Millennial Momma
Sharing my favorite finds as a woman and mother �
Hi my name is Olivia and I am a mama creating passive income so I can have more time with my kids.
As a working mom I always wanted to buy my time back so I didn’t have to miss out on special moments with my babies.
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Ladies,
You need to tell your money what to do or it will slip through your fingers.
Read that again.
I long for the day when I can hear a women say “My mother taught me how to invest my money. “
Now before you get me wrong I want you to know I am not against a man teaching a woman how to invest.
I just want more women to become more financially literate for themselves and their families.
Too often we are marketed into constantly consuming and buying things we don’t need instead of thinking about our financial futures.
Not that there is anything wrong with buying nice things, but wouldn’t you also like to buy a nice future ?
If you’re interested in learning more about becoming financially literate send me a message. I can’t wait to connect with you. 😘
TO THE WOMAN WHO THINKS SHE ISN’T GOOD ENOUGH
To the woman who looks around and wonders why everyone else is so much more capable, so much stronger, so much more ambitious than her.
To the woman who thinks everyone else is blazing a fiery path through this thing we call life, while she limps behind, barely getting through the days.
Somewhere, another woman is looking at you thinking exactly the same.
You see, we all look like we’re kinda nailing it, from the outside in.
We all look ‘together’ sometimes.
Catch us on the right day and hey, we look like we have it all.
Because guess what, we learned to look that way a long time ago.
We learned to hide our struggles behind a smile and whack on that mask every day.
And actually, we are doing each other a favour when we show up,
just as we are,
warts and all,
late,
flustered,
human.
What we really need to see is that we are all the same.
We all struggle.
We all fall apart.
Some days we nail it, other days we get nailed.
By hiding our own weaknesses, fears, worries, we give them more power.
If you let it out, shine a light on it all, it becomes so much less scary, funny even…
And goodness only knows we need to laugh.
So, to the woman who wonders if she is good enough…
If this is you.
Yes you are.
You always were.
You don’t have to live up to everyone’s expectation of how you should be coping.
You are human, flawed, wonderful, miraculous, loveable, loved.
I see you,
Now do me a favour and go see all the others too.
Spread the word, we are good enough, just as we are.
Donna Ashworth
From the poetry collection ‘to the women’ : https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B08LRGWY74/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_fabt1_OYLVFbX4YR91V
Art by Ramona Pintea Ramona Pintea Artist
Another Friday night at home and I’ve come to realize that the trash in my garbage can goes out more than I do...
And I love it 🥰😍
I don’t live for the weekends because I’m planning for my future by
✨Taking care of my health
✨Planning for my children’s future
✨Running my hair business
✨Meeting more business partners for my other businesses
✨Investing and planning for my financial future
✨Continuing learn as much as I can so I can keep helping others in all my businesses and continue to grow.
What I love most about all of these things is that I know with everything I’m doing it will not only help myself but it will also help others. ❤️
I would love to connect with you if you need help in any of these areas. Send me a DM so we can connect. 🙏🏼
Happy Mother’s Day to all the mamas out there. ♥️❤️
One time, I bought my friend a personalized gift for her birthday. It was this little pouch with her initials on it. I’d ordered the thing months in advance out of anticipation. I was so excited to give it to her, and then when I went to deliver the gift, I found out that I hadn’t even been invited to her birthday party. All of my friends had, but I hadn’t.
I can’t even begin to tell you how incredibly stupid I felt.
This was not the same kind of embarrassing as inadvertently sitting in a chair with water and then having to walk around looking like you’d wet your pants for the next hour. This was some deep-level pain and rejection.
We hadn’t gotten in a fight. We hadn’t gotten into an argument. There definitely wasn’t a disturbance or an ordeal.
I think maybe I’d just always considered her a good friend, and she only considered me an acquaintance. And that can hurt.
I didn’t want to go anywhere for months. I just wanted to hide from everything and everyone. Shame was running through my veins, and insecurity was coming out of my pores.
If you’ve ever done something nice for someone, and not been met with nice in return. If you’ve ever given to someone, and not been met with that same level of give. If you’ve ever loved a friend who didn’t love you back, or you’ve been the one to misread the relationship, or you held them with regard while they brushed you off.
It’s okay. Please don’t be embarrassed like I was, and please don’t hide.
What a beautiful thing that you have such a giving heart. How amazing that you tried, and gave it your best. These are good things here. These are things you should be proud of, not things you should from.
Yes, maybe it’s the right time to learn to read signals a little better, and maybe it’s a wise thing to guard our hearts with a slightly stronger fence, but it does not mean we need to change.
