Aloha Deslynn Jaquias

I'd love for you to read "The Power to Rise Above" book which was published in September 2022. This book shows vulnerability and strength by all authors. I'm thankful to have been invited by Sandy Davis, Co-Author and Publisher, of this transformative book. It wasn't easy to publicly share I was a domestic violence survivor and su***de survivor. It took tears and courage because I honor my friend and the many loved ones who have gone before us because of domestic violence incidents and death by su***de. This is my way of sharing Aloha 🌈❤️

Twelve months ago today on World Su***de Prevention Day we launched our project of the heart The Power to Rise Above with powerful foreword by Oprah's favourite guest of all time Dr . Our message has only grown stronger with time. You are enough. You are never alone. Your inner flame will never extinguish, even in your darkest times. We are proof. So proud that we got this inspirational book of powerful stories of rising above across the finish line.

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Our brain 🧠 will think a certain pattern, however it’s possible to retrain it.

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Constantly criticizing the self can increase the release of cortisol in our body and keep us in a prolonged state of stress.

Instead of beating yourself up, I encourage you to approach this week with compassion and self love. Notice how this makes a difference in your attitude and overall state of mind.

What is your favourite way to maintain a positive and encouraging attitude?

I’m currently visiting family to celebrate Eid so for this week, I am resharing older posts of mine that resonated most with you. Take care of your mind and body. Love, Nawal ♥️

Aloha 🌺 Ohana

Sometimes our deepest pain connects us to others who have been hurting for a very long time. As we find our way to healing we can reach back and help them. The tears, the fears, the worries, and even the struggle eventually slows down. It involves help and courage to continue from one moment to the next. Then it’s a NEW DAY.

Please read my story and these other courageous women in “The Power to Rise Above book” only available on It’s a loving gift from all of us to you. A reminder that there is hope and healing.

Much love and aloha,

Deslynn Jaquias
Founder
Healing with Aloha

Remember no matter what you have been through personally and professionally you get to choose to LOVE yourself. ♥️💯 For those of us who endured bullying and abuse growing up or even professionally we can feel unworthy and unlovable.

I finally got OPEN professionally later in life age 31 about everything. It wasn’t easy to do, but worth it. It took my big sis encouraging me for sometime before I asked for HELP. Sending a HUG ♥️

Looking forward to attending this SUMMER 🤙🏾♥️🌺💥💥See Braddah Serg Airfareis decent from Hawai’i

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The little things like creating a floral arrangement for your home can bring joy. It’s these things that help you get through moments in life. Take care of yourself. Add more activities that allow joy into your heart, soul, and mind.

What do you enjoy creating? For some it’s gardening, artwork, writing, cooking l, etc.

Music is helpful in calming your mind and soul. I listen to various genres. I'll be traveling in July to enjoy these bands that I absolutely recommend you find their music on YouTube any music platforms. It's a 2 day event. 2nd day is strictly Hawaii music artists and bands. ❤️

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On 10/12/24 on Oahu I’ll be walking at the NAMI WALKS NAMIWalks

You can join my team or make a donation online or meet in person on Kaua’i.

Click below

NAMIWalks Hawaii I'm supporting NAMI!

Aloha 🌺

My Links • @alohadeslynnjaquias Aloha

Please see my previous post for He is pictured next to my son. I met him on Oahu with .falepapalangi Lehi. I was attending a workshop for actors/actresses. Whatever you can do to support him and his Keiki will be deeply appreciated.

Donate on gofundme

https://gofund.me/849c4c1d

Mahalo 🌺

Sharing for a friend. Please read below. Also pray for this Ohana and if you are able to donate or repost it’ll be greatly appreciated 🙏🏾♥️ This Ohana is on

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Blessings and My Apologies Family, I Have Never Posted Pics of My Family as I Keep Them Private… Today… Out of Sadness… I Post the Love of My Life… 30yrs of A Blessed Life Together… from First Meeting In Western Samoa (Samoa Now) to Am Samoa to Oahu… I Am Broken… Fragmented and Without Spirit…
I Nor My Children Had a Chance to Say Good Bye… I Showed Up When The Police Called Me To Rush To the Medical Center They Are Giving My Wife CPR… and After 3hrs of Attempting To Revive Her… The Doctor Said There Is Still No Pulse…
I Also Apologize My Family as I Never Speak of Finances… But I Am In Need of Help Now, Please Family, Humbly… Extremely Humbly… I Ask For Your Help in Supporting My Gofundme for My Wife and My Children… i Am Without Work and Am Unable to Finance Funeral and Procedural Costs. I am Ashamed to Ask for Help as I Know All are In Need, But I Have Been Told I By the Hospital I Have a Time Limit… Please Family if Possible… Anything That You are Able to Donate Even In Prayer… My Wife and My Children and I Truly Love and Appreciate You… Again My Apologies for Asking. As Always My Family Alofa Tele Atu/Sending Great Love Here and Over The Oceans and as Always Thank You And God Bless❤️🙏🏼 For My Wife… I LOVE YOU ALWAYS MY BIG BEAUTIFUL BABAY, YOU ARE ALWAYS THE ONE AND ONLY PELE OF MY HEART. Manuia Lou Malaga Lau Teine Samoa/Blessed Journey My Samoan Girl May God Bless You With Safe Passage and Welcome You With Open Arms… Please Give My Love To My Little Ones… ❤️🙏🏼

Aloha 🌺 If you are on Kaua’i please screenshot and share. This is an important resource for those dealing with mental illness. The NAMI organization was founded in 1979 in the states.

https://www.nami.org/About-Mental-Illness

I discovered NAMI only last week because I seen their event posted on EVENTBRITE. Because of what I have experienced in life I got diagnosed with PTSD in 2006 while my first therapy session. Learning about PTSD and getting specialized help to process the emotional, mental, and psychological pain opened up myself to the healing process. There is NO to seek help and guidance.
I have a family member who recently died by su***de on island back in January 💔 that is so heartbreaking. If we can prevent and support others we love and get for ourselves we can have mental wellness.

