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"I've been dating this guy for 4yrs and am pr£gnant for him, please hid£ my identity. we were not close to each other so to reach him was a big deal. So along the line I told him about it he was excited, so he informed his mum about it and the mum was willing to take me in but on the other hand my mum dont want me to be married at a tender age, am 17 and he's 23 my mum want me to abort the child cuz she cant bear it, i have my step bro that pays my school fee so she's a..f..r..a..i..d of what he will say and what people will say. And now am trying to reach him and is not going through, I haven't done scanning and other things but I think the pr£gnancy should be up to 5 months now and his mum kept calling my mum to find out if am really pr£gnant but my mum told her there's nothing like that, i don't know what to do. I want to a..b..0..r..t the baby and i still don't want to. Him not calling me is making me feel r£j£ct£d and left alone am not working and my mum is ch0k£, please I need your advise."

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A 17 year old girl contacted us earlier today, she is in a m£ssy situation and she needs our advice. Her story will come up next on D'Babz Family. Please help give her good advice 🙏🙏

11 IMPORTANT LESSONS YOU MUST TEACH YOUR SON

1. Don't let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be
2. When you marry a girl, you marry her family.
3. Never bu||y anyone, stand up to bu||ies, protect those bu||ied.
4. Never allow pr!de but be confident and humble at the same time
5. Lead by example and not by explanation
6. When someone tells you a s£cret, never le@k it.
7. Never pursue money, pursue purpose and make yourself valuable instead. Money will pursue you.
8. There is a rest and a peace that material things can never give you in life, you will only get it if you find God.
9. Women are helpers, they are not sl@v£s or s£x-t0ys.
10. Never look down on anyone except when you are admiring their shoes.
11. When going out, always carry 2 handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you while the one in your br£ast pocket is for her.

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D'Babz Family pls sir how can I br£ak up with a guy that I know he truly loves me?
The reason why I want a br£ak up is because I had a revelation from God that he is not the right man. please help me sir

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Good evening Apostle, Please hide my identity and location
I'm one of your followers on Facebook
Please I have a disturbing issue I want to share with you for advice
There is this girl I met three years ago in **********, so we became close and she fell so much in love with me.
Along the line she told me she's pregnant and I pleaded with her to t£rmin@te it because of my family and I'm not ready for a family way then she accepted and t£rmin@te it.

One year later she traveled to her village then while in the village she got s!ck and she was op£rated on her stomach. Earlier this year too she was s!ck again which she later recovered.

She's so much in love with me that she said if I don't marry her, she's not gonna marry anyone again and I don't see her as someone I can get married to
The issue now is that two weeks ago she told me that her doctor told her to try and get pregnant before the year runs out or she might l0se her womb.

She told me this and I told her I will think about it
I'm confused sir, please what can I do in this situation
She's not my kind of girl I can get married to and I don't want to raise a child outside marriage, please advise and post sir🙏

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We have been receiving messages on what our opinion is on OR@L S£X as Christian couples. Should we write on that??🤔🤔🤔

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10 FACTORS THAT MAKE IT D!FF!CULT FOR A LADY TO FIND HER MAN
(For educational purposes)

I will mention 5 here and the remaining 5 in the subsequent episode. Follow me now to catch up.

1. HIGH EXPECTATIONS:
It is good to have expectations and know what you want however, it is only Jesus who can meet up with the expectations of some ladies in the man they are looking for.

You may need to bring down those high expectations, I usually say something, "If you can't find the RIGHT PERSON, look for the LEFT PERSON and bring them to your RIGHT. (Only the wise will understand. Think deeply about that)

2. LIMITED SOCIAL CIRCLE:
This is the village people that have made many ladies not find their man.

You only go from your house to work, from work to church, mosque, or school, then back to your house. You have done that for the past five years now and no man is coming for you, don't you know it is time to increase your social circle?

Find more new locations to start visiting frequently, and change your environment! Visit places that can afford you the opportunity to meet new people!

Some ladies claim to be single yet they are always in their house, dey play o.

