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Ever feel like navigating your s.xual desires is like trying to decipher an ancient map, full of symbols and paths you just can't seem to follow?

You're not alone on this quest.

The truth is, that everyone's map to arousal is unique. Yours too!

And you deserve to receive pleasure exactly the way YOU want it!
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5 Essentials for Or****ic Satisfaction, To Get Your Bedroom Desires Fulfilled!
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I'd like to invite you for a free call ...
On this call I’ll give you tools to help you…
Claim your unique pleasure map
Ask for what you want in the bedroom (and get it)
Increase confidence in your s*xy superpowers

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Take a Step Towards Or****ic Satisfaction
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You want more from your s*x life!

But you may be struggling with one or more of these challenges:

Perhaps your suffering in your relationship or as a single person, desperately wishing you could get your needs met....

Or do You have difficulty staying connected to your partner/pleasure, you can’t ever seem to reach that ecstatic climax...

As an intimacy coach, I hear from various grumbles from folks, do you relate to any of these?

1. You don’t know how to ask for what you want… or maybe you don’t even know what you want...

2. Or do You lack confidence in the bedroom, and you or your lover is always left unsatisfied...

3. Or maybe you’re bursting at the seams with desire ready to expand into new zones of erotic gratification and don't know where you start...

If you relate to any of these, I can help you move in the direction of your intention...

I invite you to take the quiz and find out what your Er.tic Blueprint is.
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1zIfnjvURvuzbgsoKbYv4u461_dpdCuowsNJnDSupVJc/edit?usp=sharing

https://theblueprintbreakthrough.securechkout.net/in-depth-quiz?_gl=1*1pf1b7*_ga*MTQ5NTQ5MzUzMS4xNzE1NjExNDg4*_ga_Y9LB6PMSWZ*MTcxNTYyNDEyOS4yLjAuMTcxNTYyNDEzNy4wLjAuMA..

Here is an amazing podcast with the inventor of the Er.tic Blueprint Program; Jaiya and Tim Gray.

The S*x Quiz That Will Change Your Life with Jaiya Discover your ‘erotic blueprint’, connect more deeply with your partner and improve your health.“We don't know who we are erotically. So how are we even goin...

Even though I have been certified as an intimacy and relationship coach for 2 years, I know what it’s like to struggle with lack of intimacy and connection in a long term relationship

Because years ago, that struggle consumed my life.

I know what it’s like to wake up and wonder what went wrong and spend sleepless nights trying to figure out how to improve things between you and your partner, but not knowing what to do, that will actually work.….

And to lay down at night thinking how did we lose that spark and that closeness and that desire for intimacy and how I wish we could get it back.

It got so bad that I went to therapy to try and figure out what was wrong with me.

So, I know how painful it can be.

And I know what it’s like to be on the other side of it..
I now know how to ask for what I want in a relationship, to feel confident and alive and how to keep things fresh and romantic.

The best part is it’s not hard and it doesn’t take years of therapy to learn these things; you’re not broken and neither is your partner. When I found the 5 Erotic Blueprints and learned that very few couples have the same Love Language, it all made sense. Learning about your partner’s Love Language can help with s.xual incompatibility and bring couples back to a place of fun connection and new adventures together.

And now I want this kind of life for everyone; I want to see women feeling confident and self assured, helping to co-create relationships that are filled with good communication, and fabulous intimacy and connection, however that looks for each couple! That’s why I do the work that I do.

Even though there’s a part of me that thinks that I’m sharing too much about my life’s work this week (as I shared earlier, I’m in a 5 day challenge) my deeper truth is that I care way too much about helping people to get embarrassed and let that fear stop me.

Because I know how painful it can be when you have a feeling of disconnection and lack of intimacy with your special someone; it makes you start to question your attractiveness and your worth.

And I have dedicated myself to helping as many people as possible to ignite their confidence and connection with their partner and bring back the joy, delight and fun back into their relationship.
So if you or anyone you know struggles with feeling disconnected and stuck or having routine s.x and s.xual incompatibility in their relationship, I’m offering 5 free Ignite Your Confidence and Create Connection Consultations, to help you start moving forward.

Life’s too short to spend it with lack of romance, intimacy and adventure in relationships and I’d be honored to support you or someone you know and care about with this.
LMK if I can help…

Even though my passion for women’s happiness, with themselves and their relationships have led me to get my coaching certification and start a new career….

I have to admit that I’ve been playing small and not yet making the impact I know that I’m here to make. Maybe it’s fear of judgment and overthinking all the details involved in starting a different business and putting myself out there … why I haven’t shared more about my journey and why I’m so passionate about my work.

