Fearless

After hearing the awful news of the young lad from Seaford this week who took his life, I literally sat and broke down.

It really hit home. Not only because I have my 2 boys either side of his age. But because I know how he would have been feeling in the build up to that moment.

And everything I do in schools and through the Fearless academy, is to work towards help preventing any kids ever getting to that point

It made think, what can I do to help my community more?…..

As a result, I am offering FREE confidence and mood mastery assemblies to ALL schools in Peacehaven, Newhaven and Seaford.

Please spread the word to all your kids schools.

Please help me change as many lives as possible!

No one should ever feel that way. Especially not a child 💚

The kids inside The Fearless academy aren’t the only ones smashing it.

Every week the parents celebrate wins as well. And trust me. These guys are leading by example and being lighthouses to their kids 🔥

Who doesn’t want to be their kids hero’s? 💚

Had the absolute honour to be able to deliver some value to a group of students at East Sussex College Hastings this week.

Providing a workshop on confidence building, how we don’t need confidence to start anything, and tools and techniques on how to manage state and how we can change it in an instant 🔥

Thank you to everyone that came along. I appreciate you all 💚

" I would die for my kids "

How many times have you heard or even said that yourself?

If you have, I believe you.

And I get the principle behind it.

I mean, saying you'll give your life for your child is a massive symbol of how much you love them, right?

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But....... Would you live for them?

Would you get yourself healthy?

Would you get yourself mentally on point?

Would you be more present with them?

Would you lead them by example?

Would you stay true to your word?

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You'd only die once.

You have to live everyday.

Do that.

Show them.

🚨Why your child doesn't trust you🚨

Your child is losing trust in you when you least expect it and when you think you showing them you love them!

Do you keep your word???

Always go to the park when you say you would?

Always go to the shops like you promised after school?

Always get them what they ask for, for their birthdays and Christmas?

Always let them have friends over to play when you said they could?

Amazing if you do!

But how many times have you not followed through with a punishment?

Truthfully?

Given the Xbox back early because they "turned things around"?

Let them go out regardless of being grounded because "they apologised"?

Let them have pudding because "you hate seeing them sad"?

Given up because they are kicking off to much and you haven't got the energy to argue?

or even just let them off whatever you said was the punishment because you were worried "they would hate you"?
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Now I get it, and Iv been there.

But Id have you consider that every time you don't follow through with what you said or set as a punishment, they are losing trust in what you say and do.

You see, trust isn't just built through a positive interaction with them.

Because every time you let them off, they then know that's a possibility again.

So the belief in you and your words is instantly questioned.

The trust starts to break down.

Ultimately you've lied to them. Just as you would have if you'd said "will go to the shops after school and get sweets" and then not gone.

The next time you say you will go to the shops, they will question whether you actually will this time.

Just the same as letting them have their phone back early after taking it away. The next time you take it away, they will instantly remember the last time you didn't do what you said you would and gave it back early
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Now what would happen if you kept saying you'd go to the shops after school for sweets and never actually go?

They would lose all trust in you, right?

So what's the difference?
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Follow through with EVERYTHING you say and also show them that bad choices get bad consequences

Because when they are older they will thank you.

TRUST ME

What's more important to a loving parent than your child's happiness?

With a staggering 1 in 6 children between the ages of 6 and 16 believed to be suffering with some form of mental health struggle, its no wonder I have countless parents messaging me about how their kids just aren't coping at the moment. 🤯
Is your child is struggling to manage their anger, they seem withdrawn or low in confidence and self belief?

Then please know, you are NOT alone!
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If you are a parent who is deadly serious about supporting your child and giving them the help they need, I promise you won't find a better offer right now.

Iv spoken to thousands of students across different schools and colleges as well as coaching in side my Fearless program.

And there's nothing like Fearless out there! Especially getting the results the squad inside the program are getting on weekly basis.
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When you sign up you will instantly get...

- Access to all the trainings in the private parents group 🤓

- The Fearless journal sent out straight away to your door 📗

- The Fearless guided meditation 🧘

- Instant access to me 🫡

- Fearless community and parent support group ⭐️

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Im also so convinced that Fearless changes lives that I personally guarantee that if you don't see changes in 30 days, I will coach your child for FREE until you do.

We achieve what others don't, by doing what others won't!

