Danielle Sholly

Remember to make your inner child laugh! (That’s me in the middle)

I recently visited my family and we busted out the photo album. Seeing this picture brought me to tears because I can remember that age… and how happy and care free I was.

It reminded me that she’s still inside my heart 💜

Don’t forget about that little kid inside of you who still needs your love, care, and attention.

Have you ever sat down to journal all the pain you’ve overcome in your life and realized, “Wow, that’s a lot!”

I just did that today to see how far I’ve come and why I feel so passionate about helping women break through their self-doubts, limitations, and insecurities.

They say your mess becomes your message, so I guess it’s about to get real, ladies.

I’m ready to open up more, share my story, and weave some magical transformation into the lives of others.

The biggest thing I keep coming back to is the idea of helping women to activate their dark feminine energy.

More on this to come, but for now, just remember how far you’ve come and give yourself some credit for being exactly where you are right now, it hasn’t always been easy babe. 💜

Here’s some of my favorite shots from my Peru trip April 2024. This was a trip of a lifetime!

It’s wild when you just say yes to life and figure out how to make something happen. The blessings come pouring in.
Don’t wait to do the things that matter to you!

Bienvenidos a Peru! 🦙 ⛰️ 💃

Such beautiful culture here and a perfect day with my chica 🌞

It’s my birthday! 38 and feelin’ great! 🥳

This year, I’m celebrating by traveling to Peru to check off a bucket list item… Machu Picchu! ⛰️

I leave April 8th 😊

Thank you to everyone supporting my journey on this beautiful planet, and my birthday wish this year is for every woman to feel cherished, embodied, and happy 🎂

Cheers! Xo

I’m honored to be a part of this epic giveaway! Charleston ladies check it out!

If you often think, “I don’t have time for me,” then it’s time to flip the script because your self-care is not a luxury, it’s a necessity.



And, while you might be telling yourself that:
“There aren’t enough hours in the day.”
“I’m so busy and there’s so much to do.”
“I can’t relax or I feel guilty.”

These are all excuses that are based on a belief system you have, and the good news is that you can shift your beliefs by shifting your identity.

Instead of constantly telling yourself that you “don’t have time,” try identifying as a person that makes time for yourself.

“I am able to take some time to relax because it helps me fuel my energy for the work I need to do tomorrow.”

I think we often feel guilty for ‘doing nothing’ and that has got to shift because without filling our own tank, we start running on fumes and burnout is around the corner.

I help my clients figure out what self-care practices really fuel them, so they can enjoy their life guilt-free.
And, have more energy for the things that truly matter. 💅🏼

If you know you need to prioritize yourself more, then definitely claim your complimentary session with me, so you can finally start moving forward.

Give yourself an hour of personalized attention as a first step towards a healthier and happier you. 🌞

Xo, D

Feeling disconnected from your body or are you in your head all the time? Try this! ⬇️

Feminine movement, like sensual dance, is all about getting into a flow state and into your BODY.

Flow state is when you aren’t thinking with the conscious mind, but are allowing yourself to be connected to pure source energy, which moves through you effortlessly.

A simple embodiment practice you can use to start getting into this flow state, and connection with yourself, is to put on a song and allow your body to freely move to that song.

No judgment, no particular dance moves in mind, just pure expression. See what comes through!

It also happens to be really fun! Next time you are feeling disconnected, or too much in your head, try this practice to immediately shift your state.

What song are you going to dance to? 💃

Can we just all agree to stop saying yes to things that aren’t the vibe for us?

You know what I’m talking about…
…the job that is causing you so much stress but you are afraid to try something else.

…that situationship that you know is not the best, but for some reason you keep going back for more.

…that unhealthy habit that makes you feel guilty every time you do it

THESE. HAVE. TO. GO. 👏✌🏻

Liberating yourself from your own self-imposed prison is the only way to get what you truly want.

Don’t take my word for it, try it on yourself and see how different you feel. Overcoming our shadows is the ultimate glow-up.

Agreed?

Here’s how I learned to listen to my intuition after years of self-doubt…

Intuition is that whispering voice deep inside of you that sometimes only speaks once, so it’s important to recognize what it sounds like.

I used to question if that little voice was true, or if I was just making it up or having paranoid thoughts.

So, I practiced listening when the stakes were low.
For example:

You know when you are about to leave your house and you get a thought out of nowhere like “I should grab a jacket.”

But, then your logical brain kicks in and is like, I’m just going to my friend’s house and back, and it’s warm out, I don’t need it. So you ignore the thought.

