Liz Hendrix

ONE THING I realized with my 2-month 5AM Meditation Devotion:

All along, I was stuck in the mind. In the analysis of things and it gave me these evidence with my day-to-day life:

🔻 Lagi kong iniisip ang sasabihin ng ibang tao

🔻 Hindi ako expressive sa gusto kong sabihin kasi ina-analyze ko pa masyado and Im being EXTRA CAREFUL

🔻 I want to help people but andun ako sa judgement thinking so I sound like a nagging Ate

It made me realized kung anong nawawala sa 'kin all these years with my Personal Development, I'm losing the most important part:

TO HONOR MY FEELINGS

Yes, I made progress. I've learned alot about myself, my strengths, and my weaknesses but I never sit down with what I'm feeling right at each moment.

After setting the intention to focus on my Spiritual aspect, the Universe has given me the tools to be connected with myself again.

Here are the tools that I'm using everyday:

🫶🏻 I'm practicing NON-JUDGEMENT. It means I see things as it is and refrain from giving meaning coming from my biased filter.

Syempre it doesn't mean na wala na akong judgement talaga but in fact I have these prejudices that helps me practice non-judgement and be in a place of understanding. Plus unti-unti kong natanggal yung victim mentality which causing me to limit myself.

🫶🏻 Mind-Heart Coherence. It's important to always check if our mind and heart are connected and with the same language. Dapat hindi sila naglalaban, by simply practicing conscious breathing and putting my hand on my heart and my belly, I'm able to practice this every moment na kelangan ko.

🫶🏻 Radical Self-Responsibility. Since I'm all aware of the Non-Judgement, Radical Self-Responsibility gave me a realization that whatever it is that's happening, I always have the power to choose. this made me responsible of reactions to the external things around me and it's empowering to know na may kakayanan pala ako to change things with just a simple moment of choosing.

Life is a journey talaga. It's a never ending until we breathe our last breath but with the tools like this, I'm more hopeful of life.

I'm loving my life more. I feel more Free.

Cheers to the Spiritual Freedom that I've been seeking!

Grabe pala yung Journey with Self-Worth no? Hindi sya madali

I really respect those people who have gone to find or reclaimed their self-worth.

It's been thrown around like it's a simple word pero the process itself is painful, unknown, and really really ugly.

I just want ro post here as a reminder that be kind to everyone around you specially when someone is trying new things for them

When someone is sharing even with stuttering lips.

When someone is showing up awkwardly.

When someone cried over a thing that you think is simple.

These are just their first step in finding their self-worth and it's really a long game.

You never know when your words will destroy the little ounce of self-confidence they are gaining and using to show up for themselves.

To those whose in this journey, I'm rooting for youuuu 🙌🏻✨

Take one step at a time, there's no need to rush

LSS ako dito this morning.

It's funny how one song can guide me para makapag bike na ulit after a long hiatus.

3 years ago, I decided na ito yung maging passion ko kasi I can sense na may holistic growth ako when doing this.

In cycling, nate-test yung mental resilience and physical resilience ko, may times pa na pati emotional lalo na kapag feeling ko nai-invalidate yung reasons ko not to push through.😂

pero after ko matamaan ng Covid back in 2021, nagkaron talaga sya ng impact sa 'kin at hindi ko na sya tinuloy.

And kaninang umaga, sinubukan ko ulit.

Ang daming nagsulputang limiting beliefs, like:

💩 hindi ka naman sanay sa madaming sasakyan

💩 mabigat kana, hindi ka na lalo makakaahon

💩 may stoplight na bago, makaka-bike ka ba ng maayos?

Despite all that, itong kanta ni Jordin Sparks yung tumulong sa 'ken to be at my own pace and remember the teachings inside the Becoming Community.

Everytime na magsa-suggest yung mind ko ng limiting beliefs, I shift with the message of:

✨ Non-judgment of the situation

When I'm thinking na, "ang bagal mo, mabubusinahan ka ng sasakyan." I remove the judgement sa mga drivers and remind myself na, "may mga mababait na drivers sa cyclist."

✨ Setting intention vs expectation

Instead of expecting the negative scenarios and making a solution, I choose to set intention na magba-bike ako and if there's an unexpected situation, I'm adaptable naman.

which leads me to the lesson of

✨ I AM Protected by God and the Universe, and I trust that

Hindi ko lang inasahan yung sarili ko, I also trusted the Higher Power na it will provide me enough energy, strength and intuition along the way.