3. UMBRELLA MALE BESTIES:
You are single and searching yet you have a male bestie who is always around you, always visiting you, you go out with him all the time, you attend functions together, people are always seeing both of you together, and you will even always reserve space for each other. 😏🙄

The funny thing is that this male bestie may even have his woman oo, but he is always around you, hmmm, osisirisi🤣👏👏👏

Madam, do I need to burrow you s£nse before you know that your male bestie has become the umbrella covering you? People are already expecting both of you to sound the wedding bell soon so they will never approach you for a relationship.

4. GBAS GBOS IRON LADY:
This is when you are too outspoken, too c0nfr0ntati0nal, too d£f£nsive, too str!ct, you can never allow small !nsult to pass you by, you are always changing it for people at the slightest pr0v0cation, you tell people you don't take s**t from anyone.

It is true people may respect you and wouldn't want to get on your nerves but know surely that men will not avoid you. No man wants to marry another man, they want a woman and a woman is supposed to be soft and tender. But alas, you are always seen competing dr@gging with men.

5. ONLINE MISREPRESENTATION:
When I check your wall, your profile picture is your pastor, your cover photo is the picture you snapped with the 2 children of your elder sister, the next picture is the one you snapped with your male bestie.

Nothing to show who you are or what you do on your wall, By the time you will update your marital status, you put single and not searching...🙄🙄🙄

Aunty! you need Holy Ghost Iron training! You are not ready to get married. There is nothing to show on your wall that you are single and searching, It is not desperation if you indicate once in a while on your post that you are single and you are open to meeting Godly people.

These and many more may be the reason why you are still single as a lady. I will share 5 more factors in the next episode. Please share 🙏

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I AM HURT😢

Question From Sis Magret

Good morning Sir

My name is Margaret

Please I want to know if
As Christians are we to have such a mindset above 👆. Am saying this because I have a sister in church, we stayed together in my place and we used to live fine, not until till I couldn't meet up in providing the way I used to because of mostly lack of finances. I could see some things in her that I didn't expect to see from her being that I believe she ought to be a spiritual sister and ought to know some things. After all said and done. Because she left and someone reconciled us. Truthfully I forgave but found out that I needed space for myself at the moment to recover from everything just as this photo explains as she made advances not opening to come back.

MY ANSWER

Maintaining peace and a strive-free heart is a must for every believer that is why Jesus thought us forgiveness. We must cultivate a forgiving heart irrespective of the offense.

However the words in the picture above or below may be right or wrong depending on your view and understanding of forgiveness, reconciliation and making peace with people.

Irrespective of whatever is in that picture, as a believer, your heart is what is of utmost importance to you and God, so it must be free from strive, bitterness, grievances, unforgiveness and undissolved anger.

If someone hurts you, the goal is not to reconcile with the person or restoration of relationship, the goal is to settle with the person in your heart and you can do that without any formal reconciliation with such a person or restoration of relationship.

You can even decide to reconcile with someone yet the matter is not settled in your heart. You are still angry and bitter towards the person, that is not scriptural.

The goal of reconciliation is to help you take the matter off your heart and this can be achieved without a reconciliation. It can be archived within you and your marker such that even though you may give the person space, you are not angry or bitter towards the person, you have just discovered that your being close to the person may not be too good and may cause reoccurrence of the former hurt.

However, you are not wishing the person bad in your heart, if you see danger coming their way, you will be glad to inform them, if you see a good opportunity for them, you will be glad to hint them and you don't rejoice over their calamity.

That is what the Bible teaches. You can abstain from the person who hurt you, you can discontinue a relationship or friendship that is becoming toxic to you but YOU MUST NEVER NURTURE HATRED, BITTERNESS, ANGER, UNFORGIVENESS IN YOUR HEART AGAINST THE PERSON.

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Happy Birthday to one of our biggest and supportive followers in this space. One of the strongest women we have ever known. We wish long purposeful living and prosperity. My people, please help us wish this beautiful woman, Blessing Sunday Bello 😍🍸🍸🍻🍻🎂🎂🧁

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The Path of the Righteous shines brighter💥. The Path is brighter than we started 😁.

Happy Sunday my people. May this week be filled with good surprises for you. D'BabzFamily love you all 😍.

