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You will never know shame is a virtue until someone embarrasses you all in the name of "I don't have shame." I woke up one morning to see a DM from a long-time secondary school classmate.

According to her, she came across one of my stories when a friend shared it on her WhatsApp status and decided to reach out. I was excited to connect with her because she was the girl that everyone loved due to her quiet, calm, and reserved nature. We talked about life and what we've been up to. We exchanged contacts and began talking regularly on WhatsApp. That was when I realized that she was a makeup artist. Going through her IG page, I could tell she is really good at her job. A few days back, I saw a status update of hers that read, "What my eyes have seen as a makeup artist, I can not tell it all 😔." Thinking it was one of those clients who think that makeup products are paid for with leaves, I replied, "They done price you rubbish again🤣?" She replied, "I wish, if it was just the price, I wouldn't be complaining because it's a normal thing." She then went ahead to gist me about the last job she went for.

A lady booked her for her child's dedication, and the deal was that she would spend the whole day with her. It would be a different makeup for the church service and another one for the after-party. They agreed on a price, and on the morning of the dedication, my friend arrived just in time for the makeup.
As early as 6 am, she was already at the lady's house setting up because she was told that the dedication would be at 9 am after her church's first service. It was getting close to 8 am, and the lady had yet to sit for her makeup. My friend asked her to sit because she didn't want to rush the makeup, and that was when the lady informed her that the dedication wasn't at 9 am, but at 12 pm. She told her 9 am to make her come early and avoid stories that touch.

My friend was pi**ed but still kept her cool. She tried explaining to her that what she did wasn't cool as she had a busy day the previous day. She couldn’t have a good sleep because she didn't want to disappoint her, and so left her house early to meet up. The lady told her it didn't matter, after all, she booked her for the whole day and is entitled to her time.
Hearing this, my friend was even more pi**ed, but the lady's mom tried calming her down. By 10 :30, the makeup started, and before 12 pm, she was done. In between the makeup, the lady kept complaining. The final straw was when they got to church, and they told her she needed to cover her chest region if she wanted the baby to be dedicated because almost her full chest was exposed. She got upset and in the quest to get something to cover up while fighting her husband who tried to intervene, part of the makeup got smudged.
It was as if hell was let loose. She cursed my friend out, accusing her of using fake products on her face, and even threatened not to pay her balance. Friends tried calming her down and making her realize that they were in public and should have some shame. Aunty quickly replied, "Shame ke, I don't have shame, this girl wants to use me, but it won't work. In fact, she should refund me my money."

My friend felt like the ground should open and swallow her because the embarrassment was something else. The area that was affected wasn't much. It was something that she could easily touch up. Still ignoring her attitude, she tried getting her to sit so that she could quickly fix it. That was when the lady angrily pushed her, breaking her ring light. My friend couldn't take it anymore. She insisted on her tool being replaced immediately or nothing else. Luckily for her, the lady's husband made a transfer, and she left without fixing the makeup.

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Ella and I were friends in secondary school. We got admissionion into the same University far from home.
In our 3rd year, the president of our local government association in school called me and asked me to contest for the position of vice president of the association as the incumbent is going out. I refused the offer because I am naturally a shy person. I spoke to my friend Ella about it and she saw reasons with me. Few days later, the president called to say Ella has indicated interest in the position but he still prefers me.
Note, Ella did not tell me she was going to contest. I still told the president my position (No). He said he has already bought the form for me and dropped the phone. Ella started underground campaign without telling me. I saw her poster one day somewhere and asked her, she said I should not mind our outgoing president, he is forcing her into the race.
I told her it's not a bad thing if she is interested, I promised to help her campaign as we already have someone in the race. In her words.. ''babe I am not interested , I don't have that time''
I did not print any poster but told people in the association my intention to run for the VP. I also posted my picture and intentions on the association WhatsApp group
On the election day, I won Ella and our friendship never remained the same.
She stopped attending our association meeting till we graduated. Fast forward to four years later, her elder brother proposed to my younger sister and Ella vowed her brother will never marry my sister.
She called my family traitors and all sorts of names. Her mum is supporting her. My sister is torn and needs my guidance. Please I am seeking your advice on how to navigate this situation.
Thank you.