Guess what? Yung pinaka-aayaw kong ahon pauwi, na ilang beses ko na i-try ahunin ng walang babaan, NAAHON KO NA SYAAAA!

Sobrang saya ko ng makadating ako sa tuktok 🥹

I'm grateful for this experience kasi I know I can also apply this to my other aspect of life.

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If you wanna know more about these lessons from Becoming Community, comment ka lang which lesson yung gusto mo ng expansion and let's deep dive into that. 🫶

Alam mo yung feeling na lagi kana lang malas?

Yung parehas naman kayo ng talent nung kakilala mo pero bakit mas na aambunan sya ng swerte?

Im currently reading How to Get Lucky and it explains why...

one technique pala to be lucky is to be in the event of fast flow.

Ano yung fast flow?

It's being everywhere as much as you can.

By showing up and be known.

I look back and Oo nga noh? Ilang years na din ako nag sshow up online.

And kung anong opportunity na meron ako ngayon is because I showed up for the past couple of years.

Pero..

What is my mistake of showing up?

Not knowing who I am or what I really wanna do. Nasa multi-potentialite self Identity pa ako when I started showing up.

Ang ending hindi ko na position yung sarili ko as a person who is valuable.

But I'm grateful for that mistake kasi

now I understand the important of showing up with intention.

Because I keep on showing up while discovering myself, along the way Im able to meet people and nagiging clear what I really wanna do and what I love doing.

That's where I started to witnessing my luck in life.

Lahat nag aalign.

May mga oras na confusing, but it led me to the opportunity that Im currently in.

Kaya for you na alam mong may value kana, keep on showing up.

If you're confident, show up, and you'll meet people who needs your value.

As for someone na nasa lurker mode, focus on discovering yourself by showing up, too.

If youre lost, show up, and you'll found yourself.

Be in the fast flow, my friend. 🤗

HINDI AKO MARUNONG MAG-IPON

Ito yung money habit na sobrang inggit ako sa mga kaibigan ko.

Bakit sila nakakapag-ipon? Ako wala pa ding ipon.

Sinusubukan ko namang mag piggy bank, mag Digital Banks, mag COOP.

Pero nauuwi lang din sa wala.

Then, after attending the MMI, don ko natutunan na merong palang 4 types of Money Personality which are:

#1. Spender - ito yung mga type na, YOLO talaga na parang walang kinabukasan. Linyahang, "Deserve ko 'to" at "healing my inner child" 🤣

#2. Saver - ito naman yung mga magaling mag-save ng pera not because they love to, but because they fear about the future.

#3. Avoider - ito yung mga tipo na, bakit ko po-problemahin? ayoko ng problema, ibabaon ko na lang sa limot. YOLO worsely naman 🤣

#4. The Money Monk - ito yung type na they see money as cause of evil, or even evil as is.

These are all rooted beliefs na kapag nasobrahan is ruining our way of handling money.

And it's not our fault kasi na-passed down lang naman sa 'tin to.

Noong una akala ko Spender ako kasi:

- Laging ubos ang pera, ubos-ubos biyaya ba?
- Hangga't meron, gagastuhin ng parang walang ng pangangailangan the next day. Hopeful na mai-babalik naman ang pera

Then, inexplain samin that How we do one thing is how we do everything.

So I checked my habits with everything tapos nakita ko na mas dominant pala yung pagiging Avoider ko kasi:

- I avoid conflict as much as I can which translates to my money beliefs na,

"I don't want to earn so much kasi pwdeng mag cause ng conflict."

- I don't like stress & thinking too much, which translate to,

"Hindi ko ima-manage yung pera ko, gagastusin ko na lang ng gagastusin."

Nakakatawa noh? We're bombarded with technicalities, with computations, and everything jargon when it comes to Financial Literacy.

When in fact ang root cause pala is yung relationship natin with Money and our habits.

I'm glad that there's a tool that can help us heal our money wounds by addressing both the Emotional and Intelligent Side of Money

which is the MONEY JAR SYSTEM - which I'm using right now.

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Ikaw ba, ano sa tingin mo yung Money Personality mo? and interested ka din ba malaman ang Money Jar System?

If you wanna deep dive and know through a discussion, let me know in the comment section.

I dream a very very very small dream.

To earn Php. 50,000.00 monthly.

