Kristin Hadley

What if...

I was out to dinner last week, and got into a conversation with two women after they asked me about what I do. I explained about my work helping people in their relationships with animals and guiding them in opening up to the wisdom they have for us and making it a part of an abundant everyday life.
One of the women then shared how she gently removes the bats that find their way into her house, by using a waste basket and the cover to her Perry Como Christmas album. It was funny and kind.

The other woman shared how she felt kinda badly because she had used sticky traps to catch mice because she is terrified of them, and that a milk snake made his way onto the traps and she didn't know what to do because she hates snakes, and she didn't want to touch it, so she left it there, and it died two days later.

Ugh. My heart sank. My stomach pitted.

There are so many things wrong with that scenario... but I didn't say that.

I didn't want to respond in a way that was judgmental or would shame her in any way. I observed that she simply didn't think deeper, and obviously didn't know there may be other options.

I lightened the energy by saying I really ought to start a business going around removing the wildlife from people's homes and calling it spiritual pest control.

I know that most of the time people do the best they can in any given moment. I believe that people do not start their day saying "I'm going to give everything my worst attempt today."

Most of the time the blunders we create that hurt ourselves or others happen when we just don't know better yet.
Or we don't consider other beings.
Or we don't think more openly.

So my tip for you today is a practical one... practical thinking, practical action, practical consideration that can create new beliefs about "pesky" animals - their value, their wisdom and their souls.

🕷️ 🐍 🐜 🦝 🐝 🦇 🪲🐀 🐀🐺 🐊

Spiritual Pest Control.

People ask me - Do you even like mosquitoes? even ticks?

My answer is yes. I love, respect, and appreciate all animals.

I don't want ticks feeding on me or my animals, but I don't hate them and I am very thought filled about how I handle living amongst them.

I'm guessing you've said or heard the justifications and judgments... spiders are so ugly...mosquitoes suck blood...bats will nest in your hair.

🕷 Spiders do move startlingly fast, and their hairy bodies are so wildly strange. Understanding why they are speedy and have hairy bodies with big eyes is an example of the perfection in nature for perpetuation of the species... and understanding their uniqueness can make way for tolerance and even appreciation.

🪰 Mosquitoes do suck blood. But humans eat animal flesh and do some other really brutal things along the way.

🦇 Bats are necessary wonders in our environment, and they really don't want anything to do with you or your hair, they are just trying to find a way out of the place they mistakenly got into.
When you have a situation with an animal type who you are not comfortable with, or dislike - or simply are afraid of, STOP.

STOP your thoughts for a moment.
STOP any immediate reaction you are having.

Before you smash, shoot or grab the bug killer, ask yourself...

What is it about this animal that I don't like?
Do I need to kill it or is there another option?

Is that quality I don't like about this animal also a quality I have in some way?
What do I consider yucky about my appearance?
What is a habit or thing I do that I’m not too proud of, or happy about?

Are there other ways this animal and I might be alike?
Do I lash out when I feel cornered?
Am I opportunistic and resourceful like they are?
Can I be aggressive when I feel defensive?
How do I react when I'm afraid? Is it similar?

What can I learn from this animal?
Does he/she have qualities that I might actually admire?
patience, confidence, intelligence, instincts, agility, courage, natural gifts...?

What is really cool about this animal that I can observe?
Start with finding just one thing, then another, then another.

Is he/she afraid of me? Like I am afraid of them?
Bingo... this is the lightbulb moment.

What if I didn't let my fear take over right this minute?

What choices do I have here?
There are many.
🤩 Ask me if you need help on this one.

Humans are so quick to smash and kill the animals they don't like, value or are afraid of. I invite you to think about doing it differently, if you don't already.
And if you feel inclined, look for the similarities between you and that animal. They are there.

Animals, even the creepy ones, can teach us about cooperation, compassion, cohabitation, tolerance, communication, and oneness... and even accepting the parts of ourselves we don't like, and learning to love ourselves the way we are in this moment.

