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Love yourself, Be yourself...
To those of people who are struggling to self-love,
A lot of you may think of yourself as imperfect, lacking something, and you may start to hate yourself. Some might even be suffering from depression, anxiety and other mental stuff.
I don't want to be stereotyped and say, "Everyone is perfect." Instead, I want you to ask yourself this.
Do you really need to be perfect?
Why?
Why do you have the need to be perfect?
Because of social media?
Because of the success of others?
Because of the constant pressure from your parents?
Because other people say you're not perfect?
No one is perfect in this world and no one needs to. People are their own individuals. They shouldn't force themselves just to make other people think they're perfect. You can be selfish, you can prioritize yourself more than others. It's your own life.
Some people may think and say whatever they think about you. But that shouldn't justify who you truly are. It's you who decided to give their words strength. "Ignorance is bliss," my friend says and that is so true.
# # # For those people who love tea and drama, you may continue reading?
I once had a group of people who I thought were my true friends. We had been friends for 2 years or so. All of a sudden, they started ignoring me, hating me. They never say why. One of the girls who I thought my closest friend just started hating me blindly and after a while, all of them. They spread a bad rumor and those who believe her begin to hate me too. Because in our school, she's like the most social person, unlike me who just stays lowkey.
I had suffered from depression for a year and I tried to sui**de many times whenever I thought of what they did to me. They even use the title of our friendship to lie and prove to people that I'm a bad person. They are still trying even now and they're always stalking me. That was a pain in the as***le for a while. But now I'm tired of caring what they say and think about me. They'll never change. They might never stop harassing me. I have lived my life with honesty, I've never faked a vibe and I may not show it but I truly care about those people. I'm the type of person who wants to bring positive energy around people. If they were my true friends, they should have known. I've tried my best to be their good friend and now I'm gonna let go. "Ignorance is bliss" and not caring about people who hate you is a power.
Also, thank you to those people who standed by my side and believed me throughout this period๐.
Trying to write self-love tips and motivation.
Sorry for ending up being dramatic. TvT๐
๐ฅบโค๏ธ
Who looks outside dreams; who looks inside awakes.
_Carl Jung, Letters, Vol. 1
Happy 1st day of December and may you love yourself more than ever๐๐
From my book โTrauma: Becoming A Healed Youโ ๐ค
Not letting other people define who you truly are ๐๏ธ๐๐๏ธโจโจ
Love yourself first cuz that's who you'll spend the rest of your live with๐
You gotta look up, look in the mirror
And love what you see
YOU ARE PERFECTโค๏ธโจ
You deserves to have a little break๐ฅบ๐
โ Stress โ
We spend most of our times worrying about other people.
What if my career isnโt as successful as others ?
What if my marks arenโt as good as them ?
Does my outfit look bad to other people ?
Am I looking too fat to go out ?
What ifโฆ.. What ifโฆ.. What if โฆ..
Stop living for other people
Stop suffering
Give yourself a little break.
When life give you lemon
You made some lemonade๐๐โจ
For those who need thisโค๏ธ
Never ever apologize for being youโค๏ธ
Don't care what other ppl says abt you!
Be true to yourself โค๏ธ
Dog therapy:๐ถ
Not to be cringe but
True love do exist!
Yall just keep in mind that going to therapy is not weak.
It's one of the self-care routines.๐
Nth important just some bedroom ideas that i collected
We'll be alright๐
Covid-19 hit hard both physically and mentally!
Stay strong guys๐ช๐