Maliit ba yun? In terms of Finance, hindi, pera pa din yan.

But in terms of where it could take me? Oo.

This is my DREAM INCOME for now, kasi ito yung presyo where I can be Financially Free but will not give my Financial Freedom yet.

Kasi Financial Freedom for me is "DOING ANYTHING I LOVE WHERE MONEY IS NOT AN ISSUE"

Kahit mag-binge watch ako ng K-Drama in 3 straight days, walang magugutom.

Kahit magbakasyon ako 3 months sa Japan, hindi ako hahanapin ng Pilipinas.

This is where I should be playing BIG,

DREAMING THE BIG THINGS.

Nakakapagod mag play small kasi laging may regret.

At wala namang masamang mangarap ng malaki di ba?

Hindi naman kasalanan na gusto kong makaranas ng mas maginhawa pang buhay.

Kaya for someone, who is also capable of DOING GREAT THINGS, lakihan pa natin ang pangarap natin.

Yung nakakatakot at nakaka-excite. Kasi, don lang tayo gagalaw.

E kung magkamali? Pwede namang matuto don at mag-adjust.

E kung mapahiya? Pwede pa namang i-build ulit ang sarili.

E kung mamatay? Thank you kasi na-fulfill na yung misyon ko sa mundong ibabaw

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I’m creating an Accountability Program for peeps who wants to Achieve their DREAM LIFE. Gusto mong sumali sa waitlist or simply witness how this works? Join inside my community kung saan mo makukuha yung gist of the program.

Snippet of Gale's Mother's Day message:

"Thank you for working hard to raise me and thank you for trying."

🥹

Every moment na nagagalit ako at nauubusan ng pasensya, I feel really guilty after it.

Lagi kong iniisip na...

"Baka lumayo loob nya sa 'kin."

"Baka nasasaktan ko sya ng sobra."

"Baka maapektuhan yung mental health nya."

Receiving this message from her made me realize na, She's growing up with a big heart.

I'm flawed but still appreciated by her.

I'm being seen despite my self-doubt.

Siguro ganun lang talaga, trial and error.

At the end of the day, I'm making sure that I'm learning from every situation.

That next time, I'll be better.

Ito yung mga moment na di ko nakikita, but her words are my triumph.

Her uncoditional love is my trophy.

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I love you, nak! 🥰

"Mame, unplanned ba ako?"

Gale asked me 2 days ago.

I answered, "Huo."

I remember na tinanong nya ito sa 'kin dati pero ang bigat sagutin.

And I realized how light I answered her question 2 days ago.

That means I had let go my guilt na dala-dala ko since I had her.

Totoo nga na time heal some wounds. I didn't intend to heal this part of me.

Ang alam ko lang, I need to grow as a person, not as a mom.

But I guess the pure love of a mother eventually leads me to healing.

Me, prioritizing my growth, has helped me to become a person better than yesterday.

Hence, being a better mom.

Some will feel guilty of prioritizing themselves, lalo kapag nanay na.

But it's the most loving thing you'll ever do for your children.

I've been into personal development for a decade and I would love to see more people, specially mothers to pursue this.

Because our healing, is also the healing of our ancestors and the new beginning of less pained generation.

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12 years of being a Mom, I really had a lot of learning, mistakes, and joy living with you!

Happy Mother's day! 💐

ONE eye-opener adviced that I received today:

”Do not give something if ikaw mismo wala.”

That hit really hard.

It resonated well kung bakit may impostor syndrome akong na fi-feel at the moment, KASI IMPOSTOR talaga ako.

I do not follow my own advice.

Oo may knowledge na pwedeng i-share, pero walang follow through on my side.

Nakaka-frustrate when others don’t follow me when it’s clear na yun ang sagot sa problema nila.

It’s because bakit sila susunod sa taong taliwas yung sinasabi sa ginagawa?

This is one of the reason din kung bakit nakakatakot mag-simula ulit…

May takot na, baka andun na yung first impression at di na mawala…

Baka di na ma-appreciate yung effort.

Then I remembered a post somewhere na,

“Build your confidence on being a learner”

Which made a huge relief.

At ang unang unang gagawin is to learn intentionally to build my self-integrity.

Napaka-swerte ko lang din talaga kasi may mga community ako where I am ALLOWED to share my journey ng walang judgement.

