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Do you know that a man can die of too much s***m in the body?
THE NEW VISION OF THIS GROUP
For a long time now this group has been known as "science and nature great fact" but the narrative has changed. The world is full of young people who don't know their purpose or what they have been called to do. The assignment of this group is to build a community of great minds, where people are built and sent to fulfill their place in Destiny
There's no doubt that most of us has been in relationship, some are still in a relationship and we do have some burning questions we feel we need answers to. From today henceforth, this group will tackle more of life relationship problems that you may need solution to.
S*x wise, a lot of ladies don't know their body language, they don't know the difference between cu***ng and squirting, they don't know how s*x influences the gender of a baby. This we will be discussing in this group
But we can't do this without cooperation. Always comment your thoughts and ask questions in the comment section, we will be going global soon and I want you to go with us
Thank you and remain blessed
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I respect you
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What is the right age to be in a relationship?
This write-up will be more of value to the guys
Read carefully
There's no doubt that a relationship is a beautiful thing. It's lovely I can tell you that with ๐ฏ certainty, there are times as we keep growing up we feel we need someone in our lives. Most females out of fear have rejected many guys their hearts long for
Many guys too have made a grave mistakes in relationship decision
I will be writing 90% of my experience in relationship
I've been in this relationship stuff for quite a while now, I understand that most of us feel maybe it's good to enter into a relationship from age 18, some 20, some no relationship till marriage
You all may be right in your understanding, but scripturally speaking, there is no particular age for marriage, but there are signs to show a man is ready for a relationship or marriage
Let's roll
When I see most relationships today, I see nothing then two people having s*x at will and going out to restaurant to eat. When I look at a relationship today, it's just like two people who are enjoying their youthful life, with no vision, no priority, and no end goal in life
You know the funny part, deep down they know they ain't gonna get married
I'm sorry if I'm being blunt, but the truth must be said
There were times I thought I needed a girlfriend, I cried begging someone to stay in my life, but when they left I realized in reality I didn't need a girlfriend yet. A man who is not walking already toward his purpose in life does not need a girl
I repeat, a man who is not walking already toward his purpose in life does not need a girlfriend
When Adam was created, why didn't God create eve immediately?
Adam first walked in his calling, in his purpose and God saw that he needs a helper and he made him a woman. But many guys in relationships have no vision, no mission, and no destination
They're just looking for a girl to have s*x with, foreplay with, and all that. These are not why God created women
They are meant to be helpers but only to men who have found their place in life
You don't have a job, you're not making even 10k a month and you have a girlfriend, you're spending the little change your dad is giving you on her, isn't that madness?
There's no specific age for marriage or relationship, you don't need a woman to walk in your purpose in life
You need to walk in your purpose before you need a woman
The reason you're so hell-bent on having that girl, isn't really because of love tho you feel it is
It's because you're always h***y and need someone to satisfy your lust. Ladies be careful, any man that asks you out the same day and invite you to his house is a thief and destiny destroyer. Any man that meets you for the first time and starts talking nonsense is no man but a child
Real men go after potential, they go after abilities not necessarily beauty, you have to have what I need for me to approach you, s*x and s*x can be offered by all women but vision and goals only a few carry
Bro relationship is not your problem, build your life, build your future, build your dream, as you go high in life women will come after you. Stop using the money you're supposed to buy a sub to give to a girl. Invest in your life
You see guys that shout girls are gold diggers are broke guys!!!! Guys steal eating from their dads' pocket
A girl cannot eat the money of a real man completely because such a man knows how to multiply wealth
Imagine your boyfriend earns 200k monthly and gives you 20 sometimes 50k monthly, can you finish the money of such a man? Absolutely no because the more he gives you the more it comes
You have to fan your dream sir, a relationship with the wrong person will cripple you completely. It was after my break up with someone I love so much that I realized this truth
No lady will love to marry an unsuccessful man in the future bro
Read it again
Every lady I repeat every lady you're dating now will leave you tomorrow when they find someone better than you. Even I too will leave you, I'm being realistic here. Fan your dream, build your purpose, the people you need more in your life at age 20+ are burden bearers, Destiny helpers, and people that bring you closer to your dream
If you must enter into a relationship, let it be with someone that fans the flames of your vision
Billy Graham said, "when I found my wife, I knew I have found her, without her, I wouldn't be what I am today". If your girlfriend doesn't motivate you to do more you're not in a relationship sir, it's just another disaster waiting to happen.
