LUV LOGIC

WOW! This one hit home!

YES! Our answer is F**K YES! But we’ve also DONE THE DEEP WORK and understand and give grace to the simple fact that to maintain a joyous, loving and sensual relationship in our MODERN world … that THE WORK never stops!
Here are a list of suggested modalities to help you find joy, love and sensuality with yourself!
Coaches
Mentors (sensors!)
Therapists (intuitives!)
Cold/Hot Tub Transitions
Breathe-work Coaches
Reiki
Emotional Clearing 🔥
TMS
S*x Therapy
While these modalities are important, your DAILY ROUTINE is what truly makes the difference! What works for you?
Meditation
Working Out
Connecting with Nature
Saunas
Eating Clean
Daily Walks
Satisfying your Love Language
Journaling
Hydrating
Sleep Hygeine

Dr. Liebermann and Michael Long did an amazing job in this book humanizing and highlighting dopamine research.

We know so much about our bodies, its time for our society to step it up in our understanding of the brain. Why do we choose the paths we choose, When did we learn how to choose, is choice automatic or is it developed? In relationships, why do we love, why do we cheat, why do we NOT cheat, why do we argue those that we love?

When you dig into figuring out the answers to these questions you will find yourself breaking down the neurochemical response of DOPAMINE. Based off of this book, you may even hypothesize that DOPAMINE is why we do anything, it also may be what makes us HUMAN? BUY THE BOOK - READ THE BOOK - THEN READ IT AGAIN.

OXYTOCIN: commonly coined as the “Love Bonding” chemical due to its increase after giving birth to a child.

This neurotransmitter/nonapeptide allows the body to produce milk for a child.

The party didn’t start there though, this neurotransmitters abilities are truly endless! As it binds with other feel good chemicals like serotonin and dopamine to give us those gazing eyes at our loved one, the bond so dominant fidelity doesn’t waiver, and memories are stored in a more intentional way!

INTERESTINGLY, after chemistry has made its mark in the brain, our brains do shift in their chemistry components. Sometimes releasing dopamine and serotonin and adding in VASOPRESSIN!

Stay tuned to learn how OXYTOCIN and VASOPRESSIN work together to “engage” your likelihood for partnership!

PEA: phenylethylamine

Common misTyped as the Chocolate Drug, PEA is the HELPER that allows for dopamine flow and norepinephrines absorption.

These THREE chemicals allow our brains to step into a space of energetic flow based off of our attraction for another person.

How to know if you’ve had the perfect flow of PEA: have you stayed up for obscene hours talking to, touching, getting lost in time with your partner? THATS IT! That’s your brain sitting in the magic potion of romantic chemistry.

The real challenge comes 8-12 months down the road… will your magic potion last? The odds are slim… but the next stage is so much more beautiful!

STAY TUNED!

DOPAMINE!

The neurotransmitter you’ve likely heard the most about however are still confused about! 😂😂

You’ve probably heard dopamine referred to as the “pleasure chemical” while that’s not necessarily WRONG because it absolutely can make us feel intense energy, elation, and focused attention.

The root of dopamine is its ability to initiate reward, then subsequently motivation to achieve… which then gives us another robust kick of dopamine… this continued cycle however CAN be quite addictive.

So if we are talking about CHEMISTRY, especially the kind you know you should be running full speed away from however keep coming back to may full well being a chemically induced addiction to the feeling you have around the toxicity. UGH! 🙄

Awe absolutely could go down the gauntlet of how your conditioning and past traumas have highlighted and engrained this pattern into your brain…. But that’s what our programming is all about.

So reach out to us! Let’s chat about your brain, and see if the LUV Logic was… is the reward for SELF LOVE you’ve been waiting for! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Increased Heart Rate and Sweaty Palms are two symptoms you may experience around someone you have had or have chemistry with! 🫀

There are two more neurotransmitters that play a significant role in the intoxicating aspects of chemistry.. so stay tuned as we discuss how these chemicals can either make or break the way we feel about a partner!

Many many moons ago there was a man by the name of Aristotle who hypothesized theories of life. To this day it is bewildering to imagine humans from the BC days having such insightful theories that eventually would be proven by science to be true.

While the science continues to expand itself we can look back to this quote “the energy of the mind is the essence of life” and quite literally point out fingers at… the electricity of the brain is the power of the mind.

QEEG’s: are the electrical measurement of the brain.

While we admit there are MANY different parts of the brain and human body that allow for proper electrical flow… it is also important to understand what IS especially in your partner.

We LOVE doing qEEG reviews with partners to help them understand the ying/yang of their relationships!

Why does your partner withdrawal during tough conversations, why isn’t your partner responding to your emotional needs, why is your partners focus and motivation diminishing… these are just the basics of questions you may ask yourself on a daily basis.

We can tell you from experience that
Knowing your partners BRAIN ENERGY is as important if not more important than the vows you chose to take. Let’s get real, let’s get vulnerable, let’s let science bring you closer together!

Schedule a consultation with us today at www.luvlogic.com

The Honest Man Conversations are AMAZING!
We gather men of all cultures, statuses, and ages and spark conversation as it relates to the Evolution of Masculinity.
We encourage community at these events as we dive deeper into the neuroscape of men!