🧠 Personalised Coaching: Expert mindset guidance for your child through a tailored program designed to unlock their potential

📚 Interactive Workshops: Weekly online group trainings calls with me personally, teaching tools, techniques and strategies. On how to live a more confident, motivated, happier and fulfilling life

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Parental Involvement: Iv got your back. Weekly posts added to the private Fearless facebook group to check in and see if the parents are on point, on board and any help needed. Because when you are on point, it filters down to everyone around you

🤝 Peer Support: An electric Fearless members only community that not only supports and encourages everyone on the same journey as you so you never feel alone, but also holds you to a high standard for accountability like you’ve never had before

⭐️ Inspirational Guest Speakers: Regular calls from inspiring people to bring high energy and inspire everyone on the call. This will also consist of guest trainings to teach members lessons from a range of life needed skills not taught in schools, to put them ahead of the game

📕 The Fearless Journal: The only place in the world you can get hold of the Fearless journal. The Journal creates focus, drive, confidence, and excitement. Because what you focus on grows, so why not look for good in everyday and choose how we want to feel!

( Turning up to calls, filling in the journal and taking action, need to be done because change doesn't happen without change, right?)
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Just as a side note, after this intake, it will never be the price again!

But as added bonus, when you sign up. I will honour that price for as long as you stay in the program! 👀

So if you’re genuinely passionate about your child’s mental health and building their confidence alongside learning new tools and techniques to help them live motivated, confident, happier and fulfilling lives.

There’s never been a better time to join the squad!

Link is in the comment!

Im ready when you are!

⬇️Sign up here⬇️

https://www.thefearlessacademy.com/home

The importance of showing up

I will never get bored of sharing how amazing the kids are inside my Fearless program

And the wins they are getting every single week.

Lights my heart up 🔥💚

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Kids deserve better.

Kids deserve better support

Kids deserve better futures

Kids deserve better environments

Kids deserve better opportunities

Kids deserve better understanding

Kids deserve better nutrition

Kids deserve better emotional education

Kids deserve better life skill lessons

Kids deserve better examples

Kids deserve better empathy

Kids deserve better hero’s

Kids deserve better discipline

Kids deserve better role models

Kids deserve better love

Kids deserve better. End of.
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We wonder why there is a generation of struggling

We wonder why there’s so much knife crime

We wonder why there are so many angry kids

We wonder why there’s so many “naughty kids”

We wonder why there’s no respect anymore

We wonder why there’s kids taking their own lives

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One of the kids inside my program told me a saying she has to me the other….

“Be a part of the solution. Not the pollution”.

For kids to have better.

Adults need to do better.

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What an absolute banger of a call🔥

I can’t believe how much the squad has grown in such a small amount of time! (There were even members missing this evening!)

Tonights training was about bullying.

- Our perception of a bully

- Why people bully

- What we can do

- How we can help the bully

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They are all smashing it!

- Improved family time at home

- Better relationships with friends and siblings

- Weekly competitions being won

- Children putting themselves forwards to talk in front of the whole school about mental health 🤯

To say my heart is full right now, in an understatement! 💙

You know you’re doing it right, when your son says something like this 💙

What has been your biggest win this week?

⬇️Here’s mine⬇️

Running a confidence masterclass for the students at Lewes college 🔥🚀🚀

This is going to be amazing! I’m absolutely honoured to speak at this event

Anyone who wants to come along and here what I have to say as well the other amazing speakers, drop me a DM

Looking for LIVE CPD opportunities?

Is 2024 the year that you join a community who are focused on child mental health?

Then the Dandelion Conference is exactly where you want to be!

We have 5 inspiring speakers ready to give you HOW and WHY when it comes to supporting children's mental health and wellbeing!

We kick off at 930am with registration, followed by five one hour sessions:

🔥 Nicky - "How to feel your feelings"
🔥 Emma - "Feed my belly, Nourish my mental well-being"
🔥 Chris - "Forging Heroes from Ordinary Lives"
🔥 Louise - "The importance of Collaborative Working"
🔥 Stephen - "Fostering Controlled Resilience"

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Date: Saturday 27th April 2024
Time: 930am – 5pm
Location – Holiday Inn London Gatwick Worth, Crabbet Park, Turners Hill Road, Worth, Crawley, West Sussex, RH10 4SS
Registration – 930am – Conference begins 10am

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☑️5 x 1 hr CPD sessions
☑️Delegate packs including speaker notes
☑️5 x CPD certificates
☑️Networking opportunities
☑️Refreshments, teas and coffees
☑️Buffet Lunch
☑️Pop up shop available in the lunch break
☑️Free Parking & wifi
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You can read more about the conference and book tickets through the website

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🔥This training is going to be an absolute banger for the guys inside The Fearless Academy!🔥

⬇️Sign up here⬇️

https://www.thefearlessacademy.com/home

🚨 I had 5 new sign ups in the closing hour of the latest intake to The Fearless Academy last night!🚨

Iv also had numerous emails and messages!

