Big Eben

It's totally true that your availability is disability in the absence of your creativity.

Being available doesn't mean even God will use you if you're not valuable. God uses those that will not disappoint Him.

Don't forget that other sons of Aaron were there when Moses chosed Joshua who had proven to be strong and valour.

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There are many things that God forbid, but life permits it's now left to you to admit or dismiss.

Big Eben.

𝗕𝗲 𝘀𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗼 𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝘄𝗮𝘆.

𝗕𝗲 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿-𝗾𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗼𝗼𝗺 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝘄𝗮𝘆.

𝗕𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁, 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀.

𝗕𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀.

𝗕𝗲 𝘂𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘂𝗽 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝘄𝗮𝘆.

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗯𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝘂𝗯𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳, 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁. 𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗯𝗼𝗱𝘆.

𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗺𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵.
𝗚𝗲𝘁 𝘂𝗻𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲.

Big Eben.

LEARN HOW TO LISTEN TO YOURSELF

Not all elders are right.
It’s before that what an elderly people see while on seat can’t be seen by youth on tree.

People can be fool at fifty, sixty, seventy, et cetera...

All advice should be listened to and not all should be yielded to.

The way A issues are being treated will be quite maverick to B’s, the way it happened to them in their lifetime might be different to ours.

An elderly people who useless used his or her youthful life mayn’t have the best advice for your youthful life. Inter alia.

I stayed with my granny for a long time before he bought the farm[died]. During the stretches of stay, he did tell me riddles and jokes, real and unreal stories.

Owning to my inquisitiveness and my vorability to knowing more, I did seek advice very umpteen time whenever I was at the verge of giving up. And he was irresistible committed to advising me on life issues and how to live life.

Frankly speaking, whenever I apply his advice people do say I am precocious. Nevertheless, there are some of this advice that don’t work for me which I have to put in mine and everything will go smoothly.

PS: learn how to learn and unlearn, how to think and rethink. God is only the ageless with solid and impregnable advice.
PSS: Even, I may also not be right with my perception and view. Such is life.
Do what works best for you.
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GBOGBO ALANGBA LO D’ANU DELE, A KO MO EYI T’INU NRUN.
All lizards lie flat on their stomach; therefore, it is difficult to determine which has a stomach ache.

Don’t limit yourself to stunning pictures and successes stories you scroll on social media. Nobody will post their downfall neither their filthy clothes.

People on social media won't tell you their parents assist them with rent. They won't tell you they have an old man who sends them over 50k a month in exchange for in*******se.

They won't tell you they inherited money to start that business. They won't tell you they have relatives in Government who connected them and put them in powerful positions.

Don't put yourself under pressure for nothing. And don't envy what you don't know, don't compete with who or what you don't know. People who got it on a silver platter will come online and preach independence and self-made.

Socially, everyone is self made, everyone is a hustler, everyone is successful, everyone is independent and making big moves😅.
Facebook is Facebook, no one will tell you the truth be careful.

If your joy and happiness are determined by what you view and altar your emotions negatively you’ll car run and collide with bicycle [ S’are motor kolu keke]. People only show their visible and they nurse invisible. You’re stable and happier than some.

To live a simple and fulfilled life, your godliness must be joined with contentment.

Everyone looks the same on the outside but all have different problems they are dealing with that you do not know about.

Take it easy on yourself.

Big Eben.

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Each is created with an inimitable attitude.

Esau and Jacob were born on this same day, from the same womb, but with uncommon perceptive,occupation and they both succeeded.

All were created by a God, but different religion coupled with different behaviour...

If you go for affiliate marketing because your friend is successful at it, you may fail. Affiliate may not be in your own marketing.

Learn how to build on your uniqueness, you only have that in the whole universe.
Some people somewhere sometimes are expecting the manifestation of your uniqueness for their on growth. Unfortunately, you are their undiscovered, building on another person’s uniqueness.

There’s no how you will copy and you will be well composed. Be yourself!

Big Eben!

Humanity says:

You’re given voice for the voiceless.
You’re strengthen for the weak.

You’re empowered for the powerless.
You’re rich for the poor.

You’re privileged for the less privileged.
You’re employed for the jobless.

Anytime you failed these, your humanity becomes inhumanity.

You’ve inadvertently killed many by failing in your God’s given duties.

God doesn’t really give you anything for YOU alone, but THEM that do not have.

Those who died yesterday had a plan for this morning.

And those who died this morning had a plans for tonight.

Don’t take life for granted.
In the blink of an eye, everything can change.

So, forgive often and love with a full heart.
You never know when you may not have that chance again.

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Big Eben

EVERYONE. This man came into my yard a couple hours ago and offered to cut my grass for a certain price. I didn’t have enough money today to afford that on top of everything else, and I told him to come back in a week.

A few minutes ago, I hear a loud noise outside of my house. I opened the door and noticed that he was cutting my grass.