Animals teach us that we are all connected, all of us are of the same source, and we are more alike than we are different.

Let me know what insights this brings up for you.

Love,
Kristin

What have you learned from animals that has made your life better?

Just wanted to hop in here and let you know the EVENTS this week and all month happening in the Heart2Heart with Animals Membership.

As an animal lover, intuitive, healer, animal communicator, spiritual traveler, interspecies lifestyle enthusiast - you’ll love to join in and take part in the upcoming events.

TOMORROW - Tuesday 10/8 - 2:00pmET - Animal Communication Practice Circle 🐈💜
Our animal teacher this month is Sassy! She is a beautiful 2.5 year old cat, who lives in WNY with her loving person, Cynthia. Come join in the call and apply your animal telepathy skills, connect with Sassy, discuss the topics and questions that Cynthia has posted for her - and you will share on the LIVE call and get feedback about what you received.
It’s a beautiful time of connecting, learning from Sassy, and growing your abilities.

Wednesday 10/16 - 1:00pmET Community Connection Call ❤️💞
Bring your coffee, cat, dog, and meet up with others on this path with animals, share about your experiences, passions for communicating with animals and living in connection with them in all areas of your life. This hour is for inspiring discussion, sharing ideas, networking, connect and learn from others.

Thursday 10/24 - Animal Wisdom Mastery Hour - Topic: EFT Tapping for Animals 🐾☝️👉🥰
Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is simple yet powerful energy therapy designed to enhance your animal’s well-being, behavior, emotional balance, and overall health, while fostering a more harmonious relationship.

If you're already a Community Member, you will receive the event reminders and Zoom links in your email inbox. Or you can log into the Heartbeat community space.

Not a member yet? You can change that here!
Link to join is in the comments below! 😍🐾

What is a thought or persepective that you put onto your animals, that may not be their viewpoint?

Yesterday I went to see my son at his college. Next week I visit my daughter, who is attending law school, in SC. And the following week I take my youngest to visit a couple of colleges, so she can decide where she wants to be to study and spend the next 4 years of her life.

It has all happened SO QUICKLY! Where did the time go?

Those years flying by is really just my perception.
The time has been same number of days and hours we all have had over the past 5 or so years. Some of you may feel it flew, others experienced it taking forever.

One of the most important pieces that I teach when people are learning to communicate with animals, is to drop assumptions, release judgment, and be open to new perspectives.

We as humans often assume that our perspectives are reality. They simply are not.

I can hold a painting of my horse up for you to see and if I am looking at the back I will see that it is a blank white canvas.
You looking at the front will see my beautiful bay horse. I am right, and so are you. We are seeing the same thing from a different perspective.

This matters in our relationships with our people, and our animals. I'll tell you why below in my tip for today.
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Perspective is reality.

Your perspective does not have to be my perspective. And on some things likely isn't.

Which is why we have different experiences.

I don't love the colder weather. It is not my favorite season.
You may love the cold, and winter is your time to thrive.

We often make judgments based on our perspectives. My mom hates spicy food. I love it. To me hot peppers are food of the gods.


How this pertains to animals...

We as animal lovers often have our own perspectives of an animals's experience or situation. And from that perspective we often make judgments about whether the experience is good or bad, comfortable or uncomfortable, right or wrong, happy or sad, etc.

Animals don't speak in words, and are often not understood by people who aren't fluent in telepathic communication - and therefore their true feelings are too often missed, misinterpreted, or misunderstood all together.

You don't want to do this to your animal loves.
It is limiting, controlling and it does not allow them to fully be themselves and have their own unique experience - which may be very very different from what we think based on our own perception.

This comes up a lot around rescue, behavior, illness and even as an animal is readying to leave their body. People often assume that their animal is feeling a certain way, or experiencing a sensation or emotion, based on their own human perspective, beliefs, experiences.
And often they are wrong.