I remember the times I used to blame my h***y nature because I'm a virgin, but then I realized this has nothing to do with virginity, it's about discipline and decision
Decide today to build your dreams
Stop raising your sch fees and other fees higher than normal to give the money to a girl. Bro your future is speaking to you. You reading this you once thought in your heart why you guys are not well off
Be careful if not your children too will ask you that question.
Be careful bro, you don't need a girlfriend, you need a vision, a purpose you need to find your place in life and area of calling
Your mates are learning skills, crying to God, and building themselves and their lives, your knacking every night, taking someone's daughter out with the money you don't even have, bro you're eating your future today, I pray you don't shout I know him tomorrow when your mates rise.
Sir bow down to a spiritual entity in the days of your youth. No one has risen to greatness without bowing down to something sir
I chose to bow down to God now I'm striving to the top, I pray life wouldn't bring you
To a level where you'd be forced to bow down at a very old age.
If you haven't found your vision
If you haven't found your purpose
If you haven't found yourself
A relationship is not for you.
Women are helpers to men who have found their purpose and men who are walking in that purpose
If not you'd see her as nothing more than a s*x machine, but those entities are gateways to strange mysteries, they're so powerful than you can imagine, but only a man who has found himself can unlock that key in a woman
Your future is shaped by your actions today, work hard to build that future bro, if not you will live the rest of your life in vain
I love you so much that's why I tell you the truth ๐ค๐ค๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
It's a beautiful morning my bosses ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
Surly goodness and mercy shall follow you, it wasn't an option bro, it's a command ๐ค๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฏ
You are fearfully and wonderfully made, live life like the king and queen you are and don't live at the mercy of anyone, your destiny is tied with God, not with man
See you tonight
FOR LADIES
HOW TO KNOW A GUY WHO WANTS TO USE YOU OR PLAY YOU AS A LADY
THIS ARTICLE WILL HELP YOU
Sometimes as a lady, you are faced with making decisions, sometimes you make those decisions out of feelings. From studies, an average good-looking girl has at least 3 guys who are all asking her out
The striking beautiful ones have at least 5 guys asking them out
You might have a hard time making decisions based on who to accept and call mine
To spot the one who is out to play you
1. He talks nothing else except romantic talks with you: See romantic talks aren't bad, they're a good way to strengthen a relationship that will lead to marriage, but whenever it seems a guy has nothing else to say to you except romance, baby all the time, you're beautiful, your breast is big or your ass is standing
That's a red flag, but ladies fall, victim, because they're loyal to feelings
Listen, dear sis, no man want you aside from your body who won't have otter intricate values to appreciate you on. When I speak to females, beauty is the last thing I comment on, if I don't see any values to commend you on, I don't care how beautiful you are, you are very ugly
Stop making vital decisions in life out of feeling, you should not get involved with any guy who doesn't see something in you, so valuable and deep to commend on
Don't get involved with that guy who always talks to you about romance and beauty, sister in marriage it takes more than beauty to keep a man. I've met people oh, I have seen real beauties, but I hardly comment on that because I know how feeble the beauty of a woman is
2. He's not committed: Please watch out for this, any man who is out to play you is usually a man not committed to any cause, he may have the money but there's nothing he's ready to sacrifice his life for
Vision
Faith
Family, I can die for these three, with my blood I can defend it, what is he loyal to? If a man isn't loyal to a cause he can not be loyal to you, be careful a committed man who is loyal to a cause is a man governed by principles who wouldn't intentionally go out to sleep with you and then dump you
Commitment to a cause is a true mark of a man who can truly father a child
Any guy who is out to use and dump you is mostly not serious about life, probably he doesn't even have a job but depends on stipends from home, dear watch out.
