Judy M Romano - The Informed Caregiver

One surprising thing that has helped me the most when it comes to uninformed caregiving has nothing to do with how to adapt a home for aging in place.

Instead, it’s about 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗲𝘁. This became critical during the COVID pandemic
"I have the opportunity to make a difference in the life of a vulnerable elder"
(That's an example of a positive mindset. Because the control is yours)

" I hate my life. I didn't sign up for this!"
(That's an example of a negative mindset. You feel like a victim. As if you don't have choices)

𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗲𝗲 𝗶𝘁?

Whatever you are thinking, it’s all just thoughts.
𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱.

TBH I had no idea this one thing would make such a huge difference for me but here it is:

I started nurturing myself more
I found a way to exercise at home
I learned how to use Zoom to connect with others
I started to meditate using free content on YouTube
I started to write out my ideas about remote caregiver training
I brainstormed ways that would be helpful for caregivers who were UN trained

Every time I took a breather I said this affirmation “ 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻.
𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗹𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗳𝗲. 𝗕𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗽𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗺”

Yep. That’s it. Nothing earth shattering. No HUGE change to my lifestyle.
𝗝𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗮 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝗺𝘆 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗱

That one simple switch has made all the difference
It reminded me to keep things in perspective.
𝗡𝗼𝘄 𝗜 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗳 𝗴𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗱𝗲

Join the FREE Facebook group 𝙎𝙪𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝘾𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙩 𝙃𝙤𝙢𝙚 using the link below
https://www.facebook.com/groups/197944439623299

AND... register for the next Masterclass called The Reality of Caring For an Aging Loved One at Home
https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZUvcuytpj4sHtKOuJfj96JqRakICSfPk-2y

It's great to see what others are doing, thinking and feel

🧠 One surprising thing that might help you the most with caregiving isn’t about home adaptations—it’s your 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗲𝘁.
During challenging times, the thoughts you choose can make all the difference: ✨ "I have the opportunity to make a difference in someone’s life." VS. 💔 "I didn’t sign up for this. I feel trapped."
When you shift your mindset, you shift your reality. This isn’t just positive thinking—it’s about reclaiming control and finding gratitude, even in tough moments.
Need support to navigate caregiving with more ease and confidence? My 1:1 coaching is here to help you transform your caregiving journey. 💪
Tap the link in bio to sign up today and take the first step toward a more empowered mindset. 🌟

Pets provide unconditional love. They also provide us with purpose and a reason to get outside and walk

How Pets Can Help Us Age Well are more than just soft fur and wagging tails—they’re also great for our health. Learn how having a companion animal can help us .👇

Are you caring for an elder who has complicated medical and thinking problems?
Are you tired of the 𝗴𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘀𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 that goes along with that?

If so, how did you even know where to begin…All that guesswork is exhausting!

I get it…

I’ve seen this over and over again…

Motivated caregivers have high standards of care.
𝗕𝗨𝗧...𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳?

Motivated caregivers are used to accessing high quality information that cuts through the internet noise.
𝗕𝗨𝗧...𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳?

Motivated caregivers want professional strategies to help an Loved One age in place with a good quality of life, in spite of the medical and cognitive difficulties they have.
𝗕𝗨𝗧...𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳?

Are you single handedly providing care?
𝗕𝗨𝗧...𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳?

Is your Loved Ones behavior unpredictable?
𝗜𝗳 ...𝘀𝗼 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳?

The good news is...there IS a way forward…

Over 400 people are members of the FREE Facebook Group called Successful Caregiving at Home.
That’s a safe space where the members and I share tips and resources and support our fellow caregivers.

Please join the conversation. I'd love to meet you!

It’s free to join. The link to access it is here https://www.facebook.com/groups/197944439623299/

🥺 Are you feeling overwhelmed caring for an elderly loved one?

Discover the support you need to manage the complexities of eldercare effectively. Join me for a FREE 1:1 Caregiver Success Call tailored just for you.

Only you can take the first step towards a more balanced caregiving experience and I'm here to help you.

