Gray's Trauma Informed Care Services Corp

Come see a great presentation on "Polyvictims and the Issues with Cult Victims and Domestic Violence." Scan the QR for more information. The statewide DV conference is hosted by the California Partnership to End Domestic Violence. The presentation will be presented by Dr. Amber Deneén Gray of Gray’s Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp and Dr. Tabitha Marie Chapman, Executive Director of The Freedom Train Project Incorporated. You don't want to miss this presentation!

12 workshops, 3 Keynotes, and lots of subject matter experts to have conversations with.

Congratulations 🎊 to our very own Dr. Gray for being recognized for her efforts in crime victim advocacy! Way to go, Dr. Gray!

Have a safe and happy pride month, free from harm and hatred.

Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and accepted for who they are.
On international day against homophobia transphobia, and biphobia, let's all continue to work towards keeping LGBTQIA+ people protected from all forms of violence and harm.

May you all have a safe and violence free start to the year. While our work at Gray's Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp never stops, we want our providers to be able to stop and, if only for a moment, enjoy their lives. Remember, you are worth more than anyone can comprehend, and you always deserve better. Remember, if you are a provider, you are doing the best you can. Here is to a happy new year, with many years of advocacy, safety planning, resources, networking, and education to come!
Happy New Year from Gray's Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp

It's Purple Thursday! 🌈 Today, we're donning our best shades of purple, but it's not just a fashion statement. Purple is the designated color for Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and by wearing it, we're sending a strong message against the darkness that affects so many lives.

This isn't just about a color—it's a call to action. By wearing purple, you're standing in solidarity with victims and survivors of domestic violence. You're saying, "I see you, I hear you, and I stand with you." Every hue, from lavender to plum, serves as a vibrant beacon of hope, courage, and unity.

So let's flood our timelines with purple! Take that selfie, share that post, and light up the social media skies. Use the hashtag to make our collective voice impossible to ignore. Together, we can turn awareness into meaningful change.



Let's make it matter. 💜

Flame & Bolt asked of they could do a DVAM collaboration with us. Turn down Flame & Bolt??? No way. Flame & Bolt want you all to Light It Up Purple this October 💜💜💜💜💜 Let's do our best to be like Flame & Bolt of the Flame & Bolt Show.

🌟 Upcoming Webinar 🌟

Mark your calendars for an enlightening experience. Dr. Monika Weldon, DBH, will be hosting a webinar on Trauma-Informed Care on November 8th, 2023, from 1:00 pm to 2:30 pm. 🗓️⏰

🌱 What Will You Learn?

What trauma really is.

How prevalent and impactful trauma can be.

Practical tools and ideas for offering sensitive, empathic, and effective care to those affected by trauma.

💡 Whether you're an individual looking to broaden your understanding or an organization aiming to level up its care practices, this training is your go-to resource.

✨ Why Should You Join?

Gain in-depth understanding of the basic principles of trauma-informed care.

Take home actionable insights to implement in real-life scenarios.

🔗 For more details and to register, copy and paste the link.

Don't miss out on this chance to learn useful and important information. Let's create a more understanding and caring world together. 💖

🌟 Empower, Train, Transform with Gray's Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp 🌟

Hello everyone! We're thrilled to spotlight our organization, Gray's Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp. We are a trailblazing organization that is elevating the standard of care for victims of violence, including domestic violence, child abuse, cultic abuse, and human trafficking.

🌐 Visit our Website: For pricing details and comprehensive information, head over to gettraumainformed.com.

🏆 Award-Winning Team: Work with healthcare educators, mental health professionals, and peer-support staff who are award-winning providers, recognized in their fields for excellence.

📚 Industry-Leading Training: We offer the 40 and 54-hour training sessions for domestic violence advocates, using the most up-to-date, evidence-based information and industry standards.

📝 Contracting and Bidding: As a registered Federal and State Contracting organization, Federal and State bidders can find bidding information on our 'Our Services' page.

💜 Special Offer: In honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, organizations with a staff of over 75 members can receive 15% off training services.

🇺🇸 Nationwide Service: This victim services organization serves the United States, offering an expansive range of resources and support.

👉 Don't miss this chance to uplift your team and make a meaningful impact. Let's work together to end violence!

🔥 Did you know?

A staggering 81% of women stalked by an intimate partner were also physically abused by that same partner.

🤔 Why is this important to know? Because stalking rarely exists in isolation; it's often part of a broader pattern of abuse.

