Kate Wendell

What if you could literally feel God next to you, how would you describe it?

Two powerful revelations/lessons I got today on the first day of 2024.

Slowing down is sometimes imperative in order to gain clarity so you know what to do. Otherwise you’re just digging a deeper hole.

And knowing that as I fine tune my calling in how I serve women, it’s also my calling to serve my family.

And an added note to that… I serve God first, then family, then business. When it’s in that order, it flows so much better.

Watched Times Square ball drop… said happy new year to the kids and David said “aren’t we supposed to be in bed!?” 🤣

Happy New Year 🎆

The best way to improve from the past year:

1. Get clear on the current facts (I mean ya gotta get brutally honest) when you lie to yourself, you lie to the world around you and nothing changes.

2. Get clear on what you actually want. Clarity makes it simple to say yes or not to things so you can stay in alignment with what you want. I understand it can be hard at times but the decision is simple.

3. This is the kicker one!!
Must change your mindset! Your behavior will always match your thoughts. So start speaking to yourself with love, kindness and with power and authority. Speak as if you have achieved what you desire.

Ie: losing weight isnt about just going to the gym or following a diet, you can do that and lose weight. The key is to keep it off. In order to do that you must think of yourself as fit and healthy, as someone who goes to the gym and eats healthy. Make sense?

**step 3 is the most important**

4. Take the time to map out what the steps are to get to the outcome. You need action to accomplish what you desire. Gotta back it up to what you can do each month and each week with measurable action steps.

Most people give up on resolutions because they don’t have a plan. They don’t set out to change who they are towards who they want to become.

Make 2024 different this time!!

If you feel like God isn’t answering you… what’s the last thing He told you that you didn’t do?

Merry Christmas 🎄 to you!

Wishing you a wonderful day with family. May you feel Christ’s peace today and through the new year.

Powerful awareness this morning in my stack.

If you have been feeling like God isn’t listening or answering prayers… it’s probably because you haven’t done the last thing He told you to do.

It’s not what I do but who’s I am that gives me my identity.

It’s been a great week seeing our kids share in the Christmas 🎄 school celebrations.

So blessed for the opportunities we get to give them and the teachers who nurture them.

Now it’s time for break!!! 🤔 what to do!?

Fall in love with the mundane for the results you want.
Most people won’t do this!

So grateful to have a home based business where I can be in control of my hours.

Today I got to be present for my Charlotte’s Christmas concert and play.

Such a blessing.

Super productive day🔥

I think it’s because of the “welcome home“ s*x I had last night🥰

Yup! Tanner was traveling for the last week and man was he a sight for sore eyes😍

Nothing like getting reconnected again❤️

It’s been a long week and I’ve been oversleeping. However, today was a productive and intentional day. Committed to work and being present for my kids. This is SuperMOM.

Tanner has been traveling since Monday. Mad love to all the single moms out there! 💕

It takes intention and clarity to live the life you dream of.

I was super clear that I wanted to be a radio host when I left college. I knew I wanted to stay in NYC and find a way to “make it big.”��I made it to NYC, I landed a radio career for Sirius XM for almost 20 years and had a great life (even with the trials).��I had a clear intention that I was going to get married, not settle, bear my own children, support my parents and now work from home.

I have a thriving marriage. My husband and I are open, vulnerable and deeply connected and it’s only getting better with each year.

I have 2 amazing children I got to give birth to and even better have a bonus daughter I get to help raise and guide.

We moved my parents in with us mid 2022 and have been helping support them as they age. ��And now I have launched a business where I get to have an impact in other women’s lives, have purpose outside of my kids and help support my very full and active household.

The journey has been long, it’s been a battle at times. I want to quit almost every day and yet, there is such joy and fulfillment in what I do and the fact that I can do it all. ��This is the SuperMOM life! Always here if you want to learn more…

When I look at my life, I am in awe of what I’ve experienced and God’s hand in it all.

He has protected me.

He has guided me.

He has given me direction and correction.

He has blessed me with abundance and walked with me through loss.

Life is not promised to be easy or to be free of trial and pain.

What is promised is that God will never leave me through it all.

And He never has… He is faithful.

He is truth!!

My life has had its ups and downs. I’ve had some pretty dark lows and singing from the peaks of life moments.

I’m grateful for it all and for God’s love and mercy every step of the way.

It’s quite the battle of working and being present as a mom.

I’ve wanted to be a mom since I was a little girl and never wanted a career.