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Caregivers working at home or in a facility whose clients are getting more medically complex
Feeling overwhelmed on how or what to start on

Looking for a caregiving community?
Come join our FREE Facebook Group "Successful Caregiving at Home" where you can learn valuable tips, support, and a strong community for caregivers in all different parts of their journey.

Can you be open to the idea that I personally could help YOU change you and your Loved Ones life?

Can you possibly imagine what YOUR life might look like if you had the ability to EASILY take care of your loved one at home?

Every month that a loved one lives at home, potentially saves THOUSANDS of dollars in care costs

Just imagine what you and your Loved ones life will look like when you learn about the effects of aging on the body, brain and vision

Being an informed caregiver is all about having freedom and comfort for your aging loved one and yourself. Knowing you are giving them proper care WHILE saving thousands of dollars in elder care.

Your concerns are my concerns. You will feel empowered to successfully care for your aging loved one at home.

GET STARTED TODAY: Book a 1:1 guidance call where I will answer all of your questions and provide tailored advice.

LINK IN BIO

Let’s get you started as an Informed Caregiver!

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These are common comments and concerns I get ALL the time!
There is no better time to get help than right now.

By waiting or trying to take care of your loved one by yourself you will quickly:
Get frustrated
Get burned out
Waste time trying to find help when help is right here with the Informed Caregiver!

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NOW OFFERING VIRTUAL CAREGIVING TRAINING

Perfect for:
Those with a busy schedule
Anyone who needs self paced learning due to a busy schedule
Caregivers working at home or in a facility whose clients are getting more medically complex
Anyone at risk for caregiver burnout because they were never trained to be a caregiver
Any isolated caregivers looking for a support community?

Come join our FREE Facebook Group "Successful Caregiving at Home" where you can learn valuable tips and get support from a strong community of like-minded caregivers

https://www.facebook.com/groups/197944439623299

NOW OFFERING VIRTUAL CAREGIVING TRAINING

Perfect for:
Those with a busy schedule
Anyone who needs self paced learning due to a busy schedule
Caregivers working at home or in a facility whose clients are getting more medically complex
Feeling overwhelmed on how or what to start on

Looking for a caregiving community?
Come join our FREE Facebook Group "Successful Caregiving at Home" where you can learn valuable tips, support, and a strong community for caregivers in all different parts of their journey.

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Have you ever heard of the Americans With Disabilities Act?
It's been 34 years since it was implemented in 1990
In case you haven't thought about it, it's been working for everyone's benefit ever since then.

You've noticed the braille dots on public signage, like in elevators.
You've noticed the HP parking spots at the grocery store designated by signs or symbols
You've noticed the extra large stalls in public bathrooms
And sign language interpreters up front during speeches
The ramps making public buildings accessible
The lowered counters at a help desk for those seated in wheelchairs

The ADA doesn't directly apply to private homes or to really small businesses.
But it has definitely influenced us to be aware of 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮𝗹𝗹.

Would you park in a HP designated space without a placard?

To discuss the topic of accessibility jump into the FREE caregivers support group called Successful Caregiving at Home using this link https://www.facebook.com/groups/197944439623299

$$ Let's talk about finances baby $$

When did you first notice that your Loved One was having trouble with managing money?

As a caregiver, have you taken a look at that at all?
Maybe not...
Some feel money matters are too personal and private for anyone else to ever look at.

One tell tale sign of money management difficulty is a decline in someone's 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁 𝘀𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗲.
Why?
They begin to miss payments for credit accounts which then lowers the credit score.

"𝗖𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗮 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗯𝗲 𝘂𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿 "𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗮𝘁 𝗿𝗶𝘀𝗸 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗼𝗿𝘆 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀".

Did you know that if someone has dementia their chances of 𝗳𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝘀𝗰𝗮𝗺 𝗶𝘀 100%?
That's from a study published in the Elder Law Journal.

Double check your Loved One's financial accuracy. Find their credit score and history.

Be aware. It might be time to get involved in that part of their routine.

Be sure to join the FREE Caregivers Support Group link in BI0

$$Let's talk about finances$$

When did you first notice that your Loved One was having trouble with managing money?

As a caregiver, have you taken a look at that at all?
Maybe not...
Some feel money matters are too personal and private for anyone else to ever look at.

