Oma Philips
I belong to yaweh
A non mediocre! Relationship therapist
CEO of omatherapycity
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*Story* Two student lovers are growing deeper into themselves. Theyāre both in different departments, and different levels too. Since their courses are different, one will be leaving school before the other. Because of this, insecurity grew! The guy decided to switch department and take a step down in level. Heās finally in the same level with the girl and in the same department.
*Question* is the love true? 2.Can the love survive? 3.Is the guyās act of sacrifice a foolish one?.. drop ur view!
This year has been a learning year for me, I learnt zealous, learnt steadfast, learnt self control and less expectations from man. I learnt to be dependent on God and being joyous even in the mist of disappoinment.
And on this day, I can tell you that I've grown farther than I used to be. I pray my growth will be steady and consistent. Today I celebrate the goodness of God over my life.
Happy birthday to meš·
*Zeal*
A written š on āzealā is available as an article!
Too many of us want to be great but too weak to pay the price!
Some probably would think success is a matter of *just connection and being lucky*. I laugh š
Maybe when you have big men on your contact and canāt attract or sell your mind to them, then you will know, life isnāt movies!
Your destiny helper may be very close to you, close as to be on your contact list. But, he/she hasnāt seen you push your life, with a zealous mind.
Nah, that business you owned, who told you itās *small?* because you have no shop or permanent site, youāre playing with it?.. šš¤² someone else who does same but *mindful and zealous* is selling not just the product but his mind to men! *Zeal* an article you must readā¦.š„ *Omatherapycity*
https://youtu.be/MlE82pJlI8w?si=hMbD5H_8a7BksHvi
New wine š· see why girls before 30 are called new wine
Who taught you that men who seek Good fails?
Who told you that girls who choose God early are missing out?..
We all are living with the knowledge of what we've been taught. But am glad am told differently and the manifestation therein is breath taking, there is satisfaction in here and I feel not let behind, in fact the knowledge drawn from him makes me feel yall who don't enjoy this privilege is behindš¤£
Imagine at this age, you've clarity about life, purpose and destiny.. it's a flex in here. Stay with Abbaš„
Hello fam, how's it over there?
Asking from Londonšš¤£š¤£
For the interest of non participants of the group, this is what the Lord reveal to us tonight
1. What Zeal is
2. How to know when you've a zeal
3.what to do when your zeal is ignited
4 steps to take when you're zealous over something āØKai!!!
In my new book article,
The lord shall show us in addition to what he taught us tonight š
1. What do I do to sustain my zeal?
2. Can I have a zeal that I didn't place or put on myself?
3. I once had a zeal for greatness but am becoming cold and my š„ is gradually quenching, what's happening? {Yes, there's an attack on zeal}
4. If my desk is personal, would God support it?
So if youiss this teaching as a result of not being a member of this group, you still stand a chance to get all the spirit filled word dropped tonight. Yes you will gain as 100% as the members got.
Ensure to follow, and grab your article when it is ready!!!!!
Lastly, you want to joiny WhatsApp group{non mediocres} comment interested.
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Nobody deserves unpurposeful partner.
Be it a man or woman.
Weāve too many men, as highly educated as they are, or rather as highly civilized as they are, who love if it is convenient for them. They are no saint yet they conditionally loves.
Then to the women, stop fornicating up and down. Every man that come across your path must not have a canal knowledge of you. If it is a weakness, pray for strength. Subdue the thoughts of compromising to sleep with him with the Word of God.
The truth is, if you desire a purposeful man, you must be a purposeful woman. You only attract your kind.
May God bring to your path a purposeful and intentional lover, who will genuinely be attracted by your potentials and interested in your growth. A man who will look beyond your mistakes and still find you worthy of driving great destiny with. Itās the lord that bring such people {man/woman}. The lord be with you
Oma Ceo~*Omatherapycity*
Iāve always crushed on Williams uchemba, until They day he got married.
I felt so bad. That could be me;
1. But nah, am not done with school
2. But nah, am not a practicing Medical doctor
3. But nah, am not as tall as the wife
4. But nah, I donāt based in london.
5. But nah, I didnāt make any move.
But even if I had made a move, would he still had say YES?
But wait, look at the woman he married, look at the qualities and integrity in her. Look at the benevolence and structures she built for herself. I donāt need an Angel to tell me, Williams couldāve rejected me if I had made a move because am nothing like the kind of women that interest him.