I didn’t become a mother until I was 42 and spent my 20s and 30s in my industry field.

Then when I thought I would give up my career, I realized I still wanted to work.

What a mind f**k!!

I have struggled the last 5 or so years figuring out this so called balance.

It’s real, right mamas!?

What I can say… is I have been determined to figure it out and deep down knew that I was supposed to do both.

This is why I do what I do. Showing my girls how they can do the same. Showing my son what he can look for in a wife.

The day to day is chaotic at times. It’s also so unbelievably beautiful. It’s worth the effort to make the balance for impact in the world and impact within my family.

It is possible for you too…

Happy Thanksgiving 🍁🦃 🇺🇸

From my husband…

Dear Kate,

First off, I apologize...

I am sorry and I don't say this lightly as you know.
I realize I have projected the depths of my fear and weakness on to you... not for any wrong doing on your part.
I realize it's actually because of your strength.
I have not done this intentionally... in fact it's been done unintentionally by not actually being intentional to continue to address the deepest darkest parts of myself and my trauma.
Unfortunately, energetically your strength has allowed me to offload my s**t onto you because you can handle it.
This is not fair... I didn't realize that I was doing this.
Now that I see it, I am committed to changing it.
While I don't know and don't fully understand... this is likely a pattern you've experienced in your life over and over again.
This is something that's caused a lot of pain in your life, not because you are bad or unworthy...
Because you are strong and faithful... it's created an energetic container for you to be a dumping ground for other people.
I am sorry... and I am glad that God has shown this to me today.
I hope you can understand this and forgive me... and forgive anyone from your past who has also hurt you because of your strength and your faith.��
I hope you can see how the enemy has taken the best parts of you and distorted them to make you think you're unworthy and unlovable.��
I hope you can see yourself in the light that God has shown me about you today.
I hope you can appreciate the ups and downs of your life that have brought you to this moment right now.
I hope you can receive all of the appreciation I have for you in withstanding the storms of life.
I appreciate who you are as my wife, the powerful feminine leader in our marriage... calling me to rise and allowing me to take on the role of being a masculine leader.��
I appreciate that you have continued to do your own internal work to become the wife that you want to be, regardless of who I am.
This has created the container for me to continue to grow and expand as a man...
Not as a threat or a challenge, simply as an energetic match to the wife and woman that you are.��
I appreciate that you have been willing to go to the depths of your pain and trauma to use those lessons and experiences to create a new reality for our future and our family.��
I appreciate that you have chosen to grow and expand as a mother, rather than cram our children into the box you knew as a child.��
I appreciate how much work you have done to be intentional about showing Emma love and leadership as though she is your own, even though biologically you do not have that connection.��
I realize now how the cards were stacked against you attempting to love both me and Emma while our walls were up too hard and high from past experiences, while at the same time learning to be a new mom, wife and adjust every aspect of your life.��
I see how the most difficult and painful situations were not because of anything bad or wrong... they were simply a test of your strength and an opportunity to choose faith over fear.��
You continue to do this over and over and over again... no matter how much the enemy wants to twist and distort things in your life, your faith in God continues to move you forward.��
I hope that you can take a minute to reflect on how far you have come and how strong you are...
Allow God to show you what he has shown me.��
I appreciate how you have created the space for our children to be the unique expression of God that they are, while guiding them with support, love and structure....
Allowing each moment to be a growth opportunity for yourself.��
I know that Charlotte will grow up to be a strong and powerful woman because of the example you have set for her.��
I know that David will marry a strong and loving woman because of the example he has seen with you.��
You have set the bar high for our children by your energy and being, not by your doing.��
This is the reason they crave you and your attention when they want comfort.
You are their source of strength and love, just as you are for me and so many others around you.��
I want to be that source of energy that fuels you as a lover and a leader in our home.��
I believe there is a difference between being a wife, mother and a lover...
As much as you have worked on being an outstanding wife and mother outside of the bedroom, you have worked on being a lover in the bedroom.��
Again you have led the way on growth in this area, and I believe that we are honoring God and his creation by deepening our connection in this way.��
You have my full attention as a Lover and I appreciate the space that you have created for me to grow and realize there are is a world of intimacy beyond s3x and org@sms.��
I appreciate your patience and kindness in allowing me to share my s*xual shame about p**n with you so that we could grow deeper together and experience true intimacy.
Without it, I would've never been fully seen or be able to completely feel and accept your love for me.��
I know that God has wiped the slate clean and created an entirely blank canvas for us to paint a beautiful mosaic with the intimacy of our lives for eternity.��
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You for being a leader in our house, in our marriage, in the lives of our children and every where you go. ��
I hope that you can recognize what I see in how you lead.��
I know this is another area that the enemy has used to distort your life.��
Your strength and leadership is attractive to certain people and others are threatened by it, which causes them to repel you.��
I hope you can see and understand this the way God has shown it to me.��
You were a leader in your industry for 20 years... people don't tell you they miss you on the radio 3 years later because of your voice or your humor or anything you did.��
They miss your leadership.��
They miss having someone who they know is real, and who is willing to show them that despite their struggles they continue to choose faith over fear and find their strength each and every day.
That's what you do... and your life is an example for others.
They miss the connection to you, which for many was in a way their connection to having faith.
You are a conduit of faith for those who have been harmed by religion or are disconnected from God for other reasons.��
Your struggles have been your source of building strength and your courage to share that with others is your form of leadership.��.
You are a leader in our home and in our bedroom.��
You are a leader in our church and in our community.��
You are a leader everywhere you go, not because of what you do... because of who you are.��
I know, in ways I'm not even able to fully comprehend, that God brought you into my life for a purpose and many reasons.
I am eternally grateful for our divine connection.��
You are the leader, the strength and the ROCK for me to continue to grow and lead in my own life and our family.��
I am deeply sorry and apologize for how I have unknowingly taken advantage of your strength because of my own weakness.��
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You for who you are and continue to choose to Be every day.��
I love you more than words can express.

