Big Goodness

Once I put that fan on 3 & start
rubbing my feet together…

Don’t call my phone 😂

People see me at work & be like "you work here?" nah I'm just observing the area

To be honest with you, I'm not interested in the resumption of school at all.

Nigeria should face the fact that they have failed as a country.
It's now everyman for himself.

What do they have to offer when school resumes?

Is it the lecturers that has forgotten education for the past six months that will lecture me?
What about my fellow students that have died during the strike?
Or the ladies that had to get married out of frustration?
ASUU is asking to be paid for going on strike when the real damage is done on the students.
House rents wasted
Emotional and psychological stress.
The thought of resuming school to face exams is nightmarish.

It's a very tough society and we have spent too much time in it.
How do you expect the students to just switch from the hustles and tussles of the society into reading for exams just like that?

Students are human beings with plans and future. You don't just deal with them anyhow.
Most students may have started businesses.
Some may have launched off on successful careers.
You don't just pull them out whenever you want to.

This is just wicked 🖤

©️ Studenst Reporter
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10 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE TOO EMOTIONAL

1. You just can't say 'no' to anyone without feeling guilty. You care too much and love too much.

2. You cry when you're alone but you don't tell anyone because you're afraid of what people would think of you.

3. You're quick to think that everyone is a friend. You do things for every temporary person in your life .

4. You're extra- nice with people. You treat everyone with kindness and expect the same.

5. You don't know when a person is taking advantage of you because you can't do it to others.

6. You can't intentionally hurt people because of how soft hearted you are.

7. You can't express your emotions without breaking down.

8. You're so sensitive that you can notice the slightest changes in people's behavior towards you- the way they talk to you, the way they act towards you - but you don't Do anything about it.

9. You feel too deeply for people, you always put yourself in people's shoes and try to be there for everyone, Literally, Every single time.

10. You're the problem fixer. You can't afford to lose people , but in the end, you're still left alone. Just like always...
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When I was younger, if I found a nice
looking rock, it was coming home with
me

There's absolutely nothing wrong when a family member visits your home, but why should it be at your early stage of marriage?

There's absolutely everything wrong with it.

If a family member must visit, it shouldn't be immediately after our marriage ceremonies.

That early stage is the time when you need absolute privacy as a couple and quality time together. So a family member should not come and ruin it for you.

Imagine having s*xx with your partner and you refuse to moan because your mother inlaw is downstairs and she might hear you.

Haba, you sef check am nauu.

My current relationship plan is “dating to marry”

If it scares you don’t text me

SOMEBODY REPEAT AFTER ME!!!

Financially - I’m going to win.
Career wise - I’m going to win.
Mentally - I’m going to win.
Emotionally- I’m going to win.
Physically - I’m going to win.
Family wise - I’m going to win.
With love - I’m going to win.
In my life - I’m going to win.

I’m manifesting it all.

So I just had to close the book I was reading after I read in the book that Marriage is not about marrying who you love but love who you marry. I swear, I became confused 🤷‍♀️

Please understand that God will never change biblical standards because this generation doesn’t want to obey.

FACTS
Parents spot fake friends😤
Children spot fake relatives🚶‍♂️

Korra Obidi

I Love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

THERE ARE 3 TYPES OF PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE.

1. The Leaf people 🌿
2. The Branch people 🌵
3. The Root people 🌴

LEAF PEOPLE... These are people who come into your life just for a season. You can't depend on them because they are weak they only come to take what they want but if the wind comes they will leave.
You need to be careful of these people because they love you when things are okay. But when the wind comes they will leave you...

BRANCH PEOPLE... They are strong but you need to be careful with them too. They break away when life becomes tough they can't handle too much weight. They may stay with you in some seasons but they will go when it becomes harder.

ROOT PEOPLE... These people are very important because they don't do things to be seen. They are supportive even if you go through a difficult time they will water you and they are not moved by your position they just love you like that ...

It's not all people you meet or have an affair with that will stay.
Only the root type of people will stay.

It is my prayer that God should raise people in your life who are just like roots who will be there for you all the days of your life.

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THINGS TO AVOID.

Do not ask your female friends where their husband's work.

When visiting a newborn, if the baby is not in a place where he/she can be seen, do not ask the parents to bring the baby out.

Do not ask a woman which method she gave birth with. Either through cesarean section or V!gina is absolutely not your business. Thank God for the safety of the mom, and the safe delivery of the child (ren)

Do not ask a pregnant woman how many months gone?

Do not ask someone When is their child (ren) starting school, you may never know their financial constraints.

When visiting a female friend ,and their husband's comes back from work, make your conversation brief, unless you're spending the night.

Do not comment on your friends husband's or wife's pictures on social media addressing them as dear, sweetheart and what have you.