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I got married in 2019 and I have been trying to conceive, it has been a tough journey for me, in January 2023 my husband and I suggested I go for one surgery which I went for and after that he suggested we needed a house help. We decided to tell my mother Inlaw so she could help us look for one of those girls in the village, my mother Inlaw brought a 17 year old girl, the first day she was brought in I never liked her because she looked like someone who was bought already. My problem started as soon as she stepped in, since she came my husband stopped all out of town work but he goes and makes sure he returns same day unlike him, previously my husband doesn’t come home in a month, I asked him how come he no longer travels for work. He said there is a change in the work plan, my husband started shopping for both me and my house help, my problem is not the clothes he buys for her but the inner wears, I started complaining bitterly and let him know that she is old enough to get her inner wears herself. I started suspecting my husband had already started sleeping with her, she came back from school one day and I asked her if my husband has ever touched her she said ‘no’ that she has never been touched by any man and that I can call a doctor to confirm. That statement made me unsettled, then what’s going on, I told my husband that I want the girl back from where she came from and my husband said he would never allow that and if I am not comfortable with her I can leave his house, I asked him how he could say that. giver her the best and make sure you don’t tell your wife about it otherwise she would cause harm to her, you can as well end the marriage and focus on your child, I have been in darkness thinking I was happily married, why did my husband hide this from me?This is too much for me to bear, my marriage is about to crumble, what should I do? Two days later I went through my husband’s phone and I saw a text from his mum which says make sure your childless wife don’t chase your only child away she’s unable to give you a child, don’t let her ruin the chances bonding with your daughter

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Having a pink lips is so attractive but is it really worth the money spent on creams or even surgery these days?

Are you looking to have pink lips on a lean budget?

Try this:

- Massage your lips with a mixture of almond oil and lemon juice just before you go to bed.

- Do this consistently for a few weeks until you see changes.

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For pure white teeth:

- Get strawberry 🍓
- Punch it (press it to become a paste)
- Put on your toothbrush
- Brush your mouth with it at least a day for a week
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Every time I passed that Guru Maharaji place on Lagos-Ibadan expressway, I wanted to enter and know what’s really going on inside that place.

Na wa oooo people wicked sha 😲😲😲😲

I ruined a meal worth 50k and was confused on what to do about it, it was so bad that it won’t be healthy to serve dogs.

I didn’t want the mangement to know about it because they will deduct it from my salary.

I was looking so confused and worried until my My kitchen assistant ask me why I was worried and told me we can secretly dispose it without anyone knowing, the kitchen cleaner concurred and said it was a perfect idea.

I thought about It for a moment and it sound like a great plan because unlike the kitchen in Abuja here in nassarawa state no camera in the kitchen so I agreed to it.

We joined the meat with other trash in the kitchen and the cleaner went and dispose it outside by dropping it into the big tank we pour all of the company trash.

I was making a fresh meal but I was restless.
My conscience will not allow me focus and I was just having Anxiety.

I didn’t want any of the kitchen staff to have a leverage over me that will make them direspect me tomorrow because of the secret they kept for me.

So I promise myself that I was going to talk to my boss about it after lunch, and I don’t mind it being deducted from my salary.

After preparing lunch, I walk to my Boss office and told him what I have done apologize and told him I am cool if he decide to deduct it from my salary.

He was listening to me explain myself and then told me I just save myself because he was about to call my people in Abuja.
He told me was bitter when he heard the news as he didn’t expect such a thing from me.

I didn’t understand what he was saying until he told me that my kitchen asistant came to report me earlier that I ruin all of the meat and secretly went to trash it out.
She even took a video as evidence.

I was shocked told him thank you and walk to the kitchen and never said a word to my kitchen asistant or try to pick a fight with her.

I am just happy I open up about my sin to the management and willing to take any punishment they give to me.
It would have been a thing of shame if I had not reached out to my boss not knowing someone else has already reported me.

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The condition that will force you to start selling your properties just to be able to feed yourself will not be your portion.