❤️

-Tanner

Being a mom is like a juggling act. No one gives you a manual on how to deal with it all. Sure there are plenty of books out there but it can be overwhelming to say the least.

Business is no different…

There are a lot of options of how to run a business, especially online. And I don’t know about you but I am bombarded with online business ads.

Based on my experience, many of them give you just enough to get started yet there are still gaps to actually have success with it.

I’ve been involved with a lot of opportunities where I could create income online. But I was always left feeling like I was missing something to make it all work.

I kept asking myself, “How could I get everything I need in one spot to make this easier?”

It’s been my quest since leaving my 20 year career in 2020.

There is a way to get everything you need for a successful online business in one hub. It’s what I created for myself and now I share with other working moms who want their time back with a roadmap that takes the guess work out.

I always had a clear vision of what I wanted my future to look like. And I never wanted it to be a stand still because I was stuck juggling things without any direction.

You don’t have to either…

For all of the “scam” screamers...

No doubt there are plenty of scams out there, so I get it... generally people that fall for scams are desperate people who are essentially playing the lottery.

I have never claimed that you can make money without doing anything other than making an investment... learning new skills are required if you’re going to increase your income, and that’s what I focus on.

If you’re “offended” that I’m posting directly about money and think anyone attempting to help others learn new skills to increase their income is a “scam”... then there’s a pretty simple solution for that.

What many don’t know is that I helped hundreds of people with their health while I was still on the radio, as part of my own health journey... and those people all paid me money for what I showed them.

Did they all get the results they wanted? No

Did they all do the work required? No

What I’ve come to realize is that MOST people are struggling financially like I was, even working at what some thought was a “high paying” job being on the radio.

I’ve invested 10's of thousands, actually over $100K at this point to get around mentors, coaches and inside of communities to radically transform my life into the vision I had for myself.

Have I “arrived”? No
I never will... it’s a continuous journey as long as God has me on this earth.

Did every program I invest into work out exactly how I wanted it to? No

Did I always do the work required? No

What I’ve also come to realize, which has been brought up in some comments, is that being vague is not helpful in my messaging.

I have held back from outright saying “I can help you make more money” because of the reaction that has happened to this post.

I guess I have wanted to maintain a certain image to my followers who knew me as one way....

When you get used to people liking you, it’s hard to realize that they don’t actually like you unconditionally... they just like you for the image they have in their head of who you are.

And when you do something that alters that image they had in their head... all of the sudden they say “I thought you were better than that”... “you’ve changed”.

Guess what?
I have changed... I’m not the same woman. Thank God!

I have different values and a different mission in life now.

And the conversations I have daily with women who are struggling... in their marriage, with their health, with their job, etc. have prompted me to realize that being quiet and vague is not serving the women I am called to serve.

There are women trapped in jobs they hate because they don’t know how to make money in any different way.

There are women trapped in relationships they shouldn’t be in because they are dependent upon that relationship for food and shelter.

