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Ito nanaman tayo,

Minsan nasa harap ng kabaong sasabihin, "tulungan mo naman mga magulang mo at mga anak mo."

Bakit? Kapag namatay na ba ang isang tao nagiging Genie na?

Minsan naman nakapost sa facebook, "bantayan mo kami at sana ibigay mo ang swerte sa amin."

Bakit kapag ba namatay na ang isang tao, nagiging anghel na or lucky charm na? Kapag nagparamdam ang multo, matatakot naman.

Sabi ng Word of God, "Itinakda sa mg tao na MINSAN lamang siya mamatay at PAGKATAPOS AY ANG PAGHUHUKOM!" (Hebreo 9:27)

Nangangahulungan,
1. Hindi na maaaring kausapin pa ang mga namatay dahil nasa huling destinasyon na siya.
2. Wala nang gumagala na kaluluwa ng tao sa daigdig kaya imposibleng bantayan ka.
3. Ang mga namatay na ay hindi na kumakain kaya wala nang kwenta ang pagkaing ilalagay sa puntod.
3. Ang nabubuhay ngayon ay dapat na talikuran ang kasalanan, kilalanin at tanggapin ang ginawa ni Kristo sa krus at italaga ang buhay sa Diyos.

The TRUTH is, that all of the “STUFF” here on earth we work SO hard to buy and accumulate..does NOT mean a thing. At the end of the day...people will be cleaning out our "STUFF", going thru our "STUFF", figuring out what to do with all of our "STUFF"....this "STUFF" we've accumulated in our life. The only thing of VALUE that remains are the MEMORIES and what we deposit into others. May we all learn to spend less time accumulating "STUFF" and spend way more time making MEMORIES.

I have reached 300 followers! Thank you for your continued support. I could not have done it without each of you. 🙏🤗🎉

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Heads Up lng.......🫡
Sa mga kamag anak o kapatid na hindi malalapitan financially, hindi ibig sabhin nun hindi na sila maaasahan sometimes meron din silang dinadala or problema na hndi lang natin alam kaya wag tayong magtatampo Pag hindi tayo napautang /nabigyan /napahiram.

Hindi yung pagpapautang ang sukatan ng pagging totoong kadugo. 😊
Maraming reason , or maraming pagsubok ang bawat isa araw araw maging sensitive tayo
May kanya kanya tayong laban na hinaharap, at haharapin pa. 😌

Yung iba tahimik lang pero nalugi pala. 💔
Yung iba tahimik lang may sakit na pala. 💔
Yung iba tahimik lang baon na pala sa utang. 💔
Yung iba tahimik lng may mga binabayaran din yan loan💔
Yung iba tahimik lng may mga Pag subok din yan na pinag dadaanan sa araw araw💔

Baguhin natin ang paniniwala dahil maraming taong nakangiti sa socialmedia at sobrang strong.
Minsan,ang gara ng porma pasyal pasyal un ung stress reliever nila eh.
Pa selfie selfie nakangiti nakatawa.
pero sa likod nun durog na durog na pero pilit na lumalaban para sa pamilya. 😌🫡

A reminder to all parents out there✍

Never tell your children:

"Ako ang nag-paaral sayo"
"Ako ang bumuhay sayo"
"Sana pinabayaan nlng kita"
"WaLa kayong utang na loob"
"Kapal ng mukha mo"
"Di ka magiging ganyan kung di dahil sakin"

Your children did not ask you or the world that he/she wants to be born.
You did! From day 1 until they get old. Your children will always be your responsibility.

You know whats next when parents think like their children owe them so much?
They'll treat you as an investment. That one day, someone will reach their dreams for them.

Do not ever let your children set aside their dreams just to fulfill yours!!

Trust me, your children know who have been there since the beginning.
They will not forget you, not because they owe you something.
But good parents deserve all the good things in life.

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So many parents are often worried about why their child is not able to write by the age of 4 and why instead of writing, the teacher is allowing them to play, or be creative with intricate or fine motor materials?

This picture explains why.

Up until 6 years of age, their tiny hands are still developing and are not fully formed. Children require progressive development in their hands to enable them to grasp and hold things and eventually develop their writing skills.

Like any muscles, we must train them, strengthen them and ‘work out’ to get them stronger - this is just the same for the muscles in children’s hands.

So what should be done to support this?

PLAY! Playdough, colouring, tearing, sensory play, beading, picking cotton balls with tweezer/cloth clips, cleaning, wiping, holding, grabbing, sweeping, cutting, planting, digging etc.

These types of activities may not seem like education to you, but they are the foundations of what is to come. Rush the process and the results will be catastrophic.

We must allow our children to develop their fine motor skills which in turn, develop the skills required for early, emergent writing and later full writing skills.

When children are ready to write, they will. No need to rush them, they will show you when they are ready 🙂

© Gavin McCormack

Retirement

1. one day you will retire. You won't be going to work. You won’t have office power any more. No influence or at best, a reduced influence. Your cash flow will also reduce.! Check retirement date on your payslip.