Food is expensive now, you should only eat when you’re about to faint. 🤣🤣🤣

Today at my children's school, a parent was fighting because her child was not given an award position. Parents please all these awards does not justify how brilliant your children are. That aside, what effort are you putting into your children becoming better, some children just need a little push either from you or an external teacher.
Children are different, do not compare your children between themselves or other children. Try to know your child's weakness, help them to improve in this area. And leave everything to God

Again; Awards does not signify great academic performance.
Thank you

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"I'm responding to my husband, the man who said he married me & took me to America & i insisted on working despite his refusals,
My story is a long one. i intend to clear my name & detaily explained how everything happened & i hope that you be patient enough to read. So, it all started when i, just finished school & this woman, a friend of my mom's asked that i come to her place, When i got there, she told mehow she has watch me grown & was impressed by my attitude & pleaded that, she'll love for me to marry her son. My mom, infact my parents & the whole family was in support of it, they all pleaded that i consider her decision. I however, decided to give it a try

So, we connected on social media, exchanged contacts did voice & video calls. He seemed to be a nice person. We both liked each other. A date for the wedding was set on a December 22nd, he came & everything was finalized. After wedding, it's true that, i refused getting pregnant for him, cuz i insisted on us being on birth control. Actually, I've witnessed & seen a lot of cases where, this guys come from abroad, get marry to a lady & only come home to get them pregnant & go back while always complaining about their papers not being ready, there by turning their wifes into a bàby màkin màch!né & finally leave them frústr@t3d with may be 3 or 4kids. i just wasn't ready to take any chances, by so doing, my husband was f0rc3d to get more serious & speed up in processing my papers so i could join him abroad. Luckily my papers were ready in a few months & i finally joined him in the States. This is were, the pr0bl3ms all started..

While abroad for just 4 weeks. I noticed that, my husband doesn't like me going out, all he wants is that i sit put at home & wait for him, he doesn't even like me talking to neighbors. He asks me to make a list of food items i might be needing, for a week or 2, takes the list to the market himself, buys & stocks the kitchen with enough grosseries, that can last at least a week or 2. I stayed in America for over a year stuck in my husband's house, the only time that i leave the house is when he takes me out during the weekend to have a few drinks & catch some fun. For over a year, I kept pleading with my husband to grant me permission to start working & earning something, no matter how little to at least earnable me help my pó0r parents & siblings back home & not run to him for everything.

Pls, note that, I'm first child, my siblings, are all school dropped out, my parents had to put all their resources & savings on me to see me through school. In which i finally graduated as a nurse. So, I really feel bad when my parents or siblings, need or ask me for help & I'm unable to do anything about it, cuz i fully depend on my husband for everything whom, i run to most times to tell about my family pr0bl3ms but he doesn't react ontime or at all with the excuse of that, he forgot. Well, On a very faithful day, Luckily for me, after so much pressure & pleads, my husband finally accepted that, i can be going out for sport every morning & run around the neighborhood. In the cause of that

I was so lucky to have met some few very good friends whom introduced me to their other friends & that's when I, started asking questions. Sometimes they come around the house when my husband is obviously at work & we'll chat, That's just how, i was enlightened on so many things i had no clue of here abroad. These same friends, even helped to secure me a job in a certain hospital to work as a nurse. I was so excited that told my husband but he, forbided me taking the job, saying he didn't bring me to America to work but that he, brought me to be his wife, take care of his home, make babies & certainly take care of them & also make his meals. Insisting that, it's what a good wife does & that i must respect his decision as the chief commander of the house. Really, i was sh0cked & disappointed hearing these words come out of my husband's m0úth

However I ignored & also insisted on working, hoping that he'll come around. The week i started work, he started refusing to eat my food nor talk to me i still, ignored & kept acting like everything was ok. This went on for about 2 weeks & he suddenly came around. This man patiently waited when it was Christmas Holiday, he cajoled me into believing that, we were going home to spend the holidays & celebrate with family & old friends. When we arrived the country , he took me back to my parents & when holidays were over he abandoned me in the village & took a flight back to the States. I guess he wanted to teach me a léss0n & probably brk me. I spend almost 2 months in the village. Thank God, i still had my phone, i communicated with some friends whom sympathized, helped me & i was able to book a flight back to America.

For 6 months, my husband had no clue i was back in the states, he probably thought i was still in the village. I guess someone told him i was back & he came were i work to see things for himself. I could see the shóck, àngér & disappointment 0n his face when he saw me. Few weeks later, he asked me for a dvos, saying that I'm stúbb0rn & disobedient to him & that my family is in support of my bad béh@v0ur. He has been insisting that, my family refunds every díme, he spend on me as "dowry".. Can you belive that, this man has been sending me thré@ds of late. Asking me to leave America, saying that he p!ckéd me from the gútters & doesn't want to see me in America, According to him, he was the one that, brought me to here in the first place & if not for him, i would never have dreamed of coming to America.

