WiseHarsh
I am slightly off center and opinionated; I enjoy writing about my interests and experiences. You will read a little about me and my views on the world.
21/09/2022
Non-monogamy is often associated with the kink world, and kinksters are open-minded individuals, with many being polyamorous and enjoying the lifestyle. It takes open and honest communication between partners to agree to a non-monogamy relationship and what they both understand it to mean in their relationship. Being non-monogamous is an extensive term, and it can mean different things to different people....
Non-monogamy, Is It Something You Truly Want? | WiseHarsh Non-monogamy is often associated with the kink world, and kinksters are open-minded individuals, with many being polyamorous and enjoying the lifestyle. It
02/05/2022
Bo***ge has many different forms and practices; there is, however, so much more to it than just a pair of furry handcuffs, a silk scarf, or a tie.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/05/02/bo***ge-2/
Bo***ge | WiseHarsh Bo***ge has many different forms and practices; there is, however, so much more to it than just a pair of furry handcuffs, a silk scarf, or a tie.
29/04/2022
Your intuition and common sense will warn you if something feels wrong, if there are any red flags, you need to reassess the situation or the dynamic you are in, abuse of subs is more common than you think....
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/04/29/bdsm-is-often-an-excuse-for-abuse-of-subs/
B**M Is Often An Excuse For Abuse Of Subs | WiseHarsh Your intuition and common sense will warn you if something feels wrong, if there are any red flags, you need to reassess the situation or the dynamic you are in, abuse of subs is more common than you think.
Any woman can be a Domme in a D/s relationship, and many might feel they are too shy or could never order their partner around, but there is an inner Domme inside of you.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/04/28/how-to-unleash-your-inner-domme/
24/03/2022
Exhibitionism is not always seen as erotic or s*xy, especially when someone suddenly flashes you in a public space without your consent. Exhibitionism has been around for decades; we all have been exposed to it at least once in our lives.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/03/24/exhibitionism-and-what-it-means-2/
Exhibitionism And What It Means | WiseHarsh Exhibitionism is not always seen as erotic or s*xy, especially when someone suddenly flashes you in a public space without your consent. Exhibitionism has been around for decades; we all have been exposed to it at least once in our lives.
22/03/2022
A unicorn is a bis*xual person who will typically join in your th*****me fantasies and then disappear again afterward, like the mythical unicorn. The unicorn will not get involved in your relationship or create any disruptions.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/03/22/unicorn-hunting-2/
Unicorn Hunting | WiseHarsh A unicorn is rare, and it usually takes a lot of searching to find one that fits in with you and your partner so that you have the th*****me you have been fantasizing about together.
11/03/2022
Dominance and submission is about the power exchange between both partners, there needs to be a partner that takes control and a partner that gives up control. It sounds easy, but it isn't always easy, especially if you are in an online or long-distance r
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/03/11/technology-in-a-dominance-and-submission-dynamic-2/
Technology In A Dominance And Submission Dynamic | WiseHarsh Dominance and submission is about the power exchange between both partners, there needs to be a partner that takes control and a partner that gives up control. It sounds easy, but it isn't always easy, especially if you are in an online or long-distance relationship.
10/03/2022
There are often misconceptions around pe***ng that will stop many couples from experimenting with pe***ng. Pe***ng not only flips the power exchange dynamic but also allows your partner to experience the pleasure you provide.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/03/10/pe***ng-should-it-become-part-of-your-dynamic-2/
Pe***ng Should It Become Part Of Your Dynamic? | WiseHarsh There are often misconceptions around pe***ng that will stop many couples from experimenting with pe***ng. Pe***ng not only flips the power exchange dynamic but also allows your partner to experience the pleasure you provide.
09/03/2022
Strap on’s have been thought of as toys for same-s*x couples, but this can be furthest from the truth as strap on’s are adaptable for all s*xual interactions. The strap on’s popularity has increased significantly over the past decade as curiosity around strap on’s has changed....
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/03/09/strap-ons-arent-just-for-same-s*x-couples-2/
Strap On’s Arent Just For Same-s*x Couples | WiseHarsh Strap on’s have been thought of as toys for same-s*x couples, but this can be furthest from the truth as strap on’s are adaptable for all s*xual interactions. The strap on’s popularity has increased significantly over the past decade as curiosity around strap on’s has changed.
04/03/2022
A**l can be awkward, messy, and if done wrong, painful, which usually turns people off from it immediately while others will give it another go; but many will decide it’s a hard limit and never try it again.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/03/04/should-you-try-anal-2/
Should You Try A**l? | WiseHarsh A**l can be awkward, messy, and if done wrong, painful, which usually turns people off from it immediately while others will give it another go; but many will decide it’s a hard limit and never try it again.