Kaya through this post, I’m sending a message to myself:

” The journey doesn’t end when we fail, the journey ends when we stopped learning and trying again.. Hindi pa tapos ang laban, madami ka nang natutunan. Ibig sabihin mas alam mo na ang effort na kelangan. Sa araw araw, piliin mo lang ang ISANG DESISYON na magpapatuloy sa pangarap mong buhay.”

(quote it if it resonates with you 😊)

This is the biggest compliment for me in IG.

I feel seen and well appreciated as a trusted person. 🥹

"Idea ko yun ah? Sayang di ko ginawa."

Na-experience nyo na ba 'to? Ako, madalas 🤣

Naalala ko nung 3rd year highschool ako, pinag isip kami ng business idea ng teacher namin.

Naisip ko yung Floating Coffee Shop.

Tapos ngayon ang dami ng nag-litawan ns cafes.

Then yung mga ducklings na head piece? Naisip ko din mag hoard sa shopee bago pa sya mauso sa pinas.

Pero nagpalimit ako sa "wala akong puhunan"

Sabi pa ng anak ko, "Me, ang galing mong malaman yung mga mauuso noh? Yung enhypen, tas yung ibon"

What if hindi ko pala sya hinayaang maging idea lang noh? 😁

Naalala ko yung turo ni NFG na, walang kwenta ang ideas and plans kung walang action.

Nakikita ko paulit ulit yung strengths ko...

na I'm seeing trends before it becomes one.

Pero dahil sa fear of failure and feel of lacking of knowledge, nalilimit ko sarili ko.

When in fact ang dami na ngayong naglilitawan na mentorship program na makakatulong in achieving our goals.

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As an aspiring business owner or side hustler, ano yung nag hhold back sayo to take aligned action?

"DIPLOMA O DISKARTE?" Charoooot.

Ang daming may diploma ngayon pero gustong mag-business.

Kasi ilang taon na naippreach na hindi nakakayaman ang pagiging empleyado.

Kapag nag-aya ang mga friends ko na, tara business tayo?

Plano naman kami. Pero syempre hanggang plano lang 🤣

Nakaka-excite kaya maisip at mangarap na:

🤗 Magkakasama kami lagi while working

🤗 Magkakaroon kami ng Time and Financial Freedom

🤗 Hindi na kami ha-hire ng tricycle sa outing namin

PERO...

Sa dami ng mga sinalihan kong seminars, webinars, and online communities sobrang nagbago na yung view ko about building a business

Hindi sya madali.

Oo kaya naman, pero malayo sa expectation ng mga nakakarami.

Dati, basta ako nag-aagree sa mga kaibigan ko but eventually na-realize ko...

Pare-parehas kaming di marunong magsimula. Lalong lalo pa sa pera.

Yung personal finance namin, hindi pa rin stable.

Paano pa yung pagfa-finance ng business?

Hindi sa wala akong tiwala sa business partners, but it's a risk of not just money but also our relationships.

Kaya sabi ko, sige dapat mag atleast level 7/10 muna tayo sa finances natin bago tayo mag-proceed.

Because naniniwala din ako sa quote na, "How you do anything is how you do everything."

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Ikaw ba, anong thoughts mo pagdating sa pagbi-business? Share your tips for aspiring ones if business owner ka na, drop a question if you're planning to start 😁

Yung akala ko dating madadamot, nag-iingat lang pala ng pinagpapaguran nila.

Hurt people hurt people talaga, most of the time unintentionally.

Nag-Unfollow ako ng mga mayayabang na tao. 🙄

Feeling ko kasi ang yabang nila for posting their vacation, their investments, their life updates, pero ang daming negative comment about them offline.

Feeling artista naita-tag pa yung brands ng suot nila kahit di naman sila endorser. 🤮

I always feel myself na hindi magiging ka-level nila. Ewww!

But the thing is, it’s just me lang pala, FEELING KO lang yun. 😶‍🌫️

I really felt insecure dahil lang sa maling pag perceive ko sa kanila dahil sa judgement ng ibang insecure din sa kanila.

I was ruining my sense of judgement at ang pinakamasakit is I’m ruining my self worth unintentionally. 😞

After sometime na ma-realize ko yun, sinibukan ko ulit silang i-follow.

WOW. it’s different now.

👏🏻 I’m seeing them celebrating their life and achievements. Hindi sila mayabang, they’re just happy.

