Mr Pawan

Some small things that i do to discipline myself..

1. I don't force myself to work. It doesn't mean I sit on the sofa all day and eat chips. I act from inspiration, not desperation. Desperation is "Oh my god I am not being productive, I suck". If you act from this place, you will drain quickly and end up with chips again. Instead, let the laziness play out. After a few hours, you will naturally find the urge to work and it won't run out.

2. I don't solve 20% of my problems. 20% of action results in 80% of the progress. The remaining 80% action you should ignore. Ignore problems like, "Does she like me?" "What to wear today?" - Someone liking you or wearing the perfect clothes won't change your life. Save your mental faculty for the bigger problems that will change your life like "How can I improve my business?" "How can I master my mind?"

3. I observe my thoughts and feelings. Your mind wants the cheap pleasure of senses while keeping you stuck, like a pig who eats in the mud. You need to free yourself from this by cultivating an awareness that can't be tricked by your mind "Mind is a great slave but a terrible master, don't let it be your master."

How we see God is a direct reflection of how we see ourselves. If God brings to mind mostly fear and blame, it means there is too much fear and blame inside us. If we see God as full of love and compassion, so are we.

You have 3 balls in your hand . Among them 1 made from rubber and 2 from glass .
Rubber ball- Property
Glass ball - Family and Health
Please don't drop glass ball .You know the reason , rubber ball came back but glass ball can't .

Self-respect comes from self-control.

If you could tell your younger self one thing, what would it be and why?

1)When you wake up from your sleep you have the choice to go back to sleep and dream or wake up and chase that dream. Choose the second option.

2)Saying you have no time will cause you to have no time, saying you are busy will cause you to never be free and saying you will do it tomorrow will lead you to have no tomorrow so take our time for whatever it is.

3)I read somewhere that time is like river; you can’t touch the same water twice since the flow that has passed won’t pass again. It’s time to change the now and leave the past.

4)If you want to become rich, start a business, or have something then remember no one is going to serve it to you on a plate-you will have to get it yourself.

5)Give and expect to get nothing in return since expectations lead to disappointment.

If you make someone your priority when you are only their option then it will never work out, NEVER

6)Temporary people leave permanent lessons
Many people say sorry but only some mean it and therefore they don’t repeat the same mistakes......

"I would like to share the experiences I have gained from my life."

1. After reading a book, I feel less tense and happier about my life.

2. When I read half of a book, my heart tells me to finish it. This habit brings happiness to my soul.

3. After reading many books, I feel my literary skills have improving.

4. "I feel happy after reading books, which is a feeling that I cannot seem to find when using my mobile device."

5. "I am now a friend of books because they make me feel like I have friends."

"I have some bonus things to say.""

Daily reading? Think brain boost, stress melts, empathy surge, sleep magic, and creativity explosion. Just grab a book, dive in, and watch your mind (and soul) level up!

A LETTER TO ALL MEN

Dear Men,

If you want to make it in life, you don't have to enter every HOLE you see. Some holes are dead traps. Some holes are destiny destroyers, business destroyers and life destroyers.

My brother, do not obey your Er****on at all times. Most Er****ons mislead you to wrong direction. Control your er****on if you don't want to to have few days on earth with much poverty on you.

It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to eat, some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you uncomfortable. Control your sexual urge. Self control and abstinence in most cases pays a lot.
A man who can control his sexual urge is a man who can live many years on earth. Men don't know that some of their downfalls are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends. Not every girl has a good spirit. Some are demons, some has poison in between their legs.

Be careful.

Ants 🐜 don't have dreams
-- because they never sleep

Pigs 🐖 don't know sun and moon
-- because they can't raise their head
To look at the sky

Butterflies 🦋 never celebrate birthdays
-- because they only live for 47 days

• see how God created us special?
-- just remember, while we are busy complaining about our situation, someone out there is wishing to be at our place.

-- learn not to complain, always know that you are special...

"I asked an elderly man once what it was like to be old and to know the majority of his life was behind him. He told me that he has been the same age his entire life. He said the voice inside of his head had never aged. He has always just been the same boy. His mother's son. He had always wondered when he would grow up and be an old man. He said he watched his body age and his faculties dull but the person he is inside never got tired. Never aged. Never changed. Our spirits are eternal. Our souls are forever. The next time you encounter an elderly person, look at them and know they are still a child. just as vou are still a child and children will always need love, attention and purpose."

