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Hi guys!
Let's discuss some characteristics commonly exhibited by teenagers.

Emotional Traits
1. Mood Swings: Fluctuations in mood due to hormonal changes.
2. Increased Sensitivity: Heightened emotional reactions and sensitivity to criticism.
3. Search for Identity: Developing a sense of self and personal values.
4. Independence: Desire for more autonomy and freedom from parental control.

Cognitive Traits
1. Abstract Thinking: Ability to think more abstractly and hypothetically.
2. Risk-Taking: Increased propensity for taking risks and experimenting.
3. Questioning Authority: Challenging rules and questioning the status quo.
4. Future Orientation: Starting to think more about future plans, careers, and goals.

Social Traits
1. Peer Influence: Strong influence from and reliance on peer groups for validation and support.
2. Romantic Interests: Development of romantic and se*ual interests and relationships.
3. Social Media Usage: Heavy use of social media and digital communication.
4. Friendship Dynamics: Shifting and evolving friendships, sometimes with intense loyalty and occasional conflicts.

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As a parent, finding time to unwind can be challenging, but it's essential for your well-being. Here are some ways you can unwind:

1. Schedule "Me Time": Make it a priority to schedule time for yourself, even if it's just 15-30 minutes a day. Use this time to do something you enjoy, whether it's reading, taking a bath, or going for a walk.

2. Lean on Support: Don't hesitate to ask for help from your partner, family members, or friends. They can help with childcare so you can have some time to relax.

3. Exercise: Physical activity is a great way to relieve stress and clear your mind. Even a short walk or some yoga can make a big difference.

4. Practice Mindfulness or Meditation: Spend a few minutes each day practicing mindfulness or meditation to help calm your mind and reduce stress.

5. Get Creative: Engage in a creative hobby or activity that you enjoy, such as painting, cooking, or gardening. This can be a great way to relax and express yourself.

6. Disconnect: Take a break from screens and technology, especially before bedtime. Instead, spend quality time with your family or engage in activities that promote relaxation.

7. Prioritize Sleep: Make sure you're getting enough sleep each night. Lack of sleep can make it harder to cope with stress and can affect your overall well-being.

Remember, taking care of yourself is important not just for you, but also for your family. So don't feel guilty about making time for self-care.

Hi guys!

Do we discuss Mental Health Awareness enough in our society?

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Empowering teens to navigate life's challenges with confidence and resilience is what we're all about at TeenIgnite.

Our mission? To make parenting feel like a breeze while guiding teenagers toward a brighter future.
Let's join forces to craft an unforgettable journey filled with growth, learning, and endless possibilities.
Reach out, and together, let's ignite a lifelong experience of growth and fulfillment.

To all the incredible moms and the future moms-to-be,

Happy International Mother's Day!
Today, we celebrate the profound love, strength, and endless sacrifices that you make every day. Whether you're comforting a crying child, cheering on their achievements, or simply being their rock, your unwavering devotion shapes the world in profound ways.

Your nurturing spirit, boundless compassion, and tireless efforts do not go unnoticed. You are the heart and soul of our families, the guiding light in our lives, and the source of endless inspiration.

May today be filled with joy, laughter, and cherished moments with your loved ones. Here's to you, the superheroes without capes, the unsung heroes of everyday life. Thank you for all that you do, today and every day.

Happy Mother's Day! 🌸💖

Wishing all you parents, soon-to-be parents, and kiddos an amazing evening! 😘😘😘😘

As a counselor, let me share a story that illustrates the importance of treating all your children with love and fairness.
Imagine a family with two daughters, where the older one was perceived as more conventionally beautiful, while the younger one didn't quite fit that mold. Now, the mother, took a liking to the older one because she resembled her more in looks. So, she showered her with attention and praise, while the younger one often felt neglected.

Fast forward a bit, and the older sister starts attracting suitors left and right. But here's the twist: her mom, in her attempt to protect her, kept telling her she was too good for any of these men. Meanwhile, the younger sister, well, she didn't have much luck in the love department.

Then, out of the blue, a guy shows up for the younger sister. Can you believe it? The first and only one! So, she gets married and moves away, leaving her older sister behind. But here's where it gets messy: the older sister, feeling the pressure from her mom and desperate to please her, rushes into marriage with the next man who shows interest.

Now, hold onto your hats, because this marriage was a disaster. Lasted less than two years, and she barely made it out alive, metaphorically speaking. She ends up back at her dad's place, while her sister is living the dream in Canada.