Iba talaga kapag yung environment natin is filled with people na nasa gratitude & abundant state most of the time.

✅Kapag tinuturuan tayo na iba-iba tayo ng values, pangarap, at way of living.

✅ Na walang mali sa choices ng bawat isa kasi we’re just functioning based sa knowledge na meron tayo at hand.

Sa panahon ngayon, it’s easy to lower our self worth based sa nakikita natin sa social media but the reality is

SOCIAL MEDIA IS NEUTRAL.

It’s up to our own filters kung paano natin ipe-perceive yung mga nakikita natin everyday.

I’m just really happy that may Patatas Fam and 1M Club that helps me to be grounded with my values and self-defined success.

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If you wanna be connected to the same community that I have, link's in the comment section or PM "PASALI" so I can give you insights of my experience. 😊

Moving closer to a different world.

Just FACE my dragon TODAY!!

Anong dragon?

Reaching out to my warm markets 😁

Okay, hindi naman pala ako mamamatay! Ito ako humihinga ng may kaba 😂

May empowering journey sa pagharap sa fears natin.

Ito lang yung way to grow. To actually do the work.

Super helpful ng meditation + Entrainment session kaninang umaga. I really felt the nudge to do things even if I'm scared.

Yun yung flow na gusto kooo.

I pray tha I can experience more emotions that lead joy and alignment on the next 6 months.

Thank you for the life, thank you for the experience! 🫶🏻

Just ate my dragon

Anong dragon?

Reaching out to my warm markets 😁

Okay, hindi naman pala ako mamamatay! Ito ako humihinga ng may kaba 😂

May empowering journey sa pagharap sa fears natin.

Ito lang yung way to grow. To actually do the work.

Super helpful ng meditation + Entrainment session kaninang umaga. I really felt the nudge to do things even if I'm scared.

Yun yung flow na gusto kooo.

I pray tha I can experience more emotions that lead joy and alignment on the next 6 months.

Thank you for the life, thank you for the experience! 🫶🏻

"Hindi ako tatagal sa ganitong setup. Maximum siguro 2 years"

Yan yung sagot ko when my colleague asked me kung anong tingin ko sa work namin.

That was 2016. My first ever job.

Hindi ko alam kung saan nanggaling yung thought na yun, e wala naman ako mapagkukumparahan na ibang work experience 🤣

But I know in my gut na hindi ako tatagal sa constrainst ng Corpo.

❌ Bawal tumayo ng matagal, it means wala ka ginagawa 😂

❌ Timed bio break

❌ ma-late minus sahod. Maaga pumasok, nothing changes

Hindi ko pa alam yung freelancing non but when the timing is right, talagang nailalatag lahat ni God yung options.

Nang magka idea na ako sa mga work from home opportunities was nung malapit na ako mag 2 years. (Sakto sa timeline setup ko)

I was about to quit pero syempre may malaking takot na, saan ako pupulutin after?

I sent my resignation despite the doubt.

Then my OM convinced me to stay even for 2 months to think about it.

(Yun pala, may laying off na magaganap lol)And the rest is history of job hopping 😂

But it was only Q4 of 2023 that I decided to really really pursue freelancing.

Kasi naman yung gut feeling ko is patuloy yung pag-sigaw ng FREEDOM at hindi ko na sya matanggi sa sarili ko na it's already part of my truth, of my core values.

Lucky enough, by showing up I'm able to land clients that's both aligned with my values and vision.

Hindi madali.

Ang daming illogical l decisions. (Na wag na gayahin 😂)

But it's worth it.

And you know what's the secret? It's the environment.

I'm super grateful sa online communities that I have.

Specially, the 1M Club which helped me a lot in 2022-2023 in SHOWING UP.

Being with the people who are also into a journey of creating their desired life based on their core values is really helpful in being reminded why we are pursuing our owned defined success.

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If you wanna know more about my experience being inside the 1M Club, PM me or comment "COMMUNITY" para sa first hand stories and link is in the comment if you think you need this kind of circle, too! 🤗

Nung sinabi kong mag eexpand ako ng outrageously, hindi ko inexpect na Geography of Manila pala ang eexpand ko 🤣

Bilang isang laking probinsya, hindi talaga ako marunong bumyahe mag-isa.

Natuto lang ako bumyahe outside Rizal after graduation para maghanap ng work.

And then napagod sa traffic.

