Auntie Susie

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Dear Auntie,
I hope this letter finds you well. I am reaching out to you during a challenging time in my life, seeking your guidance and support.
At 23 years old, having recently graduated, I find myself facing complex decisions. In October, I made the difficult choice to end my relationship with my physically abusive boyfriend. Unfortunately, this situation has taken a more complicated turn, as I discovered that I am now pregnant with his child.
I am compelled to maintain communication with him due to the pregnancy, and he expresses excitement about becoming a father. However, given the history of abuse, I am deeply concerned about my safety and well-being. I fear becoming another statistic of gender-based violence, and the thought of continuing any form of relationship with him is distressing.
I am grappling with the decision of whether to terminate the pregnancy as a means of self-protection or to proceed with the pregnancy while severing all ties with him. On one hand, I fear the potential consequences of an abortion, but on the other, I worry about my child growing up without a father's love, understanding how valuable a present father figure can be.
This is an incredibly daunting situation for me, and I am reaching out to you for your wisdom and support. Any guidance or advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you

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Dear Auntie Susie
I trust this message finds you in good health. I have a matter of great sensitivity to discuss, and I kindly request that my identity remains confidential.
My elder brother, residing overseas, is confronting a difficult situation. His wife, who is the mother of their child, is engaged in an extramarital affair with a man she claims to be her best friend from church. Initially, I dismissed this as a rumor, but after conducting some discreet investigations, I've confirmed its veracity.
I've attempted to address the issue with her and discuss the potential consequences, but she continues to maintain her relationship with the other man. I find myself in a dilemma, torn between not wanting to reveal this secret to my brother. Our upbringing was challenging due to our mother's divorce from our father, and our stepmother was unkind and indifferent to our well-being.
I'm concerned that if my brother were to discover this, he might choose to divorce his wife, and their son may face a similar upbringing to ours with a stepmother.
Auntie, I am seeking guidance on how to handle this delicate situation. Thank you

Hello Auntie, please keep me anonymous.
My ex and I dated for 6 years and we were supposed to get married this year. On our anniversary he just texted "we just can't be together anymore". I asked him why? he said he needed space so he can able to love and learn to appreciate me again. Did he do this because he met someone else? How do I get over someone like that? How am I supposed to love anyone in the future when I am this broken? I just need to be slapped out of this heartbreak. Thank you

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Dear Auntie Susie.
Please keep me anonymous. My girlfriend and I are working but it seems like I'm the only one always spending in this relationship. She initiates dates, plans and vacations that I have to pay for. I pay for her clothing and airtime for her phone. On top of that she expects me to buy her child clothes. I don't have a child of mine own yet. When I'm broke before the month ends, she doesn't help me, she says a man that expects money from a woman is weak. When I ask her what she does with her money she says a man must never ask a woman about her money.

Basically, in this relationship we only discuss my money. Anytime we step out, she orders expensive drinks which I have to pay. I once went to her place unannounced and found her drinking cheap drinks but when she's with me she says she can only drink baileys and other expensive drinks. It seems like her taste is only expensive when it's my money we are spending. I love this woman but I think she's selfish. She once told me to go apply for a loan at quickCredit one time I asked her for 500 cedis for petrol. That day she asked me to fetch her child and other family members with my car. I got paid a week later and she asked me to give her money for frontal. She sees nothing wrong with this. If I say no she gives me bad love-making. She will just lie there as if she's waiting for a doctor to check her heart rate. Is this how a relationship should be in 2023? I’m asking the ladies on your platform .

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Please hide my identity. I hope you are doing well 🙏. I would like to share with you what I am going through, and I need advice. It's about my husband. We have been married for the past six years, and I am 32 years old with one beautiful and very intelligent girl. After five years of giving birth, my menstrual cycle stopped. I have tried everything. I have been to the hospital to see a gynecologist, and I have tried herbal remedies, but still, my menstrual cycle has not returned.
Now, my husband is getting on my nerves, nagging that he wants children. As for him, he is willing to do anything to have children outside our home. Things have changed. His ego won't let him calm down. For the slightest thing, he nags. If I try to talk to him, he gives cheeky answers during arguments. He even told me that his mother and siblings said they don't like me. They told him, but he didn't listen. I was shocked when I heard that because my mother-in-law has always been welcoming and friendly towards me when we visit them. She praises me, smiles, and asks what we would like to eat. It's like she's good to me. I was shocked when my husband said this.
I remember that some time ago, my husband's brother's wife cautioned me to be careful, saying that they would pretend to love me but speak ill things about me behind my back. As I type this, my father and I are not on good terms after we got married. He never liked my husband, and what pains me is that he never liked him, yet he accepted my bride price. Eeeerrrrh, it's a difficult situation.
I am confused. I don't know whether to get a divorce and start afresh and take care of my daughter or wait for God to change things for me 🙏. I need advice and your prayers. 😥😥 Please, no insults. Thank you, all."

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Dear Auntie Susie.
Please hide my name for safety purposes.
I met a guy in Pokuase and he asked for my number. I gave it to him because he told me he is a magistrate. We started talking and a week later we went out on a date. He'd take calls in front of me talking to lawyers and prosecutors. He used big words like constitution and precedence. He started visiting me at my place and we made love several times. I discovered a month later that he is a mere petrol attendant without matric. He blocked me everywhere since I uncovered his lie. I want to know if I can lay a charge of r**e against him. I consented to sleeping with him because I thought he was a magistrate. The cars he came to my place with belong to his boss. Had I known he was a petrol attendant I wouldn't have consented. Please advise.

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Hello, my name is Godfred and I am 31 years old. I just got married three(3) weeks ago but my problem now is that all these weeks we have been having s*x since. Anytime I complain to her that I’m fed up with s*x then she gets annoyed, and she always adds that we are no more boyfriend and girlfriend but we are married couples. Mama, I want to know if it is good for a woman to show more interest in s*x, especially after marriage, not even considering the strength of her husband. Please advise me because I am beginning to lose interest in the marriage.

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Hi Auntie Susie. Please hide my identity. I've been sleeping with my stepfather for the past 3 years and we have a kid aged 2. I told my mother it was a one night stand at university and I don't know the father's whereabouts. She has been very supportive and taking care of my child. My stepfather wants to leave my mother for me because I make him happy. I told him we rather wait for my mother to kick the bucket first before he marries me because I don't want to hurt her. I noticed ever since then that he doesn't treat my mother well. It's like he wants her to die of stress. I love this guy because he's my baby daddy but I also love my mom. Breaking up with him would hurt me and on the other hand seeing my mom stressing is hurting me. Please advise me on what to do. DO NOT JUDGE ME.

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Dear Auntie, kindly post this letter for me.
My husband took me to a gynaecologist this morning. I got in the gynae's room without him. After my consultation my husband asked me how everything went and I just smiled. He has been angry and doesn't talk to me since then. He's accusing me of having enjoyed being touched by my gynaecologist, that's why I was smiling after the consultation. Why are men so dramatic?

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