Do not ask someone the reason for their breakup with someone (unless you're extremely close).

When you pay someone a visit, and either of their spouse's is not on the portrait placed on the wall, please 🙏 desist the urge to ask why is your husband or wife not on this family portrait? ( you might bring back unpleasant memories).

Do not ask couple what are they waiting for, why the delay in conception.

When someone you know to be chubby and all of a sudden start looking pale and slim, do not ask them, why are they emaciating. Please! not all is as a result of weight loss, some have health issues.

People tend to avoid you because they feel insecure, because of your inquisitiveness. You must not know everything, do not make people around you feel they're being forced to talk.

People tend to tell you about their personal life when they feel you pay less attention to know too much.

It makes people to avoid or hates you.

Someone like me would automatically detest your person, unless our friendship has gone pass that level.

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I really wish everyone finds the right circle of friends and the right partner. Life is already hard, relationships should be the least of our worries tbh.

A lot of problems can be solved by just removing some foods, some people and some habits from your life.

I pray my children understand mathematics early , because I won't be of help after they pass primary 3😂😂🤲

When you are too friendly, some people think you have feelings for them 😅😅

No church has ever held prayers for low s***m count, its always Barren women.

Gender inequality 🤷😒

I am sure I am not the only one who likes all black outfit 🥰🥰

FACTS ABOUT QUIET PEOPLE

• Quiet people talk a lot inside.🗣️
• Once they get comfortable with you they get crazy and wild.😋
• They speak in thoughts and heart.😚
• They are shy, they can't maintain eye contact.🥰
• They have too much anger don't get them pi**ed off.😒
• They are strong and very intelligent in class.💪
• They are very crazy on social media.🥴
• They have very cool personalities and are fun to be with.😍
• They are loyal and love the most in relationships.❤️
• They never show their pain.🥺
• Some of them are depressed and alone but they pretend.😞
• They've got the cutest smile and weirdest laughter.😂
Is it True

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This picture is giving Jesus’s TeddyBear ❤️😍🥰

Let me speak briefly to you whose whole setup is dependent on the opinion of others. Whilst it’s important to listen to people,you must sieve the words you hear. Not everyone comes to you with the intentions of building you… so if you let your life become a puppet to their words,you’re doing you a disfavor.

Be ground in the identity of Christ in you. Even self love is vague and honestly selfish.. so the most trusted and safest place to build your esteem,your value and belief systems is the word of God. Then model after godly systems in men and women of God..

In all,subject your hearing.. do a litmus test on what you hear with the word of God. See yourself through the lens of Jesus.

Because you are greatly loved,
You are greatly valued,
You are beautiful. Inside. Out.
You are a fertile soil
You are light
That cannot and will not
Be hidden

Shine!
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Happy Sunday ❣️

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF

(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you✔️

(2) Stop begging✔️

(3) Stop saying more than is necessary✔️

(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.✔️

(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.✔️

(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.✔️

(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy✔️.

(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other people.✔️

(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth✔️.

(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.✔️

(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals✔️

(12) Respect your time.✔️

(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away✔️.

(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.✔️

(15) Be scarce sometimes.✔️

(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.✔️

(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.✔️

(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve✔️.

(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.✔️

(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.✔️

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AUGUST 03 2022

NATIONAL WATERMELON DAY

The juicy, refreshing watermelon deserves its own day, that’s why we celebrate National Watermelon Day. Cultivation of this fruit dates back to 2000 B.C., with the first watermelon harvest on record occurring approximately 5,000 years ago in Egypt. Traces of watermelon and its seeds have been discovered on sites of the 12th Egyptian Dynasty, including in the tomb of King Tutankhamen. Paintings of different types of watermelon have also been found in ancient Egyptian inscriptions.

The sweet fruit we enjoy today is the result of mutations over the course of a thousand years of cultivation. Watermelon seeds were sold to traders passing through the trade routes in the Kalahari Desert in Africa. From there, the cultivation of the watermelon spread across Africa. The origin of the progenitor of the watermelon was in Africa, after which it spread into Mediterranean countries and other parts of Europe. By the end of the ninth century, watermelon cultivation became common in China and the rest of Asia.

According to “The Dictionary of American Food and Drink” by John Mariani, the word ‘watermelon’ first appeared in the English dictionary in 1615. The watermelon is commonly known as a type of melon, but it is not in the genus Cucumis. The outer rind of a watermelon is dark green with yellow stripes or spots. Over 300 varieties of watermelon are available in the U.S., ranging from red to white, and come in different shapes and sizes.

Just pause and recall the incident again, massive cry go flow 😂

Many parents are good at spotting bâd friends but can't spot a depressed child.