To miss out on how an animal is truly feeling or what they are experiencing or wanting you to know at that time is a gift you don't want to miss.

I had a client tell me she knew her dog who had his hind leg amputated due to an injury was suffering, in severe pain, was exhausted from moving his body, and held a lot of anger toward the people who had neglected him before she adopted him.

In our phone consultation, I met the dog, tuned in, felt his experiences, understood his thoughts, feelings and his perspective.

He showed me that in fact, he was quite happy about his life.

He didn't miss his hind leg at all and felt proud of himself to be able to play with other dogs even without his hind leg. He had no residual pain, though he did have pain when he was healing post surgery. And he was overjoyed to be living in a house with a warm bed, delicious food that consistently came, and to have the opportunity to love and partner with the people and dogs in his new family!

If this client had not called me, she would have continued projecting her perspective of him suffering onto her new dog friend's experience.

She would have continued to feel sorry for him and carry her own anger at the people who had not treated him well in his previous living situation.
And she would have missed seeing and experiencing all the joy that this pup truly felt in his body, about himself, about his life, and about his new opportunities with his new people.

My client and her dog were each living their own perspective - vastly different.

My client was so grateful to now know how her new dog friend truly felt. She said it was like a huge weight lifted.. and that it was never really there, but she had created that weight with her own mind and fears.
Now I want to be very clear... in no way am I suggesting that animals always turn lemons into lemonade, or that they hit the happy button on repeat.

Animals do suffer. We all do.
Animals are not always looking on the bright side. I've met plenty of animals who can't see a bright side from where they are (their current perspective/experience).

Animals don't always "live in the moment" and forget the past or forgive the past. I've met many animals who have been deeply hurt, let down, disappointed, injured, harmed, and remember what happened to them. And may never forget or forgive.

But animals do have a tendency to more willingly live on in love, than we humans do.

Often, not always.
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Whether you’re just starting to understand the animals in your life, or have studied animal communication, practiced a little or a lot, take today to check your perspective - on lots of things.

Is it truth, or just your perspective?

If you have a sense of what your animals are feeling, set your thoughts aside and ask them what their feelings really are.
If you wonder what your animal is experiencing, find out.
It is a most respectful gift to your animals ... to truly see them, witness their truth and experience through THIER eyes, and let your own thoughts and assumptions fall away.


XO,
Kristin

Every single day last week and this week, I have had the privilege of talking to people and their animals, from all over the world, who need a one-on-one convo with me to help them find their way into deeper understanding of their animal, a more harmonious relationship together, or into more clarity about why they and their animals are doing life together and how they are supposed to help and guide each other.

I love going deep with my clients. What a joy. 🥰
This is a picture of Rosie (Rosa-Lynn is her full name, my youngest daughter named her when she came into our family. Rosie joins me for all, I repeat ALL of my client calls. She is on my desk, my lap, in front of the camera on zoom calls, always front and center and dive deep into discussing topics of the heart.

There is a specific thing I love that happens for my clients, that I want to share with you, because knowing this may actually help you in your relationships with your animals.

I always look for the divine thread of connection in the relationship between the people and animals who come to me. It is always there, and it creates magic in our conversations.

When I find it, it is my job to help them touch that golden thread and listen to each other, and say yes to understanding what is unfolding. Because it is unfolding.

💫💫It is like their souls are lighting the way and I am simply the bridge for communication, deeper understanding, and clarification.

For some clients, allowing their animals to light the way is a new practice.

Quite often, animals are putting out big signs and howling a giant “helllloooooo!” but people are so used to thinking and ignoring what they feel that they aren’t picking up what the animals are putting down.

Many of us have been taught to shut down our intuition, our inner wisdom, and that ability to feel beyond our thoughts to be able to hear animals.

For some it has been for a lifetime.

Truth is that the whole world pays a price for the absence of our pure, clear, non-linear, soulful, intuitive genius, gifted by Spirit and supported by animals.

