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Hi Beauties💎

The one thing you don’t want to get caught up doing is leaning forward in order to ‘push’ your agenda on a man in attempting to move the relationship forward 💫

This type of behaviour will only drive the man to do the opposite.

It is a fact that, if you desire to have a man pull closer to you, the very thing that has to happen is that you create space to allow him to draw close to you. The concept of leaning back isn’t about playing games or having an agenda, it’s what creates the polarity needed to keep a man attracted to you.😍

What is leaning back?

I want to share this article with you to help you understand what leaning back is & why it’s important that you adapt to this concept if you want to move & keep a man drawing closer to you💗

Note:

It’s important to remember that a man who loves you will not move further away from you as a result of you leaning back. You will realise that if a man wants to be with you he will be there whether you’re paying him the attention or not💎💕

As long as you remain in your feminine energy💕🔥

🌟Beauty, 💫you need not chase or pursue a man;

If he’s interested in you, there will be no question about it; you will not have to read between the lines because he will be happy to show you that he’s into you💝

Here’s an article I’d like to share for you to refer to it in regards to leaning back vs leaning forward

Once again, the tools will only work when you APPLY them to your situation. You simply have to adapt & train your feminine muscle. Get grounded in your feminine energy💎💋

So let’s get to it, shall we?

🌟What is Leaning Back?🌟

💜It is to have no agenda with a man💜

🌟It is when you don’t try to make anything happen with him.

🌟It is when you don’t relentlessly look for ways to make him love you more, push for your relationship to move forward, or worry about what you need to do to keep him interested.

Does this make you feel uncomfortable?

Does it make you feel worried if you stop trying he’s going to walk away?

That’s how most women feel (I used to be just like them too)🥰

A woman feels if she doesn’t text a man first, he’s going to think she is not interested. She feels worried he is going to look for an “easier” woman if she doesn’t make things convenient for him.

And this isn’t true. Just because we ladies fall for a man who is constantly paying attention to us, doing things to help us, and shows in many ways that he cares about us, it doesn’t mean that he falls in love the same way.😍

You as a woman, with your feminine energy, crave these things to be done for you.💝

And he as a man, with his masculine energy, craves a woman who allows him to do all of these things for her.💙

And in a romantic relationship, the feminine and masculine energy NEED to be balanced in order for it to feel harmonious.🔥💜

So if you’re the one who is leaning forward, he has no choice but to be leaning back in order to balance the energy of the relationship.

And you don’t like that. He doesn’t like that either. And therefore, you both end up feeling unsatisfied in your relationship.

How many times have you heard women say: “Nothing that I do is ever enough for him!” (I know I’ve said this exact sentence MULTIPLE times in the past).

It’s because he doesn’t want you to do any of that!🌟

And that’s exactly why you need to learn how to lean way way back!!

Practice Leaning Back (Physically):

When you’re around a man, pay attention to your body. Is it moving towards him? If he’s sitting right across you, are you leaning into him and he’s looking at his phone or looking away from you.

Are you frustrated and trying to get him to pay attention to you?

Or are you leaning back in your chair, feeling peaceful, and he’s looking at you?

If you’re leaning forward and he’s distracted, how does that make you feel?

If you’re leaning back and he is paying attention to you, how does that make you feel?

In either case, do the opposite. If you are leaning forward, lean back in your chair. And if you are leaning back, lean towards him. What is he doing now?

Watch him how without knowing, his body WILL automatically shift to balance the energy by leaning back as you lean forward, or come towards you as you lean back.

As you practice this physically, your next step is to pay attention how you energetically lean back and forward with respect to him.

***Whenever you work hard to make things happen in your relationship, or constantly think about a man, or try to get something from a man who isn’t offering it to you, you ARE leaning into him, and so he will move away from you to balance the energy.****

Catch yourself and physically lean back to signal your body and mind into leaning back.

This is the quickest way to shift the flow of the energy in your relationship.🔥❤️

It doesn’t matter at what stage of the relationship you are.🌟

You as a feminine energy woman feel wonderful when you’re receiving his energy, and him as a masculine man, falls in love with you when he is allowed to give his energy to you.💕

Article by
Sharhdrak Shukra

Thank you so much &
Blessings 💙🙏🏿

Love yourself & enjoy your own company ❤️❤️

The more you focus on the problem, the BIGGER it gets❤️

Hello Beauties💕🤗

Are you feeling lonely? 😔

What if I told you that your ‘need’ for love is depriving you of the intimacy that you most desire? 🌟

According to Eastern philosophy, a person cannot really gain what they want until they give up the idea that they ‘need’ it.💫

When you believe that you ‘need’ a man’s love to feel happy & worthwhile, in fact you may not be able to find that love. 💙The sooner you can get rid of the need for love the closer you are to that love finding you! 😍

Though the idea that you don’t need love to a lonely person may be unappealing & hard to fathom; and though a lonely person may feel like they can’t give up that notion of ‘needing’ someone to be happy, the effect is exactly the opposite. 🌟

Consider self love while working on being alone first before you can love another person🥰.

Once you can love & appreciate yourself, others will find it easier to love you as well💎

Furthermore, once you can get to a point where you are happy & content with yourself, you will discover that you are the one you’ve been searching for who can make you happy after all❤️

Until then, keep smiling & BELIEVE 🌟

Thank you &
Blessings💜🙏🏿

Hi all,

Some of us are on the journey of self love while others are just beginning & yet still some are already seasoned in this. It’s of utmost importance that we cultivate the art of self love because while any relationship with others can change the only person you will always be in relationship with is you. This really is a powerful concept when you think about it.

A lot of people don’t understand what self love really is. As women we tend to put others before ourselves & all day long. A healthy relationship requires some boundaries. But how can you know how to set boundaries with anyone when you don’t even know what those boundaries are for yourself? I’ll get into all this later but for now, I just want you to make self love a total priority. Realising that the only way to having a healthy relationship with anyone else is by loving yourself first.

Furthermore as I said before, is that you can be single, married, rich, poor, healthy, well, popular, unpopular etc; but still experience loneliness. Loneliness plagues a lot of people & I would like to unveil the stigma surrounding loneliness.

Full disclosure:

I had a boyfriend who disclosed that it was only while married that he was addicted to strip clubs. He said he was so lonely because his wife was abusive & un affectionate. Don’t get me wrong, I’m fully aware that there’s two sides to every story! He told me that when he divorced & became single, his addiction to strip clubs faded; that he didn’t feel the need for the escape anymore. He was no longer lonely however he enjoyed being alone.

Just to be clear, aloneness doesn’t equate to loneliness.

There’s an illusion that finding someone to love is the solution to expelling loneliness! But that’s only an illusion. The truth is, self love alone is the solution to loneliness. It may feel unnatural to accept this as a lot of people in the world are conditioned to believe that love is found outside of themselves & in another; but that is simply not true. You can discover that when you don’t have self love even when in a relationship you it’s highly possible to still experience loneliness or emptiness that your partner simply can’t fill. It is only you that has the power to fill that void. Furthermore, once you love & appreciate yourself, it’s then possible for others to love you too. And, you will then be able to love others in a more meaningful & healthy way as well. It’s a win win all around.

Thank you❤️🖤