The moment I realized this, I stop crushing on men and trying to get their attention in an awkward way because they may really not noticed, I decided to pay attention to the kind of women that interest them and then, work on myself.
I decided not to waste my time thinking or day dreaming about any man and stick to improving my self to be better, better in accent, in skills, in Education, character, in purpose etc so they can wonder āwhat kind of a lady is thisāā¦ until then, they canāt be wowed.
I wonāt disclose my current crush right now š¤£ but am sure improving myself so one day he will notice.
Iām sure heād be proud of what Iam or have become when we enter talking stage..
Oh I canāt waitš¤£šāāļø
{Oma} CEO~Omatherapycity
Guys (men) na una get this question oš
I thought y'all like bold& intelligent women, so why are you intimidated by them?
What do I do to put smiles on your face?š¤øš„°ā¤ļø
I'll be in the
comment section!
Did you just say he assumed?.. you both are married and heās wrong to assume the pregnancy you had was his?.. cāmon where are we going with this mischievous, insane attitude called infidelity?.. women why are we too lose over matters like this?.. why would you be emotionally attached to your ex (why is he called an ex ) you two still s*xually active and yet dating another man?ā¦ yāall are playing this game a long time and marriage is more like a joke to yāall. If youāre gonna be unsettled with whatever you have with your ex, pls donāt come close to me!.. I want you all filtered and ready before you confess any form of love. From the look of things, and from all angles looks like these generations arenāt ready for marriageā¦ letās just play this game, whoever win wins and whoever lose loses!
I hope the stable relationships you've is not only the one you've with your babe..
I sincerely hope you're nurturing friendships and sustaining healthy relationships, yeah with both genders!!...
Girls sabotaging friendships with girls are only creating space for loneliness, depression and lots more
Friendship isn't out of place while you date. Normalize staying with friends aside your babe and know what's going on around you. It gives you space to express yourself, help you scale out of unproductivity. A healthy friendship boost your self esteem and limit over thinking!...
People who died of su***de over a heart break are people who spent their whole life and time with their babe and never bother to create friendships!..
Men easily cope after a breakup because they learned to create and spend time with friends. Women in the other hand barely do.
Statistics has shown that women commit su***de more than men after a heartbreak. Girls let's do better..
Omatherapycity
Its World Environmental Health Day, a reminder of our shared responsibility to safeguard the planet and our well-being. Environmental health affects us all, from the air we breathe to the water we drink. It's about ensuring clean air, safe food, and access to nature for everyone. Let's unite in our commitment to protect our environment, for a healthier and more sustainable future. Remember"We share one world, and we share one future. Let's come together to protect our planet and the health of all people, for a sustainable tomorrow." *AGINA IFEOMA CYNTHIA* (from the office of HEALTH CLUB, Environmental Health Science, unizik, Anambra State.)
Dreams are personal, that's why I encourage every young and old alike to dream.
Dream isn't something a teacher help you with. It's not something your mentor or youth pastor helps you with. rather it is something the entire world is anticipating big from you.
A man can go ahead and give birth to 10kids, with the hardship he'd still train them. bearing in mind that a day will come these ones (kids) will find themselves and become that which God called them into.
A dream isn't always easy, in fact it is more complicated because you're the only one seeing it. No one else can interpret it like you. You're the leader, fonder and manager. It's hard to even start because when it gets tough 90% of people back off. You only choose to become tough or quit.
But then, there's this fulfilment in dreams, the vision you see becomes your motivation. The end is worth the beginning and struggles. I sincerely encourage every dream pusher this night. Keep going, you're seen!
Share this to anyone who need to hear this word.
Credit: Omatherapycity.
My 5 personal advice to young girls like me:
1. *Know God*
donāt let them lie to you. Donāt let them make you feel when you serve God, you will be poor, or naĆÆve.
Serving God pays. The confidence and certainty that comes with knowing God canāt be underrated.