📝 Keep Records: Document every stalking incident, no matter how minor it seems. This can be important evidence later.

🛡 Know Your Rights: You have the right to live free from abuse and fear. No one has the right to stalk you. Stalking is ILLEGAL.

🚨 Immediate Danger? Dial 911.

🌐 For comprehensive support, reach out to a victim services organization for more help. They can assist in crafting a personalized safety plan for you.

💡 Shocking Fact:

Economic abuse is present in 98% of abusive relationships. This form of control severely limits the victim's ability to break free.

👀 Why is this important? Many people ask why don't victims leave? This is just one of the many reasons victims stay. Understanding and knowing this is power. 🌟

If you're facing economic abuse, contact a victim services organization to create a safety plan with a trained advocate.

Also, 📞 Call 1.800.799.7233 for expert advice on ways to get to a safe location.

In immediate danger? 🚨 Dial 911.

🌟 Book of the Week: "The Healing Journey: Relationship and Wellness Guide" by Dr. Rosenna Bakari 🌟

🌼 Why This Book is Our Pick 🌼
This week, we want to spotlight a transformative book that provides a roadmap for healing from domestic violence and strengthening relationships. Dr. Rosenna Bakari's expertise offers a lifeline to those who need it the most.

✨ Benefits for Domestic Violence Victims ✨
"The Healing Journey" provides actionable advice, coping mechanisms, and a wealth of knowledge aimed specifically at empowering domestic violence survivors.

💖 Strengthen Your Relationships 💖
Beyond its focus on domestic violence, this book offers gems on improving interpersonal relationships, helping you establish healthy boundaries and meaningful connections.

🗨️ In Her Own Words 🗨️
Dr. Bakari says, "It's not just about surviving; it's about thriving. Taking that first step towards healing can change the entire course of your life."

🛒 Get Your Copy 🛒
Ready to embark on your own healing journey? This book is available from online retailers and at your local bookstore.

👉 Swipe right for some powerful quotes from the book!

🚨 Shattering the Silence: Men and Intimate Partner Violence 🚨

While the issue often goes underreported, about 1 in 10 men have experienced r**e, physical violence, or stalking by a partner. Men are victims too, and it's important to address the problem openly and offer support for everyone affected. 🗣️

🌟 Why It Matters 🌟
Often, intimate partner violence against men is a subject that's not discussed as much as it should be. The silence and stigma can make it incredibly difficult for male victims to seek help. Bringing attention to the fact that about 1 in 10 men have experienced such violence can help remove barriers to support and education. It also emphasizes that this is an issue affecting us all, regardless of gender. Speaking openly, sharing resources, and offering help can save lives and foster a community of understanding and healing.

💡 Seek Information and Support
For more information on this topic, visit the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) at www.cdc.gov. Alternatively, you can email Dr. Gray at [email protected] or schedule an educational consultation at http://gettraumainformed.com.

🆘 Need Shelter?
If you or someone you know is in immediate need of shelter, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1.800.799.7299.

🎀 Understanding The Basics of Breast Cancer 🎀

Did you know that breast cancer starts when cells in the breast grow uncontrollably? 🎗️ A breast is primarily made of three main parts: lobules, ducts, and connective tissue. The majority of breast cancers begin in the ducts or lobules.

🌸 Importance of Early Detection 🌸
Early detection is vital in managing and treating breast cancer effectively. Regular screenings can make all the difference. Please, do not delay your annual mammograms. 📅🏥

🎗️ Who Is Affected? 🎗️
Breast cancer doesn't discriminate; it affects both women and men. Let's spread the word to raise awareness for everyone. 🚻

💕 Donation Plea 💕
Consider donating to the Susan G. Komen Foundation. Your support helps fund research, awareness, and real-world help for patients. To donate, press the donation button on this post.

🚨 Facing the Facts: The Prevalence of Intimate Partner Violence 🚨

Did you know that nearly 3 in 10 women have experienced r**e, physical violence, or stalking by a partner? This isn't just a statistic. These numbers represent lives impacted, dreams deferred, and a cycle of violence that must be stopped.

🗣 Speak Up: It's time to break the silence and talk openly about the problem. No one should have to live in fear within their own relationship.

🌟 Why This Matters: By acknowledging the extent of intimate partner violence, we can take the first steps toward solutions and healing.

👫 Community Support: If you or someone you know is in this situation, you're not alone. There are resources and support networks that can help.