I spoke to an amazing woman yesterday.

Bright. Smart. Successful. Intuitive. Animal Aware. Self Aware.

She and her family have been sidelined by the loss of one of their dogs who died of cancer. Her heart-dog. But really… every one of her dogs is her heart-dog. You know what I mean.

She told me in our call that when she was booking her appointment to come into a consultation with me and her animal family, she had the thought and inner feeling: “This is about to change my life.”

So through the conversation new feelings that she hadn’t felt since her dog made his transition to spirit - like hope, like possibility, like healing, came alive inside of her. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

I began to realize more than ever how important it is that I do this work. How grateful I am to be able to serve in this way. How amazing it is to have a hand (and my heart) in actively changing the future of our world, and expanding the vibration of love across the planet… through this work.

This client told me that she was someone who has always had an inner voice and a kind of knowing about animals, but generally doubted herself and made practical decisions and poo-poo’d her intuition when it piped up. Especially when it piped up about her animals. There was too much at stake to be wrong, and too much that might hurt if she was right.

She told me that she was someone who has always had an inner voice and a kind of knowing about animals, but generally doubted herself and made practical decisions and poo-poo’d her intuition when it piped up. Especially when it piped up about her animals. There was too much at stake to be wrong, and too much that might hurt if she was right.

So, I asked her, “How do you want your connection with your animals to be going forward?”

And she laughed and said, “Honestly I want to feel this way all the time. To know how they feel and what they need is the most satisfying feeling ever.”

I asked her, “Have you thought about your own abilities to understand animals?”

She said she had not beyond mostly wondering if she was right or wrong, or guessing or making it up in her head.

Then I told her that I help people develop their abilities through trainings, classes and mentoring, and that my best students have been clients who were truly interested and dedicated to understanding their animal friends.

And she paused for a moment and said…”Yes!!! I can see how this will be true for me too. I have already discovered so much in the time we’ve been together today. I want to open myself up for more of this.”

Now, why is this story so exciting to me?

Because I got to hold that golden thread opening a much-needed new doorway for this woman who is wanting to live an interspecies lifestyle, walking on this path with her animals.

*I have only TWO SPOTS for private mentoring opening this month.*

If you are feeling like this is your time – or it just might be the time your animal has something important to connect with you about – I am here and ready to support you. There are only two spaces opening so grab your spot!

LMK in the comments below if you are interested in a spot!
Or DM me!

The Animal Communication Practice Circle is ready to roll for the July cohort! We have beautiful Cadie (GS/Border Collie/Lab Mix) for our Animal Teacher this month!

Comment below or message me if you want to join in! 🐾🐾

I get what I call Sunday Ideas.
And so does my wonderful assistant, Theo, as you can see in this picture... he is welcoming the Sunday inspiration.

Maybe you do too.

For me these are thoughts and ideas that come through when I'm doing my Sunday thing... meditating, yoga, walking, being with my horse, chilling with the cats, walking with Fisher, appreciating the birds and flowers and sunshine.

My mind fills with inspiring musings that flow in because I've taken the time to step into a quiet space without the pressure of the week, work and schedule.

I listen to my soul, and I get clear on the ease and simplicity of making life the way I want it to be.

It is absolutely possible to be, do and have all the things we want to create in life.

All we need to do is note the inspiration, say yes to the possibilities and be open to the next door to open on the path.

Don't have to worry about HOW, just be aware of the next door that opens.

So today, I'm offering you an opportunity to say YES to the next doorway for you.

Perhaps it aligns with what you were musing about yesterday, being it was Sunday.

Maybe it will be the next doorway you step into - where you are ... being, doing and having the connection with animals and the peace all that brings to your life.

I am over-the-moon happy to help you.

So... I am opening 2 spots in July for Private Animal Communication Mentoring clients.