But that changes this week! I've joined a 5-Day Challenge to support me to be more VISIBLE and share more of my story with you.

Because I know that there are a lot of women I could help, who struggle with debilitating lack of passion and desire and feeling lonely and stuck in their relationship.

I was always taught that talking about myself was bragging and I’ve never been comfortable with that anyway and no one wants to hear about my struggles.
So that's why I haven't shared much about my story and why I'm so passionate about my work.
But I know that there are a lot of people I could help who experience a feeling of disconnection from their partner, lack of romance, a routine s*x life or a lack of desire to even connect intimately, lack of excitement and s*xual incompatibility and are ready for change and if that’s you or someone you know and you want to get your life and your relationship back, you want that energy, excitement and vitality in life that you had, when you first started dating, I’m here to help with that (and yes, it is possible!)
I'll share more of my story later,...
But for now, if you would like to see me make a bigger and more positive impact and difference in the lives of a LOT more people,...
Drop me a note below so that I know that you’ve seen this…

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/j4HdRp5fsHfgCgbC/?mibextid=WC7FNe

Most women in long term relationships believe that the spark of love and intimacy will last forever

This is an amazing opportunity; Jaiya is the founder and author of the Blueprint Breakthough Course and the 5 Erotic Blueprints. She is moving on to other things and before doing that she's decided to take folks through the Blueprint Breakthough series, one last time. DM me if you are interested in more details.

This a great podcast to learn about the Erotic blueprints and why they are helpful for couples.

This. Via Peter Brouwer.

when they want to
control you
they do not come
with shackles
made of iron
they come instead
with cages made
of shame and story
like the one
about the woman
who earned crisis
for her curiosity
so tempted by a life
of wisdom and independence
she caused the downfall
of all civilization

women are dangerous
says the shame story of Eve
they cannot
be trusted and
should not
trust themselves

give a woman
free choice and
she’ll eat the fruit
tempt the man
enrage the god
she’ll destroy us all
with her mad desire
to know
to discover
to understand
her self
her world
her maker
give a woman any freedom
and she’ll follow
her curiosity
shape her
own story
seek truth beyond
the dictates
of order and obedience

she will wreck
your carefully controlled mandates
your reign of tightness
she will unmake
your holy wars
of right and wrong
and infuse the realm with
choice and instinct
empathy outranking rules
creativity eclipsing war
sovereignty subsuming
blind servitude

when you want to know
like Eve
when you have a taste
for truth
and a hunger for wisdom
you have to question
the stories
test the facts
rattle the cage
who profits from you
believing a lie?
who benefits because you
believe you are both
cause and curse?

they have tried
to burn you
with their shame
strip you
violate you
shrink you
silence you
but they could not break
your phoenix spirit
its fierce heat
will melt old regimes
and enflame a generation
who will not settle
for smallness
for submission
for shame

sink your self into
the feathered
red sleeve
of your ancestors
and rise, woman
rise again
for you are
Persephone’s Daughter
Lilith’s lover
Eve’s heir

find the truth
eat the fruit
unmask the myth
let it burn

poem Angi Sullins
Www.witchoracle.com
www.patreon.comangisullins
Art @ Yuri Klapough

