Smart, Young and Making Waves

Bukky was always passionate about sketching and creating new fashion styles, and she was really proud of her work.

She was self-taught and inspired by her own ideas, and she was determined to make her dreams come true.

Unfortunately, Bukky's friend wasn't very supportive of her dreams. She always said that sketching and designing fashion wasn't a real job and that she should focus on getting a 9-to-5 job instead.

Bukky was determined to keep going, but the discouraging words of her friend slowly started to take a toll on her.

One day, Bukky was so fed up with all the discouraging words that she decided to give up on her dream and focus on getting a 9-to-5 job.

She thought that was easier and therefore the best decision for her future.

A few years later, Bukky was surprised to see her friend online as a successful fashion icon.

Her friend had achieved what Bukky had always wanted to achieve.

Her friend's designs were mind-blowing and unique. (She copied some designs Bukky sketched years back, but many others were created by her, herself)

Bukky felt a wave of regret and anger wash over her.

She wished she hadn't listened to her friend and had kept going with her dreams.

She wished she had the courage and determination to keep pushing forward and make her dreams come true.

She wished she hadn't given up so easily.

Bukky was determined to start again.

She started sketching and designing fashion again, but this time around, it was much more harder to come up with a creative design.

Her oil of inspiration seems to gave dried up.

She blamed herself for ever listening to her friend.

She wish she had a mind of her own when it was much necessary.
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WHATEVER MAKES YOU FEEL ALIVE, DON'T DROP IT BECAUSE OF SOME DISCOURAGING WORDS FROM SOMEONE ELSE.

THEY DON'T SEE THE BIGGER PICTURE YOU ARE SEEING. DON'T GIVE UP SO EASILY.

HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN AND ALWAYS STAND YOUR GROUND FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN.

Unless you give them power, no one has the capacity to put you down or make you feel bad about yourself.

Stop giving people the privilege of controlling your emotions or feelings about your self.

Be in charge and stay in charge!

BE YOU. BE CLASSY ❤️

No matter what you are planning to do this December, dear ladies 💖

Plan to Be You
And Be Classy

There's nothing more attractive than that.

Happy New Month to you all 🤗

It's been a while since I visited my Instagram page.

And today, when I did — I saw a beautiful post by a Nollywood actress which I couldn't just help but rush down here to share.
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Check the attached picture to this post to read what she posted 🙊 and what someone commented under the post.

I was really glad, I couldn't contain my joy.

If you knew this lady, you would know how she used to dress, but seeing this post made by her my heart so glad.

Many women are coming to the realization of their worth by starting to dress Decently.

Who told you that Decent Dressing is outdated or old fashioned? 😏

'I sorry for you o' 😂😂

She is no longer comfortable with the revealing outfits she is being asked to model, even though she is well endowed — she had to bring it to the internet to persuade the brands she works for.

Oh my my 🦋❤️

I love what is happening 😊

BE YOU. BE CLASSY ❤️

And who told you that you can't be DECENT and still MAKE HRADS TURN? 😉😋

This is for every ladies out there.

It's high time you know yourself based on who you are and not what people are saying about you.

Do this for yourself and lift one weight off your shoulder 🦋💐

BE YOU. BE CLASSY ❤️

HANTY, COVER YOUR LEGS!

It happened some years ago.

We, the students were all seated as the audience while the two teams — comprising of students from different classes in the senior secondary section sat opposite each other like they always do during debate, under the shade that was created with palm fronds.

The debate was intense as every representatives from each team stood up to defend their points as if their lives depended on it as the time keeper jingled the bell each time their time elapsed, and other teachers that served as judges jot some things down in their books.

By the time the heated debate was over and the teachers were giving their remarks on the just concluded rounds of argument, I noticed her.
(She was in one of the debate teams, seated before teachers and the students audience)

She sat so recklessly and carelessly that I began to feel so ashamed on her behalf as if I was the one seated that way.

Some of the males students attention were on her recklessly opened legs and I felt as if I should blindfold them or help her to cover her legs — it's been long since I hated seeing women being treated disrespectfully.

However, she was there, deeply engrossed in what the teachers were saying about each students that represented each team.

I tried making eye contact with her so I could call her attention to her opened legs.

It took me about five minutes to eventually get her attention, and when I did, I quickly gestured to her to cover her legs.

She did that immediately.

But you won't believe it when I say that within the next two minutes that her attention got turned back to what the teachers were saying, her legs were carelessly opened again.

I tried a couple of times again to get her to close her legs, but when I noticed that it was something she did unconsciously, I gave up and focused on the event of the day.

But then, I felt so embarrassed on her behalf — the boys seated on our side were all feeding their eyes freely, and the lady was beautiful.

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Dear lady;

You need to start respecting your body before you expect others to respect it for you.

It has to be a conscious effort from you if you don't want to keep being used and ill treated.

