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HONESTY

How honesty is important in relationship? It's a skyscraper thing to describe the wellness of the relationship. When honesty becomes the problem, it lays back to trust problem and betrayal.

Why honesty?Because in relation kailangan open yan, telling your iterinary, who to meet, what to discuss and when and where your other agendas may lead, it give them the confidence that you can be trusted. But there are circumstances that you cannot detailed every one of it, if its work related. Somehow, a partner must understand that as well.

Yes kailangan natin maging totoo sa sarili natin at sa partner natin, what we are up to, but with limitations. Don't choke them in some point, give them the trust and confidence as well, in nurturing the strength of your relationship.

Because sometimes, too open and too aggressive in knowing their whereabouts leads the impact of jealousy, madness and attempt to ruined privacy. Yes you are partners, but privacy is important as part of respect.

Be honest if one is asking a question, clarification and answers to all speculation. Remember, guilt will kill you. Be at peace is a wonderful tool in turning your relationship upside down.

Dishonesty somehow always end to failure to relationship. And failure sacrifices love and overwhelm hatred in both sides. When one is on fire, be the ice that melts it by telling the truth with sympathy in saving your relationship, who knows he/she might understand it and redirecting your feelings into the best of it.

Honesty speaks who you are. So be honest, even if it hurts them. Knowing the truth is much better than keep denying it.

TRUST/TIWALA

Anong gagawin mo pag nalaman mong ang taong mahal mo ay wala palang tiwala sayo?

Hard, literally. How can they love you back when they don't trust you? How can it be possible to easily said i love you to you, when they cannot fully trust you?

Ang hirap magmahal, ang hirap umasa at ang hirap masaktan. But all of these are definition of what really love. Kapag alam mong mahal mo, you have the courage to fight for it, to win for it, even at your lowest possible course. You aim to make it worked, even it doesn't make sense at all. You have to be brave, even when you're so scared. You have to be yourself, even in your most feared. You have to be you. Those are just samples that love is a not just a thing, it's a feeling that hurt you the most, when you did not fight back.

But the thing is, how can you fight back when the trust fall apart?Mahirap, masakit at kailangan subukan. May mga bagay sa mundo na very temporary that actually defined how weak we are as well. Temptation that weakened us, lalong lalo na ang mga usap-usapan or tsismis na isa sa mga factor na nakakapanghina ng loob.

If mahal mo ang isang tao, don't just make a quick judgement based on others story. Ask him/her. Let them explain their sides. Don't jumped into a conclusion that makes your partner a wicked one. Asking question with them lead to a good partnership, lead to a good relation and mostly lead to a great future. Because if you doubt them directly, your love is unfair, unjust and decided that you did not trust your partner afterall.

Mga bagay na kailangan mong mag take ng break to ask, wonder and decide after your partner laid the truth. A partner need to be heard not misjudged. Unless your partner definitely do the betrayal, you have the right to disowned. Mahirap makasanayan ang bagay na mahal mo na, pero masakit sa katutuhanan ang bagay na mahal mo pa pero ayaw mo na. You felt disgusted or ashamed of the fact, that technically he/she may cheated or lied on you.

Positively, when your love ones ended your relationship with trust problems, i think it better to give a break. Shut it! Otherwise your fighting the wrong battle, misleading you to be the worst person he/she knew. Let them realize that the person they don't actually believe, stating the fact.

If you hurt them at the first place, spare them the space they needed, ask for forgiveness and you should have thought it in the first place anyway. Value the trust, reshape it in you. Remember, we are not defined by our past, we are redefined in the future act.

Be a trustworthy partner. Give your partner the ease of comfort and learned from your mistakes. One step at a time.

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