2. Always go for your 30days annual leave. Whatever you do during your leave, is what you will be doing when you retire. If all you do is to sleep or watch TV, then that’s what you are likely do do in your retirement. Remember the book of Proverbs. A little sleep and a little slumber, so shall your poverty multiply.
Watching Big Brother Naija will not save you heartache in retirement. Learn a trade or a skill during your leave. It will come handy. Spend your after-office hours learning something. Don’t spend it sleeping, Gossiping, watching TV!! Same goes for your weekend. Make them productive. You will thank yourself for spending your time productively.

3. Invest for your retirement... your children are not retirement investment. Don’t bank on your children’s support or the support of friends or relations. That’s a BIG risk. It may not happen. Be ready to take care of yourself!! Everyone has his own responsibilities. They won’t be able to help you that much. You will also lose your dignity and respect if you adopt a life of begging.

4. Start a hobby early in your working days to take you along when you retire. Rearing chicken, farming or own a shop. Acquire marketable skills ( not useless paper certificates) Etc

5. Where shall you retire. Build yourself a home. Don't retire and start to rent a house or refuse to vacate government house. You will be at the mercy of your landlord at a time when your cash flow is not only reduced but unpredictable!!

6. Who shall be your dependants. By the time you retire, your children should be above 18, and self reliant.

7. Don't retire and stay in a big city unless you can TRULY afford it. You can't continue living in a big city after 60 with limited financial resources. The language and the hustle will be hard for you. Where possible, Relocate to a less expensive town where your reduced take home (pension) can go further.

8. Have property which can be rented or converted into cash. Have shares that pay good dividends. Plant cash trees. Rear goats, cultivate vegetables etc. these activities will not only give you income but will also keep you healthy.

9. Live a simple life. If you never built a house at your rural home, dont use your retirement package to build. It is unwise unless you plan to live there on a permanent basis or you are super rich and therefore can afford the luxury. The choice is yours.

Note that many of retirees die early because of the following:

1. They are Not mentally prepared to retire.
2. Lack of finances
3. They Lapse into Depression
4 They develop Hypertension/ Diabetes because of worries, anxiety and uncertainty "and financial pressures.

YOUR DESK AT YOUR WORK PLACE IS NOT PERMANENT. PLAN FOR YOUR RETIREMENT.

SIX LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLES TO LEARN FROM AN EAGLE....

1. Eagles fly Alone and at High Altitudes.
They don't fly with sparrows, ravens, and other small birds.

MEANING; Stay away from narrow-minded people, those that bring you down. Eagle flies with Eagles. Keep good company.

2. Eagles have an Accurate Vision. They have the ability to focus on something as far as 5km away. No matter the obstacles, the eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it.

MEANING; Have a vision and remain focused no matter what the obstacles and you will succeed.

3. Eagles do not Eat Dead things. They Feed only on Fresh Prey.

MEANING; Do not rely on your past success, keep looking for new frontiers to conquer. Leave your past where it belongs, in the past.

4. Eagles Love the Storm.
When clouds gather, the eagle gets excited, the eagle uses the storms wind to lift itself higher. Once it finds the wind of the storm, the eagle uses the raging storm to lift itself above the clouds. This gives the eagle an opportunity to glide and rest its wings. In the meantime, all the other birds hide in the branches and leaves of the tree.

MEANING; Face your challenges head on knowing that these will make you emerge stronger and better than you were. We can use the storms of life to rise to greater heights. Achievers are not afraid to rise to greater heights. Achievers are not afraid of challenges, rather they relish them and use them profitably.

5. Eagles Prepare for Training;
They remove the feathers and soft grass in the nest so that the young ones get uncomfortable in preparation for flying and eventually flies/ when it becomes unbearable to stay in the nest./

MEANING; Leave your Comfort Zone, there is No Growth there.

6. When the Eagle Grows Old,
His feathers becomes weak and cannot take him as fast and as high as it should. This makes him weak and could make him die. So he retires to a place far away in the mountains. While there, he plucks out the weak feathers on his body and breaks its beaks and claws against the rocks until he is completely bare; a very bloody and painful process. Then he stays in this hiding place until he has grown new feathers, new beaks and claws and then he comes out flying higher than before.

MEANING; We occasionally need to shed off old habit no matter how difficult, things that burden us or add no value to our lives should be let go of.

Unconditional Love of a Parent - Breaking The Chains of Poverty
Remember your Children are not your Retirement Fund.
Be Financially Independent.. Do not RELY on your children.
Plan for your future and retirement and only have children that you can afford.

Your Children will help you if they really want to (unconditionally).
Do not pressure or give an obligation to your children a responsibility that you yourself are not able to establish.
Let your children have the life that they deserve and do not expect anything in return.

While our children can help us, it should be done voluntarily and not as an obligation. By then, our children will have their own families to look after. We owe it to ourselves to maintain our DIGNITY despite sickness and old age.

Remember
As children, you do it out of gratitude not obligation...
As parents, you receive with gratitude rather than entitlement...
Stop the cycle. Stop this toxic Filipino culture.
As Elon Musk said: “My children didn’t choose to be born, I chose to have children. They owe me nothing, I owe them everything.”

