripped down into nothing
Your demons in their raw existence
I want to hold each one on its own
Until I can understand how it feels to live them
I want to hear your voice scratchy and strained at 3am
And listen as words fall from your mouth into mine
Late night thoughts and questions
I want to learn your mind like it is the only book I will ever read
Memorize it top to bottom like it is my bible
You are enough religion for me to understand why we're here
I want to understand you
I want your dreams to come to me like I can make them real
Tell me your secrets like I am the journal you have been hoping to find
The empty pages you have been waiting to fill your whole life
I want to know it all
I want to know your fears
Your worries
Your happiness
And everything that keeps you up at night
I want to be the thing that keeps you up at night
I want to be the morning sun that you cannot wait to wake to
And when you do,
I will continue to get to know you better
I don't need your hands on me
Or your skin against mine
To be close to you
The best form of intimacy
Is loving someone without knowing how it feels
To touch them without clothes on
The best form of intimacy
Is realizing you can open yourself up completey without holding anything back
The best form of intimacy
Is laughing and not caring at all how you sound
The best form of intimacy
Is talking for minutes that turn into hours that turn into tomorrow
The best form of intimacy
Is time spent wasting
The best form of intimacy
Is moments
Is patience
Is devotion and commitment
With no guarantee of satisfaction
It is surrender
It is vulnerability
It is now
The best form of intimacy
Is quiescence
It is the purest method
Of affection.~

~ Danielle Shor

As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think.

If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.

A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing.

Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.

A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.
Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know.

A woman over forty looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far s*xier than her younger counterpart.
Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize.
For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.”~

~Andy Rooney