Things won't just change over night because you desire a change, there is something you've got to do to make that change.

Being attractive as a lady is not just about your dress or beautiful face, it comprises of many other things which includes your LIFESTYLE.

Is your way of life attractive or you need to start working on it?

BE YOU. BE CLASSY ❤️

IT'S THE TUNE YOU SET THAT MEN WILL DANCE TO

Dear lady;
Before you decide to push the whole blame on men that have in one way or the other use or treat you in a way you don't like.

Step back a bit and truthfully pinpoint your own actions that gave them the greenlight to keep treating you the way they did.

One thing that you should know as a lady is that, it is how you place yourself that will determine how men will place you.

It is the tune you set that they will dance to.

You can't be a lady that knows her worth and what she represents and a man from nowhere will come and trample on you or treat you inhumanely or disrespectfully — why?

Because such a man won't even catch your fancy in the first place; the value you place on yourself will screen some men out without you having to do anything.

You are a major determinant in how men choose to regard you — starting from the day your paths first crossed.

One of the reasons why ladies take all forms of disrespect from a man is because they don't know their worth or how they should be treated — therefore, any Tom, Dick and Harry that comes by gains a free access to them and treat them worse than the previous did them.

Being attractive is not only based on a physical need, it goes deeper than that — it drives deeper into your core as a woman.

EXCERPT FROM THE EBOOK 📙 — HOW CAN I BE MORE ATTRACTIVE AS A LADY?
.. BE YOU. BE CLASSY ❤️

Something lovely is cooking 🍳

Are you getting your plates ready? 😊

It's only a woman that has not been taught how to recognize her worth and be proud of what makes her unique that is always at the expense of people's feelings and thoughts.

The moment a woman realizes her worth — the barricade is lifted already 💪

All that is just left is to build on what she already know, recognize and celebrate.

But how would they know, if no man be sent? 😊

I've been sent to you, bearing the gospel of love concerning your body and lifestyle as a lady.

Cry no more because the solution is here ❤️😘

BE YOU. BE CLASSY ❤️
.. I am Adebanke, I am the best at what I do

Come on 😊

This is speaking 'beauri'

You can't afford to miss out on this.

This is just the tip of the iceberg 😉

Get ready for more ❤️

And yes, this was designed by yours truly ❤️😍😉

DON'T FOCUS ON BEAUTY ALONE!

Dear lady;

Looking classy, exquisite, beautiful and confident in your skin is an amazing journey to embark on.

But, don't focus on being beautiful alone without filling your inward part with some amazing contents you can dish out to your world as a lady.

Do you know how great the fall is if you are perceived to be a very beautiful and classy woman but when you speak, many will run to cover their head from the bomb you are dropping from your mouth?

Be enough and confident in all areas, and not just your physical appearance alone.

How often do you brush up your social etiquettes?

Don't just focus on being the rich and classy chick alone; make sure you're not behind when it comes to being social as well, baby girl ❤️ 🦋

If, upon the dress that commands respect you're wearing with cool cash resting in your bank account, but you can't recite the National Anthem, or you can't confidently make use of cutleries in a public place — girl, that does not in any way speak of class.

Or you don't know how many states and capital we have in Nigeria.

As basic as these may sound, it can disgrace and downgrade someone outside if care is not taken.

BE YOU. BE CLASSY ❤️

UPDATE:

“I Can Never Marry A Woman That Shows Her Br3asts And Yansh To The Public, But I Love It When They Show It

“Your body is priceless, no money in the world can buy it, but if you choose to show it for free in public by shaking it or dressing half nak3d, who I’m I to hat£ you? I will look at it and enjoy it. My wife or daughter can never go out half nak£d or shake nyash on media because I control them, but I can’t control women out there . When you show us something which is priceless for free, me and my guys love it.”

~Comedian Brain Jotter
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Ladies,

Men still value Decent ladies, do not let social media teach you otherwise.

Your body is a very valuable treasure that should be sought after by responsible and deserving men — not just anybody calling themselves men.

Have you ever seen Queens dress naked or half naked before?

I'm sure you haven't!

And that's because queens know their worth.

Do you know your worth?

I AM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH MY BIG THIGH!

Most ladies deal with inferiority complex behind the curtains and this is so heartbreaking.

Feeling inferior shouldn't be added to the load of emotional and different baggages that every lady face each passing day.

Some ladies are so concerned about how unattractive one part of their body is that it eventually crumbles their self esteem 😔

You'll hear them say —

"My eyes are too big"

"I'm not comfortable with my big thigh, it doesn't give my body a perfect fitting anytime I wear a dress"

"I wish my tummy is flatter than this"

"If I was a bit taller than this current height, I would have been the center of attraction too"

And so many more 🙃

Some ladies think they are only admiring a role model of theirs, not knowing that comparison has set in.

Each of these triggers are dealt with in this ebook titled HOW CAN I BE MORE ATTRACTIVE AS A LADY?

