Written Wishes by Lisa Ann

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To me "staying" is the most beautiful form of love...it is the most essential part of the life,...if someone really is to us, will stay with us,..I'm not saying that staying is a must ,.... because sometimes there are things in relationship that are intolerable,.. but I'm not in favor of loosing so fast...I'm in favor of fixing all the problems of relationship,... I see that leaving someone seems very easy,..but forgiving, holding and staying is so hard,..Sometimes some bonds doesn't need good bye and deliberation and compromise,... ,..and sometimes we neglect our partner so much that the bond transform into less permanent,.... sometimes ego takes over who doesn't let you stay with your partner ,...there are so many things that people don't want to stay,...but I believe that... True loves and true friendships endure every storms together,...while all others run out,.. Staying is the only trusted way to show someone that something is real with them,.... Don't forget... Nothing is eternal,... not even our life in itself,.... but if something or someone is real in our path will struggle to remain."
(The only one who really loves you will struggle to stay with you.)

Narnia Exhibition hosted at Chatsworth, Derbyshire. Powerful Image.

What do I know? I have never been married, however I believe its about both and then some. ♥

You can’t throw me to the wolves, they come when I call. ❤️ 🐺

BRIANNA WIEST- Powerful words.

′′Let go the people who are not prepared to love you. This is the hardest thing you will have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing. Stop having hard conversations with people who don't want change.

Stop showing up for people who have no interest in your presence. I know your instinct is to do everything to earn the appreciation of those around you, but it's a boost that steals your time, energy, mental and physical health.

When you begin to fight for a life with joy, interest and commitment, not everyone will be ready to follow you in this place. This doesn't mean you need to change what you are, it means you should let go of the people who aren't ready to accompany you.

If you are excluded, insulted, forgotten or ignored by the people you give your time to, you don't do yourself a favor by continuing to offer your energy and your life. The truth is that you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you.

That's what makes it so special when you meet people who reciprocate love. You will know how precious you are.

The more time you spend trying to make yourself loved by someone who is unable to, the more time you waste depriving yourself of the possibility of this connection to someone else.

There are billions of people on this planet and many of them will meet with you at your level of interest and commitment.

The more you stay involved with people who use you as a pillow, a background option or a therapist for emotional healing, the longer you stay away from the community you want.

Maybe if you stop showing up, you won't be wanted. Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end. Maybe if you stop texting your phone will stay dark for weeks. That doesn't mean you ruined the relationship, it means the only thing holding it back was the energy that only you gave to keep it. This is not love, it's attachment. It's wanting to give a chance to those who don't deserve it. You deserve so much, there are people who should not be in your life.

The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and energy, and both are limited. When you give your time and energy, it will define your existence.

When you realize this, you begin to understand why you are so anxious when you spend time with people, in activities, places or situations that don't suit you and shouldn't be around you, your energy is stolen.

You will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and for everyone around you is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else. Make your life a safe haven, in which only ′′compatible′′ people are allowed.

You are not responsible for saving anyone. You are not responsible for convincing them to improve. It's not your work to exist for people and give your life to them! If you feel bad, if you feel compelled, you will be the root of all your problems, fearing that they will not return the favours you have granted. It's your only obligation to realize that you are the love of your destiny and accept the love you deserve.

Decide that you deserve true friendship, commitment, true and complete love with healthy and prosperous people. Then wait and see how much everything begins to change. Don't waste time with people who are not worth it. Change will give you the love, the esteem, happiness and the protection you deserve."

Brianna Wiest

Lots of Truth in this.

Three men were sitting on a pavement by the street: a beggar, a cripple, a sick man. Whilst the beggar began to lament of how much he needed a pair of shoes to wear as he has been walking barefooted all his life. Then, came a cripple and the beggar realized that he was very privileged to have all four limbs in tact and he was sorry for complaining. So, he said to himself, “Thank God, I am not crippled.”

Whilst the cripple began to complain how much he hates the fact that he cannot walk, a very sick person came passing by, feeling very sick and heading to the hospital. Then, he realized he was even more privileged and so he said to himself, “Thank God, I am not sick!”

Whilst the sick man was in the out patient department (OPD) feeling so bad about his condition, an ambulance drove in to pick someone who has died to be deposited into the mogue. Then, he realized how privileged he was to be alive. And so, he said to himself, “Thank God, I am not dead.”

So, whatever condition you are in right now, as long as you are not dead, that you still breath air freely, you’re not paying for the oxygen you breathe in, you are very privileged.