3. HIS WORDS: No matter how much good a man tries to display, the real character of a man is hidden in words
Fear that guy who isn't committed to seeing you succeed, fear that guy who doesn't even know your plans to pass this semester
Be careful sis, humans are cunning and men are truly cunning, I am a man I tell you bluntly. Be careful of a guy who doesn't talk future with you, be careful of a guy who's not interested in your dream and purpose
You've got a life sis, that man should be caring enough to ask how you're gonna make your dream come through
A man who isn't polite to strangers
A man who's quick to anger
A man who has nothing to say except I love you
A man who is not committed to a cause
Is a man out to play you
He may be all nice, but if he's scared of including you with intentionality in his speech about his future, you should fear him
I have been broken before, I have been hurt, I have once cried to be loved and cared for, I have begged someone to please don't go, dear, it's something that can tear even the strongest of us apart
Be careful in your love life, be extremely careful, for each heartbreak, each love that fails, something gets broken in you
I got broken to the point I'm overly kind, and speak to strangers with so much respect
To the point, I perceive lies from afar
I'm not nice or kind by nature, someone made me feel so much pain that I made a promise to myself never to make others feel that way. Beneath the smile is a lonely heart seeking affection
I don't want you to walk down that path
Be careful sis, be careful, no one is immune to love
Choose rightly
READ THIS AND YOUR SUCCESS IS GUARANTEED
Read And Practice This And Your Success Is GURANTEEED
Let's rapport
There's no doubt that each and everyone of us seeks success, but there's a profound character you must develop as one who seeks global success
In life man has learnt to tame the wildest animal, man has accomplished the impossible
But there's one that all humans fall victim of, there's one that holds the power to your success and failure in life
If you must be successful you must tame it
Every type of success aw wishes to achieve in life has a basic code, the basic code is the foundational principles for that success that must not be skipped. In Christianity there's the foundational knowledge of God
Without this knowledge the foundation of your Christianity is not strong
The first foundational requirement for success is THE POWER OF POSITIVE AFFIRMATION AND TOTAL BELIEVE IN THY ABILITY
The words were frames by the word of God, in genesis he said, let us make man before actually making man, and he called us gods, which means we are co creators
Understand this, words are seed, they act like an atmosphere to program our life for success or collosal failure
There are things you don't, you shouldn't, you need not say to your self
I CANT IS NOT IN MY VOCABULARY.
If there's any kind of success any man has ever achieved in life, you too can, stop saying it might not work, I can't do this. This semester I'm having 12 As, I CAN,
the words you say to yourself are like seeds to your future, I've met very intelligent people but the problem is most of them don't even believe they're intelligent
I once made a lady with striking intelligence but she never believed she's intelligent, this made her to be totally dependent on others for her success
There's nothing I can't understand, there's nothing I can't learn, it all start by first saying you can. Stop speaking failures, stop speaking lies, stop speaking fears into your future. As I am now, I am already seeing myself as a global success, provided by mind can see it, it will definitely take my body there if I'm intentional about it
As far as your eyes can see
When you look at exams coming up on December, what do you see?
Failure? Dismay?