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5 REASONS WHY MEN ARE ALWAYS ASKING YOU FOR S..€..X AS A LADY
(This will Educate you, read to the end)

Many ladies have been complaining that every man that approaches them is always wanting to have s..€..x with them without any serious commitment or talks of marriage.

Some of these ladies will say they have given up on love since every man they are meeting is always coming for s..€..x in the guise of friendship

However, I have discovered that most of these ladies are the cause of their own problems. Below are a few reasons why men will always approach you for s..€..x.

1. YOUR DRESSING IS ALWAYS S..€..×UALLY SUGGESTIVE:

There is an old saying that "The n@kedness of a woman is the happiness of a man. Men are being of sight and any part of a woman can easily turn them on. You are always putting on clothes that expose your br€asts, armless top that exposes your shaved armpits, tight trousers, that show the line of your V-jay in the front, mini and micro skirts that show the shape of your buttocks and your fresh laps and you think men should close their eyes and walk past you without fantasizing? Dey play!

Now tell me why won't they rush you to satisfy their s..€..xual urges?

2. YOU DON'T KNOW YOUR WORTH

You are always laughing and playing with every man, you will be hugging them up and down, pecking them, holding them, sitting on their laps and call them pet names, like sweetheart, dear, sugar.

You will be saying it doesn't matter that they are brothers in Christ and at the end of the day, some of them will think that you are giving them signals and will end up asking you for s..€..x.

3. YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO SIT IN PUBLIC

Many ladies don't know how to sit down, especially in the public space, they forget their composure, they sit and open their Jerusalem in front of guys, some of them will still wear short skirts and won't even put on panties.

As a lady, whether you are in public or not, you must learn how to sit properly and let it sink into your subconscious mind before it becomes a habit that follows you around. Parents should please teach their daughters how to sit and sleep without opening their holy of holies for the nations to see. I don't want to tell stories of different colors of panties of careless ladies I have seen free of charge.

How will they not ask you for s..€..x when you are always turning them on with your free show of cinema?

4. YOUR POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA

Every time, you will be posting semi-n@ked people on your status, you will be posting your bedroom pictures where you are not putting on bra, always on underwear posting tiktok videos with your big milk factory.

Guys are scrolling through and you think they will not ask you for s..€..x or ask for your n..u..d..£..s? In fact, many of them cannot think of having anything serious with you anymore apart from s..€..x. You better wise up and change.

5. YOU ARE ALWAYS S..£..X..U..A..L..L..Y MINDED

When you think or talk about s..€..x..ual-related things too much, especially with guys, they will end up asking you for s..£..x.

You have taken the responsibility of a biology teacher , you are the one guys will always come and ask about s..€..x..u..a..l feelings of ladies and you will open your unteamed and uncultured mouth and be explaining to them. Why won't they end up asking you for s..£..x? Why won't they see you as a s..£..x..u.a.l object?

You attract what you think and talk about always.

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Chai! I don laugh tire😂😂😂. This is what they call spicy !nsult

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SHOULD WOMAN ENGAGE IN THE WORK OF MINISTRY OR KEEP SILENT IN THE CHURCH?

It happened that several people asked this question at the same time so I can't attribute the name of anyone to this response.

I have said it several times that if we can approach the scriptures without bias or prejudice in our heart, if we come with an open heart, we will find the counsel of the Lord therein.

If we can pay attention to little details and give consideration to the context of every text, we will find the truth.

Apostle Paul said in two different places that women should keep silent in the church. Let us read the both passages...

1Tim 2:11-12
11 Let a woman learn in silence with all submission.
12 And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.

1Cor 14:34-35
34 Let your d women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak; but they are to be submissive, as the law also says. 35 And if they want to learn something, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is shameful for women to speak in church.

The statements of Paul has then brought argument among believers if it is right and proper for a woman to engage in the work of ministry or not.

Some denominations have shut down the ministry of women and will never allow a woman into ministry no matter the kind of gift or grace that is upon her.

Some women in ministry are not sure if they are doing the right thing or not, Now, we are going to approach both scriptures and find out the following.

1. Why did Paul made such statement?
2. Who were the people Paul referring to?
3. Is that statement a law from Paul or the Holy Spirit?
4. Should the church follow that statement or ignore it.
5. What is the counsel of God concerning women and ministry.