Then, by chance, your friend wants to take you out to dinner and the restaurant is freezing 🥶.

And you have that familiar thought, “Dang I should’ve listened to that voice.”

If you learn to listen to that voice in little situations like this more and more, you practice exercising that intuition muscle.

So, when you need your intuition in more serious situations (like if you should date someone or take that job) you are more confident listening to that voice.

That’s how I got started… how have you learned to tune into that voice? What advice do you have for others who doubt themselves?

Like and comment to spread the word!

Xo, D

A letter from a stranger… I’ve started Network Spinal care and the community here is so beautiful. 🥲

For Valentine’s week, we all chose a card at random with a person’s name on it, to write an uplifting message to anonymously.

The message written to me here is so perfect for where I am at ♥️

Thank you to whoever took the time to be so sweet. 🙌🏻

We need more of this in our world, don’t you agree?

One of my favorite mood-boosting, confidence hacks is to do a fun photoshoot! 📸

Not only does your creativity get stimulated, but you also walk away with an increased sense of self-esteem by seeing yourself in a new way. 🪞

Remember, the only thing that really matters is how you feel about yourself when you are by yourself!

Take time to appreciate the uniqueness you bring to the world and love yourself fiercely— always ♥️🌹

Happy Valentine’s Day 💌 to you, to me, and especially those around the world that could use a little extra love 🙌🏻

Photos by my lovely friend 🫶🏻

Xoxo, D 💋

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Have you joined yet?! I know it’s Superbowl Sunday and all, but that’s the perfect chance for you to learn some sexy moves while your partner watches the game with their buddies! 😘

This workshop is not only for Valentine’s Day, or if you have a partner, but it’s also the ultimate gift for your confidence and self-esteem!

What can you expect?

We start with a slow and simple warm-up designed to get you out of your head and into your body. It’s like a sexy yoga class!

You’ll learn simple, yet sultry movements, designed to turn you on and leave your partner speechless.

Finishing off with an easy and fun choreography that you can make your own, depending on your style.

You can show off this choreo on Valentines night for an unforgettable gift! 💝 👠

This class is DESIGNED FOR BEGINNERS, so no worries if you feel nervous, I promise you’ll have a blast and feel more sexy than you’ve ever felt!

Join by heading to the link in bio to sign up or:
ULTIMATEGIFT.DANIELLESHOLLY.COM

Share and join with a friend!

Any questions? Comments? Concerns? Leave them below 👇🏻

Guess what?! If you missed the last one, now is your chance to experience “The Ultimate Gift” Sensual Dance Masterclass! 👠

Just in time for Valentine’s Day, let me teach you some easy and seductive moves that you can use to blow your partner’s mind 🫣🤯

Or, you can keep the moves to yourself if you just want to connect with your sensual side.

Join an amazing community of women who are daring to liberate their sensuality and play with feminine magic…
All from the comfort of your own living room!

This class is for beginners and is a perfect introduction to sensual movement. Think of it like a sexy yoga class!

Check out all the juicy details at my link in bio 🌶️

Question? Comments? ⬇️

Invite a friend and let’s have some fun xoxo 💋

Your wounds are your teachers… Your soul’s curriculum that prepares you perfectly for your purpose.

The obstacles you overcame are the exact lessons your soul came here to learn, as long as you don’t get stuck in the story.

My friend went through unspeakable traumas, and is now using her medicine as a womb shaman, helping other women heal.

She is helping me heal 🫶🏻
And, she is a beautiful example of this principle in action.

She had a choice:

1. Let her traumas rule her life.
2. Transmute the energy and let it serve as a guide for others going through the same thing to heal.

One of my most important values is self-healing and I knew I had unresolved trauma in my womb due to health problems, toxic relationships, and abandoning my truth.

So, if I want to help women align to their truth, heal their relationship to their body through sensuality, and balance their feminine energy… then I have to walk the talk too.

I’ve been enjoying my womb healing sessions with my beautiful friend,

If you are a woman and are experiencing any of the following, I’d definitely recommend booking some sessions!
- unresolved sexual or emotional trauma
- female health issues
- disconnection from your femininity
- aversion to s3x or intimacy

Women rise together
❤️if you agree! And share this post with a woman in your life who could use some healing.

Xoxo D 💋

Double Tap if you agree! 💋

Instant results with some training with my friend !

This is the same day after doing some myofascial release techniques and posture training.

Picture 1: notice the curve in my low back and the position of my belly between the two pics.

Picture 2: my shoulders are more engaged and not drooping forward. Also notice the position of my hands and the gap between my arm and body.

