Trauma Recovery Coaching with Dr. Dee

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We will be in Hattiesburg, MS this weekend bringing awareness to Trauma with a 2 hour workshop.

How Do Trauma Bonds Start?

Often, at the beginning of a relationship, it may seem very loving, affectionate, and passionate.

At the start, it can be hard to believe that your partner would do anything to hurt you. At some point, emotional, physical, or psychological abuse occurs.

It is hard to process, and the partner often tries to talk their way out of it and manipulate their partner into thinking they love them, that they will change, and that it will never happen again.

This can confuse the other person, but they believe them because they hope it will get better.

This is how trauma bonds start.

It becomes a cycle where the partner keeps doing the same thing but follows with positive reinforcement, giving their partner empty promises and convincing them they love them, only for it to happen again and again.
Reach out if you need help with a Trauma bond.

Some people are good at this in relationships. That’s why it is very important to get to know a person early in the relationship because Stage 1 of trauma bonding is LOVE BOMBING 💣. This is when the person gives you everything you want, does everything you like, buys gifts, spends an extreme amount of time with you, says all the perfect things, etc. This is all a facade to start the trauma bond. This stage can last for months and years if you are not very aware of the persons past life situations. It’s important to gather as much information about a partner, friend, etc before making LIFE decisions with them, because you may find yourself at Stage 7 with everything bad that the person has done blamed on you. But the worst of all is the devaluation & loss of self. It happens slowly and before you know it you have giving everything to them. Awareness is power. Evaluate your relationships, check your partners past behavior and stay away from trauma bonds! I have been in one and it almost took me out. Reach out if you need help!
-Dr. Dee

Another type of trauma is verbal abuse. We may have all experienced this in our lives from people we love, strangers, coworkers, friends, etc. Me personally, I have lived with some one for several years who verbally abused me and I didn’t even realize it was happening to me. Other people could see it but I couldn’t. It wasn’t until i developed anxiety about everything( yes everything), severe acid reflux, and chronic pain in my body that I was made aware by my health care provider that I am being abused daily. I was stressed about the clothes I would wear, food I would eat, people I could hang with… the list goes on. The verbal abuse was not in the beginning it crept in over time in the relationship. Take a minute to see if you have been verbally abused or if you currently being verbally abused. Reach out if you need confidential support. ~Dr. Dee

Are yall ready for a story???

In this space we will discuss several types of trauma. Let’s start with a very popular one. RELATIONSHIP TRAUMA!
When you get in a relationship or have been in one for quite some time you make think things like: Is this normal? Am I the problem? Well I can tell you there is a such thing as trauma bonds. Some people use these tactics to get what they want out of their relationships with people at someone else’s expense (aka: using you). I actually was trauma bonded with 2 people at the same time. I was living in a Forrest. Take a minute to see if your relationships are real or are they trauma bonds?

Tbh: 2022 was very tough for me. I can’t say there have not been some oh so good times between the tough ones. When I needed help to recover from my trauma & abuse no one really understood what I needed help with. I was trying to explain it to friends, family, coworkers but they just couldn’t get it so I dealt with it all alone. Now that I am a survivor and have certifications I would like to help others who are struggling or needing help. Strictly confidential services for men & women. Free services available as well.

Real life stories coming soon! Stay tuned!

We service men and women. Men it’s okay to admit you have endured or you may be currently enduring trauma. Now it’s time to heal!

Your trauma is valid and it’s time to heal now!