There are women trapped in many different types of systems and ways of living that are not serving them, because they don’t know the way out.

For the people I have learned from, earning $10K / day would be a bad day...

For the women I have been called to serve, earning $10K / mo would be a blessing and create freedom for them.

And beyond just earning more than they ever have from a job... but learning the skills and having the support of other women who are growing and believe in them far exceeds the monetary benefits.

Will everyone win with this system? No

But I guarantee your money back if you do the work, and I literally do some of the work with you as long as you do your part...

The only way you lose is if you quit... and that I cannot prevent.

I am a leader, not a savior.

And yet people still quit, because they lack belief, discipline and focus...

That’s why I require an application and screening call, to do my best to help you not start if I think you won’t make it past the initial phase...

You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make them drink.

I know when I lay my head down at night that I have put my heart, soul and over 6 figures of my own education and training into what I provide and $2K is undervaluing what I offer.

In fact I’ve been fighting with my mentors about raising my prices, which I’ll be doing in the new year... so I am going to be very specific about what I do and how it works to ensure those who actually want help to create a new life for themselves get the opportunity.

PS: This started out as a response to one of the comments on a post (I've since deleted) and decided to just post it so everyone could read it...

Dear Kate,

First off, I apologize...

I am sorry and I don't say this lightly as you know.
I realize I have projected the depths of my fear and weakness on to you... not for any wrong doing on your part.
I realize it's actually because of your strength.
I have not done this intentionally... in fact it's been done unintentionally by not actually being intentional to continue to address the deepest darkest parts of myself and my trauma.
Unfortunately, energetically your strength has allowed me to offload my s**t onto you because you can handle it.
This is not fair... I didn't realize that I was doing this.
Now that I see it, I am committed to changing it.
While I don't know and don't fully understand... this is likely a pattern you've experienced in your life over and over again.
This is something that's caused a lot of pain in your life, not because you are bad or unworthy...
Because you are strong and faithful... it's created an energetic container for you to be a dumping ground for other people.
I am sorry... and I am glad that God has shown this to me today.
I hope you can understand this and forgive me... and forgive anyone from your past who has also hurt you because of your strength and your faith.��
I hope you can see how the enemy has taken the best parts of you and distorted them to make you think you're unworthy and unlovable.��
I hope you can see yourself in the light that God has shown me about you today.
I hope you can appreciate the ups and downs of your life that have brought you to this moment right now.
I hope you can receive all of the appreciation I have for you in withstanding the storms of life.
I appreciate who you are as my wife, the powerful feminine leader in our marriage... calling me to rise and allowing me to take on the role of being a masculine leader.��
I appreciate that you have continued to do your own internal work to become the wife that you want to be, regardless of who I am.
This has created the container for me to continue to grow and expand as a man...
Not as a threat or a challenge, simply as an energetic match to the wife and woman that you are.��
I appreciate that you have been willing to go to the depths of your pain and trauma to use those lessons and experiences to create a new reality for our future and our family.��
I appreciate that you have chosen to grow and expand as a mother, rather than cram our children into the box you knew as a child.��
I appreciate how much work you have done to be intentional about showing Emma love and leadership as though she is your own, even though biologically you do not have that connection.��
I realize now how the cards were stacked against you attempting to love both me and Emma while our walls were up too hard and high from past experiences, while at the same time learning to be a new mom, wife and adjust every aspect of your life.��
I see how the most difficult and painful situations were not because of anything bad or wrong... they were simply a test of your strength and an opportunity to choose faith over fear.��
You continue to do this over and over and over again... no matter how much the enemy wants to twist and distort things in your life, your faith in God continues to move you forward.��
I hope that you can take a minute to reflect on how far you have come and how strong you are...
Allow God to show you what he has shown me.��
I appreciate how you have created the space for our children to be the unique expression of God that they are, while guiding them with support, love and structure....
Allowing each moment to be a growth opportunity for yourself.��
I know that Charlotte will grow up to be a strong and powerful woman because of the example you have set for her.��
I know that David will marry a strong and loving woman because of the example he has seen with you.��
You have set the bar high for our children by your energy and being, not by your doing.��
This is the reason they crave you and your attention when they want comfort.
You are their source of strength and love, just as you are for me and so many others around you.��
I want to be that source of energy that fuels you as a lover and a leader in our home.��
I believe there is a difference between being a wife, mother and a lover...
As much as you have worked on being an outstanding wife and mother outside of the bedroom, you have worked on being a lover in the bedroom.��
Again you have led the way on growth in this area, and I believe that we are honoring God and his creation by deepening our connection in this way.��
You have my full attention as a Lover and I appreciate the space that you have created for me to grow and realize there are is a world of intimacy beyond s3x and org@sms.��
I appreciate your patience and kindness in allowing me to share my s*xual shame about p**n with you so that we could grow deeper together and experience true intimacy.
Without it, I would've never been fully seen or be able to completely feel and accept your love for me.��
I know that God has wiped the slate clean and created an entirely blank canvas for us to paint a beautiful mosaic with the intimacy of our lives for eternity.��
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You for being a leader in our house, in our marriage, in the lives of our children and every where you go. ��
I hope that you can recognize what I see in how you lead.��
I know this is another area that the enemy has used to distort your life.��
Your strength and leadership is attractive to certain people and others are threatened by it, which causes them to repel you.��
I hope you can see and understand this the way God has shown it to me.��
You were a leader in your industry for 20 years... people don't tell you they miss you on the radio 3 years later because of your voice or your humor or anything you did.��
They miss your leadership.��
They miss having someone who they know is real, and who is willing to show them that despite their struggles they continue to choose faith over fear and find their strength each and every day.
That's what you do... and your life is an example for others.
They miss the connection to you, which for many was in a way their connection to having faith.
You are a conduit of faith for those who have been harmed by religion or are disconnected from God for other reasons.��
Your struggles have been your source of building strength and your courage to share that with others is your form of leadership.��.
You are a leader in our home and in our bedroom.��
You are a leader in our church and in our community.��
You are a leader everywhere you go, not because of what you do... because of who you are.��
I know, in ways I'm not even able to fully comprehend, that God brought you into my life for a purpose and many reasons.
I am eternally grateful for our divine connection.��
You are the leader, the strength and the ROCK for me to continue to grow and lead in my own life and our family.��
I am deeply sorry and apologize for how I have unknowingly taken advantage of your strength because of my own weakness.��
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You for who you are and continue to choose to Be every day.��
I love you more than words can express.