You'd think that would be the end of it, right? But nope, the damage was done. These sisters grew up resenting each other, thanks to their mom's favoritism. It took them years to even start patching things up, and even now, their relationship is kinda like trying to dance with two left feet.

So, here's the moral of the story, folks: as parents, it's crucial to treat all your kids with love and fairness. Sure, they might have different strengths and weaknesses, but that's what makes them unique. Don't play favorites or try to mold them into something they're not. Because at the end of the day, your job is to raise a bunch of kiddos who not only love each other but actually like hanging out together. And trust me, that's a whole lot easier when everyone feels seen, heard, and loved for who they are. So, let's all strive to be the cool, fair parents our kids deserve, alright?

Hi guys,
I asked a question yesterday about favoritism, now let me explain.

Playing favorites among children can be damaging to their self-esteem and emotional well-being. It can breed resentment, jealousy, and feelings of inadequacy in the child who perceives themselves as less favored. Additionally, it can strain sibling relationships and create long-term issues within the family dynamic.

Parents should strive to treat each child fairly and equally, acknowledging their individual strengths, weaknesses, and needs. While it's natural for parents to have unique bonds with each child, openly showing favoritism can have negative consequences on their development and relationships. Instead, parents should focus on fostering a supportive and nurturing environment where each child feels valued and loved for who they are.

I will be sharing a true life story tomorrow morning.
Dont miss it!

Are you still playing favorites?
Do you favor a child over his or her siblings?

Striving for perfection in parenthood can be akin to pursuing a rainbow—elusive and unattainable. Rather than fixating on an unattainable ideal, prioritize being present and supportive for your child.
Actively listen, demonstrate understanding, and consistently display care and affection. Accepting that mistakes are inevitable fosters growth and learning, for both parents and children. Parenthood is a tumultuous journey, characterized by highs, lows, and unforeseen challenges.
Embracing these imperfections enriches the experience, allowing for the appreciation of its inherent beauty.
Good Morning!

Lead by Example: Children learn more from what you do than what you say. Be the person you want your child to become. Model kindness, empathy, resilience, and integrity in your actions and interactions. Show them how to navigate challenges with grace and determination. By embodying the values you wish to instill in your child, you create a powerful foundation for their own development and growth.

Good morning! As you begin your day, remember to greet it with a smile. Challenges may come your way, but don't let them consume you entirely. You have the strength to overcome every hurdle that comes your way. Rise above them with determination and resilience. Wishing you a great day ahead from all of us here at TeenIgnite😀😁

"Parenting effectively means supporting your child's aspirations, not projecting your own unmet desires onto them. Avoid imposing your dreams and ambitions onto your child. They are unique individuals with their own thoughts and desires.

YOUR HOME IS TOO SMALL TO RAISE KINGS AND QUEENS!!!

What we see in the world today is confirmation that the end time is near,

No, these issues are not going away instead they will be multiplied,

What we do to keep our young ones preserved from these issues is what counts.

Dear parents,
Permit me to say that your home is too small to raise kings and queens,

Your children need to soar high, explore, and interact with their environment if they must reach their full potential.

No one lights a candle and puts it under a bushel Matt 5:15,

Your child is a light to his/her generation this light must shine fort to dominate,

However, how we create a roadmap, our parenting strategies, and the companies they keep will determine how far or how long their light will shine,

This is why we are bringing you a family away from home,

Where every child is empowered and mentored to reach their full potential,

Where every child is equipped with the right knowledge to withstand pressure.

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FEED YOUR CHILDREN'S SPIRITUAL LIFE.

Dear parents,

Don't go about assuming your kids will learn when they grow up.

Assumptions have led many parents to produce badly raised children,

See your child as a blank slate that has been given to you to write on,

Train up your child in the way he should go,

The world we live in now is too corrupt for trial and error,

Be intentional about your approach,

What kind of a child do you intend to raise?

Just like you set goals for everything you intend to achieve,

What parenting goal have you set for the year?

Peace🥰

WHAT PARENTING STYLE HAVE YOU ADOPTED?

Some weeks back, I made a post about how our parenting styles influence our children,

I also included that children are not the problem but the parenting styles we have chosen to adopt in our various homes.

Let me show you the four parenting styles,

Each style has distinct characteristics and can impact a child's development differently,

👉The Authoritarian Parenting style:

Authoritarian parents are strict and demanding, expecting unquestioning obedience. Rules are established without much room for negotiation or explanation.

Communication is one-way, where the parent's rules and expectations are emphasized without much feedback from the child.