If this opportunity arrives to you as a doorway opening and an answer to an inspiration you have for moving along your path with the animals in personal growth and spiritual development... then I'm so happy to invite you in!

➤➤You are ready. You are able. You are meant to do this if you've been hearing the whisper of your soul in your ear.

All the joys of living in deep connected communication with animals, are waiting for you.

I would love to be your guide.

Hey beautiful souls!

I'm thinking about how many people I know have had their lives improve immensely because of opening their hearts and minds to communicating with animals.

I am continually blown away by the new levels of joy and happiness that clients and students experience because they understand animals more completely, more deeply - and in turn begin living with new levels of consciousness.

I'd love to support you in bringing more wonder, enlightenment, happiness and joy into your life through connecting and communicating with animals.

Please let me know what you are most interested in!

🙋‍♀️ Learning more about your own animal family through private 1:1 consultations
🙋‍♀️ Learning how to communicate with animals through a group training class
🙋‍♀️ Refreshing your skills in animal communication through a group course
🙋‍♀️ Developing your animal communication skills through private mentoring

🐈🐢🐴🫏🐍🐕❤️

Let me know in the comments! 👇

Hey All!
In case you hadn't seen this already, I am running a fun and easy Animal Communication Practice Circle this month.
It starts tonight, and lasts for a week in a private FB group, ending with a LIVE Group Call on Weds. 6/19 @1:00pmET.

We have one Animal Teacher, special guest, who is available for people to connect and tune in with all week, applying tools and techniques in telepathic communication with animals.
There will be topics and questions to tune in with our animal teacher about.

Then on Weds. 6/19 @ 1pmET we have a LIVE Group Call in which I will lead a group communication session and everyone will be able to share what you received and get feedback.

Let it be FUN and EASY!

I will drop the link in the comments in you'd like to join us!
❤ Kristin

Who is interested in an Animal Communication Practice Circle? I'm putting it together!
LMK in the comments.

Join me Wednesday!
Animal Wisdom Mastery Hour:
"Healing Together: Exploring Shared Journeys with Animals"
Weds. May 22nd at 1:00pmET (to be recorded for all who register)
$47
Link to register is in comments!

🦋🐈Healing Together: Exploring Shared Journeys with Animals🐾❤️
Explore your spiritual journey with animals, as we grow and move through cycles of experience, emotions and lessons that shape us. Understanding the deep bond and shared journeys we have with our animal friends is a powerful way to heal together on the path. Join in this Animal Wisdom Mastery Hour and
🩷Learn about your own partnership and healing lessons from the animals in your life. 💙Hear stories and celebrations that others have experienced. 🧡Enjoy learning, exercises, discussion and QA in this 1 hour gathering.
It's Wednesday 5/22 @ 1pmET
⛱Open to all who register!

Join me for a FREE masterclass
Thurs & Friday this week
Unleash Your Purpose with Animal Insights! Link and details below 👇

Hey friends,
I've been cooking up ideas and more ideas about how to get people connected in deeper more aware ways with animals and nature. Becuase when we are, our lives are more in flow, we become aware of more magic available to us in this Universe,a nd basically we are simply happier.

So... I'm so excited to bring to you Animal Wisdom Mastery Hours every month! These are powerful group calls where I teach on a topic related to animal communication, animal wisdom, animal wellness, human~animal relationship, end of life experiences with animals, professional animal communication topics, creating and growing your AC/healing business, and so much more!

Last month the topic was moving beyond the resistance that can arise when communicating with your own animal family members.

This month the topic is:
"Healing Together: Exploring Shared Journeys with Animals"
May 22nd at 1:00pmET (to be recorded for all who register)
$47
DM me for the link!