We are in for a long ride 😊
Just enjoy the journey as it unfolds 😘

BE YOU. BE CLASSY ❤️

On today's episode of JEWELRY TIPS with BBFL

Hope you learnt something?

Quote for the week

This quote was taken from our latest ebook titled — HOW CAN I BE MORE ATTRACTIVE AS A LADY?

Which will be launched on a soon to be announced date 😊

There is absolutely no need to try and build a mansion on a foundation made of sand — it won't stand.

If your foundation is solid, anything MORE that you want to build on it won't be a time waster.

If you don't recognize the fact that you are an attractive lady — which is the basics, no matter the icing you're trying to put on the cake, it won't stay.

Hope you got value? 😊

BE YOU. BE CLASSY ❤️

We have a very GOOD NEWS for you guys!!!

Are you ready for it 💃❤️😊

WHY WOULD YOU THINK I WOULD BLUSH? 🙄

Guys, let me gist you (I know you like anything that concern gist, that's why I'm here to download the latest for you 😂)

I boarded a bike with one man yesterday, I insisted that he stays in the middle while I stayed at the back — You can't imagine how he kept laughing and laughing about my insistence, he even tagged me "Last Born of The House" 😂

That the way I spoke is exactly how last horns talk — anyways, I busted his bubbles 🤣

My main focus for this gist was what he said during the journey:

He said — "You look so beautiful, baby girl"

I focused on the road ahead of me and did as if I did not hear anything — of course I heard nothinggg! 😂

I wasn't even moved by what he said, and I was sure that got him a bit upset because he asked.

"I told you that you are beautiful and you did not even smile or blush"

I took a glance at him and replied — "why would you think I would blush at your compliment?"

Abi e ma gbami keh 🙄

Why does he think I need his compliment to feel good or smile about my God given beauty?
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Dear baby girl;

This story was shared to inspire, educate and inform you about your SELF WORTH.

If you don't believe in yourself or your self image, many people (both male and female) may try to control your life, if they know how powerful their words are on you.

They can notice from your reaction if you are confident in yourself or not.

Don't give anybody that power, girl.

No man or woman should control your emotions or feelings based on what they say — whether positive or negative.

If you don't keep this in mind, you will have lots of baggages to deal with later in future because their words penetrated into you and the seed started growing without you knowing about it.

BE YOU. BE CLASSY ❤️

Hello girl ❤️

It's another day with another Jewelry Care and Tips with BBFL

Hope you learnt something?

That's the power/authority that a jewelry commands.

Don't trivialize the uniqueness of a jewelry in your day to day outfits.

BEFORE YOU GIVE YOUR NEXT CLOTHE TO YOUR TAILOR, READ THIS!

Disclaimer: I hope you know that it's not all styles you see on Instagram or Pinterest that will suit your body shape and size?

That's not our focus for today though. ☺️ We will discuss this some other day.

Follow me 👋

Variety is the spice of life you know?

If you and I have the same body structure, height, color and size, I hope you know that we will all be bored, right?

That's why you should be confident in your skin — in your self and what makes you YOU, that's where your uniqueness lies.

But, being confident in your skin starts with wearing things that suite your shape and size — what you're comfortable in, clothes that are not too tight or too big for you.

You can't expect yourself to show up confidently and with class when you can't even breathe properly in your outfit or you're gathering the excessive areas in your hands, or it's too short or too revealing.

That does not speak elegance of you as a lady of class.

Above all, you can't expect yourself to be confident in your skin when your sleeve is not doing proper justice to your outfit.

That's why you should have this knowledge in mind before you proceed to sew your next outfit; it is not all styles you see on Instagram that you'll replicate as it is.

There are some that you'll input some adjustments in order to suite your taste.

If you know you are a plus size, wearing sleeveless clothe is not advisable for you, because you may feel uncomfortable with how your arm may look.

But with a well defined sleeve that covers your arm, even though it is short sleeve — it's going to give you some level of confidence.

Check out some sleeve designs in the image below to get a clearer picture of what this post is passing across to you, and that will guide you on what kind of sleeve you'll prefer for your next outfit, so that you can show up, full of smiles and confidence oozing out.

BE YOU. BE CLASSY

Do you always wonder why your ring, chain, bracelet and the rest get rusted faster than they should?

I think you're doing either of these 👇

And in order for you to be able to preserve your jewelry for longer period of time, try to remove any jewelry you have on you before you swim, bathe or workout.

You're welcome 😉🥰

BE YOU. BE CLASSY

To all our able and amiable Moslem customers
We say happy Eid-Al-Adha Mubarak
Thanks for your patronage at all times
Enjoy the festive mood and don't forget that
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Love you all 💝

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Happy new month 💝

new month from Dunni Concept to all of our customers,thanks for your patronage in the month of June,we look forward to a better and more continuous patronage in this month of July.God bless you abundantly.
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