One tell tale sign of money management difficulty is a decline in someone's 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁 𝘀𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗲.
Why?
They begin to miss payments for credit accounts which then lowers the credit score.

"𝗖𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗮 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗯𝗲 𝘂𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿 "𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗮𝘁 𝗿𝗶𝘀𝗸 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗼𝗿𝘆 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀".

Did you know that if someone has dementia their chances of 𝗳𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝘀𝗰𝗮𝗺 𝗶𝘀 𝟭𝟶𝟶%?
That's from a study published in the Elder Law Journal.

Double check your Loved One's financial accuracy. Find their credit score and history.

Be aware. It might be time to get involved in that part of their routine.

Be sure to join the FREE Caregivers Support Group using this link https://www.facebook.com/groups/197944439623299

Do you know someone overwhelmed by the complexities of eldercare?

Is your work in a care facility becoming more and more challenging due to complicated clients on your workload?
OR
Are you isolated at home, 1:1 with a Loved One with complex medical and cognitive issues?

Do you have the knowledge and skills for that work? If not you are at risk for burnout

I recommend a mindset shift!
The Informed Caregiver believes elderly clients deserve the best care possible, wherever they are living.

🚫 Caregiving should NOT be an ordeal. If it is you need a cohesive care TEAM.
🚫 Eldercare is NOT just like childcare. Know the differences to avoid burnout
🚫 You DO need specific training to care for someone with complicated medical and cognitive issues

✨ Say YES to professional-level caregiver training! ✨

For a limited time, I'm offering a FREE 1:1 Caregiver Success Call, tailored to your needs.
This is your chance to gain invaluable insights and support, ensuring your caregiving journey is as smooth and effective as possible. Whether the care is provided in a private home or a care facility doesn't matter.

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Are you caring for an elder who has complicated medical and thinking problems?
Are you tired of the 𝗴𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘀𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 that goes along with that?

If so, how did you even know where to begin…All that guesswork is exhausting!

I get it…

I’ve seen this over and over again…

Motivated caregivers have high standards of care for their Loved Ones.
𝗕𝗨𝗧...𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳?

Motivated caregivers are used to accessing high quality information that cuts through the internet noise.
𝗕𝗨𝗧...𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳?

Motivated caregivers want professional strategies to help an Loved One age in place with a good quality of life, in spite of the medical and cognitive difficulties they have.
𝗕𝗨𝗧...𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳?

Are you single handedly providing care?
𝗕𝗨𝗧...𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳?

Is your Loved Ones behavior unpredictable?
𝗜𝗳 𝘀𝗼... 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳!

The good news is...there IS a way forward…

Over 400 people are members of the FREE Facebook Group called Successful Caregiving at Home.
That’s a safe space where the members and I share tips and resources and support our fellow caregivers.

Please join the conversation. I'd love to meet you!

It’s free to join. The link to access it is here https://www.facebook.com/groups/197944439623299/

Are you someone who is struggling to take care of your loved one with medical issues?
Are you confused how to manage their struggles at home?
𝗢𝗥
Do you work in an ALF or SNF or care agency?
Are you looking for an engaging, cost effective way to train staff beyond the basic requirements?

In my experience the care clientele, at home and in facilities, are more complicated than ever before.

𝘋𝘪𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘺 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘯 𝘢 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘣𝘢𝘴𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘮𝘢𝘭 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘥𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦?

The Informed Caregiver is here to help and to share professional expertise with you or your staff on a FREE 1:1 Caregiver Success Call. Let's talk about what the situation is and how we can make it better

Book your call now and learn how to UPLEVEL caregiver training.
We developed a unique caregiver training course using a case study model.
It works for home caregivers and facility caregivers alike.
Use this link to schedule a FREE call

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Become informed. Avoid burnout

The Informed Caregiver offers virtual caregiver training for motivated home and facility based caregivers who need support and practical caregiver training.

Limited Time Offer! Self paced 12 part course:
"𝗦𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝗮𝗻 𝗔𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗱 𝗢𝗻𝗲 𝗮𝘁 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲"

Includes:
Teaching about the aging body, mind and vision
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Become informed. Avoid Burnout

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