I was reading a post about our body’s being a musical instrument and
Immediately I was taken back to an exquisite moment in time when I discovered my body could be an instrument of pleasure. When my body truly felt like a harp full of strings and air, making music as well as pleasure in the bedroom.
As a girl, since the time I was very little I was always like the energizer bunny, always busy, active,running. I had a progressive muscle relaxation practice that helped me slow down and fall asleep but I rarely stopped to slow down and feel into my body to savor the moment .
Until recently!!
In the last few years, I have been working to slow down, to meditate🧘‍♀️, to listen and I've been working ( no, playing) to notice my body💃 and feel my body and notice the sensations.
More than just muscle tension and relaxation, I now can focus and really go inward to feel my body and ALL the sensations, to feel the aliveness and flow and the energy moving through and around the body.
I've also studied to relearn my own s*xuality–to transform my practice as a relaxing tool, to a deep sensation based practice. I can feel my sensations when both giving and receiving pleasure.
When I slow down and go inward, I can become very, very super aware of sensation inside the body, outside the body, AND even in the space around the body; that energetic layer. I have discovered that although we are matter—all matter is also energy and all energy vibrates at different speeds. And so on this beautiful day , as I was enjoying the touch of another human, I started to realize that my whole body was vibrating.
I started to feel like a harp and if he touched one place, it was one note.
And if he touched another place, it was another note.
I started to hum (likely out of tune)
I started to connect my voice with my body and the pleasure was exquisite.
I literally was one with the universe, a human musical instrument and my friend was playing a symphony 🎹🎵.
When we slow down– as women, we can connect with our breath 😤and our body, with the notes and the silence between the notes.
Remember always.. life is breath… which is air and space.
And we create our own reality.
We can create and play music 🎶 because our body is an instrument and this instrument gets to play when we choose.
When you relax so much that you are totally at peace☮️🕊️ , you too, can notice the merging of energy and matter, you too can feel both the notes and the quiet between the notes , you can feel the body and the energy simultaneously.
This can be the embodiment of oneness or unity-this indivisible experience.
I am connected to everything in the universe and there is everything in space🌌
There is really no separation.
And I am connected to the person playing my instrument whether it be me or another human and we can be connected to everything beyond me– to the entire universe.
And so when I look at that beautiful flower;
I see a representation of a part of the human body
BUT I ALSO SEE
🎶music , sound, 🎼harmony,
☯️oneness
☮️peace,
🤗compassion.
🫂🌈pleasure
All of that leads to a relaxed nervous system…
The vagus nerve is turned on and
The adrenal gland and stress is turned off
We are transported to a
A state of restful ness and digestion 🍇😋
A state of relaxation ☺️ and reproduction🥚🍆
The state that we humans can choose to live in, heaven on earth⛱️
It's a state of open hearted compassion ❤️‍🔥🔥🤗🫂and connection.
Me to you
You to me
We are one
I invite you to play with your instrument.
Get to know it.
Slow down, listen, feel all the sensations.
i Invite you to know that you really are an instrument of pleasure.
The feminine is truly musical🎼🎶, an instrument of creation🧸
We create life 🐥
We can create our life ⛈️🌤️
We can create through pleasure🏳️‍🌈
Through Love 💘💗💞
We all come from love and connection 💞🫂.
We can tap into the beauty of this feminine musical instrument that creates pleasure and creates life
Let's choose to live from love and pleasure and not fear
Let's start living from being rather than doing.
I invite you to stop and listen to the music.
Listen to your music.
Stop and move your body to music
Let your body feel the music and allow sounds to come out.
Let your body's say PRIORITIZE PLEASURE

PLEASURE IS YOUR BIRTHRIGHT
You were born to be well and
you were born to be you
Pleasure and Play is your PORTAL to BIRTHING your best life 💕🎆.

“Forget relationships and learn how to relate. Once you are in a relationship you start taking each other for granted – that’s what destroys all love affairs.

The woman thinks she knows the man, the man thinks he knows the woman. Nobody knows either! It is impossible to know the other, the other remains a mystery. And to take the other for granted is insulting, disrespectful. To think that you know your wife is very, very ungrateful. How can you know the woman? How can you know the man? They are processes, they are not things.

The woman that you knew yesterday is not there today. So much water has gone down the Ganges; she is somebody else, totally different. Relate again, start again, don’t take it for granted. And the man that you slept with last night, look at his face again in the morning. He is no more the same person, so much has changed. So much, incalculably much has changed.

That is the difference between a thing and a person. The furniture in the room is the same, but the man and the woman, they are no more the same. Explore again, start again. That’s what I mean by relating.”

~ Osho
Gratitude to unknown artist

Healing Intimacy

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Enabling is not love. Rescuing is not love. Allowing adults to face the consequences of their actions is a true act of love. This is how we allow people to wake up. This is how we show ourselves self respect

Due to the fact everyone is slowly getting hi-jacked, yeah hi-jacked not hacked, they're flat out hi-jacking our accounts, even more now.
Just in case Notice: An attorney advised us to post this. The violation of privacy can be punished by law. NOTE: Facebook Meta is now a public entity. All members must post a note like this. If you do not publish a statement at least once, it will be technically understood that you are allowing the use of your photos, as well as the information contained in your profile status updates.
I HEREBY STATE THAT I DO NOT GIVE FACEBOOK META MY PERMISSION TO USE ANY OF MY PERSONAL DATA OR PHOTOS.
Copy and paste, do not share. I am getting more sales ad posts than friends' posts. Hold your finger anywhere in this post and click ′′ copy ". Go to your page where it says "What's on your mind." Tap your finger anywhere in the blank field. Click paste. This upgrades the system.

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Do you know what traits successful long term couples strive to develop? let me share this with you...
1. Self-awareness: Both partners in a relationship should have a strong sense of self-awareness, understanding their own emotions, triggers, and patterns of behavior. This allows them to recognize and regulate their own emotions effectively.

2. Empathy: Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another person. Emotional intelligent couples are able to empathize with each other, validating and understanding each other's emotions and experiences.