Try mo kumain ng burger 🍔 vs kumain ka ng gulay (or any healthy food) araw-araw 🥗

Parehas naman na kumain ka today. Makakafunction ka diba?😌

Pero 5 years from now makikita mo yung compounding effect ng ginawa mo....⏰

Healthy ka o may sakit ka na?🤔

💰Parang sa negosyo...
Magtamad tamad ka ngayon vs magsipag ka ngayon.

Parehas lang yung effect today, nagsurvive ka naman hindi ka parin naman mayaman. 😌

Again, 5 years from now makikita mo yung compounding effect ng ginawa mo....⏰

Survival mode ka pa rin ba sa work?
Or retired at mayaman ka na?🤑

✅Kaya bago ka mag-"sana all" sa mga taong nakikita mong successful ngayon,
na parelax relax,
patravel travel,
retired na sa work,
may time sa family,
tingnan mo din kung anong klaseng trabaho yung ginawa nila years ago 💪

Hindi ka napag-iiwanan, meron lang talagang willing gawin yung iba na hindi ka willing gawin kaya iba ang naging resulta nila.💯

Remember,
Who you are now, is the result of the decisions and actions you've made 5 yrs ago, and who you're going to be 5 yrs from now will be the result of the decisions you'll make today.❤️ ctto

Hindi masama makipag kaibigan, Pero piliin mo din mayroon mga kaibigan na papahamak ka, gagamitin ka lang pag ala kana pakinabang sa kanila tatapon ka lang matapos ka pakinabangan.😁

May mga kaibigan na kaya itapon ang pinag samahan nyo at sila pa nangunguna na siraan ka maging Bida lang sila sa mata ng Ibang tao.💯

Doon ka sa mga taong iisa ang mindset nyo, at hihilain ka nya pataas pag alam nya down na down ka. 🤗🤗

May mga kaibigan na minsan lang kau mag kita,mag usap o mag kamustahan pero sila pa ung mga totoo,Anjan sila na kaya ka comfort pag may pinag dadaanan ka. 💯

Maging wais tau sa pag pili dun ka sa kaibigan na kaya ka motivate at kaya ka support sa lahat ng achievement mo kasama siya. Mas proud na proud pa siya sayo.🤗🤗

Friends give hope when life is low.☺️

Friends are a place where we can go.😍

Friends are precious, honest and true.🤗

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Habang tinititigan ko ang Puno ng papaya na to naisip ko na kahit saan ka ilagay ng Panginoon pwede kang mabuhay at maging kapaki pakinabang..
At kahit ano pa ang kalagayan natin sa buhay pwede tayong magbunga
Everything is possible..
Wag kang maiinggit sa katayuan ng iba
Mag focus ka sa katayuan mo kung paano mo maiimprove ang sarili mo..😉👌🏻💯

"Behind every suffering there is a blessing"

Jesus replied, "You do not realize now what I'm doing, but later you will understand. "
John 13:7

"the pain that you've been feeling I can't compared to the joy coming."
Romans 8:18

Trust in him and Pray knowing that everything will be fine God bless you.

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Don't waste the prime years of your life staying or working for something that does not treat you right. Go to where you are treated best. Move to where you can be the best version of yourself, where you can thrive with other like minded people.

Sometimes cutting loss is not just for investments but it works for other aspects of your life as well. There are some things that no matter how much hard you work for it, it won't change.

New beginnings are amazing.

Ang sarap makakita ng kaibigan na umaasenso sa buhay. Sana lahat ganon yung pag iisip. Di puro inggit nararamdaman.

Just because you don’t see results today doesn’t mean it won’t be worth it tomorrow!

Kapag nagne-negosyo ka sasabihin bakit di ka magtrabaho,

‘Pag nagtrabaho ka naman sasabihin mas ok kung sariling negosyo.

‘Pag bumili ka ng motor sasabihin sana kotche nalang binili mo,

‘Pag kotche binili mo sasabihin inuuna pa kotche kesa sa bahay

Kapag maliit bahay mo sabihin kaliit naman pinagawa mo,

‘Pag nagpagawa ka ng malaki sasabihin gastos - pwede naman maliit nalang.

Kapag nag-avail ng installment sasabihin “ah wala sigurong pang-cash”

Kapag bumili ka ng cash sasabihin sayang dapat hinulugan mo nalang pwede mo pa magamit yung pera mo sa negosyo.


Kahit anung gawin mo, meh masasabi’t masasabi talaga yang mga taong nalulungkot sa kasiyahan ng iba.

Kaya ikaw, bilhin mo gusto mo. Gawin mo gusto mo.
Post mo, i-MyDay mo!
Pinagtrabahuhan mo yan, pinagpuyatan mo.
Pinaghirapan mo kung ano man yan, wala silang pakialam!

Ubusin nila oras nila kaka-puna sayo,
Hanggang sa hindi na nila alam pa’no maging tunay na masaya - kasi nabubuhay nalang sila sa buhay ng iba.

Good morning!😎👌🏻