Ashley Sibille- Claim Your Lane

Had to borrow this for one.
So good❤️

Don’t walk through the world looking for evidence that you don’t belong. Because you will always find it.

Don’t walk through the world looking for evidence that you’re not enough. Because you will always find it.

Our worth and our belonging are not negotiated with other people. We carry those inside our hearts. ❤️

I know who I am.
And I’m not going to negotiate that with you.

Because then I may fit in for you, but I no longer belong to myself.

And that is a betrayal I’m not willing to do anymore.

~ Brene Brown

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This is for my 33.3%.

Rhonda Britten I will never forget when you shared this on stage - when you drew the pie chart. It changed me. Thank you.

Why do we spend so much time trying to get the other 66.6% to like us, love us, understand us?

This came to mind today when I wanted to write what I am about to write. Not that I feel the need to explain anything but really to define something that has given me freedom and I hope it frees you to. I write because it helps me and I write because I know that we are all seeking so many of the same things and maybe, just maybe in me unearthing something within me it helps you unearth something in you.

And if you're my 33.3%- you will just get that. ;)

Lately I have felt the absolute joy of celebrating wins of people in my life. I feel this so deeply. It makes me tear up because I honestly feel like Im winning when they are winning. My friend Simone is such an amazing creative and people are just drawn to what she creates and as a witness to it- I feel so filled up.
My friend Anella is such a power house and making such difference in how children are learning to read.
My friend Denise has created the most beautiful inclusive space where people come together to commune, to have coffee and tea and be surrounded by plants and beautiful things.
My friend Lori Landry is up to so many things and the universe is just opening up for her. Lynn just hosted a retreat in Tuscany

I could write so many names here to acknowledge the wins, the personal triumphs- Cecilia, Alyson, Jennifer,
Its the acknowledging, the calling out, the I SEE YOU and you are doing amazing things. It's so important.

Witnessing the challenges and then the beautiful opening where things start to flow. Sometimes I think I am meant to just be here to support, witness, cheer, and remind you that you can. I love that space. And I don't mind being corny or whatever thing stops us from really cheering on people we love.

I love watching and creating wins- actually the ultimate is the win-win-win where what you do is actually rippling into a giant win storms- (lol I just came up with that.) I love this space. I love the space where creativity touches possibility and courage is the wind in the sail. I choose to live there as much as I can release and let go and go there.

When your world feels heavy just remember there is place where love, possibility, freedom and creativity live that will buoy us and help us live in the bright light that we are here to shine. And if you need someone to cheer you on, believe in your dreams, support your vision- I am here.

And yes I happily embrace all of the things that I am up to- selling our little pots of joy, creating videos from up in the sky, taking care of my momma as best I can and being here, right here to serve, to hold space and do whatever feels like the next right step to create community and support.

PS this post was 4 times longer but I made myself cut it and save the other stuff for later. It was a bit much. And I love you!

***only 1 left***

I have some special Little Pots that I am selling directly....incase you don't know- last year, I partnered with the amazingly talented Simone Potier McCrocklin to sell Little Pots on Etsy- we are having a blast and its given me a fun creative outlet and the ability to bring a little joy to people. I love it!

Everyone who buys them LOVES them. What's a little pot? Its a little bit of awesome that you can hang from your rearview mirror or we have a vent clip version. They are all hand crafted and unique. You add a little fragrance oil and voila, your car smells amazing and you cant help but smile when you see your little pot.

Just a little goodness from our heart to yours.

Anyway- I only have a handful of the one in the picture- so Im just selling them directly. If you want a little "Beach Bliss" grab it while its here!

Let me know which fragrance and if you want hanging or vent clip?

Link to purchase in comments!

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truth!

You don’t need to DO anything to be enough.

You are enough. ❤️

a big yes to this!

Well since I won’t be doing this for my birthday..

Maybe I can get something I really love which is connection.
I feel grateful that I have curated my social platforms to really be a loving supportive space and that makes me happy.

Connecting and hearing from people from all over - some people I met for a moment, some I have shared awesome experiences with and some I have known my whole life.

It makes me giddy how beautiful it all is….
As an aquarian I just want a lovefest- so please send me a great memory or picture and that will be the best birthday gift ever….well, next to an awesome hug of course ;)

ps. And asking for what I want is making me light headed

pss. Here’s to a new year of growth, possibility, making cool videos, circling up, storytelling, stepping out, new opportunities, lots of connection, giving back, hugs hugs and more hugs and of course traveling!

Happy Day! Just got my shirt in the mail! Might be a lil snug but Im a happy girl nonetheless :)
My Etsy store is in its infancy and coming along- I'm loving the creative process. Check it out here! https://claimyourlane.etsy.com/

You know - it takes what it takes...
Claim Your Lane always reminds me to snap back to my center. Focus on what matters most to me and really what lights me up. Like community and connecting to amazing people and being creative to name a few.

What about you?

Fun day celebrating our newly engaged Julia with our favorite kinda day- a golf cart ride and a fun beverage ❤️

I’m pretty excited about this.

Adventure Awaits: 15oz Ceramic Mug Embrace Your Inner - Etsy This Mugs item is sold by ClaimYourLane. Ships from Beltsville, MD. Listed on Jun 28, 2023

It’s hard to change.
It’s hard to try new things sometimes
It’s hard to get out of a rut when you feel wedged in it.

But if you can find the courage to ask for what you and to step towards what lights you up - the path will appear and the next steps will be evident. But only when you make that first move.

It’s hard but really much harder in the standing still. ❤️

Love this so much. It’s a great guide to shift your energy.

If your willing, it will work.

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Life kinda feels like a series of prompts- do i stay in here
or do i go out there?
Where i can find new adventures and see beautiful things?

And sometimes you just need to
Stay in and be still. And sometimes you need to courageously step OUT THERE.

Here’s the nudge to step into your next adventure before you’re ready. 1,2 ready goooooo!

Ischia.
I have so much to say about this place. I’m blissed out beyond the beyond. I found me.

A lot more to come. Just wanted to share a little update.

***And to anyone feeling the nudge to do something. Please please please do it. Make the reservation. Buy the ticket. Just do it. Life is so short and there are so many things to do and experience. Please….. - if you needed a sign or a nudge than this is me nudging you.

I’ve been quiet for so long.

If you needed me to come out of my quiet to give you the nod or the you can do it. Than here you go.
DO IT!!

Please if you need any encouragement, call me, message me. You are precious and life is short and if you can feel any piece of what I’m feeling than it is my duty to say LIFE IS CALLING YOU…if doesn’t have to look like what I’m doing, it’s whatever you know is pulling at you.

Just want to encourage you and remind you that whatever is tapping you- listen to it.

Ok sorry for anyone else who is like wtf is she talking about. The people who know - know.

I love you❤️

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Needed... Caring adults to "fill the gap".

Called to Coach and Inspire booklet on our site...

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2023, we’re more than ready for you. 🤍 via

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Just so dang excited for you this year! Happy January 1st my friends.
- your coach, Brendon.

#2023