Head over to www.luvlogic.com to pre-register for our next Honest Man Event in August!

https://youtu.be/K82aoDmoQJ4

The Honest Man Event Profile The Honest Man Conversations are AMAZING! We gather men of all cultures, statuses, and ages and spark conversation as it relates to the Evolution of Masculin...

When was the last time you sat down with your partner and TRULY listened to what they had to say?

Most couples would probably argue that this hasn’t happened in months and if it did happen more frequently it would generate more affection in their relationship?

Obviously there are those couples out there though that simply don’t listen or even speak because their communication is just THAT bad. One word starts an argument, one opinion erupts the fire.

At LUV Logic we focus on allowing you and your partner to learn how to communicate again. It’s a difficult task when you are in the mix, but we see things differently and teach you to see the communication picture with your partner crystal clear!

Trigger words you may be hearing that may be the sign for you to reach out to us to see how we can help.

1. You never hear me!
2. Are you listening?
3. What did I just say?
4. We haven’t been intimate in ___________!!!
5. I didn’t want to tell you because _________!
6. Can you please just stop and listen to me.
7. Can we have a date night? There’s so much we need to discuss.

If you hear any of these statements on the regular... it might be past due time to work on evolving your relationship.

Schedule a Consultation with us at www.luvlogic.com

Anyone else’s EGO get over involved in their relationships.

A wise man once said we were give two ears and one mouth for a reason. LISTEN More, TALK Less.

How often in your relationship do you realize that the challenges in your relationship aren’t due to the relationship but due to your lack of presence?

When we find our ability to be completely present with the people in our lives we find the ability to love completely.

When we live in the past or the future you will often times find ourself going above and beyond to extremes in your relationship hoping to save, validate, or experience love.

Knowing yourself better is part of this journey. Are you future focused, are you past oriented, or do you get frozen in the present?

Temperament: your cognitive default (arguably born with it.)

Conditioning then happens through our senses, our love languages, our wins/failures (dopamine.)

This is when CHARACTER develops.

How flexible are you in your Temperament? Not sure? Post your MBTI below and we will educate you on what that means in regards to your actual temperament!

Be Flexible
Be Adaptable


Neurological Flexibility: The most underrated necessity for becoming the best version of self.

ENNEAGRAM 1’s: Think ghandi, a man who left his family and life being a lawyer to fight for the cause of love, peace and harmony.

1’s with do everything in their power to win morality and integrity as the see it.

What NOT to do:
Tell them their dreams, ambitions are silly.
Cheat: emotionally OR physically.

What to do:
Allow them to daydream, allow them to understand that their dreams are valid and that you want to be a creative sounding board for them.

ENNEAGRAM 2 TRIGGERS: feeling UNWANTED.

What they need: Validation of their necessity in your life!
“Couldn’t do this without you!”
“Wow, if you didn’t make such amazing dinners I don’t think I’d eat.”
“Thanks for giving so much of yourself to our family.”

Things NOT to Say:
“I don’t need this/you”
“Why did you do that, I didn’t ask you to.”

DO:
Encourage them to take find go to things for self care, and schedule it out. Massages, Hikes, Facials, Hunting Trips, Vacations, workouts, etc.

Enneagram 3: ACHIEVER

Make them feel valued and appreciated!

ENNEAGRAM 4: The Individualist

Is this type one of the more difficult types to have a relationship with? Tell us your experience!

ENNEAGRAM 5: The Investigator

ENNEAGRAM 6: The Loyalist

Enneagram 6: THE LOYALIST

ENNEAGRAM 7: The ENTHUSIAST!

Enneagram 8 :the challengers

The PEACEMAKER: Enneagram 9 #9

Here we go... down the rabbit hole of TRIGGERS!

Finding love for your partner has more to do with knowing how to support them and love them when they’ve got the mom/dad glare going strong!

SO, as we go through the triggers of Enneagrams, take note of what your partner may need in moments of strife! Also, be aware of what you may need in these moments as well!

The more efficient we are at managing our emotions by understanding our core fears the more likely we are to use our voice with our partner instead of pouting like the toddlers we often regress back to in love.

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DM us if you do not know your enneagram, we will be happy to send you a FREE test to get you on your way!

Finding Love for Your Partner.

It started off EASY, you were enamored with his/her existence as if you were designed to be together.

FAST FORWARD 9-12 Months (neurochemistry changes)

Then you start to fart in front of each other, you start to become protective of one another, and more inclusive. (Oxytocin and Vasopressin)

FAST FORWARD another 16-24 months. The dopamine is gone. The rush you once felt around your partner has trickled away. The red flags that were disguised by neuro peptides are now showing up. Conflict arises and well... let’s just say the BEST version of ourselves takes the back seat. So what do you do to keep it fresh, and/or get the love back on track?

1.) BE PRESENT, make eye contact, have s*x, ask probing questions to one another, schedule time together, prioritize each other, and STOP looking at the negative and START looking at the positive.

Over the next 7 days we will highlight the ENNEAGRAM and the triggers associated to type to give you some much needed guidance and insight into your partners CORE triggers!

If you don’t know your or your partners enneagram please email us for a link! [email protected]