Coach Vasquez

Coach Vasquez

Youth baseball and softball coach. Current VP at Newport Mesa Girls Softball.

08/23/2023

This is great info for new head coaches.

At 27 years old I became a high school varsity head baseball coach after spending 3 years as an assistant and winning a state title

I thought I was ready

I wasn't

Not even close

Here are 5️⃣ realities of taking your first head coaching job that you don't see coming

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1️⃣There will always be critics

As a head coach, you’ll quickly realize that no matter how well you prepare, plan, & execute, there will always be critics.

Some will question your decisions, lineup choices, & game strategies.

Constructive criticism can be valuable, helping you reflect and improve, but remember to filter out the noise & stay true to who you are

Use criticism as an opportunity for growth, not a source of discouragement

2️⃣It will consume you

Coaching is a lifestyle more than a job.

Being a head coach demands an enormous amount of time & effort, often extending beyond the baseball field

You’ll find yourself thinking about lineups, developing practice plans, & working on player development even during your “off” hours

Balancing coaching responsibilities with personal life can be a challenge, so finding ways to maintain a healthy work-life balance is crucial and takes an amazingly patient spouse

3️⃣You will not make everyone happy

No matter what decisions you make, there will always be players, parents, and even staff members who disagree or are dissatisfied

It’s impossible to please everyone all the time.

Your primary focus should be on creating a positive & supportive environment for player development and team success

While maintaining open communication & addressing concerns is important, you’ll need to stand firm in your decisions & remain consistent in your coaching approach

4️⃣You are not in it for the money

Coaching, especially at the youth or high school level, is rarely a lucrative career path

It’s a labor of love driven by passion for the sport & a desire to shape young athletes into well-rounded individuals

Financial rewards might be limited, but the impact you have on players’ lives & the joy of seeing them succeed on and off the field can be incredibly rewarding

5️⃣You can’t want it more than your players

As a coach, your dedication & enthusiasm are contagious, but you can’t want success more than your players do.

While you’ll invest significant time and energy into their growth, they need to match your commitment with their own determination & effort.

Encourage a culture of hard work, discipline, & accountability, but ultimately, their individual & collective motivation will play a pivotal role in the team’s success.

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That's it!

In review, becoming a head coach is challenging you will have many challenges including but not limited to:

- There will always be critics
- It will consume you
- You will not make everyone happy
- You are not in it for the money
- You can’t want it more than your player

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06/20/2023

Sounds of the game! So happy for these girls!
(Turn the sound up!)

Photos from Coach Vasquez's post 06/20/2023

What an amazing weekend! The girl and her team brought home a district championship banner in the 12u division! Their 10u sisters won their division as well. We brought home the first banners in NMGS history. A goal that we set out to accomplish from day 1. I'm beyond proud of this team! They've worked hard to get to where they're at. Now we move on to States in Lancaster!

04/23/2023

NMGS at Angels Day!

03/21/2023

Fun day at the park this weekend! Love the smiles!

02/27/2023

Same exact words, in a different order create an entirely different meaning. It’s all about perspective!

And then read it from the bottom to the top...
The author of this creative and insightful poem is Chanie Gorkin, an 11th grader from Brooklyn, New York.

02/01/2023

Anyone want to to try out?

🚨Sign up TODAY!!! 🚨
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12/15/2022

Representing on jersey day!

11/30/2022

FYI!

Today is the last day for early bird registration! Don’t miss out on the best pricing for Spring Registration. Open to girls ages 5-14. All skill levels welcome. Join the NMGS family! Link in bio.

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11/21/2022

Great advice for high school athletes looking to play at the next level. “Don’t let 100 characters cost you $100,000 in scholarship money”. Be careful what you post on social media.

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11/17/2022

Pitchers are athletes too!

11/08/2022

For the scorekeepers out there, passed ball vs wild pitch!
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Photos from Coach Vasquez's post 10/17/2022

Brought home some hardware this weekend. Proud of these girls and how hard they’ve worked to get to where they are. Every single one of them contributed. It was a true team effort. Great job ladies! Thank you to for the photos!

Photos from Coach Vasquez's post 09/29/2022

A few more photos of the girl from All Stars this Summer. Better late than never. Thanks again for the pics !

Photos from Coach Vasquez's post 09/28/2022

A little late, but here’s a couple of photos of the girl from this Summer’s All Star season. Thanks for the great pics!

Newport Mesa Girls Softball

09/11/2022

It’s game day and we’re so excited!! Good luck to all our teams today. Who’s excited?
Make sure to tag us in all your posts!!!

07/02/2022
Photos from Coach Vasquez's post 05/07/2022

A few more photos from the boy’s Freshman year.

Photos from Coach Vasquez's post 05/07/2022

The boy’s Freshman year in the books!

04/24/2022

NMGS Angels Day! Fun at the ballpark!

04/24/2022
Timeline photos 12/28/2021

Love it!

12/04/2021

I need some pool noodles!

12/02/2021

NMGS coaches put this on your calendar!

12/02/2021

For Dodgers’ fans, this one hurts. We’ll miss you Corey!

12/02/2021

Keep those grades up!

Share this with your players! Grades are important.

How a High School Team Accidentally FaceTimed the Tampa Bay Bucs 12/01/2021

What an amazing story!

How a High School Team Accidentally FaceTimed the Tampa Bay Bucs A text to a wrong number landed a high school basketball team a fortuitous FaceTime call with the Tampa Bay Buccaneers, the defending Super Bowl champions.

11/12/2021

Good stuff!

Solid advice here. Focus on the controllables and be good at those things, you will have a confident team. Focus on things like officiating and it gives your team excuses.

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