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Dinner date with my favorite person π₯°
It's easy to see why we adore this one ππ₯° Happy Father's Day to our special guy and to all the dads out there! β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
It's hard to put into words how much it means to me that I get to be their mama.
So grateful for these gifts from above!! πππ
Happy Mother's Day friends!!
β¨οΈTHIS β¨οΈ I heard this recently and it was super encouraging for me.
As someone that found a lot of my identity in my work and accomplishments, this was a reminder that no matter what kind of goals I hit or achieved- my greatest accomplishment will always be how I raise my children.
What I do within the four walls of my home- caring for them and helping them to grow into all God created them for and who He called them to be, will ALWAYS be my greatest accomplishment.
And that honestly inspires me to be better, train them better, teach them better and love them better.
I'm also still navigating what my hobbies and/or adding some kind of work looks like for this season of my life but this was such a good reminder for me to stay focused while I do that.
Share this with other mamas to encourage them too β€οΈ
πONEπ My baby turned one last week and NO I'm not OKAY!!
Okay, I'm being a little dramatic but truly so thankful that we were blessed with her. I'm having to learn a little more and more each day on how to let go of her being a baby because time is flying and she is growing up too fast π
Swipe to see her 'Berry 1st Birthday' celebration and her reaction to the smash cake π€£
If you guys want me to link the stuff for this Berry party - dm me or drop a π below! π
OK HEAR ME OUT!π£
When was the last time you took inventory of all the things you say YES to?.Events, volunteering, other commitments, basically sacrificing time for yourself to do something for someone else.
In general, this is a good thing BUT if you're like me, I go through seasons where I try to say yes to too many things and then start to feel depleted, exhausted and just down.
Then my cup hasn't been filled so I have a hard time joyfully serving my family.
We have to remember to be INTENTIONAL about our time and what we say yes to and know that it's OK to say no!
It's as simple as, I'm not available to join for that. Sorry!
Then think about things you enjoy doing, just for you, and do it! Without the mom guilt. Because you need it. And so do I!!
Go do something for yourself today friends!
β¨οΈTell me what you're up to below!
Sometimes capturing the memory is more important than being 'picture ready'. πΈ
Here we are catching the sunrise, way too early, but making the best memories π₯°
Let's all show up on here makeup free and filter free every once in a while π
LOVE this. As a mama, my focus is on my family but my ambition and dreams are still there π―!!
The kind of freedom talks about here is possible but we have to be intentional in prioritizing our family over the hustle.
We can still work towards our dreams while giving our family the attention they deserve.
Does this resonate with you? Why or why not? Let's chat about it below β¬οΈ
Being a mama requires incredible strength mentally, physically and emotionally. Here's to you- all my strong friends!!
Happy International Women's Day!! β€
Dropping some cuteness here for your Monday π
Can't believe my baby girl is 11 months old in few days!
Tired and overwhelmed mama here πββοΈ I needed this reminder today
β‘οΈ Big picture here- All I *NEED* to do today is spend some time with Jesus and take care of my kids.
Getting my time in the word and prayer encourages me and gives me the strength and grace I need to get through this day.
Pouring into my kids and caring for their mental, physical, emotional and spiritual needs is what I'm called to do.
The REST can wait.
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Falling in love with you 15 years ago was one of the best things that's ever happened to me. Two homes and three kids later, adventuring through life with you is a treasure and I'm thankful for you everyday!! Happy Valentines Day babe!!! β€β€β€β€
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It's a kind of morning for these sisters ππ
Love the bond these two are building! β€β€β€
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πΏ Just do your best and let God cover the rest πΏ
Over the last 6 months transitioning to stay at home mom/homemaker, there's been so many times I've felt unqualified or fallen short on something.
Most recently, I unknowingly bathed my baby girl in a tub that may have had chemicals in it. I was overwhelmed with guilt, anxiety and panic. Everything turned out to be fine and thankfully it wasn't the chemicals we thought it may have been- but wow it was scary.
Through my tears, I literally just cried to God and thought, I give every ounce of myself to taking care of these kids and I'm honestly giving it my all and giving it my best, I don't know what more I can do.
At that moment I felt like God said, just give me your best and I'll take care of the rest.
Mamas, I want to encourage you- just do your best and give the rest to God! He goes before us and before our children and takes care of us.
Happy Monday sweet friends!! β€
Do what you need to refresh your mind and spirit.
Take the break. Stop thinking about old friends that are not a part of this season of your life. Turn off the notifications. Stop criticizing your body.
You know what you need to re-charge. What are you waiting for? You'll be happier and healthier for it.
I'll be stepping away for 21 days of prayer and fasting social media.
I look forward to my refresh and will see you all in a few weeks!
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πMerriest Christmas to you and yours!!π
Sending love to you all from our sweet and silly crew β€β€β€
For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace.
Isaiah 9:6
The holidays are notably one of the busiest times of year. Do you take time to slow down and soak in the moments?
The simplest things - decorating the tree, hot cocoa and popcorn, driving around to look at lights, building gingerbread houses, baking cookies, and of course Christmas morning- these are the things my kids love about the holidays.
But how many more Christmases until they don't want to build gingerbread houses or help decorate the tree? I don't want to think about that day. π
So, I've been intentional about slowing down and trying to be present with my kids and watch their childlike wonder.
I caught a glimpse of it in this picture. π
Who's ready to slow down with me and soak in some of these moments with our kids? Take pictures and videos. You might just catch some childlike wonder too.
A sweet friend sent this to me recently and boy did it hit home.
"You've never been so loved and needed in any other role before."
Let that sink in.
All that hard work we're putting in, it matters. The rewards are in tiny human form and are far greater than any bonus or paper recognition.