🦋🐈Healing Together: Exploring Shared Journeys with Animals🐾❤️
Life is a spiritual journey - for every living being. As we grow we move through cycles of experience, emotions and lessons that shape us. Understanding the deep bond and shared journeys we have with our animal friends is a powerful way to heal together on the path. Join in this Animal Wisdom Mastery Hour and
🩷Learn about your own partnership and healing lessons from the animals in your life. 💙Hear stories and celebrations that others have experienced. 🧡Enjoy learning, exercises, discussion and QA in this 1 hour gathering.
It's Wednesday 5/22 @ 1pmET

⛱DM me for the link to register!

If you had to call ONE THING the game changer in your life with animals,
what would it be?

Mentoring people on their journey in communicating with animals and bringing their gifts to the world means guiding and supporting them in becoming more of their true selves, their best selves
It brings me overwhelming joy. .

Overwhelming joy.
What is better than that? It is like being surrounded by kittens in a pile of pillows, or sleeping in a basket of puppies, or lying on the ground in the field next to my horse, with my head on her back as we nap together in the sunshine.
Simple, overwhelming joy.

When people discover that they have the ability to do something that feels magical and may even for a time have felt like something far from their ability or potential, it is also electrifyingly satisfying - for them.

There is everything I love in doing the work I do.
I get to help people.
I get to help people understand animals and love them more than they ever imagined possible - which distills down to …
I get to help animals.
I get to support them in being, believing in, and expressing their true selves in their lives.
I get to witness how they grow and heal and evolve.
I get to watch as they say YES to living a life they thought was only a dream.
I get to be part of the ripple effect of releasing resistance, accepting differences in others, and moving through life lovingly and respectfully together and connected.

It's a beautiful life.
I'm so grateful.

Connecting deeply with animals is more than a passion—it's a way of life.

It’s a way of being that keeps us living in our hearts.

For some of us we also end up contributing to the world in a beautiful and healing way.
Connecting deeply with animals is also a path in spiritual growth and personal development. .

Is this true for you too?

Animals are my closest friends.

Their wisdom and guidance are truly lessons to live by - in every situation. Even situations that are completely removed from what we might think is "an animal experience"… meaning they have insights about all the human stuff we live through too.

I want to extend the opportunity for others to experience the life-altering gifts animals offer.

🐴 Did you know that animals can guide you in your relationships? - the relationship between human and animal, human and nature, and in your relationships with other humans too!
🐬 Did you know that animals can share insights about how to create the life and experiences you love?
🐢 Did you know that animals have personalized wisdom and direction for you in your life and in the ways you can bring your best gifts forward and create real change in the lives of others and yourself and family?
🐈 Did you know that animals are the best leaders and teachers about self acceptance and self love?

They are.
All these things and more.

That's why I'm excited to share that I'm opening up two (2) private client spots in my calendar for Private Mentoring & Interspecies Life Coaching.

💙Whether you're a blossoming animal & nature intuitive seeking to deepen your connection and bring more joy into your life,
💜Or a seasoned healing professional looking to elevate your life and your work to new levels of joy and impact,
🧡Or you are a budding animal communicator ready to release what holds you back and explore more...

…there's a special spot for you here with me.

If you're passionate about co-creating life and purpose with animals while manifesting your dreams, this opportunity is for you.

I'm opening just two (2) spots in my coaching calendar for Private Clients this month. These spots are limited and will fill up fast, so don't wait to reach out.

Drop a 🦋 or "ME!" in the comments, and I'll send you a link for a free consultation call.

In a consult call, we will together discover what is in your way, holding you back or keeping you stuck.

I will then love to hear your goals and dreams, and how I can help you become more of who you are meant to be.

And if it feels like a good fit for us both, I will love to work together as your mentor, coach and guide, to so you can break through the resistance, and move simply and easily to a new level of seamlessly understanding the wonder, wisdom and magical potential that animals and nature have to help you live on purpose and create the life you love.

I can't wait to connect with you and explore how we can embark on this transformative journey together.

It all starts with scheduling a Consultation Call - drop a 🐴🐈🐾 or "ME!" in the comments and I'll send you the link .

Love,
Kristin