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Sometimes you should tell people different stories about your life, so that when they gossip about you, they argue

YOU CANNOT SAVE ANYONE

You can be present with them, offer your groundedness, your sanity, your peace. You can even share your path with them, offer your perspective. But you cannot take away their pain. You cannot walk their path for them. You cannot give answers that are right for them, or even answers they can digest right now. They will have to find their own answers. ~Jeff Foster

10 lessons from Dale Carnegie's book "How to Win Friends and Influence People":

1. Don't criticize, condemn, or complain. This is one of the most important lessons in the book. When you criticize, condemn, or complain, you are putting the other person on the defensive. This makes it difficult for them to like you or want to help you.

2. Be a good listener. People love to talk about themselves. When you are a good listener, you are showing the other person that you care about them and what they have to say. This makes them feel good about themselves and more likely to like you.

3. Arouse in the other person an eager want. This is the key to influencing people. When you can help someone see how what you are offering will benefit them, they will be more likely to say yes.

4. Smile. Smiling is a simple way to make a good impression. It shows that you are friendly and approachable.

5. Remember names. People are more likely to like you if they feel like you know them. Make an effort to remember people's names and use them when you see them again.

6. Be genuinely interested in other people. This may seem like a no-brainer, but it's important to remember that people are more likely to like you if you are genuinely interested in them. Ask them questions about themselves and really listen to their answers.

7. Talk in terms of the other person's interests. People are more likely to be interested in what you have to say if you can relate it to their interests.

8. Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely. People like to feel important. When you can make someone feel important, they will be more likely to like you and want to help you.

9. Be a leader: arouse enthusiasm and get people to want to follow you. People are more likely to follow you if they are enthusiastic about what you are doing. Get them excited about your ideas and they will be more likely to support you.

10. Be a friend: do things for other people without expecting anything in return. People like to be appreciated. When you do things for other people without expecting anything in return, they will be more likely to like you and want to be friends with you.

These are just a few of the many lessons that can be learned from Dale Carnegie's book "How to Win Friends and Influence People." If you can apply these lessons to your life, you will be well on your way to building better relationships and achieving your goals.

BEWARE OF "ONE DAY"

1. ONE DAY you will lock your door, but you will not be the one to open it.

2. ONE DAY you will wash those best clothes of yours and you will not be able to wear it.

3. ONE DAY your favourite food will be prepared, and you will not be there to eat it anymore.

4. ONE DAY you will eat and drink what you will never excrete.

5. ONE DAY your curriculum vitae and all your years of experience will not matter to anyone anymore.

6. ONE DAY the person who seems to love you most will never dare to move closer to you.

7. ONE DAY you will think of what you can never accomplish.

8. ONE DAY you will be regarded as "a co**se"

9. ONE DAY you will be isolated in a place called "grave"

10. ONE DAY those things and people you love most will come your way, but you will not be able to give any attention to it/them.

11. ONE DAY you will hold your breath and never be able to release it.

12. ONE DAY you will become a defendant before The Chief Judge (GOD).

13. ONE DAY housefly/ termites will come your way, and you will be unable to chase them.

14. ONE DAY you will receive a call that you can never decline.

15. ONE DAY your name will be called, but no one will answer.

16. ONE DAY the assets you cherished most will be taken by another person.

17. ONE DAY your deed on Earth will be presented to you like a CD.

18. ONE DAY a title will be added to your name "The Late"

19. ONE DAY the Great Allocator will allocate you to an appropriate place.

20. ONE DAY that your beautiful skin will turn to its original nature-sand/dust.

21. ONE DAY your entire body will cease operation. The verb will change from he is a good man to he was a good man.

22. ONE DAY you will be given an eternal apartment, either Paradise or hell.

23. ONE DAY you will not be able to hold or type anything on this phone anymore.
Take LIFE easy, DO GOOD, and run from EVIL. Be at peace with everyone, and love your neighbour as yourself.

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Ten Lessons from The Art of War by Sun Tzu:

1. Know yourself and your enemy. This is the first principle of warfare, and it is essential for success.

2. Engage only on your terms. Don't fight a battle that you cannot win.

3. Use deception to your advantage. Keep your enemy guessing and off balance.

4. Be flexible and adaptable. Don't be afraid to change your plans if the situation demands it.

5. Strike at the enemy's weakness. Don't waste your time and resources attacking their strengths.

6. Use surprise to your advantage. Catch your enemy off guard and they will be more likely to lose.

7. Conserve your strength. Don't waste your resources on unnecessary battles.

8. Be patient and persistent. Don't give up easily, even if you are losing.

9. Use your intelligence and cunning. Don't rely on brute force to win.

10. Win without fighting. This is the highest form of victory.

These are just a few of the many lessons that can be learned from The Art of War. If you are interested in learning more about the art of war, I recommend reading the book.

I hope this helps!

before you focus on helping or providing for others, you should make sure you have taken care of your own needs and aspirations. Just like building a castle requires a solid foundation, helping others is more effective when you've secured your own well-being and goals. It emphasizes the importance of self-care and self-improvement before extending your efforts to others.