Thankful to be here representing Kaua’i. I’m coming as a business owner of Healing with Aloha Waiting for the program to begin. Got a lot of resources that people may find helpful on Kaua’i. I’ll take time to share this week. ♥️

Got my maple and bacon donut from I’m a

I’m here to learn and to be able to be more effective in serving people as I prepare to collaborate with my business partners such as Karen Gibson and Jennifer Ortal .donuts We are Hawai’i business women who have a passion to see others fulfill their dreams from parenting to fulfilling your dreams your style and to utilize art and music for healing.

Life is a special journey. We are predestined even if the beginning of our lives weren’t the best. I remember connecting with Noah Humphrey on Instagram during the pandemic. His heart and his faith in his higher power God lead him to serve in special ways unknown. When I met him he was still attending YALE University. I was fortunate to have him as a featured guest on Healing with Aloha podcast via INSTAGRAM LIVE. His interview is on my IG.

I related to his background coming from real life challenges. Odds against you, but the will to do better stronger. I asked to have dinner with him last week when I was with my son. He accepted. He shared with my son what to consider when applying for colleges and universities. He also explained that it’s ok to enjoy your time not to just study. Loved our time. My son learned a lot. Mahalo ♥️ Noah for all the love and wisdom.

Aloha 🌺 Ohana! Hi Beautiful soul! Have an incredible day.
Remember take deep breaths, pause, and reflect. Just take it one moment at a time.

It’s ok to not be ok.
It’s ok to ask for help.
It’s ok to shine bright like a 💎

😘 Deslynn Jaquias
Healing with Aloha

https://msha.ke/alohadeslynnjaquias

This tugged at my heart in a good way. As parents and guardians we get to nurture our children and support their dreams. This acknowledgment was sweet. ♥️

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Mental illness is a topic we need to discuss. In 2006, I was diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder I was able to do EDMR Therapy on Oahu. It truly was helpful for me to process trauma. I endured various forms of abuse early in life and my sister died unexpectedly from a vehicle accident. I’m not “strong” it broke my spirit and heart in 2001. But took me 5 years to seek help. My older sister had to convince me to get therapy. I was pregnant about to give birth in a few months. I shared my personal story in a book in 2022 entitled “The Power to Rise Above,” which was published in Australia by Sandy Davies

If you’d like to purchase it go to AMAZON

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I’m thankful I was able to register today to attend the National Alliance on Mental Illness - Hawaii next week Monday, March 25. I discovered it on Eventbrite. I love what they will be discussing. I fly out from Kauai for the day. If you will be attending send me a DM. I’d love to connect at this event.

Mahalo 🌺

https://msha.ke/alohadeslynnjaquias

Why is it important to HEAL from what brought us pain? Healing is an ongoing process. It’s possible to heal. It’s ok to get help today. You will always matter ♥️

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Why Is It Important to Heal? Choose to heal from your wounds so you can embrace everyday in your relationships and in life. Subscribe to my podcast Apple podcast https://podcasts.apple.c...

Everyone has a reason for why they start an idea like my Healing With Aloha Podcast it derived from the loss of my little sister on 9/22/01.
My siblings and I grew up close and our cousins on maternal side became more like siblings. When my sister died unexpectedly from a vehicle accident it changed us all forever. For the longest time I felt success was GETTING out of bed.
Because of my grief and my older sister I sought professional help in October 2006 (while pregnant). I finally dealt with past trauma before my sister died and was diagnosed with PTSD. I got help to process and I’m glad I did. I needed help. ♥️

It’s ok to seek HELP from someone even a professionals. It’s courageous ♥️🙏🏾💯

TikTok · ATG 2.9M likes, 16.7K comments. “Sibelings are for life”

When I was younger I watched The Joy Luck Club (film) In case you may be interested in meeting the cast there is a AARP AAPI Community sweepstakes. Check it out. I entered 😍

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Don’t miss your chance to meet the iconic women of The Joy Luck Club in honor of Women’s History Month. Hear Tamlyn Tomita, Rosalind Chao, Lauren Tom and Ming-Na Wen in conversation at an exclusive event in Beverly Hills on Monday March 25th.

The prize includes:
-Two (2) roundtrip airline tickets to Los Angeles
-Two-night hotel stay and exclusive entry for two to the "Reel Inspiration: A Celebration of Four Iconic AAPI Women in Film" private event
-$500 spending cash

Entry deadline is March 1st. Tag your +1 so they can enter, too!
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This Woman’s History Month ♥️

Today begin with a rainbow.
Sending a lot of love. ♥️ Been taking a much needed break.

Joining me this Friday on the Healing With Aloha podcast at 12:30 PM HST / 8:30 AM AEST is none other than Brenda Kokiai (Brenda Kokiai)! 🙌

Brenda Kokiai went through a civil war at the age of 14. She also lost her two brothers during the war. She later became a single mother with 3 boys under the age of two. She overcame her problems through God’s grace.

Be sure to tune in this Friday and don't forget to show your support. ✨

Love your curls!

As a child, I was surrounded mainly by people with straight hair. I used to want what they had so back in the 80’s, I had my Mom on very low heat to straighten my hair old school way 😂 If you know you know before flat iron.

Taking breaks and relaxing can be beneficial to productivity and overall well-being. It allows the mind and body to rest and recharge, leading to increase focus and creativity when returning to work.