"Wishing you all Happy New Year 2024! Remember, it's never too late to rewrite your own story. May this year bring you joy, success, and exciting new chapters."

THERE ARE 5 TYPES OF WEALTH

1. Financial Wealth ( Money and Possessions)
2. Social Wealth ( Status and Popularity)
3. Time Wealth ( Freedom)
4. Physical Wealth ( Health and Vitality)
5. Spiritual Wealth ( Peace of Mind, Self Respect)

Be careful of JOBS that lure you in with 1 and 2 but rob you with 3, 4 and 5.

God bless you 🙏❤️

Formula for happiness .

Happiness = Reality — Expectations.

Keep your expectations as low as possible so that your happiness stays positive.

Me and God have this little arrangement.

If He wakes me up to see another day, I promise to try and be better than I was yesterday.

Location has ENERGY , Time has MEMORY.

Four fundamental motivations.
1)Fear. sickness, poverty, fear of hell or fear of death.

2)Desire. Seeking personal gratification through success, wealth, and pleasure.

3)Duty. Motivated by gratitude, responsibility, and the desire to do the right thing.

4)Love. Compelled by care for others and the urge to help them.

Reading books will not make you smart. Watching motivational videos will not make you driven.

Writing will not make your thoughts clearer.

We are not shaped by these things. We are shaped by the stories we tell ourselves.

When you trust a person there are only two outcomes: a friend for life or a lesson for life.

When choosing a working woman, you have to accept that she cannot manage the household.

If you have chosen a housewife who can take care of you and fully manage your family, you need to accept that she is not making money.

If you choose an obedient woman, you must accept that it is up to you and ensure her life.

If you decide to stay with a strong woman, you have to accept that she is tough and has her own opinion.

If you choose a beautiful woman, you will have to bear a lot of expenses.

If you decide to stay with a successful woman, you need to understand that she has character and has her own goals and ambitions.

There are no such perfect things. Everyone has their own riddle, which makes us unique.

Our generation thinks it's cool to not care. But it's not.

• Effort is cool. Caring is cool. Staying loyal is cool.

Making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So start small and start now. Be patient. Be present. Be kind. Compliment people. Magnify their strengths, not their weaknesses.

WHAT'S A BELIEF THAT YOU HOLD WITH WHICH MANY PEOPLE DISAGREE?

The person you marry can be the biggest financial decision you will ever make. The right one: an asset who will build with you. The wrong one: a liability that will destroy you. Choose wisely.

The person you see in the mirror who has gone through a lot, the toughest times and is still standing. That's the same person who deserves all the best from you.

Top 7 Life Lessons From Socrates-

1. To find yourself, think for yourself.

You cannot find your true self as long as you are unconsciously subscribing to other people’s thoughts, beliefs and ideologies. To find yourself you need to develop a habit of questioning everything and looking at things from various perspectives.

2. True knowledge exists in knowing that you know nothing.

True wisdom comes when you realize how little you know of this infinite universe. It is this realization that keeps the flame of curiosity alive and opens your mind to constantly learn and grow.

3. Education is the kindling of a flame, not the filling of a vessel.

Education should create an appetite for learning and discovering new things. It should kindle a natural curiosity and encourage individualistic thinking. It should NOT fill a person’s mind with predefined concepts and ideologies.

4. Beware the barrenness of a busy life.

Life is all about balance. It’s okay to be busy but you also need to consciously take time for leisure, relaxation and self reflection.

5. Strong minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, weak minds discuss people.

Focus on higher-level thinking and engage in meaningful conversations to promote your personal growth.

6. He who is not content with what he has, will not be content with what he would like to have.

Seeking contentment through material possessions is like trying to fill a bottomless pit. True contentment comes from cultivating inner peace and acceptance.

7. Intelligent individuals learn from everything and everyone; average people, from their experiences. The stupid already have all the answers.

Always be fluid and open to learning as learning is infinite. Constantly question your unconscious beliefs, ideas and assumptions. Stupid people think they know everything and hence they hold on to rigid ideas and stop growing.

There’s always something to enjoy in every moment. But it’s up to you to find it.

No matter how good or bad your life is at this stage, always remember "this time will pass away" and you can stay humble and motivated to continue your journey.

Start Looking forward with hope, not backwards with regrets.

Regrets are a waste of time. Instead of dwelling on your regrets, make the most of available time.