Be the One

Be the One

Be the One Community Mentor Programs are a campus-based partnership between schools and their communities to support student success.

Caring adults from the community spend one hour a week with a student they are matched with based on mutual interests and personality. Mentors make a minimum of one school year commitment but often continue meeting with the same student for multiple years through graduation. Mentors do not need to be able to tutor in academics. Most students just need a caring adult in their life to listen to them

19/08/2024

Imagine the power to transform a life.

We recently spoke to David, who thrived thanks to a fantastic six-year mentoring relationship with Greg. David's story perfectly captures the essence of what mentoring is all about:

"We talked about the week, play chess, backgammon, talk about interesting topics." This casual atmosphere created a safe space for David to connect and share freely with Greg over the years.

But the benefits went beyond just hanging out. "I'm looking at applying for jobs for after graduation. He is helping me with that." Greg became a valuable resource for David, offering guidance and support during a crucial time.

David describes mentoring as "good because it takes your mind off things, but they can also help you with school and goals." Having someone to talk to like Greg can provide a much-needed break, while also offering encouragement and a fresh perspective. "They can tell you to keep going. You can learn from their experiences. They are like a guide."


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16/08/2024

Be The One needs volunteers for the Septemberfest Event.
Sign up for a shift and enjoy the festivities.

https://www.betheonetoday.org/event-volunteer/

To Purchase Tickets: https://www.betheonetoday.org/septemberfest/

14/08/2024

LHS student shares about her mentor.
"I am so glad I got matched with Connie, I can tell her anything "


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08/08/2024

Get ready for a Bavarian blast! 🍻🥨 https://www.betheonetoday.org/septemberfest/

Join us for Septemberfest featuring wine and craft beer tasting, delicious Bavarian food, a charcuterie spread, live music, and a silent auction! Don't miss out on our special VIP tickets!
All proceeds benefit the Be The One Mentoring Program. Save the date and invite your friends!

05/08/2024

Corey, a Be The One mentor, shares a powerful story about his own childhood and how it fuels his passion for mentoring today. Corey reveals how he wished he had a mentor growing up, someone to talk to and confide in. Now, through Be The One, he's fulfilling that role for a young person, building a foundation of trust, consistency, and companionship.

Corey shares: "Growing up in high school I had some hard stuff happen and no adult knew how to talk to me or wanted to talk to me… Something about talking and hanging out with people is easy!”

Looking to make a lasting difference in a young person's life? Become a Be The One mentor and be the positive influence you always wished for.
Learn more: www.betheonetoday.org

02/08/2024

Join us for a day of fun at Septemberfest!
Indulge in delicious wines, craft beers, and mouthwatering food. Enjoy live music by the legendary Rewinders while bidding on amazing items in our silent auction.
All proceeds benefit Be The One.
Get your tickets now! BeTheOneToday.org/Septemberfest

30/07/2024

INTERNATIONAL FRIENDSHIP DAY!

"Our world faces many challenges, crises and forces of division — such as poverty, violence, and human rights abuses — among many others — that undermine peace, security, development and social harmony among the world's peoples.

To confront those crises and challenges, their root causes must be addressed by promoting and defending a shared spirit of human solidarity that takes many forms — the simplest of which is friendship.

Through friendship — by accumulating bonds of camaraderie and developing strong ties of trust — we can contribute to the fundamental shifts that are urgently needed to achieve lasting stability, weave a safety net that will protect us all, and generate passion for a better world where all are united for the greater good."
-United Nations Website
https://www.un.org/en/observances/friendship-day

Be The One answers this call in our communities. Strong, lasting friendships are formed between mentors and students every day,
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27/07/2024

SAVE THE DATE: Septemberfest Event
September 14th
Ticket Sales: https://www.betheonetoday.org/septemberfest/
Proceeds to benefit Be The One

An evening of wine, beer and food tastings with a silent auction and live music by Rewinders! facebook.com/RewindersLiveMusic

19/07/2024

Halima, a passionate Be The One mentor, shares her inspiring vision for the future in this heartwarming video. She believes every child deserves the positive impact of a mentoring program, and Be The One can make that difference.
Looking to expand the power of mentoring? Share Halima's vision and help Be The One reach more communities! Learn more and get involved: www.betheonetoday.org

17/07/2024

Mentors walked alongside students who experienced sorrow and difficulties this year. Many mentees express that their mentors help them deal with stress, anxiety and depression, which improves their mental health.