03/03/2022
A B**M dynamic or relationship protocol outlines the rules and behaviors allowed in a B**M dynamic or relationship. Protocols will cover honorifics such as what and how you will address your Dom/me. Protocols will also entail where the submissive is allow
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/03/03/what-are-protocols-in-bdsm-2/
What Are Protocols In B**M? | WiseHarsh A B**M dynamic or relationship protocol outlines the rules and behaviors allowed in a B**M dynamic or relationship. Protocols will cover honorifics such as what and how you will address your Dom/me. Protocols will also entail where the submissive is allowed to sit or rooms they are allowed in, what....
02/03/2022
A**l some love it, others hate it, and many have never tried it, but one thing is for sure more heteros*xual couples are trying back door s*x these days. While many will claim it is popular because of the taboo factor, there is more to it.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/03/02/anal-is-it-the-back-door-to-better-s*x-2/
A**l, Is It The Back Door To Better S*x? | WiseHarsh A**l some love it, others hate it, and many have never tried it, but one thing is for sure more heteros*xual couples are trying back door s*x these days. While many will claim it is popular because of the taboo factor, there is more to it.
25/02/2022
A safeword is a word agreed upon by both partners that will stop or slow down play during a scene. Typically you will choose a word that would stand out during the scene.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/25/what-happens-after-you-safeword-2/
What Happens After You Safeword | WiseHarsh A safeword is a word agreed upon by both partners that will stop or slow down play during a scene. Typically you will choose a word that would stand out during the scene; during a play session, sometimes stop doesn’t mean stop, so it’s better to choose a safe word like pineapple or Beetlejuice, ...
24/02/2022
Squirting, also called female ej*******on, is the squirting or gushing of odorless fluid from the urethra before or during an or**sm, usually through cl****al or G-**ot stimulation.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/24/squirting-the-myths-you-shouldnt-believe-2/
Squirting The Myths, You Shouldn’t Believe | WiseHarsh Squirting, also called female ej*******on, is the squirting or gushing of odorless fluid from the urethra before or during an or**sm, usually through cl****al or G-**ot stimulation. Some believe that because there are traces of urine, it “must” be urine others claim it’s a fluid that comes fro...
23/02/2022
So why do ma*****sts love pain? Often ma*****sts will just say they love the feeling or the intensity involved, and it's just something they enjoy. It is all very accurate, but what ultimately lures them into their ma*****st kinks is the chemical reaction
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/23/ma*****sts-and-their-love-of-pain-2/
Masochists And Their Love Of Pain | WiseHarsh So why do ma*****sts love pain? Often ma*****sts will just say they love the feeling or the intensity involved, and it's just something they enjoy. It is all very accurate, but what ultimately lures them into their ma*****st kinks is the chemical reaction in the body they experience during a session...
21/02/2022
If you are kinkier, heating and cooling l**e create different sensations during your s*xual activities. You can even buy flavored l**es, but they can leave a gnarly aftertaste in your mouth
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/21/how-to-choose-the-right-l**e-2/
How To Choose The Right L**e | WiseHarsh If you are kinkier, heating and cooling l**e create different sensations during your s*xual activities. You can even buy flavored l**es, but they can leave a gnarly aftertaste in your mouth, and because they are flavored, there are often sugar and additives in the l**e that can lead to yeast infecti...
18/02/2022
So now that you have purchased your c**k ring, it’s time to try them out. Always use l**e when putting c**k rings on; like everything, s*x-related l**e is your best friend! L**e helps to get it on and take it off quickly if necessary. I prefer water-based
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/18/c**k-rings-time-to-ring-it-up-2/
C**k Rings Time To Ring It Up | WiseHarsh So now that you have purchased your c**k ring, it’s time to try them out. Always use l**e when putting c**k rings on; like everything, s*x-related l**e is your best friend! L**e helps to get it on and take it off quickly if necessary. I prefer water-based l**es when it comes to any s*x toys.
17/02/2022
Sounding is actually a medical procedure used the unblock, probe, or clear the urethra. In medical play, it is used as a form of dominance and submission, and those that participate in sounding say it creates a heightened sense of sensation and pleasure.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/17/sounding-a-rod-in-the-knob-2/
Sounding, A Rod In The K**b | WiseHarsh Sounding is actually a medical procedure used the unblock, probe, or clear the urethra. In medical play, it is used as a form of dominance and submission, and those that participate in sounding say it creates a heightened sense of sensation and pleasure. How do you sound? Usually, a stainless steel....
16/02/2022
If you want to include kink in public, always discuss it with your partner and make sure you both understand the rules and tasks. It would be best to plan it out beforehand; it would be pointless to include s*x toys if they aren't charged before.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/16/kink-in-public-spaces/
Kink In Public Spaces | WiseHarsh If you want to include kink in public, always discuss it with your partner and make sure you both understand the rules and tasks. It would be best to plan it out beforehand; it would be pointless to include s*x toys if they aren't charged before.
15/02/2022
Self-care is something we all have to do when adulting. Making decisions in life and deciding what our goals are and how to achieve them forms part of self-care as an adult, and with mental health has become more prevalent over the last few years, you realize that some people need more support than others....