I’m not saying they were wrong either, because we’ve all been the one to hurt someone else. We’ve all had to cut off the invite list at a certain number, we’ve all been the bad friend friend before. Somewhere there is a story that’s been told about each and every one of us where we play the part of the villain.
Hold your head high. Keep loving people well. Stay true to those good intentions and that big ole heart. Don’t give up on friendship, and don’t harden yourself. Stay soft. Somebody is going to appreciate knowing you, and somebody is going to value having you in their life. Somebody is going to put you on their “A” list, and some day, somebody is going to choose you right back.
Before you know it, you’re going to be receiving the same kind of heart-felt gifts you’ve always given to others. ❤️
Love,
Amy
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Facts 🤪
Only me?😂😂😂
Well 🤪
🤣🤣🤣 some days are like this but other days I’m really blown away by the deep thoughtful questions they ask. 🥰
😂😂😂
I can’t wear make up to the gym like some ladies or wear my hair down while working out😬
I admire those girls💗
After I work out I resemble something like a swamp creature, but I am good with that 😂
Working out will always be one of my favorite stress relievers. After a good workout I feel like I could conquer the world🗺
Haha well, my little world 🥰
As a mother it’s important to fill your own cup❤️ and working out is one of the ways I do so
9 times out of 10 you’ll find me covered in something my kids have spilled, dog hair, or sweat🙈
And I wouldn’t have it any other way. 🤩
Motherhood can be challenging even hard to navigate at times, but it made me strong as hell and I will be forever grateful for this journey. 💖
Chocolate protein pancake topped with some almond butter + bananas
1 egg
2 scoops Scoops of Arbonne’s chocolate protein powder
1 teaspoon Baking powder
6 Tablespoons Of Kangen water
Quick and yummy 🤤 and my kids like these as well 💗
Guilty. As. Charged. 😩
FALSE! 😂 when I say I’m running errands, I’m legit running as many errands that I can pack into one day. 😂😂😂
Always make time for yourself 💕
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A couple of weeks ago a child therapist that I know looked at my kids and said,
"You're such a good mom"
Feeling like a total fraud I blurted, "I don't feel like a good mom. The kids are driving me so crazy, I'm losing my temper and falling asleep at night wondering where I'm going to get the patience for another day"
To which she responded with a statement that I haven't been able to forget,
"Babies cry, it's how they communicate. Toddlers scream, children whinge and teenagers complain.
Then moms say the words 'for f #$& sake under their breath before ever responding. It's how we communicate.
But guess what Con? It's better than silence.
A house full of screaming kids and fighting teenagers and a parent who's being thrown every question and request is a healthy one to me.
It's the silent children, the scared toddlers, the teenagers that don't come home and the parents who aren't in communication with their children that I worry about.
And kids don't drive you crazy, you were crazy already. That's why you had them."
And just like that, I felt like a good parent again.
Deep breaths, you're doing a good job.
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If you’re only happy when things are going your way then you will never truly be happy. 🥺
Find joy and peace in your tough times. 🌙🤗
Find gratitude for what you have and what you’ve overcome. 🤩
Instead of saying “I have to”, replace it with “I get to.”🥳
Your mindset is everything. 💖
Facts
Don’t you just love fashion?😂😂
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Kids can be so savage, but I love it. They keep me on my toes. 😍😂
Hahahahha pretty much sums it up 😜
Don’t drink poison just because you’re thirsty
Don’t allow your loneliess make you reconnect with toxic people
I see you 👀
I see you bettering yourself and leveling up
I’m proud of you 👏🏼
I see you breaking generational curses
I’m proud of you 👏🏼
I see you going to therapy
I’m proud of you 👏🏼
I see you putting your health first
I’m proud of you 👏🏼
I see you leaving your job to start a business
I’m proud of you 👏🏼
I see you moving out of your comfort zone
I’m proud of you 👏🏼
I see you buying real estate
I’m proud of you 👏🏼
I see you working multiple jobs to have a better future.
I’m proud of you 👏🏼
I see you learning how to day trade
I’m proud of you 👏🏼
None of this is easy, it all requires time and effort and I want you to know I’m proud of you.
Don’t give up.
Change is like going to the gym, you will not see results over night, but it will be worth it.
I’m proud of you 👏🏼
Don’t give up
You’ve got this.
Cheers. 🥳
You’re beautiful, mamas🖤🖤
I mean 🤷🏻♀️
Only me? 🥺😂
I don’t know about you, but I feel personally attacked.😂😂😂
Ladies!
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