📞 Get Help: Reach out for support. 1-800-799-SAFE/ 1-800-799-7233

🎉 We're Proud to Announce: Our Organization, Gray's Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp, Has Completed the 2023 and We're Counted as a VSP! 🎉

Hey everyone! We're excited to share that we've successfully completed the 2023 National Crime Victim Service Providers Survey ( ). This is an important step in understanding and improving the support systems available for victims of crime, including domestic violence, child abuse, and human trafficking. 🌟

🤔 Has Your Agency Been Counted?
If you're part of an organization that serves victims, don't miss your chance to contribute to this valuable data pool. Your input helps shape policies and strategies to assist those most in need.

📚 Learn More
For more information on how to participate, visit 👉 https://victimresearch.org/ncvsp-2023 👈



Feel free to share, repost, or adapt this post to help encourage other agencies to be part of this impactful survey. Let's work together to support crime victims more effectively. ✨

🎙️ Christina Aguilera: Using Her Voice to End the Silence on Domestic Violence 🎙️

Christina Aguilera has been a vocal advocate against domestic violence, most notably in her deeply personal 2002 song, "I'm OK," where she sings about witnessing her mother suffer at the hands of her father.

🗣️ Breaking the Silence: Christina once told Us Weekly, "It is a hush, hush subject. Not everybody likes to wear it on their sleeve and talk about it. It makes people uncomfortable, and there's a lot of shame around it. But that's why for me, it's so important to speak my truth and help others find theirs and to find their own hope in a hopeless situation."

✨ Why It Matters: By sharing her experience, Christina is taking a stand to normalize the conversation around domestic violence and offer hope to those who may feel alone in their struggle.

🔊 Your Voice Counts: This month, let's follow Christina's example by speaking up, raising awareness, and working to end domestic violence. Together, we can make a difference.



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🩷 Breast Cancer Awareness Month: Angelina Jolie's Empowering Choice 🩷

In honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we're sharing the inspiring story of Angelina Jolie. At the age of 37, she made the informed decision to undergo a preventative double mastectomy, as well as surgery to remove her ovaries and fallopian tubes. This decision forced her into menopause and means she can't conceive again.

💬 Jolie's Words: "I feel deeply for women for whom this moment comes very early in life, before they have had their children. Their situation is far harder than mine. You can seek advice, learn about the options and make choices that are right for you. Knowledge is power."

🌟 Why It Matters: Angelina's story reminds us of the importance of being informed and proactive about our health.

💖 Take Action: This month, let's all make the effort to educate ourselves, get screened, and know our options. Your health is in your hands.

💔 The Untreated Wounds: Medical Care and Intimate Partner Violence 💔

Let's spotlight this concerning fact: Only 34% of victims injured by intimate partners actually receive medical care for their injuries.

🚑 The Gap in Care: Despite the physical harm, a significant number of victims either can't access or choose not to seek medical treatment, often due to fear, stigma, or lack of resources.

🗣️ Let's Bridge the Gap: We can do better. Awareness is the first step. Whether it's informing victims about available healthcare resources or offering emotional support, we all have a role to play.

💕 You're Not Alone: Help is available. If you or someone you know is in need, don't hesitate to seek medical care and reach out to support networks.

🗒️ After the Alert:

If your phone was discovered and you were put in immediate danger, call 911 at your safest convenience to get help.
If your phone was found out, but you have time to get to a safe location, please call 1-800-799-SAFE for local DV shelter information.
If you are safe:

Remember to turn your phone back on only when it's safe to do so.
Delete any notifications related to the WEA alert to avoid suspicion.
Put your ready-to-go phone back in its safe location.
Make a safety plan for future alerts. You're not alone; advocates are here to help with planning.
📞 Need Help?: For more information and safety planning, please call 951.382.4841.

🚨 The Silent Witnesses: Children and Domestic Violence 🚨

This is a harrowing fact: 10 million children are exposed to domestic violence every year.

👶 Young Eyes, Big Impact: These children bear the emotional and sometimes physical scars of witnessing violence at home. This exposure can have long-lasting effects on their mental health and overall well-being.

🗣 Let's Break the Silence: Children should grow up in safe, nurturing environments. It's our collective responsibility to speak out, offer support, and seek solutions.

🤝 Stand Together: This month and beyond, let's unite to protect the most vulnerable among us—our children. Your voice, your actions, can make a difference.

