Bloom Shaki

This year I want a clear mind. A focused mind. Next level disciplined mind.

Less time online will open up more space and time on what’s truly important.

Social media is a tool, one which can enhance or diminish your life depending on how you use it.

Use it to your benefit by focusing on creating over consuming and connecting over comparing. Be mindful of the content you consume, media you are watching, conversations you are having and the energy you are cultivating-guard the gates of your mind with care, be selective with your attention.

Im spending that extra time with vibrant energy to cook nourishing meals, read more, be present, let my own creativity flow so I create more content than I consume and brainwash myself into greatness.

Read through this with your undivided attention.

It’s not a woman’s job to rescue a man. You can’t inspire a man to get better. Men inspire themselves to be better when they fall in love with a woman they want. They will get their s**t together.

If you’re trying to mother him, you lack self worth. Again, he should be inspired by himself to be your dream man!!!

Don’t try to change him or wait on his potential. Let him be who he is.

Let him come prepared or put himself together for you Goddess.

Knowing things are going to work out is a form of divine protection

If you don’t trust in yourself. You are not confident which means you’re out of alignment and you can’t create. You can’t exist. You can’t dream.

So start trusting in yourself. Your abilities, your love, your happiness, your beliefs cause ultimately this is your world. Start living in it.

Firstly, it’s a particular type of woman. As women we are oracles tapped into the unseen realms. We amplify what a man gives us.

Then….If you let a woman love you well, she’ll advance and amplify everything about you.

But a lot of men are resistant to that because they subconsciously fear the magnitude of who they can become.

Ladies,

Our role with creating a safe container for the masculine to heal and level up starts by us ending the pattern of demasculating men as a result of our wounding.

If you truly believe there are no good, healthy masculine men out there.. then that is all you will see & continue to find.

The wounding that starts with our fathers. It doesn't even have to involve physical contact but facing the pain that this dynamic has caused you and loving those aspects of your self.

The healthy masculine desires to provide and protect. He’ll hear your pain & want to find a way to take it away from you. A man in healthy masculine energy naturally wants to help you & support you. Remember that. If he leaves you wondering where you stand, he ain’t the one.

Dear Men,

We need you more than most might be willing to admit, more than you’ve probably been told. Please heed this advice, and speak up if you need help.

Men will act like everything is alright even in the middle of a breakdown. Society demands that they be strong and show no weakness. Whether the men in your life open up to you or not, learn to check on them. Be kind to them.

He wakes up to go to work when he’s low on sleep. No matter how dark, cold or rainy it is. No matter what body parts achy today.

He makes sure everything is taken care of even when he hasn’t eaten anything and is running on his daily caffeine. Whether it’s family or work.

Hes never be too busy to listen and guide her whirlwind of emotions and gives her the security and benefit of doubt when she spirals into overthinking.

He sends her songs, memes and tik tok videos that remind him of her or he knows she will laugh about.

He shows up to help or defend anyone he loves and crossing him could be detrimental.

There’s a ton of empowerment for women, but this month is all about men. It’s men’s mental health awareness month.

Here are some stats:
3/4 su***des are men.
Global su***de is double women’s.
35% of men wait 2+ months to share their mental struggles.

So whether it is your man, father, brother, uncle, or male coworker. For once ask them what they need because they always do so much for us. Take inventory of how they create a masculine shield or do the logistics doing what they do best to make our life easier.

I’ve gone through hundreds of death portals over the last month.

I don’t go to God just when I have issues in my life. My entire life revolves around him.

Sometimes it feels like our prayers aren’t answered.

Maybe it’s answered but it’s not as dreamy as we thought t would be.

You’re never alone. You may feel isolated or detached, but you are never alone. Remember that.

You’re connected to the Divine, you are love and abundance is always with you. Don’t allow your thoughts and inner turmoil to cloud you, you are surrounded with infinite love, care, and happiness.

Don’t let your light dim, keep being that beacon of light you’ve always been.

Life can get hard, but that also means good is coming. Keep yourself focused and remember how loved and cherished you are.

Your resilience and perseverance can inspire others, never give up.

Smile, things do get better— hold on to your faith.

See you Sunday in my current free offering PRAY, PLAY & SLAY.

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I’ll say no 100 times before I say one yes. Forever willing to wait until it’s right. God taught me that.

Just when you think a feminine woman couldn’t open her heart anymore..

She blooms like a flower on the first day of spring.

We’re getting fed a lie that being a woman means being a bad ass, workaholic, boss babe who doesn’t need anyone. It couldn’t be further from the truth

A woman in her multidimensional power can sit at any table and increase the value. Put her in any room, circle, group, whatever - and without even saying much, everyone is impacted by her presence. People sit up a little straighter and move a little different. She is the standard.