3. Effective communication: Good communication is essential in any relationship, and emotionally intelligent couples excel in this area. They are able to express themselves clearly and assertively, actively listen to each other, and effectively resolve conflicts or misunderstandings.

4. Emotional regulation: Emotionally intelligent couples have the ability to regulate their emotions in a healthy and constructive way. This means being able to manage and express emotions without becoming overwhelmed or reactive, and finding healthy outlets for emotions such as stress or frustration.

5. Conflict resolution skills: Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, but emotionally intelligent couples are able to navigate conflicts in a constructive and respectful manner. They are able to communicate their needs and concerns without blame or criticism, actively listen to each other's perspectives, and work towards finding mutually agreeable solutions.

These traits form the foundation for a strong and resilient relationship, allowing couples to navigate challenges, understand and support each other, and build a deep and meaningful connection.

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🔥 Reigniting the Flames of Passion 🔥
Hey there, Facebook friends! 💙 Today, I wanted to address a common question that many of us ponder at some point in our relationships: "How do I recreate passion within my relationship?" Let's dive into some tips and tricks that could help reignite the spark! ✨💑
1️⃣ Communication is Key: Open up those lines of communication with your partner. Share your desires, your dreams, and your fantasies. Truly listen to each other without judgment, and encourage open and honest dialogue. This deep level of understanding can reignite the passion within your connection.
2️⃣ Quality Time Together: In the midst of our busy lives, it's crucial to carve out quality time for each other. Plan regular date nights or surprise outings where you can explore new adventures together. Rediscover shared interests or try something new. Remember, it's all about creating those special moments that make your hearts race!
3️⃣ Spice it Up: Routine can sometimes dampen the flames of passion. Break out of the mundane by adding a pinch of spice to your relationship. Surprise each other with unexpected gestures, small gifts, or romantic gestures. Explore new activities together, both inside and outside of the bedroom, to keep things exciting and adventurous.
4️⃣ Intimacy and Affection: Never underestimate the power of physical touch and emotional intimacy. Show appreciation, express love, and be affectionate towards one another. Small gestures like holding hands, cuddling, or sharing passionate kisses can reignite those fiery feelings you once had.
5️⃣ Prioritize Self-Care: Remember to prioritize your individual happiness and well-being. When you feel fulfilled and content within yourself, you bring a vibrant energy into your relationship. Pursue your passions, take care of your physical and mental health, and encourage your partner to do the same. Supporting each other's personal growth can strengthen the bond you share.
Remember, relationships evolve, and passion requires effort from both partners. It's a journey you embark on together, filled with love, understanding, and dedication. 🌟
Do you have any other tips for recreating passion in a relationship? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below! Let's spread the love and help each other keep the flames burning bright! 🔥💕

🔥 Reigniting the Flames of Passion 🔥
Hey there, Facebook friends! 💙 Today, I wanted to address a common question that many of us ponder at some point in our relationships: "How do I recreate passion within my relationship?" Let's dive into some tips and tricks that could help reignite the spark! ✨💑
1️⃣ Communication is Key: Open up those lines of communication with your partner. Share your desires, your dreams, and your fantasies. Truly listen to each other without judgment, and encourage open and honest dialogue. This deep level of understanding can reignite the passion within your connection.
2️⃣ Quality Time Together: In the midst of our busy lives, it's crucial to carve out quality time for each other. Plan regular date nights or surprise outings where you can explore new adventures together. Rediscover shared interests or try something new. Remember, it's all about creating those special moments that make your hearts race!
3️⃣ Spice it Up: Routine can sometimes dampen the flames of passion. Break out of the mundane by adding a pinch of spice to your relationship. Surprise each other with unexpected gestures, small gifts, or romantic gestures. Explore new activities together, both inside and outside of the bedroom, to keep things exciting and adventurous.
4️⃣ Intimacy and Affection: Never underestimate the power of physical touch and emotional intimacy. Show appreciation, express love, and be affectionate towards one another. Small gestures like holding hands, cuddling, or sharing passionate kisses can reignite those fiery feelings you once had.
5️⃣ Prioritize Self-Care: Remember to prioritize your individual happiness and well-being. When you feel fulfilled and content within yourself, you bring a vibrant energy into your relationship. Pursue your passions, take care of your physical and mental health, and encourage your partner to do the same. Supporting each other's personal growth can strengthen the bond you share.
Remember, relationships evolve, and passion requires effort from both partners. It's a journey you embark on together, filled with love, understanding, and dedication. 🌟
Do you have any other tips for recreating passion in a relationship? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below! Let's spread the love and help each other keep the flames burning bright! 🔥💕

Truth spoken here…

Motivational Monday!

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