Stainless Tata

"OPEN DISCUSSION: What is killing relationships nowadays"🤦🏽‍♀️

— Imagine attending the wedding of a person who promised to marry you.

no one :

me : * hides my phone on my waist then goes to the toilet *

12 Reasons a good man should NEVER commit to a singIe mother:

1. Whatever you think you can get from a singIe møm, you can also get it from any another wvmån who wouldn’t come with other men’s children.

2. She is not looking for a lover, she is looking for a father for her chiId. She is not interested in you but she is focused on the stability you bring to her, and she is concerned about the legitimacy you give her chiId. She is emotionally dependent and entitled to your financial favours because she has a chiId to cater for. She believes that if you want her, you must take responsibility for her chiId, or you are not serious with her.

3. You become an accidental father without preparation because of her poor decisions in the past which has nothing to do with you. You suddenly become a father because of her mistakes and not your own making.

4. Her chiId would never truly respect you especially if he is a boy. The psychological syndrome known as “Oedipus Complex” would make him see you as an interloper between him and his attachment to his møther. Also, he knows you are a weak man who chose his møther that his own dad rejected, he somehow sees you as a man without options feeding on his own father’s leftover.

5. You are a minority in your own home when she has not given birth for you, or the chiId she birthed for you is still younger. If she ever fought you and you dare to defend yourself against her, she and her son will join hands to f**k you up. If her son ever fought you and you fight back, she will attack you to defend her chiId. If Police ever shows up, they will bear witnesses against you and your evidence being a minority would have lesser value. The day you chose to commit or marry a singIe møther was when you set yourself up for troubles.

6. You are committing to a wvmån who has shown she is a poor decision maker. No matter her sob stories of how she became a singIe møther, she is obviously a gullible person and can be easily deceived. More people would still take advantage of her starting from her Pastors, Chinmark ponzi schemes and others. Is this the person you want to make the møther of your chiIdren and to superintend for you when you are not around? Someone who allowed a dædbeat dude to cvm inside her and get her pregnant, such a person can not be expected to make a better decision about her life talk more of making good decisions for other people’s welfare. Pregnancy is serious medical procedure that may require major surgery, if she could subject her body to go through such procedure for some careless s***m donor…Lol, nwanne, think twice.

7. You would spend all the money, energy and emotions on her chiId but he would never truly be your own. No matter what bond you form with the chiId, once you break up or argue with his møther, watch the bond disappear. He will form a new bond with his møther’s new man.

8. The baby daddy will most likely be in the picture. Lol. Once he pierced her before you, he is more likely to do it again….and again. He has a right to see his chiId/dren. Maybe he didn’t run away, it could be because of tribe her parents or his parents refused their union. It could also be financial disability that made them not to be together, he was probably unemployed or still a student and he is now employed and financially independent. Lmao! In that case she would always wish to get back together with him.

9. Her chiId comes first before you. His father is most probably her true love and sometimes her first love. You are never going to come in between her and her first fruit, she will always choose the chiId over you.
Whenever you have disagreement with her, instead of reconciling or to miss you she will find solace in her chiId. Oftentimes, she will taunt you on her statuses with a picture of her chiId captioned “My world, the only one who would never leave me”. She is likely to always cancel on you because of something concerning her chiId, you are not her priority.

10. A singIe møther has little or no regard for the man who committed to her. She feels you are not in her league if not for her pregnancy. She wouldn’t have been with you if her baby daddy didn’t reject her. You are there because you still have your best years and she has given her best to other men and her baby daddy, you are an afterthought.

11. You cannot train her chiId according to your own codes because she will always interfere when you discipline her chiId. She will tell you straight up that you are not their father if you insist on asserting your authority over the errant child.

12. You get little or no respect from other wvmęn when you commit to a singIe møther, other wvmęn would automatically see you as a man of low value and fewer options. Amongst wvmęn inside their hearts, they know that singIe møthers are desired by men who have been rejected by other wvmęn.

Even the wvmęn within your own family and friends would not even respect you knowing you are a man with poor choices. Your møther, sisters, aunts and cousins would mock you. Heck, your stepmom and other møthers would use you to abuse your mom and sisters.

The goal is never to condemn women but to save men.
Point 8 hits hard 🥺
How many points do you agree with??

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1. 03 April
2. Wednesday
3. Tommorow

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