Quotes from students at LHS
“I don’t do as well when I don’t have her to talk to. We can talk about a problem-there is always a solution. It’s really helpful with stress, I can talk with her about how to deal with teachers. She has helped me have better communication with people.”

“Mentoring helps with the stress of school and family issues. I can talk to him and then I always feel 10 times better than before. Having fun with him and laughing is the best part. He makes even the hardest times easier to handle. I try to do that with my friends. He cares for the community—encourages me to help others, and I try to do that.”


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09/07/2024

85% of young people with a mentor say this key relationship has helped them with issues related to school. https://www.mentoring.org/

05/07/2024

"It sounded like an outstanding idea," Sierra shared when she first heard about Be The One Mentoring Program. With a busy home life, Sierra craved one-on-one time with a trusted adult.The wait was worth it when she met her mentor, Nancy. They began with games and conversation, but their connection blossomed quickly. "I felt like I could totally trust her after only one session," Sierra confided.

Now, over a year later, laughter fills their meetings, even though Sierra jokes, "I have to teach Nancy every game we play!" Despite the playful competition, their bond is undeniable. "We plan to keep meeting as I enter high school," says Sierra, a hint of nerves mixed with excitement in her voice.

02/07/2024

Feeling Heard, Building Trust:

Students want a mentor who truly listens. Jenessa, a student in a health class, found just that in Be the One.
"Everyone else tells me it's not a big deal," Jenessa says about her challenges. But her Be the One mentor, Elise, is different. "She always listens to me and lets me talk it out," Jenessa shares.

The connection felt even more special when Jenessa realized Elise was the mom of her friend who recommended Be the One! Now, after a year of meetings, Jenessa has built "more trust in adults" and enjoys genuine conversations with her mentor.

"It's a way to have fun at school."

25/06/2024

Selena was shocked how fun mentoring was. Her mentor Denise encouraged Selena to follow her dreams and try out for the middle school drama production. Selena took her advice and got the lead role in the play.

"Denise is so supportive and caring, I cannot imagine life without her."

"Having a mentor is the best thing I have ever done in my entire life.” For her part, Denise is happy she can mentor “the girl she never had.”

In the fall we will be looking for new mentors to join our program. Get started today by going to www.betheonetoday.org/mentor

20/06/2024

Help us empower futures!

Be The One (www.betheonetoday.org), mentoring program, needs your support! Together with companies in our community and individuals like you, we can create life-changing connections for our youth.

This video highlights one of our community sponsors who is also a mentor

By investing in our mentorship program, you're investing in the future of our community. Learn how you can make a difference!

Visit our website or contact us today! BeTheOneToday.org/Donate

18/06/2024

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Mentor's Voices:
The rewards and insights of guiding others

What do you enjoy about mentoring?
"I love being with my student and finding out what they are like--what their personality is and what they like or dislike. It's a discovery of their hearts which is like a treasure to understand and value a growing relationship. It's so obvious how much the student enjoys our time."

What motivates you to mentor every week?
"I enjoy seeing the growth in the student, as they mature and face the ups and downs of life.
Encouraging my mentee, asking God what to share, what to ask, and praying for her brings me joy."

"Mentoring helps keep me young, I enjoy seeing things through a young person’s perspective. I like knowing there's someone out there who might be looking forward to seeing me and that I may be helping in some small way."

11/06/2024

Amber was looking for someone to connect with.

With a huge smile, Amber shares about her mentor Stacey, "I wanted to just walk with somebody and get a break from school. Sometimes we draw or make bracelets, I love making the bracelets. I am less stressed, I really like talking to Stacey. I'm really comfortable with her."

Learn more www.BeTheOneToday.org

06/06/2024

"I love the program, because I want to support the youth in our community" - Meet Janna Gripp, a Be The One mentor who's passionate about making a difference in Lynden, WA!

Watch this video to hear why she loves being a mentor and the impact she has on her student's life.
Inspired by Janna? Visit www.betheonetoday.org to learn more about being a Be The One mentor!

