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14 SIGNS OF FRIENEMIES!

Life is full of unfriendly friends.
Some people didn't die when the arrow was in their chest, they died when they saw who threw the arrow.

Here are 14 Signs of Unfriendly friends;
1. Unfriendly friends plot against you at night and laugh with you in the morning. They smile a lot and act nice to you, but really, they are talking and gossiping behind your back.

2. They appear when they need you and disappear when you need them the most. They are very selfish and self-centered.

3. Your Success threatens them. They get upset when something good happens to you. They are highly covetous.

4. They blackmail you emotional. Takes advantage of you. Cause you pain, hurt you and deceive you.

5. They always try to compete with you and make you feel they are better than you.

6. Unfriendly friends always criticize you negatively. They constantly point out all the negative things about your Life. They don't see anything good about you.

7. They discredit you and doubt everything you say or do. They hold you in low esteem and spread lies about you. They lack faith in you and belittle your achievements.

8. They are not consistent. You cannot depend or rely on them. They are not trustworthy.

9. Unfriendly friends don't feel bad or remorse when they hurt you. They never apologize rather they are judgmental; always feeling they are right.

10. They rejoice when something bad happens to you. Your pain gives them Joy.

11. Unfriendly friends will never patronize you even if you sell the secrets to Long Life and Prosperity, all because of envy and jealousy.

12. They are happy when you share your secrets with them, because, they are going to use it against you, to blackmail, hurt or betray you without your notice.

13. They will follow you to eat, drink and have good times but will never contribute even when they have.

14. When matters are discussed behind you, they will speak against you and people will readily believe cos they know he or she is close to you. Same minute they will come tell you how they tried defending you in a meeting and paint others bad in your presence.

Sometimes, your problem is not the Problem; your actual Problem is the person you tell your problem.

Beware of Unfriendly friends( )

Listen to people when they are angry, because that is when the real truth comes out.

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Lord, I am confident that You alone are the controlling influence who governs my feelings, desires, thoughts, hopes because I belong to You. I look to You to guide me by Your Spirit along the Path of Life, so my will aligns with Your plan and harmony for my life. Amen!

Please keep me, Lord, and hold me close to You while I continue walking the Path of Life according to Your plan and harmony for my life for Your glory, in the name of Jesus Christ. Hallelujah! Amen!

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