I’m having trouble with my hip from years of pole dancing and being in high heels—yikes!

Want to know how I’m approaching fixing it? (And how you can address your body’s aches?) read on…

Functional Patterns addresses your fascia first, which is a web-like organ that connects your entire body.

If you have knots in your fascia, stretching and working out can make things worse, much like stretching a rubber band that has a knot in it… stretching won’t release the knot, it’ll just stretch the rubber on either side and put more tension on the knot.

The wound-up fascia tissue pulls on your muscles, which moves your skeletal system out of alignment. So, lifting heavy weights while having structural imbalances can cause further imbalances.

Without being too long-winded, basically, you don’t want to stretch or do weightlifting or other strenuous exercises before releasing this wound-up fascia.

Then, you want to focus on functional movements that the human body was meant to do: standing, walking, running, throwing.

It’s a really interesting approach, not only to fitness, but for healing the body from injuries, restoring proper joint function, and empowering the body to move more powerfully.

Anyway, it’s movement Monday, so I thought I’d share!

Myofascial release is so beneficial and has helped me tremendously.

Have you heard of fascia before? Tell me below!

Asking questions psychologically creates CHANGE & TRANSFORMATION.

When you ask yourself how or what, the brain automatically wants to give you an answer. 🤔

The traits on these photos are all ones I hear my clients saying they are lacking, and coincidentally, are all traits of the dark feminine archetype. 🦹🏻‍♀️

That part of you that is powerful, confident, magnetic, and can create transformation through feminine magic. ✨

Which one of these traits are you calling in more of this year? Tell me below!

And, ask yourself, how can I be more _______ today?

Xoxo 💋

Are you missing the warm sunshine as much as me? ☺️

Never thought I would live at the beach, but life brought me here to heal and start over.

After 3 years in Charleston, I can say that I’ve made a nice home for myself, great friends, and fun memories.

As a new year is starting, I’m focusing on a lot of personal healing and I have a feeling I’m not the only one.

So, to everyone out there who is working on something hard right now, or going through it, just remember that you aren’t alone.
And, I am sending rays of sunshine to you 🌞

Winter is meant to be a time to reflect, go within, and regenerate. Doing the work now means you’ll be ready to plant seeds when the spring rolls around.

Until then 🌱 love yourself fiercely, xoxo

Anyone else on a healing journey right now too???

You are powerful + you are loved ✨🫶🏻

We all need a good reminder every now and then. The holidays can be an emotional time and hard for a lot of people. 💆‍♀️

I want to remind you that no matter how you feel right now, there is a light inside of you that is pure love. The frequency of love resonates in every cell.

An easy way to tap into this is to think about something you love unconditionally, like a puppy.
Feel that sensation in your heart then let it spread throughout you. Practice this often, especially when you start to feel down.

You can also listen to music with Solfeggio frequency 528Hz
which is known as ‘the miracle note’ to boost your connection to the love frequency.

Love is all around, allow yourself to tap into it and receive ❤️

Ashton is my dancer name. She has been my sexy alter ego for 9 years now.

Tonight, she performs with for an unforgettable showcase called Sensuali(tease) at the

I’m honored to perform alongside these incredible, liberated women who are bringing sensual dance to the Charleston community.

My performance is about breaking free from all the shame, stereotypes, and judgements of exotic dancers.
It’s about staying true to myself even when others have tried to change me.

Tonight, we dance 💃

Oh yea, and bring your 1’s 💵😘

Xo, Ashton

Photo: .photography
Location: Hampton Park

Hope your Halloween is purrfectly spooky! 👻🎃😼

And, happy Samhain to my fellow witches 🧙‍♀️

Meow, xo 💋

Are you always second-guessing your decisions?

Do you feel confident when you are making a big decision in your life?

Do you even know what confidence feels like in your body?

I started out confident as a kid, and then little by little, I unlearned confidence through my conditioning at school.

I was teased by other kids for being too athletic, too smart, ugly, weird, too goofy.

I learned to hide and keep my mouth shut.

The feedback from the world told me that I had to blend in to fit in.
To be successful, but not too successful.
To be pretty, but not too attractive.

Basically, I was given such mixed signals about what society wanted, that I had no idea what I even wanted.

It took me years to reclaim the confident queen I am today through learning to trust myself again.

This is part of the de-conditioning work that I do with women now, because I notice that so many women don’t own who they are and what they want.

They are insecure because they don’t trust themselves (but it’s really the mixed messages they’ve received their entire life).

When you learn to shed the stories keeping you small, and start trusting yourself, your intuition, and what you want… then confidence is the natural result.

