Gretchen Shanks Coaching

My coaching practice is focused on identifying and then getting what you want from connections, dating and s*x. Get smarter about what you really want in order to get the kind of relationship you envision for yourself. And while you’re on that journey, you’ll have a lot of fun along the way.

With my support, you’ll learn to:
- approach s*x and dating in a manner authentic to who you are right now
- mitigate and manage anxiety and nerves
- re-frame the stories you tell yourself that negatively affect how you approach and feel about s*x and dating
- expand your comfort zone around dating in order to be your most strong, confident, and s*xy self
- make better choices
- build your support network so you never feel like you’re going it alone
- be fully present and mindful on each date and with each prospective partner

Love is Not Enough

Love Is Not Enough. An unusual article title for a s*x and dating coach to share, I’ll admit, but this article really resonated with me. It’s full of great insights, but his three truths about love stand out, particularly the last one: 1 – Love does not equal compatibility. 2 – Love does not solve your relationship problems. 3 – Love is not always worth sacrificing yourself.

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