💔 A Disturbing Reality: Women and Intimate Partner Violence 💔

As we observe Domestic Violence Awareness Month, let's confront a disheartening fact: 1 in 4 women experience severe intimate partner violence in their lifetime.

🎗️ A Widespread Issue: This statistic is a grim reminder that many women face severe forms of emotional, physical, and sexual abuse.

📢 Let's Raise Our Voices: The time to act is now. By educating ourselves and others, offering resources, and creating safe spaces, we can work towards ending this cycle of abuse.

🌸 We Stand Together: This month, and every month, let's stand together to support survivors and bring an end to domestic violence.

💡 Did You Know: Men and Intimate Partner Violence 💡

We often talk about women in discussions of intimate partner violence, but did you know that 1 in 9 men experience severe intimate partner violence in their lifetime? It's time to break the silence and include men in this important conversation.

👤 A Silent Struggle: While it's less frequently discussed, men also face severe forms of intimate partner violence, including emotional, physical, and sexual abuse.

🗣 Let's Talk: It's important to open up dialogues that address the experiences of men as well. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, let's commit to being inclusive and acknowledging that men can be victims too.

💪 Take Action: Use available resources, educate others, and offer support. Your actions could save a life.

📚 Gray's Trauma-Informed Care Services Corp's Book of the Week 📚

Hello everyone! For National Book Month and Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we are highlighting an essential read: "No Visible Bruises: What We Don't Know About Domestic Violence Can Kill Us" by Rachel Louise Snyder.

📘 About The Book: No Visible Bruises: What We Don’t Know About Domestic Violence Can Kill Us" is an investigative book by journalist Rachel Louise Snyder. It explores the intricate causes and devastating effects of domestic violence in the U.S., bringing in perspectives from victims, abusers, and various professionals. The book is divided into three parts. The first tackles the reasons women stay in abusive relationships, highlighting the complex factors that keep them bound. It debunks the myth that these women are weak or foolish, instead showing that they are often trapped by multiple barriers including societal norms, law enforcement failures, and financial constraints.

The 2nd part delves into the psyche of the abusers, examining the range of factors that contribute to violent behaviors. These include societal expectations, gun culture, religious teachings, and substance abuse. Snyder explores whether rehabilitation for abusers is genuinely effective.

The 3rd section evaluates existing programs aimed at combating DV finding that most services are short-term and flawed. The book emphasizes the need for collaboration among organizations and individuals working against DV.

🙏 Why It Matters: Knowledge is power. This book provides invaluable insights that could make a difference in someone's life. If you or someone you know is struggling with intimate partner violence, "No Visible Bruises" offers both understanding and resources.

👓 A Must-Read: With October being both National Book Month and Domestic Violence Awareness Month, there couldn't be a better time to educate ourselves on this crucial issue.

🛒 Get Your Copy: You can purchase "No Visible Bruises" at local bookstores or through online retailers.

Let's arm ourselves with knowledge and compassion. Together, we can contribute to a safer and more understanding world. 🌍💜

🎀 Breast Cancer Awareness: Know The Facts

Hello everyone, we're diving deep into some essential facts about breast cancer to shed light on its impact.

✅ Common Yet Unpredictable: Did you know that breast cancer is the most common cancer in women worldwide? A staggering 1 in 8 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetime.

🤰 Pregnancy & Breast Cancer: Breast cancer is also present in pregnant or lactating women, affecting 1 in 3,000. It’s essential for women of all stages of life to be aware and get checked.

👩‍👩‍👧 Family History Isn't Everything: While family history can be a factor, about 85% of breast cancer cases occur in women who have no family history of the disease.

⚠️ Major Health Risk: Breast cancer stands as the 2nd leading cause of cancer death among women. This stresses the importance of early detection and regular screenings.

📊 U.S. Statistics: In 2015 alone, there were 1,658,370 new cases of breast cancer in the U.S., highlighting the need for increased awareness and research.

Let's come together to spread awareness, support survivors, and encourage early detection. Share these facts and stay vigilant. Together, we can make a difference. 💖

Breast Cancer Awareness Month in October aims to educate people about the disease and promote early detection. Surprisingly, there's a potential link between breast cancer and domestic violence. Stress from abuse may negatively impact health, potentially worsening cancer outcomes. Chronic stress can weaken the immune system, making the body more vulnerable to diseases like breast cancer. Initiatives that address both issues are crucial for holistic women's health, offering resources for early detection and support for abuse victims.

Domestic violence is not limited to physical abuse; it can also involve emotional, verbal, and financial abuse.