This is a doctrinal matter so please, permit me to take time and do all necessary explanations to clear it once and for all.

For this reason, this series might have up to 2 or 3 episodes. Just follow carefully with an open heart, forget all you have in mind concerning this matter in the past and let the scriptures speak for itself.

I won't be saying anything also, the scriptures will do the talking and we will search out the truth.

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One thing we have noticed about him is his love for shoes. Kai! Baby J loves shoes! There are times when he is not going anywhere, he will just go and start arranging his shoes and put them on walking like a big man around the house😁.

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To all the married people in the house and those in relationship, how do you normally know that your partner is angry with you? How do they behave and what do you do?

Time to learn👂👂

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Sometimes I use to wonder if Mama J is really born again. I will be like no no, I have to withdraw the certificate of your salvation.

Imagine I was praying this afternoon, and I had gone deep in tongues, I just felt a presence in the room and something prompted me to look up. If I had known, I wouldn't have responded to the prompting!

You won't believe what I saw, this woman was on bumshot shaking nyansh and tweaking right before me. I tried to look away immediately and sustain my concentration in the Spirit but it was too late! The son of man has been distracted.😢

Now I know why David said he would make a covenant with his eye not to look at...

If this woman continues like this, will she make heaven??🤔🤔🤔🙄🙄

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Happy Sunday and Eid Mubarak to all our Muslim friends and followers. "May the blessings of Allah be with you, may He shine His light upon you.

With Love from D'Babz Family. Your week is blessed in Jesus name!

A father may not carry a pregnancy for 9 months but he is always pregnant with the family's needs, dreams, mission, and vision for a better future...

A father may not know what labor pain feels like but his pains are not physical, his pains are emotional and he suffers mental injuries from time to time.....

A father may not have a breast to breastfeed babies, yet everyone suckles from his unseen breasts...

A father may not experience a monthly period, but he bleeds from inside when he has no means to provide for his family when he gets blamed for not being like his fellow men, and he is rarely appreciated for his daily struggles and push just to keep the family together......

May The Almighty God strengthen all fathers all over the world

HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS KIND OF PARTNER (Check the picture)

Question From Bro Salvation

How do you deal with this kind of partner. What ways can you influence him or her if this was your partner, married or dating. Thank you sir

*MY ANSWER*

This is what being strict as a parent without good communication and being reasonable can cause in children.

Being strict is not the problem here, in fact, if you want to raise children with good moral values in this generation, you have to be strict but you must employ good communication skills and be reasonable.

You must be able to explain and make your children understand every single action of discipline you are taking on them and what will be the future consequences if you do not take such action now, not just that you will be flogging them, shouting at them and placing different kinds of laws and restrictions on them with proper communication and discussion with them.

You can do anything to children once you are able to get them to trust you and understand the reason for which you are doing what you are doing.

Isaac didn't struggle with Abraham when he was about to get slaughtered, you would have known that Abraham must have taken the time to explain, discuss and agree with him.

However, if you get married to such a partner, there are three things you must employ to gradually change them.

1. Love
2. God's Word
3. Good Communication
4. Patience

Without these 3, you will never be able to help this person. You have to always teach them what God's word says whenever they manifest all those negative traits. You teach them in love and patience.

You don't have to become strict with them like their parents and you have to always remind them that they are not dealing with you and not their parents. You have to make them experience freedom and gradually they will begin to change.

They lived under the cage of their parents for more than 20 years, so much know that it might also take a few years to get them to change completely but it is not impossible.

Shalom!

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7 days prayer watch is here again for the month of June and we will be fasting for this month.

Join us as we pray for 30 minutes through the 4 watches of the day (6am, 9am, 12pm, 3pm) and the 4 watches of the night (6pm, 9pm, 12am 3am).

You definitely can't remain the same after the 7 days of exercise. Use the link below to join.