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/15/self-care-and-bdsm-2/
Self-care And B**M | WiseHarsh Self-care is something we all have to do when adulting. Making decisions in life and deciding what our goals are and how to achieve them forms part of self-care as an adult, and with mental health has become more prevalent over the last few years, you realize that some people need more support than....
11/02/2022
I am a huge fan of sensory deprivation, and it is one of the most exciting sensory experiences you can have while having s*x. You can use sensory deprivation in any scene; I will mention various ways to include it in your next play session.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/11/what-is-sensory-deprivation-and-how-to-include-it-in-a-scene/
What Is Sensory Deprivation And How To Include It In A Scene | WiseHarsh So you may be wondering what sensory deprivation is. Sensory deprivation is a relaxation technique that spas and wellness centers offer. You get submerged in a water tank that eliminates sound and light, allowing you to become more attuned to your body. Now in B**M, sensory deprivation play is simil...
10/02/2022
You and your partner have realized that bo***ge is a shared kink; you have discussed it in-depth and negotiated all your limits and boundaries. You have decided on a safe word, and you are ready to play, but where do you begin? How do you set the bo***ge
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/10/bo***ge-how-to-set-a-bo***ge-scene/
Bo***ge, How To Set A Bo***ge Scene | WiseHarsh You and your partner have realized that bo***ge is a shared kink; you have discussed it in-depth and negotiated all your limits and boundaries. You have decided on a safe word, and you are ready to play, but where do you begin? How do you set the bo***ge scene?
08/02/2022
Humiliation play falls under the B**M umbrella, but many non-kinky people also use it. Humiliation play means demeaning or degrading your partner with words. However, it is intended to arouse them, not insult them....
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/08/what-is-humiliation-play/
What Is Humiliation Play? | WiseHarsh Humiliation play falls under the B**M umbrella, but many non-kinky people also use it. Humiliation play means demeaning or degrading your partner with words. However, it is intended to arouse them, not insult them.
07/02/2022
Even though cleaning your s*x toys might seem like a pain in the arse, it is necessary to avoid infections like UTIs.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/07/different-s*x-toy-materials-and-how-to-clean-them/
Different S*x Toy Materials And How To Clean Them | WiseHarsh Even though cleaning your s*x toys might seem like a pain in the arse, it is necessary to avoid infections like UTIs. Apart from cleaning your s*x toys, you will also need a clean space to store them and if you received a pouch or sleeve with the toy, store the s*x toy in there. You can store them i...
04/02/2022
Possibly the most misleading information about fi***ng is that, of course, your va**na will be stretched out after fi***ng, and you will have a windsock between your legs for the rest of your life, LOL. The va**na is a muscle, so it will not stretch out a
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/04/fi***ng-more-than-a-hand-full-2/
Fi***ng More Than A Hand Full | WiseHarsh Possibly the most misleading information about fi***ng is that, of course, your va**na will be stretched out after fi***ng, and you will have a windsock between your legs for the rest of your life, LOL. The va**na is a muscle, so it will not stretch out as long you do it right and take it slow.
Dacryphilia, also known as dacrylagnia, is a paraphilia in which a person becomes aroused from someone or themselves crying or sobbing. Now, this might be strange to some, but many people do include this in their scenes or dynamics.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/03/the-crying-game-2/
02/02/2022
Paddles come in various types of materials, including leather, wood, plastic, ceramic and faux fur. Paddles also come in different shapes and designs, and this is generally for individuality. The look of the paddle is your own preference. Whether you want
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/02/an-introduction-to-paddles/
An Introduction To Paddles | WiseHarsh Paddles come in various types of materials, including leather, wood, plastic, ceramic and faux fur. Paddles also come in different shapes and designs, and this is generally for individuality. The look of the paddle is your own preference. Whether you want a hardcore black B**M-themed paddles or a pi...
You can use teledildonics even as part of virtual reality scenes or join a s*x party and experiment with other people within the safety of your own home. Teledildonics promotes self-love and intimacy.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/02/01/what-are-teledildonics/
31/01/2022
If you fantasize about being spanked, you might be happy to know that you are not alone in your kink; spanking is possibly one of the most common kinks in relationships.
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/01/31/ready-to-be-spanked/
Ready To Be Spanked? | WiseHarsh If you fantasize about being spanked, you might be happy to know that you are not alone in your kink; spanking is possibly one of the most common kinks in relationships.
28/01/2022
As mentioned above, the most popular pets are pups, bunnies, and kittens; however, you could pet play or animal play as any animal. If you have a primal side, you could roleplay as a wolf or tiger. It is entirely up to you what pet or animal you would lik
https://www.wiseharsh.com/2022/01/28/what-is-pet-play/
What Is Pet Play? | WiseHarsh As mentioned above, the most popular pets are pups, bunnies, and kittens; however, you could pet play or animal play as any animal. If you have a primal side, you could roleplay as a wolf or tiger. It is entirely up to you what pet or animal you would like to roleplay.