Or I can do it attitude? Going into a battle with doubt in your ability to win the battle is outright failure in the battle field
When I tell you I know where I am coming from, don't doubt me, I grew up dejected, no self confidence, no self esteem, in fact I never for once thought it will be possible for me one day to teach and lead thousands of aspirants
In fact if a pastor had said it I would have doubted it, until one day
I sincerely appreciate God for my ability to learn from observation, the fastness to drop limiting believe and the grace for adaptation. I will never forget year's ago, I entered into a new school, a friend of mine from my former school came in same time with me. And that term, he scored first position
I was surprised to see that, I was astonished, I couldn't believe it, it looked so impossible, like how can you come from somewhere and just score first position
I stylishly asked him his secret,
He said "God didn't create anyone dull, we can all pray for wisdom, but it takes reading and self believe to actually be intelligent academically" I asked again, you said reading right? He said yea, I said ok
I read, I read, I read till my eye burned, I was so determined to get similar results by the end of the term
Guess what! I came second
This created a psychological and a paradigm shift in my mind, from that day I had the conviction, please know that conviction is stronger than belief, I had the conviction that ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE
This is why I don't talk the talk of mediocre, I don't say I cannot do it, I don't talk small
Why? Because it is possible
You're intelligent, you're great, you're awesome, sir all this you won't experience if you don't belief in yourself with conviction
Understand thyself, stop using derogatory words on yourself, stop limiting yourself
There's absolutely no limit, I repeat, no limit to the level of success in life you can achieve except the limit you place in your mind
I was made an admin few years ago in a group of 80,000 aspirants, see me an see leading 80k people, I realized that to whom much is given much is expected, on each subject I had 4 text books and with humility and sincerity I read them all
See there's nothing special about those achieving the type of results you want
They're just putting more work
They just believe it can be done, you too should dare to believe, dare to try, dare to trust in your ability and God
Everything is possible to him who believe
Believing + intentionality towards your goal will inevitably bring you success
I love you.
God loves you more
HOW TO CHOOSE WHO TO MARRY AS A LADY
So many guys are around me and I don't know who to choose
I want to get married but it's difficult making choices
Let's have a mature discussion
As a lady you would have probably experienced this, it seems everyone is in love with you, especially if you're beautiful, sometimes you find it hard to decode who loves you
But I'm here to help you
A relationship is one thing you shouldn't enter under duress, you should take your time, and you should first know what you want as a lady
What are your criteria for rating a guy? Money and a fine face isn't enough reason to marry a man, s*x isn't enough, there got to be something else in that man that makes you want him.
See we live in a cruel generation, if a fine face and money is your only reason, then you are in for a fatal mistake
When a man comes around you, ask him what he wants from you
Some guys don't know what they want in a lady, some just need a s*x partner while others need a companion, what a man needs in a woman is determined by the type of future the man wants for himself
You should never date a man who doesn't know where he sees himself in the next 10 years, for a man to be loyal to you he must first be loyal to something
I'm too committed to my dream and visions to the point I can give anything to make them a reality under God. Such men don't have time to flirt around with just any girl they see. Understand this, my dear, it's very important, if your boyfriend doesn't know or can't tell you with certainty the plans he has for his life in the next few years, you should be careful of making him a dad
2. How much does he care about you? It's not about the calls, I don't know if you've noticed this
When a guy is trying to woo you newly, he calls almost all the time, sends airtime and all, then after you've said yes for a while, things tend to change. Most times you don't rate the caring attitude of a man by how many times he calls
You know how much a man cares by how much of his attention he gives even to the silly things you have to say
Understand this, time is the most precious thing to a man who has found purpose
Sincerely speaking before I sleep I have already planned the next day, if you visit me without calling me first, you are on your own, if I invite you and you waste my time I'd call you and tell you to stay back
Time is so precious to a visionary man that he can't afford to waste it on rubbish
For such a man to give you his undivided attention for some time a day is a love
Be watchful
Does he respect the boundaries you've set out for yourself? One promise I made to myself was never to impose my beliefs and perception on anyone, I'd respect yours, and agree with you, while I uphold mine to myself.
Some time ago I argued with a friend who insisted that the bible was written by the Catholic Church
I told him this is scripturally not true and historically false, because the book of Isaiah was the oldest scripture that even Jesus himself read in the temple as a child
He kept on insisting, then I realized that humans are not very loyal to logic but to emotions, I understood that because someone grew up believing something it will be difficult to discard it even if it's wrong. I said ok I believe you no problem
As a lady, there should be a boundary between what you can accept and what you can't in a relationship
A man who loves you will respect those boundaries, if there's any need for an adjustment he'd communicate it with respect and interesting
Approach.