03/06/2024

Ferndale Uncorked
Tickets are now on sale for our June 15, Ferndale Uncorked & Uncapped in Pioneer Park. Classic car show inside the Park as well. Here is the link to purchase and all of the ticket information is there for you! www.betheonetoday.org/uncorked

03/06/2024

For the zoomer generations, there's a big push on work your wage, work life balance. As they go into the workforce they are asking, how do I respect my own time? How do I make sure others respect my time too.

Watch the full lecture on YouTube
https://youtu.be/nYb-C9CJQu4?si=suBwS6FyLEf810-R

Tell us in the comments about a zoomer in your life

30/05/2024

We hear it all the time! Our mentors gain so much from the mentoring experience, and it can even positively impact their relationships with their own families. ‍‍‍

In this video, Allie Macomber shares how being a Be The One mentor has given her fresh perspectives on parenting her own kids. ✨

Share your own story about mentorship in the comments below!
Also, if you are a BTO mentor, share your story with us at https://www.betheonetoday.org/share/

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29/05/2024

We are proud to share this powerful video from Ferndale Schools about mental health awareness.

Oftentimes, we struggle to talk about our mental health because it feels like a weakness. But the truth is, being vulnerable and opening up about how we're feeling is a sign of immense strength.

This video beautifully captures the importance of open communication and seeking help when we need it.

Watch and share to spread the message of mental health awareness and remember, you are not alone. ❤️

27/05/2024

Memorial Day is a day to remember those who died serving our country.

Did you know that the tradition of decorating graves with flowers originated during the Civil War? Learn more about the history of Memorial Day and honor the sacrifices made by our fallen heroes. https://www.cem.va.gov/history/Memorial-Day-History.asp


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27/05/2024

First day jitters to high fives for success! Take a peek at Halima's mentorship adventure with her awesome middle school student.

Be the change. Learn more about becoming a mentor at www.betheonetoday.org

24/05/2024

A very shy sixth grader started with his mentor who helped him become more outgoing and make new friends. After seven years, the student who is now a senior and is very outgoing and has lots of friends. I can cleary see how the mentor has made an impact. - Clemmer (LMS Mentor Coordinator)

Being a Be The One Today mentor isn't just about sharing knowledge, it's about witnessing incredible growth! See the spark ignite in your student's eyes as they achieve their goals. Make a difference and join our inspiring community. Learn more about becoming a mentor at www.BeTheOneToday.org

Photos from Be the One's post 23/05/2024

Ferndale Uncorked & Uncapped Event: A Wine, Beer & Cider Tasting Festival!

The annual Ferndale Uncorked and Uncapped is back! Join us for an evening of delicious food, refreshing drinks, and great company – all for a good cause! A fundraiser to support the Be The One mentoring program, which provides vital support and guidance to our community's youth.

This year's event features a show-stopping classic car show alongside the delicious food and drinks!

June 15, 2024 Ferndale's Pioneer Park 3 - 7pm
Featuring a car show inside the park
Buy your tickets : https://www.betheonetoday.org/uncorked/

Tickets are now available! All proceeds go directly to Be The One.

Don't miss out on this fun-filled event and your chance to make a difference in the lives of our local youth!

22/05/2024

Cassie is a LHS junior and has been meeting with her mentor Connie since 6th grade.

"I am so glad I was matched with Connie. I feel like she really understands me. She's a really good listener and I can talk to her about whatever."

This is the power of Be The One! ✨ Mentors provide stability, support, and a listening ear. Want to be a part of this magic? Sign up to be a Be The One mentor today and make a difference in a young person's life! www.BeTheOneToday.org

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Volunteers Needed
I can tell her anything
Get ready for a Bavarian blast! 🍻🥨  https://www.betheonetoday.org/septemberfest/Join us for Septemberfest featuring wine...
From Wishing to Giving
Passionate BTO Mentor
Did you know?
Help us empower futures!
I love the program!
Ferndale Uncorked Tickets are now on sale for our June 15, Ferndale Uncorked & Uncapped in Pioneer Park.  Classic car sh...
Zoomers Are Future Thinkers
It's not just about the kids they mentor!
Meeting with my mentee for the first time

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