I went running out to him and yelled for him to stop... he shook his head no. He told me that he saw my kids playing in the yard and was worried about snakes being in the grass and biting them because the grass was too tall. I again told him to stop because I couldn’t pay him.

He said that he didn’t need to be paid, he had grandchildren and that he hoped someone would look after them in the same way. I was brought to tears. I hugged him. We talked about different struggles we’ve had in life and he told me that this is what the news doesn’t report.

He told me the news doesn’t report the black neighbor helping out the white neighbor because it isn’t good for the network to make money. I told him that he has a good heart. I told him I wish more people on earth were like him. We hugged again. He is still outside cutting my grass and it’s dark now.

He cut my grass for free tonight because he was worried about my children playing outside in the tall grass. I hope he gets the recognition he deserves.

PS: We’re all created by someone not some bodies, the day you started discriminating the day you started falling the person’s hand.
• Let HUMANITY become your religion.
There’s joy in helping those that can’t pay you back.

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Which is grammatically correct: "John and I" or "John and me"?

The grammatically correct phrase to use depends on whether you are using the pronoun as the subject or the object of a sentence.

"John and I":Subject: "John and I are going to the movies tonight."In this case, "John and I" perform the action (going to the movies).

"John and me":Object: He invited John and me to his party. In this case, "John and me" are the recipients of the action (being invited).

Remember, when deciding which one to use, consider the pronoun's role in the sentence (subject or object).

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UNWRITTEN SOCIAL RULES EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW

• When someone is paying for you, always get something cheap.

• Never shake a hand sitting down.

• Don't make plans in front of someone who is not invited.

• If someone asks you to delete their photos after sending them to you, delete them straight away!

• Always wait for people to tie their shoelace while walking.

• Don't force your belief on someone.

• If you have eaten the last bite of food, throw away the packaging by yourself.

• Don't point out someone's insecurities in a negative way.

• Protect who is behind you, respect who is beside you.

• Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy.

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THE POWER OF WHAT WE SAY

There’re some young boys in a hamlet, they coexist grew up together. They attended a federal primary school and whenever it’s time for the common entrance examination they did drive them to the city for the exam.

At the city were seen beautiful houses and companies which haven’t been seen before. One of the boys kept whispering “I would have this, that one day.” But, he was muted by his colleagues. Saying, this was meant for city people.

When they got home, the young boy kept pondering and feeding on what he had seen in the city. Being a futuristic fellow, he was longing for it while others took it as hallucination.

He took a very strong step by writing his visions down, speaking them to himself and working tirelessly towards it. In a long run, he became what he spoke to himself.

In the beginning word, and everything was(is) made through word.
Your word carries death and life, what you’ll be will be determined by your words and action. By your words you will be justified or condemned.

The efficacy of word in transforming life into greatness can’t be demine.

Replace unfortunate with fortunate.
I an’t make it with I will make it.
I am bad with I a good.
I am poor with I am rich.

Big Eben!

Fall in love with some activities, and do it! Nobody ever figures out what life is all about, and it doesn't matter. Explore the world. Nearly everything is really interesting if you go into it deeply enough. Work as hard and as much as you want to on the things you like to do the best. Don't think about what you want to be, but what you want to do. Keep up some kind of a minimum with other things so that society doesn't stop you from doing anything at all.

Silent is power; power is silent.
Either you believe or not, fact remains the fact.

A seed grow with no sound, but a tree falls with huge noise.
Destruction has noise, but creation is quiet. This is the power of silence. Grow silently.

Big Eben!

PRAYER, UNKNOWN SECRET TO GOOD HEALTH, WEALTH, AND LIFE PROBLEMS , WHICH IS KNOWN TO FEW.

Pray with your eyes towards God, not towards your problems.

Martin Luther mused, “The less I pray, the harder it gets ; the more I pray, the better it gets.” Frequent kneeling down will keep you in good standing with God.

Said playwright Margaret Gibb, “We must move from asking God to taking care of the things that are breaking our hearts to praying about the things that are breaking our heart.” I have found it’s impossible to be prayerful and still be pessimistic at the same time.

When you pray for victory God will give you strategy.
Author Phillips Brooks said, “Prayer is not conquering God’s reluctant, but taking hold of God’s willingness.”

Prayer isn’t gadget we use when nothing else works. Rather, I agree with the Norwegian author Hallesby:

“Begin to realize more and more that prayer is the most important thing you do. You can use your time to no better advantage than to pray whenever you have an opportunity to do so, either alone or with others; while at work, while at rest, or while walking down the street.”

Prayer is a force that breakthrough the clouds of darkness.

If you don’t pray you’ll be a prey or they use you to pay.

You must pray for prayer is the prize for pleasing future. Prayer is an investment to put ahead your path that’ll pathways for you.

We pray not to pray, if we don’t pray Satan will play with our plans and purposes.

If you can’t pray, it’s better not to play, but to pray for the spirit of prayer for you not to be a prey.

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In Nigeria, do your best and do the rest.
Your best is not enough, your success is in the rest.