If you resonate with my story, leave a ❤️

If you want to learn how to trust yourself, so that you can become the confident woman you desire to be, then leave a 💃
And I’ll reach out to you with something special!

Xo 💋

Nature turns me on… fitness turns me on… photography turns me on…

So, what’s the point?

Letting ourselves get ‘turned on’ in non-s3xual contexts, taps us into our sensual essence.

The part of us that senses, and feels pleasure.

Turn on to me means your energy is activated, and the more you allow yourself to FEEL and be activated, the more you are able to be in touch with what you really enjoy.

This goes for the bedroom, but also, what you enjoy in your career, your hobbies, and your relationships.

Our turn-on is a barometer for what gives us energy. ✨

(Especially Generators and Manifesting Generators in Human Design…I’m a generator)

So, pay close attention to what
*lights you up*
*turns you on*
*gives you energy*

Those are good indicators about where to focus your time. And, where you will find endless supplies of energy to fuel you.

Where are my other generators and MGs?!

Don’t know your human design? Comment ‘Design’ and I’ll reach out with where you can get your free chart!

Xo 💋

They say you never forget your first…
lap dance workshop 😜

Here’s what one woman messaged me after the event:

“Loved the class! I came home and was amazed at what I could do with my boyfriend after that class 😘
The class gave me a foundation, and what came after was natural and super hot. I left the boyfriend speechless ***I should have put that in my review 🤣”

I’ll just let those words speak for themselves 🥵

Don’t miss the next one! We are planning for early December in Asheville again.

Let me know if you want on the list!

Xo 💋

“Danielle’s confidence is mesmerizing. I wanted to learn from her and feel more embodied, empowered, and sexy. I left the workshop feeling those things and more!”

YAS queen! All the ladies left with huge smiles and a new sense of sensual confidence 🥂💜

I can’t wait to do more of these!!! 💃

Getting ready to rock this sensual lap dance workshop!!! 🔥

Wish me luck, fam!

Question: would you take a lap dance workshop? If yes why? 🙋🏻‍♀️ If no, why not?

WHAT INSPIRES YOU TO COME ALIVE???

Dancing is what makes me feel alive & helps me connect to my true essence ✨💃

When I am performing, it’s just me and my body, in perfect union and flow…feeding off the energy of a crowd.

There’s no other feeling like it! 🔥

What helps YOU come alive?

Poetry? Singing? Crafting? Writing?

As women, we are divine vessels of creative energy. We are meant to create…whether that’s children, businesses, community, etc.

Tapping into your creativity awakens a dormant magic within you. 🪄

A sense of flow state and connection to something beyond you.

When we consciously tap into this energy, not only do we awaken every cell in our bodies, but we tap into our spiritual life force.

(Sacral chakra flow, baby!!!) 👄

The connection to all that is.

The great creator.

Quantum magnetic field.

When you are alive, a.k.a. “Turned on”
You create a energetic field around you that acts as a magnet 🧲

You feel confident, connected, and lit up 💡

When you know what lights you up, turns you on, and taps you into creative energy… Well, you become a magnet for ALL that you desire.

Tell me what turns on your creativity below! 👇🏻💣

And if you want help figuring that out, I have a quiz that will help guide you. Reply QUIZ and I’ll DM you the link.

Xo 💋

You know what I was thinking about yesterday?

I paid ALOTA money for these teeth, so I’m gonna smile darn it 😁

Even though I paid $26 for a sandwich and a latte 🙄🤔

Who else is a bit overwhelmed with how expensive things have gotten?!

Who else is overwhelmed in general?

When I feel this way, I come back to gratitude, as hard as that is to do sometimes.

It immediately shifts my thoughts from stress and overwhelm to feeling expansive and abundant.

What do you try when overwhelmed? What are the things bringing overwhelm to your life?

Share with the community below and let’s support each other. 🫶🏻

Why are you still second-guessing yourself, when you already know the truth?

Literally, I see almost every woman that I know doing this in some area of their life.

Maybe she’ll stay in that toxic relationship a little too long…even though it’s causing her immense pain.

Maybe she’s staying in a job that stresses her the eff out when she knows she has so many other options.

Or perhaps she knows she needs support in her life, but she’s too afraid to ask and be “bothersome.”

I’m calling all the women in my life up…to not only embrace their truth, but ACT ON IT.

Sometimes we learn a hard lesson when we don’t listen, but try not to keep learning the hard lessons, babe.

Especially, when you already KNOW the truth.

If this resonates lemme see a 🙌🏻