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Sir please post and hide my ID. My husband is h0spitalized as I type this. He travelled for an outside job on the 12th of March this year which I suspected wasn't a real trip. He did a job and he was already paid but he li3d that it was on the last trip he would be paid. So I waited for him to come home with the cheque. Not knowing he went and rented a house for his side chick. He spent 2.5M for a two bedroom flat in Abuja for a girl. He sent me 200k to take care of the kids and li3d that he will come home once he gets paid . It turns out that he also bought a car for her. This babe has a sugar boy that she's dating and spends on .. The boy travelled and came back without informing the babe . He ordered my husband to leave the house and the sham3less man refused and started challenging the guy. He said the house is his own that the guy should get out , he also tried taking the car key and was stopped. F1ght erupted and the babe joined her man to f1ght him. The fight became blo0dy and he landed at the h0spital. Imagine the stupiid girl calling me to come to Abuja and look after my husband that told me he was on official duty . I have called his mother and given her the address of the h0spital, so she can go and look after her son . Why I called my mother inlaw is because anytime I cry to her, She's always making it seem as if ch3ating is nothing. The pictures of my husband are t3rrible, if he survives this , he will never look at another woman again. The mom has been raining ins*ults on me for insisting she take care of her siick son. How does she expect me to leave my three kids and go take care of a heartl3ss man ? Please your advice is needed, am I being too hard on him ? I am very paiined as I am typing this.

Ladies! Stop Falling For This Sc@m.

I have heard the report of those brothers that are going around telling ladies ''God said you are my wife''. After they have done all the do with the lady, they will come back and say, "God said I should break up with you".

Some will even say "God said this relationship is becoming a threat to my walk with Him" whereas they are the one who lured the sister into all kinds of acts.

If you haven't effectively done the Spiritual, Physical and Character assessment of a man, never allow them to use "God said" to sc@m you. The same god that told them to start a relationship with you is the same that will tell them to come break it after they must have used you to satisfy their fleshy lu$t.

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There are many women crying at Shiloh for husbands, these two !d!ots are busy proposing to themselves. Two women just lost their husbands 😖

I caught Mama J trying to put on these earrings and I was like waaaa🥵🥵, is that an earring or a dish? This is part of the reason wood is now expensive in Nigeria.

How can something as big as this be an earring? Will this one not pull out someone's ear or make the person start having ear pain?

I tire oo for women oo.

I have sha seized the earring. It will be part of the wooden materials when we are ready to make kitchen cabinets.

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WHAT IF HE/SHE DOES FLUSH THE TOILET?🥵🥵

There is a common mistake young people make when dating and choosing a life partner.

They only check the good side of who they are planning to get married to. They never ask or beg their partner to tell them their ugly sides and weaknesses, whereas what will determine the smoothness of their marriage is not the good side of their partner. It is the bad side.

Everyone loves good things, everyone has a good and a sweet aspect of them, but there is no one in this world without a flaw, no one without 1, 2 or 3 weaknesses and the funny thing is that, many may never be able to change or overcome their weaknesses for the rest of their life.

So you have to ask yourself before proceeding with the relationship, can I cope with this weakness in my partner for the rest of my life?

For instance, your partner has a habit of not flushing the toilet, but he is so kind, and caring and has other good features, can you continue to flush the toilet after them for the rest of your life should in case they didn't change?

Ask that person you are dating today. Tell them your weakness and let them tell you theirs, it is easy when you already know what you are up against before saying I do.

I hope someone is instructed.

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Some marriages wouldn't have broken only if one of the partners could keep silent. Just one of them, But it is a pity both of them must talk, they talked and talked until they found themselves outside the marriage.

As a married person, one of the best skills you must learn that can keep your marriage is to learn HOW TO KEEP SILENT AND WHEN TO KEEP SILENT.

You can start learning it now as a single person. If you always want to talk, you always want to prove your point, you always when to reply, you always want to defend yourself...

Don't bother to get married because that marriage won't last.

Marriage is a game of words and even a fool is considered to be wise until he opens his mouth to speak.

Learn the power of silence and know when to deploy it. This is one of the major keys that will determine if you will last in marriage or not.

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The saddest story I have heard today. People are w!ck€d!!!

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Women in the house, come out oo, why are you people always behaving like a witch na? But Mama J is not among o, Na like evil spirit she dey behave🤣🤣🤣🤣.

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