Big Eben!

I developed some goose bumps owning to the pensive mood which does metamorphose into determination and resilient towards the pursuit of my goals whenever I go home.😐

I know I am the light, if my light got dimmed many will be blind.

I know I am the pillar, if I fall many will fall.😔

Are you also in my shoes? you’re that impending FUTURE they’ve been thirsty...

Happen to them gloriously, and rub the tears on their face...

Big Eben.

There’re three steps to the spiritual sustainability.

-Everyday kneeling down will make you in good standing with the Holy Spirit.

-Sensitive to the spirit, and

-Yielding to the sensitivity or the instruction of the spirit.

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Abraham left is father’s house for Canaan, and he succeeded.
Isaac left is father’s house and he succeeded.
Jacob and Esau left their father’s house and they succeeded.
Joseph left Canaan for Egypt and he succeeded.
It was when Deborah left her abode and followed the army that they succeeded.

Your comfort zone can capsise you and overwhelm you in the stream of life.
Maybe where you’re is your frenemy, change location.

Leave your comfort zone!

Big Eben!

Who knows if the CAVE you are fearing to enter holds the treasure, blessing, success and all the things you’ve been seeking?

Until you confront un-confrontable, you may not be comfortable.

Until you risk seeming unriskable, you might continue writhing in rags.

Face your fear!

Big Eben.

WEIRD PSYCHOLOGY FACTS NO ONE KNOWS!

If you don't cry anymore, it means your body has gone through its hardest depression.

You can't count how many times you blamed yourself for feeling lonely.

People who refuse to depend on others, have seen the 4 corners of life. [ME] and you?

Another sign of intelligence, is when a man starts talking to himself.

Big Eben!

If at all you want to keep something so dearly, keep relationship.
Relationship can relate you with roller coasters.
Relationship can relocate you to Russia on a silver platter 😂.
Relationship can replenish you.
Relationship can resonate with you range rover.
Relationship can ship you without refund.

Keep healthy relationship!

Big Eben!

YOU JUST NEED WISDOM!

There’s a man who wanted plentiful riches and blessings, he seeked advice from the aged, and he was told to search for wisdom instead.

A day after, owning to his quick-to-rich ambition, he parked his belongings and embarked on a journey in searching for wisdom.

Unfortunately, he dug holes, went to villages, towns,cities and bushes, but he couldn’t find. In his searching, he met with an elderly man and he explained everything.

The man told him to look all around himself, he looked and he said he couldn’t see anything. Then, an elderly man said “wisdom surrounded you, but you had not yet opened your eyes to see clearly. God is without.”

LESSON:
Wisdom attracts unending wealth, popularity, success, et cetera, but can’t be find anywhere in this world except from God[through his words], and he who finds wisdom finds everything.
Besides, anything you want to become in life is in and around you, just OPEN your eyes. Proverb 4:7.

Inspired by the holy spirit!

Big Eben!

It was when David stopped going to the war that he committed.

When Samson was not doing anything, Delilah was able to asked unnecessary questions that sort for his.

Solomon kept unending sacrifice, and he propelled God to action.

Elisha kept following Elijah and ultimately he received double-portion power of Elijah.

The woman kept disturbing the unbeliever judge and she received her belongings.

Mary Magdalene would not leave Jesus, and she later freed her of demonic spirits.

That blind man kept shouting, and he received his sight.

The moment you stop persistent, the moment you die.

STOP NOT🤚🏿
Who knows your time?
My short encouragement.

Big Eben!

If you’re beautiful, beautify others.
If you’re intelligent, intensify others.
If you’re economically stable, economise others.
If you’ve been helped, help others.
If you’re brilliant, librate others.
Because, a sober tooth tiger will later become a reckless tooth tiger, even the oldest person in the bible got to some extent weak.

If rabbit grows up, it will be breastfed by its own son.
Such is life, those you carry today will be your carrier tomorrow, and those you watch suffered will suffocate you in a future time.

The still best investment ever is human being, no matter what, they’ll never depreciate, but appreciate.

Big Eben!

If you’re in a circle that doesn’t circulate your goals; forsake it, that’s a cage not a congress.

Big Eben!

It’s said that,

When wealth is lost, nothing is lost.
When health is lost, something is lost;
When CHARACTER is lost, EVERYTHING is lost.

In other words, you may regain wealth or health but not character.

Your character can positively or negatively characterise you.

Maintain a good character, it can catapult you into greatness or glitch.

Big Eben!

When your preparation meets with opportunity, people will say it’s a luck.
And, there’s no iota of success without a bit suffering, but people are concerns about the success.

Though the picture is unawares, but it won’t have been stunning, If I haven’t prepared for it.

So, my preparation meet with the-unawares shoot, and it comes out stunning.

Will the unseen opportunity meet with your preparation?

Don’t stop preparing, because opportunity will never stop coming.

But, who knows when?
Don't wait until opportunity comes before you prepare.

Big Eben.