❤️

-Tanner

P.S. I hijacked my wife's account to share this here.

I know there are many who still comment that they miss her on the radio and I think part of the reason is what I explain in here.

If I could show you how to make $10K a month, would you spend $2K to learn?

Hey career woman!!!

When I look back on my journey of life so far, I see lots of trial an error. Not that I don’t see blessings, but I believe they have all come because I took action on things, gave it go, figured out what I liked and didn’t and ultimately got to a place where I knew where I wanted to spend my time and effort.

Some people may see that as confused or unclear. �Some may see that I don’t know what I am doing.

Don’t really care…

I see it as someone who has a really clear vision of where she wants to go in life and have to go through experiences to figure out what will get her there and what won’t.

I spent over 20 years in an industry that I thought I wanted. I thought it was going to fulfill me and be THE THING that I would do forever. I had a dream job so to speak. I had what looked like success from the outside, but over time it left a void.

I worked and did my job well and I’m quite proud of who I became in the process. I’m grateful for the experience and for the exciting life it gave me. ��I also came to a point where I knew this wasn’t forever. I knew it was on me to figure out a new path to live out the dreamed life I had for myself. ��So through trial and error, it has lead me to where I am now. Heck I even went through trial and error to find my field of 20+ years, the past 10 years have been no different. ��I had status.
And it wasn’t fulfilling and ultimately not in alignment with my own values for my life.

Do you feel like you’re stuck in a career that has been good but you don’t see yourself doing it forever?
Do you wish to find more fulfillment and purpose in the day to day?
Would you like more money so you have options in life?

I said YES to all of those questions and have found a solution.
If you said YES to any of these questions, comment ME and I’d love to have a conversation with you.

It takes intention, effort and courage to step into a new path for your life.

When clarity is present it becomes easier to say yes to things that move you closer to the life you want and no to the things that pull you away.

I choose every day to step into action for the life I desire.

I choose the road less traveled… 🛣️

Most people will follow, however, there is a group of the select few who will lead.

When you follow others, you don’t lead yourself…
You then cannot make the decisions you want for your life…
And then who you follow makes decisions for you…☝🏼

I’m choosing to lead
1. To design the life I want
2. To teach my children to lead
3. To make an impact on others

Mamas… Are you leading or following in your life and for your family?

Please don’t follow because it’s easy. Easy doesn’t create the life you want.

Choose the road less traveled. It’s more fulfilling and creates an inner joy that no one person can fill.