3. He corrects you when wrong: most guys don't do this, a man who loves you will tell you the truth and correct you when wrong but never in public. Most guys think that if they correct their pretty girlfriends or if they disagree with her then they'd break up with them
The truth is, all women, read this again, all women by nature love masculinity and a sense of protection from their spouses
Don't be a simp
She won't tell you, but most times she likes it when you tell her to do this or do that when you take a stance on something and do not always succumb to her suggestions. Ladies love it when they tell their friends " no my boo won't accept this" it gives them an air of respect knowing that there's someone they're accountable to who in turn is man enough to protect them
If you keep saying yes to a lady all the time you lose your self-worth in her perception
Finally
As a lady, do not marry a man who doesn't know God. Marriage isn't a relationship, a relationship can end in a day, marriage is a covenant. You need a prayerful, romantic, and kind man as a husband
Trust me they exist. Don't make marriage decisions based on what your friends feel is good for you
Remember if it fails tomorrow, you bear the bunt
TODAY LET'S DISCUSS ON S*X
S*x
let's have a mature discussion
You know, s*x is one topic most people are afraid to talk about. There are many things you don't know about s*x and your body mechanism that are very important and essential for you
Let's have a mature discussion
Please below 18 keep off๐๐
Aside from money, s*x and intimacy is another thing that causes problems in marriages, most ladies will tell you sincerely that they haven't reached or**sm before since they got married
Most women are tired of pretending as though there enjoying it while they're not
I don't care how religious you are sir, if you don't know how to handle your wife well you can not build a successful home
S*x is like a gum that binds two people together, if or**sm is not reached there no fulfillment in it. I've seen most guys just want to have s*x, no fore play, no nothing, you just wanna f**k
See, without emotional attachment there's no mutual fulfilment in it
Let's dive in
Before you have s*x with a lady you must understand her body language, every woman has a body language, what turns her on, what gets her going. You see, if a ladies body language is slow kissing on the neck with romantic words and you're trying to force your way
She wouldn't be turned on, and having s*x with your wife when she's not turned on is torturing
Let's continue
When you come back from work as a man and you wanna have s*x with your wife, get all romantic, you can join her in the bathroom, by then you know what she likes
The neck of a woman is very sensitive, reminding your wife how beautiful she is, is a very good starting point
Even if you don't last long as a married man, this will help you
Hug her from behind and tell her you love her close to her ears, slowly kiss her neck while telling her how beautiful she is. By now she knows what you want
Kiss her passionately, passionate kiss is a way to build up emotions
Fo**le her b***s, this is a very sensitive area of the woman's body
Don't dive into sucking her b***s immediately, slowly lick the ni***es while using the tip of your finger to romance the other ni***es. By now you'd be hearing soft moans
Then start sucking the ni***es, bite the tip of the ni***es a bit, this will make her to be in the mood the more
By now she's moaning, don't put it in yet
You see, as a man you need discipline to truly put a lady in the mood before having s*x with her, a man can get turned on easily buy a lady takes little time and effort
Stick your fingers around her va**na and romance it while you keep sucking the b***s, by now she's very much in the mood
Get down and let her raise her leg, than stick your tongue inside hrs
You'd say it's disgusting, it's only for married people please. If you don't do this to your wife she's really missing, stick your tongue inside it and suck it, she'd be shouting now and even pressing your head, you'd feel her va**na area very wet
Now understand something as a married man, if you're married there's no shame in this especially If your woman loves it
Suck her deeply and well, by now she's begging for the s*x
Lick her cl****is, then rub your dick on her va**na before putting it in, then go in slowly before increasing the speed
Remember, you need to know your wife, some like rough s*x, some like it slow, don't be ashamed to ask her the type she wants, then give it to her the way she wants it
Remind her you love her, thrust it in deeply and hit the G spot
After about sometime, when done well, she will proba
Tell you she's about to cum. After the s*x, tell her she's sweet and you enjoyed every bit of it. As a lady give your husband the style he wants, don't lie there like a log, be flexible and active
When done we'll, by now 30 min is gone, foreplay took over 20 min and s*x 10min
Trust me even if you're a 10min man she wouldn't really know
S*x is a bind
S*x is part of life in marriage
S*x is required to sustain a marriage
S*x makes your husband bond more with you
I'm sorry if it's too gross, if you don't know this another who knows will steal your spouse from you
Stop seeing studying about s*x as something bad
It's a gift from God for the married
TODAY ON PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT SESSION
THE ONE THING THAT MAKES SOMEONE TO TRULY AND GENUINELY STAND OUT FROM THE CROWD
Let's discuss.
