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Recognize and value constructive criticism so you can grow. Accept what other people say as a challenge to improve yourself if you truly want to be a better person.

Being criticized is an unpleasant and difficult burden to bear. Feel the pain, then consider what was stated in light of your own progress and, undoubtedly, for the betterment of yourself.

Stop seeing everything and considering everyone as a threat. Sometimes it is just you. You are your own enemy. Stop gaslighting people around you.

𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐈𝐎𝐑𝐈𝐓𝐘 || 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭 𝐚 𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐫. 𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐧 𝐞𝐱𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐝𝐮𝐭𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥, 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲. 𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐭𝐰𝐢𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲; 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐤 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐤. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐥 𝐮𝐩, 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬, 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞, 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐥 𝐮𝐩.

𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐨𝐨. 𝐀 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐥, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐥𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐲𝐞𝐫. 𝐔𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐫 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐬, 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦. 𝐀𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐥𝐥, 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨 𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦.

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You can be fragile and tough at the same time. You're a human being, and I understand that. Show up scared and prove your courage on your actions. The results will be satisfying knowing you conquered what you thought you couldn't. Cry and then laugh. It's all what you got to do.

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*Photo not mine. Credits to the owner.

I believe I have been performing my obligations to the best of my ability.

Even on days off, there were some days where I stayed up late to finish tasks that needed to be completed before the deadline. Even worse, I become upset with my son when he demands my attention. Even if doing it hurts me a lot, I have to do it to meet the deadline.

Recently, I received an email that actually shocked the crap out of me. Even after all the acts and words you took and said that concerned me, I never reached the point where I believed you could do such a thing. This email, which was apparently on you, was directed to me. It now appears that I am to responsible for your careless behavior. That's right, you turned me into a baited target for the higher office. What the heck are you doing? Can you not even think about how much I already have to carry before you add something to it without asking?

It should only have taken a minor adjustment from you to put everything right. But, what exactly can I hope to get out of you? I am not to blame for your careless behavior. I cannot be held accountable for your inconsiderate action.

I'll say it again, I'm willing to assist, provided I see that you are also working hard to do something for a successful outcome rather than only for the sake of doing anything.

The privilege of rank you say? Please make good use of it so I can learn something from you. Please make advantage of it so that I may understand what true seniority entails.

Why do you hand your work to someone else every time? I just don't get you.

🥰

Kahit ano, basta kape🤣

😁

You sometimes need a different working environment. 🤓

Kahit maingay pa jan,
Kahit maraming destruction,
Basta ibang lugar,
Malayo lang sa toxicity,
Malayo sa negative energy,
Magiging magaan paggawa mo ng trabaho.

Bonus na yung kape😜

Thanks Chambee Coffee and Tea Guagua Pampanga 😋

Kayil York

..... and its just so hard to be very vulnerable, you always break in the end.

🙃

😏

☕ 😋

When you're early,
You'll be considered as 'bida-bida' ;
When you're a little late,
You'll be regarded as relaxed.

When you give help,
They don't appreciate, instead they see it as if you're looking down on them.
When you don't offer what you can do,
They say, "hindi marunong makiramdam".

When you work overtime,
They say "You just can't manage your time well" ;
When you've finished work and leave the table early,
They say "You don't want to work overtime and give extra service" or might as well "lacks commitment".

What more can you do? What more can you offer? Focus on yourself. Just love yourself even more to just ignore there insecurities.

All things that you do good will always be wrong in the eyes of people who envy you.

Emotionally stressed out ? Sure. Burst out on your pillows, cry your heart out, i know you are tired and it's okay to fall sometimes. You are human and not a robot. Recharge, and always remember to always stand on your feet.

Just keep hustling and remember not to be like them.

I've had enough already. 😃

Today you’re as helpful as the ‘g’ in lasagne.

Dyou got that? 😅

So true🤣

Thank you 🥹