Children raised by authoritarian parents may develop good discipline but might struggle with decision-making and social skills. They may also exhibit a fear of failure.

👉Authoritative Parenting Style:

Authoritative parents are firm but supportive. They set clear expectations and rules while also being responsive to their child's needs. There is room for open communication and negotiation.
Communication is two-way communication is encouraged. Authoritative parents explain rules, listen to their child's perspective, and encourage independent thinking.
Children raised in authoritative households tend to be more socially competent, self-reliant and have higher self-esteem.
They learn to make decisions and solve problems effectively.

👉Permissive Parenting Style:

Permissive parents are indulgent and lenient, often avoiding confrontation and allowing a high degree of freedom without setting clear boundaries.
The communication style tends to be friendly and indulgent, with few demands or expectations. Children raised in permissive environments may struggle with self-control, exhibit entitlement, and face challenges with authority figures. They might also find it difficult to adapt to rules outside the home.

👉Uninvolved Parenting Style:

Uninvolved parents are neglectful and disengaged. They provide minimal emotional support, lack involvement in their child's life, and may neglect basic needs.
Communication Style is Limited communication, with little emotional support or guidance.
Children raised by uninvolved parents may experience a range of issues, including emotional difficulties, lower self-esteem, and challenges forming healthy relationships. They may also struggle academically and exhibit behavioral problems.

Haven't learned this, what parenting style have you adopted?

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The insights gained so far have been enlightening,

shedding light on the unique needs and developmental stages of children.

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YOU MIGHT JUST BE DOING SOMETHING WRONG.

so your child is heading to the higher institutions,

Wow, congratulations🤝

Are you aware that the higher institutions are different from secondary schools?

Have you told that to your child?

Have you educated your child about life in higher institutions or you want a case of landlord travel and see 😀?

Dear parents,
Let's stop taking chances with everything,

Times have changed,

The world is evolving,

Do the needful or allow your child to fall victim.

I will be here waiting to discuss life in a higher institution with your child.

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Yesterday I visited a very prominent member of the state government.

While I sat waiting to see him I met one of my big bros.

He was quite excited to see me,

He applauded me for what I was doing with the teenagers,

He encouraged me to keep going,

I have even more tips from him on how to navigate further.

It gave me a feeling of fulfillment, knowing that someone was out there observing everything I have been putting my efforts into for the teenagers.

When he asked what inspired my decision to start mentoring teenagers, I replied that I was created for a time like this.

I will continue to do more with the help of God.

Grateful for the privilege to serve.🙌

Yesterday, I was in SS1 to teach Biology, When it was evaluation time, I asked random questions from the topic,

When it got to the turn of a particular student who is one of the chief noise makers in the class,

he stood up and said to me boldly, "I don't know biology"

I replied, of course, you don't know it that is why I am here to teach you,

His response was, I don't want to know Biology

A lot of us adults are like this student,

We find it difficult to learn, relearn, and unlearn.

I once had a colleague who insisted that she could never work with the reviewed scheme of work, according to her, she was among the first set of teachers that were employed, so every other person who was employed after her has no right to tell her what to do including management staffs.

Such mindsets breed mediocrity, creating a struggle against progress. The resistance to new knowledge, whether in a classroom or workplace, limits our potential. It's a reminder that growth requires embracing change.

In both scenarios, the refusal to learn reflects a mindset issue.

As adults, clinging to outdated beliefs inhibits personal and professional development.

Let's break free from the shackles of stubbornness.

The world evolves, and so should we.

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Our mission is to raise 10/10 kids and teenagers who are smart, confident, and in the right moral standing.

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Classes commence: 3rd February

Investment: 12500/3months

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TEEN-IGNITE ACADEMY is an online
community for kids/Teenagers.

Our mission is to raise 10/10 kids and teenagers who are smart, confident, and in the right moral standing.

With the surge in moral decadence in our society today, we are bridging the gap with our mentoring community.

*Exclusive packages;*
👉 Life-changing enrichment programs
👉Captivating mentoring sessions
👉Purpose unveiling
👉Power-packed communication skills
👉Empowering s*x education
👉 Biblical truth
👉Accountability sessions and an abundance of surprise packages.

*Venue: From the comfort of your home because it is 💯 virtual

Classes commence: 3rd February

Investment: 12500/3months

Click to register, chat +2349015316991

Teen Ignite Hub I mentor boys and girls aged 5-20.

I am your best accountability partner when it comes to parenting.