A divine woman has the power to lift you out of the perils of your mind & into a universe where everything is absolutely fine. She’ll take her time, elevating you into the man who can stand completely on God’s plan. Like a promise she made to love you in a way that only she can.

I exist freely and safely in my femininity because God protects me completely. I don’t question that anymore.

A man’s ability to keep his word with himself is a direct reflection to how he will be able to keep his word to you.

A man’s ability to stay committed to his goals, is a direct reflection of how committed he will stay to you.

A man’s ability to honour himself is a direct reflection of his capacity to honouring you.

I know my work has shifted quite a bit this year. Especially addressing God. All the energy healing modalities I conduct are from pure divine source, the creator.

Please understand - crystals, manifesting, and smudging are only tools used in the name of spirituality.

The heartbeat of the spiritual path is self realization as a pathway to God.

The majority of people in this world don’t know who they are, don’t spend time with their inner realities, & can’t separate thought or emotion from true self. The ones who dare to dive into the depths of their own souls are the ones blazing the path forward for all.

So much is revealed in stillness and flow. Silence form the world, connecting to nature and tuning inwards is the God frequency.

All to say- mind your mission and master yourself so that you can be the version of you that God dreamed you to be.

A couple years ago I was so repulsed by the word God, but I knew that trigger was a deeper invitation.

God? Allah? You mean the one I prayed to so much when my parents split and my life had difficulty after difficulty in my early 20s?

Hell no. I had no interest to pray five times a day, or even once a day. I didn’t want to connect to God in any shape or form.

Instead, I would rather manifest, set intentions, and do affirmations, and will it to be the universes way. Which btw I now know is all one in the same it’s simply perspective based on where an individuals at.

It took a while, but I definitely got all the things I wanted last year. And I figured what is my next stop. What do I need to work on.

I decided to dive deeper into my religious trauma now that I totally own the fact that I had no sisterhood/witch wound, people pleaser tendencies etc.

Mmm was I in for a ride because this year God sped up everything for me. And I mean EVERYTHING!

I was called out on my imposter syndrome. I was asked to take steps and not know what’s on the other side. I was tested in my dating life.

There was so much resistance and density that cleared that at the start of this year I had a free offering helping people understand the Divine in a different way asides religion (which is division in itself 👀).

I’m excited to share we have part 2 of this offering to wrap up the year starting in October. Stay tuned. Check out stories and join email list (link in bio).

Protect your relationship/partnership.
Its not everyday that you find someone who truly loves you and wants what is best for you - who wants to work, build, live, grow, heal and create with you. Thats rare.

Plenty of people will line up to help you destroy something so precious - that's common. People who are not devoted to anything and have nothing to lose are only too happy to help you lose and destroy what you've taken the time to build.

Do not count on outsiders to protect YOUR vows, commitments, family, and home. Its your responsibility.
Take pride in handling that.

Trauma bond is when a person informs a deep emotional attachment to someone that causes them harm. It doesn’t wish them well. It’s an abusive cycle with positive reinforcement. This is what a narcissist, empath cycle is. Where one person is self-centered, and everything’s about them and other person has so much empathy that they feel sorry For the other individual and stick around making excuses for their poor behavior.

As adults, we're drawn to individuals who mirror the love patterns of our parents. Subconsciously, we continue to search for what was lacking during our childhood. That being said, toxic relations are truly unmet needs.

When you clear your unworthiness wound, you will not put up with such behavior.

There are many red flags narcissists display and there’s many boundaries that must be implemented when dealing with such people. Especially if you cannot go no contact due to them being a co-parent or perhaps you living with them.

Educating about these types of people is important because my life has severely changed by these dynamics and relationships so I invite you to come empower yourself in my master class tomorrow TOXIC FAIRYTALE.

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When narcissists show you their red flags never hold your breath waiting for them to turn green, you’ll suffocate. Love yourself and choose distance over disrespect.

Narcissists never genuinely consider their partner’s needs or emotions because they use them as accessories and as a means to fuel their superiority.

They will watch their friends, family, and partner struggle without remorse then turn around and go out of their way to help a stranger.

Thea people layer everything in their lives with so many false stories and exaggerations that you could try to trace the origin of anything back as far as you can go and you still might never get remotely close to the actual truth.

Narcissists hate to see you happy, healthy, and thriving. Anything good that happens to you will be considered a “loss” for them because they are extremely jealous and insecure, and their sense of superiority is threatened when they feel like they have nothing to hold above you.

Lastly, they layer everything in their lives with so many false stories and exaggerations that you could try to trace the origin of anything back as far as you can go and you still might never get remotely close to the actual truth.

If you love this post then consider joining TOXIC FAIRYTALE, this months masterclass Sunday. To claim your spot, link is in bio. I’ll also be conducting a healing for all narcissistic empath cycles you may or may not be aware of.