To be honest, I was sh0ckéd that my husband came public with this issue, well, i guess, according to him, he wants to xp0se & émbàrr@s me, Derick! You've t0rmented me enough, can you imagine that, this man, also blames me for our childlessness, acçúss!n me of m3ss¡n up my womb, God knows I've never indulged in such, several test carried out on me proves that, I'm ok but, he refuse doing his own tests, insisting that he is ok cuz he once impregnated a girl in his school days but he wasn't ready for a child then & had her do away with it. Cuz he once got a girl pregnant he keeps insisting the fault is mine

Well Derick, I'm so happy to brk this news to you. Your dvos pappers have bn signed. Yes!, I've found someone so sweet & a million times béttér than you. I'm a month gone for him & we're getting married in 2 months & guess what, you're invited. We'll be so delighted to see you at our wedding. You asked that, your "Dowry" be refunded, well, I've talked to my family, everything will be refunded in full payment anytime that you're ready. You also, insist that i leave the States cuz you do not want to see me here, I pr0misé you!, if you continue like this. I'll be forced to Dial 9I1 & you sure do know what will happen, pls do not push me any further! .."

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I have to make 2 meals for a group of people tomorrow which is ewa agoyin stew and white rice and Ayamase sauce.
I enjoy cooking, It's fun to me.

Not sure how recently I said this but God is real. Prayer is real. Have a relationship with God. Pray. You won’t regret it.

Having both parents alive.( Dad & Mum) Not sick , no hospital bills, no chronic diseases.
Just old parents ageing gracefully and happily.

Ask anyone, they'd kill for this.
If you have both, Be grateful

"My name is Femi," he said, extending his hand. I shook it "I'm Sade." He set his champagne down and led me to a quieter corner away from the music.
"Are you sure you can afford me?" I asked playfully.
"Try me," he replied, running his hands down my thighs.
My short, tight skirt allowed him to feel every inch of my skin "500k," I said with a smile, expecting shock. To my surprise, he smiled and said, "So, one million for a th*****me?" He watched
One million naira. I had never seen that much money before, but l'd also never had a th*****me. From what I'd heard, it wasn't that bad. Besides, if his friend was anything like him, I might enjoy it. They probably wouldn't last long since they were older men, unlike my ex. I nodded, and seconds later, my phone pinged with a credit alert. I was immediately wet.
"So, where's your friend?"
"He's shy. We'll meet at my house." The drive took 30 minutes, and I started to worry since I hadn't told my friend I was leaving with a stranger. But one million naira
His house was magnificent. I felt more at ease as he made me comfortable. We took an elevator to his bedroom. An elevator in a house! He instructed me to bathe and undress, saying he'd return shortly with his friend. He left, shutting the door behind him. My mind told me to run, but a voice urged me to enjoy the experience since l'd already been paid. He returned with a handsome white man.
Wow, so I'll knack oyibo but the man was carrying a large white sack. I almost panicked, thinking it was a person, but he set it down

TO BE CONTINUED

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I followed my friend and her boyfriend to the club. A few minutes after we arrived, they left me to dance. I was nursing my drink quietly when a yahoo looking guy with dreadlocks and an earring walked up to me.
"Baby, do you wanna dance?"
"With you? No, thank you, reply instantly.
"Ouch, why not?" he slurred, clearly tipsy, which only irritated me more.

"Please, just leave before my boyfriend gets here."
"And then what'll happen?"
he hiccuped. I
"Your burial. Laughing, he staggered away. I started to think coming here was a mistake when I heard a soft giggle beside me. I turned to see a middle-aged man, probably in his late 40s, dressed fashionably. He was holding a glass of expensive champagne. I also noticed a big skull ring on his finger.
May I... or is your boyfriend planning my burial too? I laughed, and he laughed with me. If he were broke, I would have ignored him, but his perfume alone made everything he said interesting.
"I love your, um, steeze under pressure," he joked.
"My steeze, huh? What do you know about steeze, old man?" I teased back.
"Old man?" He clutched his heart in mock shock, and we both laughed.