TEEN-IGNITE ACADEMY is an online
community for kids/Teenagers.

Our mission is to raise 10/10 kids and teenagers who are smart, confident, and in the right moral standing.

With the surge in moral decadence in our society today, we are bridging the gap with our mentoring community.

*Exclusive packages;*
👉 Life-changing enrichment programs
👉Captivating mentoring sessions
👉Purpose unveiling
👉Power-packed communication skills
👉Empowering s*x education
👉 Biblical truth
👉Accountability sessions and an abundance of surprise packages.

*Venue: From the comfort of your home because it is 💯 virtual

Classes commence: 3rd February

Investment: 12500/3months

Click to register: https://rb.gy/mp1f3k or chat +2349015316991 or apply directly at https://bit.ly/Teenignite

In this age and time, parents need to step up their parenting game.

It's not enough to give your child everything the child asks for,

How are you impacting their lives?

What morals are you installing?

Are you proud of the child you are raising?

A lot is going on in society and most parents still live in denial.

Why live what you can do now for later?

I understand that most of you are very busy, and I also understand that a lot of you have not mastered the right skills for proper communication,

With the current pressure of social media on young adults and teenagers it is detrimental to leave anything to chance.

This is why we have created the Kid/Teen Ignite Academy to support your parenting journey and help you groom a well-rounded individual.

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My first mentee wasn't a teenager,

He is a man in his late 30's.

He was struggling with life and carrying a lot of baggage.

He was depressed,

He was frustrated,

You could hear him talk from a place of sorrow,

I felt pity for him but no pity,

The first session we had, was about 4hrs,

He tried all he could to convince me why he was tired and couldn't continue,

After my session with him, it was as though they poured cold water on him,

He cried, and he told me he had never heard this truth all his life.

He followed all instructions he was given, the first was to forgive himself, let go of all his excess baggage, and make himself visible so he could use his talent.

One month into our mentorship, he was invited by ROK Studios to participate in one of their projects,

He called to inform me how he got another job from the first project.

This is somebody who almost gave up on life.

Why am I sharing this?

Everyone needs someone to talk to.

When life becomes overwhelming, there is always someone ready to hold your hand and show you the way to victory.

That is what mentorship is all about,

At our Easter Bootcamp, we will be mentoring teenagers from across the world.

Helping them overcome life challenges and giving them a voice.

Get ready!

Do you only focus on your teenager's look?

Let me stop you there ✋

Now pay attention to this,

Raising a teenager is no walk in the park, I always say this, because it is the most difficult stage of a child's life.

Teenage years are characterized by crises ranging from identity to acceptance to peer pressure, media, and social pressure, etc.

Now, the question is, as a parent, what are you doing to empower your teenager for trouble-free teenage years?

Are you going to buy more clothes or do you focus on acquiring resources that will promote your teenager's well-being?

The choice is completely up to you.

Application is now open for TEEN-IGNITE ACADEMY

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You can now APPLY FOR the Next Cohort of TEEN IGNITE ACADEMY Mentorship Program starting 3rd February, 2024.

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Parenting hits a sweet spot when your teenager can confidently decipher between right and wrong. It's a powerful milestone that reflects the values and guidance you've instilled.

This has been evident in my teen church, school, and home as I have mastered the acts of communicating with the teenagers and kids around me.

Creating a system that regulates the child is an effective parenting tool.

I want to help you by creating a system that regulates your child.

The system that will guide your child in choosing between right and wrong.

The truth will be in place when you are not in the picture.

This will only be revealed to those who will join us in our Easter boot camp.

In April 2024, we shall be welcoming teenagers from around the world to our first virtual ester boot camp.

We aim to empower your teenagers to grow, create a supportive environment, and live a lasting transformative encounter.

Details of the ester boot camp coming soon!

I will tell you a secret that no one has ever told you.

Teenagers/kids love being praised for their little wins.

When it comes to parenting and mentoring, there's a secret weapon that often goes unnoticed but holds incredible transformative power:

PRAISE. If there's one thing that resonates deeply with teenagers and kids alike, it's the joy of being acknowledged and celebrated for their little wins.

It's no secret that teenagers face unique challenges of self-discovery and growth.

Amidst the complexities, the impact of praise on their developing personalities is profound. Whether it's acing a test, mastering a new skill, or displaying kindness, recognizing and celebrating these small victories can create a ripple effect of positivity.

I have employed this strategy over and again with my mentees and it has proven to be effective.

You should try it out with your kids/teenagers today.