Hindi ako nagpo-proceed sa isang opportunity if it's causing me a lot of time to travel from our home.

Dagdag pa yung news and hassle na nababasa sa internet.

And as time goes by, hindi ko namamalayan na nalilimitahan na pala ng "comfort zone" yung gusto ko marating sa buhay.

Until pumasok ako sa Sales Industry by being a Financial Wealth Planner.

Nagising ako sa katotohanan na, if I wanna grow I need to go places na di ko pa napupuntahan.

Kaya unti-unti I accept the fact na I need to:

go to places where I can meet more like-minded people

Umattend ng training from any hub

Mag accept ng opportunity na aligned sa gusto kong gawin even if it means I need to travel from time to time.

And I never been more happy sa growth na meron ako.

I was dreading for the past few months, but I never been more happy sa growth ko ngayon.

Thank you self for betting on you!

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Tawid Dagat this time to travel naman 😁

Lately, I realized that being in a Non-judgemental state makes our life more magical. ✨

Kapag nai-judge kasi natin yung isang bagay, sitwasyon, o tao, pinipigilan ng judgement natin yung flow of "what could've been" but if we ask for something and surrender God’s present is always remarkable kagaya nitong nangyari sa akin,

May lakad kami pa Marinduque this weekend and I'm thinking saan kaya ako makakahagilap ng dagdag na pera?

Sabi ko kay Sugar Daddy Universe, "pahingi nga pong 10k pang pocket money" out loud.

Sabi ng kasama ko, "ang dami naman nun pang pocket money" *2 days 1 night lang kasi yung trip hahaha*

Sabi ko wala lang, at yung logic thinking ko iniisip na kung saan ako kukuha ng pera, at alam ko na ang kasunod non, magsa-suggest na yan ng impossible scenarios at limiting beliefs. 🤣

Pero I choose to pause,

and in that split second,

I made a conscious choice na,

God will provide.

Naisurrender ko na and let the Universe works itself.

Then the next day, yung opportunity na nai-offer sakin, na mention na 10k yung magiging allowance ko for starter.

HA-HA-HA oh dibaaa? Ang lupet.

*Sana pala nai 50k ko na* charot

Kidding aside,

If I did not made that conscious choice, possible na block na yung chances of getting that 10k, dahil sa stress, kung paano gagawin ng madali at self-sabotage na wala namang katotohanan.

if I didn't TRUST and surrender, hindi ko ma experience yung gift of Surprise 🎉

It's true that what you ask will be given and here we are always making things complicated. 😅

When we are promised to prosper, believe. Alam ko mahirap to believe on what we can't see pero andun yung exciting part e, paano sya ipe-present satin 🤗

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Nga pala, I’m in this journey called “An Absolute-All Journey” where I document my learnings, my growth, and my celebrations in transforming my life from being an average person to a perked up human-being. You can subscribe to my YT channel if you’re curious or wanna learn with me, too.

YT - Holiztically Living: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZov0zqXtFTAmYE75e8ox5Q

As promised, ishe-share ko sainyo yung naging self-discovery ko about sa root cause ng insecurities and limiting beliefs ko.

I found out, I'M BEING PROTECTED by my mind. 🤯

Since yung tinatahak kong path ngayon is super different with my normal, 0 familiarity, my mind is suggesting that it's "dangerous".

One limiting belief na nai-suggest sa 'kin ng utak ko is,

🧠"Bakit kailangan mag-dress up to impress people? Pwede namang normal clothes. Wag ka na jan sa industry na yan."

I wrote it down at inupuan para makuha yung answer:
🙋🏻‍♀️- "Of course, as much as we don't want to be judged by our cover, ito talaga yung na makikita ng tao and magbibigay ng first impression and dressing up feels so goood!"

Nakalakhan ko kasi na, if you wear too much people will judge you, dapat simple lang.

Because that's what we normally did, kapag may nakita kaming kakaibang manamit pinagtatawanan namin.

But reality naman is if I dress nicely, mas nabboost ang confidence ko.

So it means na, yung belief ko came from FEAR of being judged.

Ganyan kasi yang mind natin, parang Nanay na overly protective, which is good for survival by the way, pero if it's going to lead our life, may resistant to change our life.

So here's a TIP that I learned from Tito T Harv Eker's FREE masterclass:

⚠️DO NOT BELIEVE WHAT YOU THINK because YOU ARE NOT YOUR MIND.