As a result I’m going to extend the intake till tomorrow (31st January) to get signed up!

If you’re a parent who is serious about supporting your child to live a more motivated, confident, happier and fulfilling life. You have till 6pm tomorrow (31st January) to get involved and join the squad

This is only for parents that are willing to support their kids in their journey!

We lead by example 🔥

Yesterday I had the absolute honour of delivering a confidence and state masterclass to the students at East Sussex College Lewes on their health and wellbeing week.

This was another massive personal win for me being able to deliver and impact these young adults and give them some tools and techniques to help them manage how they feel and build confidence 🔥🔥

Journals heading out to new members of the Fearless squad this morning!!

Let’sas goo🔥🚀

What a morning!! 🔥

Just delivered 2 talks to students at East Sussex College Lewes on…

- Confidence (how we can’t have it to start with and how we Create it)

- State (how we can manage it, it’s normal to feel all emotions and we can change it in a instant)

Thank you to everyone that came to both sessions.

I had a mint time! 🔥🔥

Lead by example

I will forever be by your side sunshine 💙

🔥Reading these honestly fills my heart the brim🔥

Spent sometime this evening sending out testimonials to parents who are stepping up and wanting to help their kids live more confident, happier and fulfilling lives

To you parents that are already in the program. I’m proud of you all and the squad 💚

How could you possibly help me change more young lives?

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I received these from my youngest, Chaz in the last 12 hours. This is what lights my heart up.

Be the lighthouse.

Be the person you needed growing up, to them.

I hear all the time, “I wish I could do more to help my kids”.

Well you can.

It starts with you.

You are their biggest inspiration

One thing Iv learnt in my years of being a Dad and the years iv invested in myself through self development is this….

Show them. Don’t tell them.

Kids learn by watching. Think about it.

Even at school they learn to write by visual. Then maths, by visually looking at numbers. Science, visually taking part in experiments.

So why do we think that we can teach our kids by just telling them things?

“Because I’m the adult”

“Because I know what’s best”

But yet tell the kids they can’t have to much screen time because it’s bad for them. Whilst sat there being glued to your phone watching cats play the piano on TikTok

By telling them to eat their greens because it’s good for them. Yet sitting there eating a bag of crisps and snacking on crap all day.

The way you live your life right now, is either an EXAMPLE or a WARNING

Because here’s the kick in the balls.

If they are watching everything you do and are learning from you by what you do, you need to ask yourself one question

WOULD I BE OKAY IF MY KIDS REPLICATED EVERY SINGLE BEHAVIOUR I AM DEMONSTRATING RIGHT NOW?

Because that’s what’s happening. You are EXAMPLE or a WARNING.

Show them how to live a motivated, confident, happy and fulfilling life. Don’t tell them.

Be the the example

Be the lighthouse.

Be their hero

I want to pick your brains for just a minute ⏰

I’m out to try change as many lives as possible. As a result iv opened the doors to my Fearless Academy again, but only for a short period of time.

I was wondering, is there anyone you knew that would benefit from this and if so, just let them know about it.

Doors close on the 29th and as it stands, when someone signs up before the 29th, not only do they get access to all the trainings (which are life changing for kids), they also get

- Instant access to me

- The Fearless journal sent out the same day (You can’t get this anywhere else in the world)

- The Fearless Guided Meditation sent over straight away ( this has literally had the biggest impact on some of the squad inside the Academy)

- Access to parent support in the private Facebook group.

- And also access to more offers like a Free months worth of coaching when you recommend 3 people that sign up

- Free access to the Fearless live meet up

- And some Free Fearless Swag

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This is only for parents who are genuine about supporting their kids through their childhood and teaching them the tools and techniques they need to live motivated, confident, happier and fulfilling lives.

This isn’t for anyone who isn’t bothered about showing up for their kids and tells them, rather than shows them.

We lead by example in the academy and become their hero’s

So if you know anyone at all that fits with that and would be interested then I’d love to help!

Link is in the comments.

🔥Let’s change lives🔥