Your life will be honored by kings because youāre led by the kings of kings. You will attract only responsible folks. Your purpose will repel irrelevant men in your life. Ahh! Iām a *testimony*
2. *Donāt fake it*
Faking it till you make it is not realistic. Too many of you may not agree with this but the truth, you may end up not making at all. Living a fake life has a way of sending a wrong impression to others esp to people who might be of help to you. They will assume, you donāt need any help or like your life is perfect or youāre doing well. But me and you know say you need helpš *donāt look like your problem doesnāt mean you should fake it o*
3. *Stop jumping from dick to dick*š
A lot of young girls below 25 are already s*x addict..! Ahš you shouldnāt be proud of this babe. Being addictive to s*x originate from compromising your principles to please or keep a man. When youāre idle, it make it more easier to incubate such thoughts because you literally provide little or none for yourself. Stop the fornication, arenāt you tired?.. the ones you did, shey them still break your heart?.. what did you gain exactly..
just hip and b***s increase, and possibly infectionš
4. *Manage your circle*
I used to tell girls this a lot. If you have much circle of friends, thereās high tendencies that all of them may not be serious with life, destiny, business, academics etc. people often say, Iāve all kinds of friends but they wonāt influence me, drop that sh*t for someone else not meš except you donāt spend enough time with them. You begin to think and act like the person u stay longer with. If na one good friend you get wey get sense. Manage am like that! While you make other good folks
5. *Be futuristic
Your man asking for your n**e is one of the underrated red flags most of us overlook. I'm sure you were disappointed when you saw others, imagine you in that situation. Our world today judge the women more than men. Ladies say no to making NUDES..
The last time, I shared a teaching on 10 crucial questions to ask your intending spouse.. but today is a new lot. This article is wisdom filled as these questions are derived from my experiences in counseling and admitted mistakes my clients have shared with me.
This article is going for 1k for the first 20persons
Send a direct msg if interested.
(ebook is in pdf form.)
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE
(courting partners)
1. BEFORE WE MET, WHAT WERE YOUR VIEW ON MARRIAGE?
( listen carefully o. Here, you will know how closely related your view and his are)
2. HOW WILL OUR S*X LIFE CHANGE ONCE WE'RE MARRIED AND HOW WILL WE COMMUNICATE IF ONE OF US IS UNSATISFIED?
(majority of us may think s*x isn't that important, probably because you haven't started having it now. Chill, till you're married, you'll realized it's a big deal. Ideally, I don't advice you marry someone who can't s*xually satisfy you, except they're willing to improve)
3. HOW DO YOU SEE KIDS FITTING INTO OUR LIVES?
(This one is imperative when it comes to family building. Know his thoughts about family building and orientation. So you won't end up handling children alone and he will be in another country sending you moneyš. The kids deserve both parents love, timr and care)
4. IS THERE ANYTHING YOU LEARNED FROM YOUR PARENTS, OLDER RELATIVES OR OTHER ROLE MODELS ABOUT MARRIAGE?
( here, you get to hear the other people's kind of marriage and lifestyle he/she admires. Trust me, there's a high tendency of yours taking that shape)
5. IS THERE ANYTHING ABOUT OUR LIFE THAT YOU WANT TO CHANGE WHEN WE'RE MARRIED?
( Don't complain your husband/wife changed after 2-3 years in marriage.. lol he/ she might have started implementing those things he always wanted to do. But these changes should be communicated to you too)
6.HOW DO YOU DEFINE HOME?
( my dear, his or her definition here gives you a picture of your home, don't argue if your picture isn't aligning with his. Suggest yours and hear what he says) very important
7. HOW DO WE WANT TO SPLIT THE COST OF THINGS LIKE BILLS AND GROCERIES?
(don't assume he'd take 100% financial responsibility just because he spends on you now and you've not spent anything yet. Marriage no be relationship, you must surely contribute sth. There must convos on how bills is split)
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What's your fear?
I feel sorry for men whose sole aim is to become rich. You know why?
The reason why you attract the kinds of people around you is because you've things with them in common... You can only attract your kind.
You don't know frustration till you marry a partner whose vision and yours match no compatibility
You can't feel frustration till you walk down the aisle with a partner whose vision and dreams are completely different from yours.
What do you think our ladies needs proper orientation on?
What's your plan if no man marries you?
Aside the cases of r**e, No man can f**k you without pre informing you. Either verbally or otherwise.
Be intellectually alert about moves and foreplay.
S*x must be intentional....
don't blame any man for taking s*xual advantage of you.
Ladies,
Marriage is a long term task,
Make sure you take a PARTNER along not a PROJECT.
NB:you ain't a reconstruction centre for a badly raised man