Our Mind is only a part of us, parang kamay, daliri, paa. It's part of us pero hindi tayo nagpapa-identify as PAA.

✅Who we are? The one who observe the thoughts.

Tayo ang nagde-decide if totoo ba yung thought na yun. Just like what I did at that one limiting belief and now,

I'm ready to upgrade my Wardrobe! 👗

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Ikaw ba, ano yung limiting belief mo right now that's holding you back? Feel free to share, it really helps when we write it down and read it outside our mind. 😁

"What you Focus on Expands"

Itong March, napaka-heavy ng feeling ko. After maging Team Labas sa Mathematics Tour, hindi ko alam kung bakit naging spiraling down yung emotions ko when I have a lot to celebrate.

Everyday, I'm bombarded with insecurities

Self-Limiting beliefs

Victim Mentality

Self-Pity

Until dumating sa point na nag te-take ako ng multiple online quizzes if I'm depressed plus yung tinapos kong K-Drama "Doctor Slump" was so focused on being at their bottom (pero natuwa naman ako sa ending 😁)

Then Holy Week. Ginamit ko yung time to prepare for my April.

Hopeful.

Fresh start.

Pero bakit parang dragging pa din?

That's when I found out sobrang naging focus ko yung emotions ko.

Naka focus ako sa low vibrations.

Until it expands and expands na parang na rabbit hole ako, when in the past ang bilis ko namang maka-recover.

Na-stuck ako sa hospital and hindi ko na-check what's making me feel this way?

Anong root cause?

*Sabi ko pa naman dito ako magaling sa Root Cause Analysis 😂 *

Now, as I write this down alam ko na ang gagawin ko:

‼️ I have a question to answer. Share ko sainyo ang sagot sa next post! 😁

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If you also had a heavy March, I'm sending you virtual huuuugs! 🫂

Send me a message if you're open to share your story. 🤗

Hi Friends! It's been awhile.

I've been in a slump last Month and I realized na I did not celebrate anything about myself pala. Even my small wins. *Sorry self🥺*

Sobrang nag take toll in everything yung hindi ko pag-prioritize ng sarili ko. I was commiting myself to fulfill other's dream and goals na nakakaligtaan ko pala gawin yung para sa akin.

As a generator, I'm designed to prioritize my JOY, e I did not have any tasks na nag-contribute dun. I'm stuck in survival mode and meeting other's need before mine. Plus na-overcommit din ako sa mga bagay-bagay when I'm designed to pursue mastery.

Soooooo for me to take back my power and focus, I'll be sharing my WINS for March 2024! 🎉

🎉 FINALLY After a pandemic and a couple of years, nagkita ulit kami ng aking Bookworm and movie/series bestie and had a good laugh with College Friends 👏🏻

🎉 I'm now a LICENSED FINANCIAL WEALTH PLANNER! 🧡👏🏻

🎉 I get to cuddle my 3 month old pamangkin from time to time 👏🏻

🎉 I have presented to my friends and received amazing feedback 👏🏻

🎉 Connected with a Potential Client for video editing but did not pursue but I learned a lot about myself 👏🏻

🎉Been opened to my AC Buddies about my state and really glad that I gained some help and insights. Nothing but the best for us this year and the coming year! 👏🏻

🎉 Attended a Morning Devotion for my Best Friend's Mom's Birthday 👏🏻

🎉 Get better at handling things around the house 👏🏻

🎉 Earned my first income as a Freelancer 👏🏻

🎉 Received a Good News for a money making opportunity as an Affiliate 👏🏻

🎉 Insured my partner 👏🏻

🎉 Given a lot of opportunities to showcase my potential 👏🏻

🎉 Attended the 4th Year Anniversary Passionate Creators Live session 👏🏻

🎉 Being in a slump made me realize a lot of things and one thing is to be kind to myself as I am to others. 👏🏻

Ang pinakamahalagang lesson for me is

BABANGON ULIT
GET BACK TO MY OWNED DEFINED SUCCESS
BE A LIGHTHOUSE

If nakadating ka hanggang dito, I REALLY HONOR & APPRECIATE YOUR TIME in celebrating with meeeee! I pray na yung God's message to celebrate life while we're here on Earth is makarating sayo. 🥂

Hard feels yung I get to disappoint people but I also need to acknowledge that I've done my best based on what I know is better.

📖: Courage is Calling - Ryan Holiday