If you must attain success in life, you must be way above average, you can't be average and you want to active results meant for those that are far above average.
We live in a digital world, here and there you're told to learn skills, learn this, get good at this, but tonight I want to teach you, the one thing that can set you on the path of glorious destiny
Sometime ago, I was coming into bus stand from inside school, the gate was locked by 7pm, I was quite angry because it was still early, there was a girl at the gate from the inside, the guy behind me asked her to call those that locked the gate
She replied very rudely, I didn't say anything, but in my mind, nothing will ever make me come close to this girl no matter what
The world is full of great people with potential but a lot lack character, you see skills are important, education is very important, they can take you places, but only character can determine how long you will stay at the top
There are some ladies that are so insulting because they feel they're beautiful, at 20 to 26 all your beauty as a lady comes out
You are tempted to think you will remain that way forever
I've seen people date over 5 guys in one year, this one offended you, you left, this one doesn't have money as you want, you left, but in all these relationships you have never brought anything meaningful in the relationship aside s*x.
Men are not stupid, the same man that called you baby and took you out for launch is the same man that will marry another lady, you're only good for social event not for marriage
Character is built over time, it is not outsource, you don't pray for good character, it is a conscious and intentional growth and observation.
Sometime ago a friend messages me for help, it turns out I don't have what he's looking for, he didn't reply the message again
I've built my life to the point if you say no to my request I reply "thank you very much "
In this life until you fully understand
The role character plays in your destiny you will continue to be rude to people. There are those in leadership that are unapproachable, to truly grow to the point in life where you will help lots of people you need high level of empathy and understanding.
When it comes to political acumen, it's just a game of understanding, the one that understands the pain of the masses with empathy wins
Money don't change people, they just bring out the deeper level of their personality. Be intentional in your growth, I can not enter a tricycle and not greet, I can't come down and not say thank you before paying. Yeah it's my money, it makes no sense
But genuine kindness isn't only in money , it's in understanding and in words
Be intentional about your growth, words are seed, most of you have said what you feel like and have lost lots of friends
It's not about saying the truth, it's about how the truth was said, constructive criticism breeds kindness and it takes a man of great understanding to lead people.
Be very careful with this attitude of it's how I am, it's not how you are, we all can adjust and change for the better, stop blaming your stupidity to zodiac signs, in the cooperate world out there, no one gives a s**t of your birth month or year
Be considerate with words, think it through before saying it. Better lose the argument than losing a friend, be polite and kind in deeds, education can get you places, skills can fetch you lots of money, but true character brings true friends.
Whether you think the world is wicked that's why you should be, whether you think someone broke you so you should be hostile to people
Principles don't change, when it comes to great destiny and future, building great character determines how long you will
As a guy don't be blinded by the illusion of many friends when things are going well for you. Success has many friends, but take notes of those who were there to wipe your tears when no one else cared whether you live or die
Build genuine character, you may not have the money to lend someone, after few days chat them to know how they were able to sought themselves out
We live in a generation devoid of character that can keep and preserve relationships, yet we cry for loss of friends.
Be intentional about your life
Build your character
Find your purpose
Make friends of like minds
Grow in spirituality
Fall in love with someone visionary
The world isn't as bad as we think, if we can only show genuine kindness, in word and in deeds