Toasting all the tired mamas β€
Signed, another tired mama β€
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Last week I enrolled my middle child to start Kindergarten in the fall π. Even though the days are so longggg (and exhaustingπ€£) the years are short and truly flying by. There's so much work that happens internally and externally as you try to parent and raise good humans.
I know I've got my work cut our for me but I'm so glad we added our squish baby to the family because it feels like we're going to blink and become empty nesters lol.
If this season has been hard and exhausting for you, I'm right there with you - just keep going mama! And let's try to have some fun on the ride. β€
We are not alone. Tag a mama below to remind her she's not alone.
Such a good reminder from π
The Value of Motherhood
A sweet friend reminded me recently that everytime we wake up in the middle of the night to take care of our babies, every bit of laundry done, every sink of dishes washed, every boo boo kissed - God sees that and he values our motherhood deeply. He is SO proud of us.
Honestly, hearing that gave me rest.
It really spoke to me because it just feels like that stuff is not something that I'm proud about in the same way as a career or a business idea or just general success in the professional world.
BUT that's the wrong way to think.
Being a mama is SUCH an important job and it is extremely valuable. We are mothering and raising up the next generation. It's the most important job.
And I am in no way perfect but I am doing and trying my best. I'm so thankful that God sees and appreciates what we do.
My husband saw me in this outfit and was like, "Who are you? ??" Well honey, if this makes me Hailey Bieber, I'm ordering this in more colors ππ
This tan jogger set is SO GOOD.
So plush, comfortable and stylish! Love the way these cuff around the ankle and the hoodie that completes the set.
It's been chilly in Florida lately and this outfit has been perfecttt β€οΈ
I'm 5'2 and ordered a small in the hoodie and the joggers. This one is tan but they have tons of colors!
You can shop through the link in my bio π€π€
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These 3. My wonderfully made, gifts from above.
Transitioning to be a SAHM hasn't been easy but they're worth it and I'm so thankful to be their mama.
On top of that transition, it's been a brutal 2 months of back to back getting sick and cycling through our house.
Moms don't get a break but we push through. I know they're worth it and I'm grateful to be their mama.
Keeping the right perspective on things and circumstances can make all the difference. Practice an attitude of gratefulness with me today π
Happy Friday and enjoy the weekend friends β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
Snapshot of this cute little spot of Florida that we just discovered - Hammock Beach ποΈ
Driving up to this place felt a lot like Amelia Island, so beautiful! The resort had several pools, a kid's area, lazy river, volleyball court and a gorgeous beach. The water was rough the day we went but so much prettier than Amelia Island water.
I loved that had 2-3 bedroom villas with ocean views. We went for a weekend with some friends and brought all the kiddos and we all had a great time. Would definitely recommend a visit here for a beach weekend away β€οΈ
I've been a Florida resident my entire life and never knew about this place. We will definitely be back!
Have you been to Hammock Beach before? What did you think?
I saw this yesterday and it was simply too good to not share β€οΈ
I love this so much. Thank you for this reminder
πTHIS IS 34ππππ
Baby on hip, trying the 'clean face' makeup look in an attempt to stay youthful π€£, eating the cake with no regrets and thanking God for this life of mine that's been blessed so abundantly.
So grateful for another year and for each of you on this journey of motherhood with me! β€οΈ
I need this reminder.
I need it every day.
I've been trying so hard to be a supermom.
When I took on this new role as a homemaker, I really took it as my new job. Because truly, all moms work, I'm just working in a different capacity now.
My work ethic is to give my absolute best and to do everything I can to be great in my role. Well supermom is a pretty tough role.
My brain feels like constant spaghetti running on caffeine and being pulled in a thousand directions--> meals, pickup, dropoff, taking care of baby, giving my other kids attention, helping with hw, sports, husband, time in the Word, wishing I could workout and sleep more, laundry, keeping the house clean and well.. there's only so many hours in a day.
The mental and physical load is just ALOT.
We have got to give ourselves a break mamas!
I'm reminding myself that:
β’ It's okay for the house to be a little messy.
β’ It's okay to cook in bulk a few nights a week, so I'm not full-on in the kitchen every night.
β’ It's okay to take some 'me time'.
β’ If my kids need more of me today, then the other stuff can wait.
β’ Taking care of my kids and my mental and spiritual health is more important than my to-do list.
What would you add to this list?
Walking into this week ready to continue working on getting into a groove with this new job I have βΊοΈ
Leaving my career to focus on my family - I knew there would be a transitional period.
I'm about one month in and I'm still trying to figure out what the best routine is for our family and how to accomplish all the household things on my list while simultaneously taking care of 3 kids and spending time with my husband.
I never doubted this but I'll confirm for you- It's just as hard to work outside of the home as it is to be a homemaker. It's not an easy job but definitely worth it and I'm thankful for the opportunity to be in those role in this season of our lives.
Are you a homemaker? Have you ever left your career to stay home with your kids and take care of your family?
Drop me some tips/advice for the transition in the comments below!
I saw a glimpse of it. π And I took a picture of it so it would last longer. π
A glimpse of the fact that they DO actually love each other even though they fight like cats and dogs. ππ
I haven't done research on it but we have 'screen-free' time slots of the day and screen-free Sundays and I've noticed a direct correlation to them playing together and getting along during these times.
Who knew?! π
I'll just enjoy this moment of sweetness for now β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
If any of these resonate with you- what are you waiting for!?
I left my 9-5 at the peak of my career and guess what?! I haven't looked back π€·ββοΈ
I was always deeply conflicted about the idea of leaving a job that I loved but my heart changed and it was time.
What is it time for you to do?! I want to know in the comments below β¬οΈ