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What's your relationship attachment style?

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2022/08/28/what-in-the-world-are-you-looking-for/

What in the world are you looking for? As you get more comfortable in your own skin, these positive traits will become your mantra, and you will know if these needs are being met by your date. If they aren’t, it’s your choice to now mak…

It’s good to know the why of the pain. It’s a whole other thing to acknowledge it and know the how to let it go and heal the wounds....

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2022/08/21/s-p-e-a-k-will-the-real-compassionate-you-please-step-forward/

S P E A K: Will the real compassionate you please step forward. It’s good to know the why of the pain. It’s a whole other thing to acknowledge it and know the how to let it go and heal the wounds.

But them leaving had nothing to do with me and everything to do with them....

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2022/07/23/one-person-religious-cults-are-you-their-fuel/

One Person Religious Cults: Are you their fuel? But them leaving had nothing to do with me and everything to do with them.

I didn't and don’t want to become overly anxious that it’s not 100% (what is?), but I know I can do better than 85%....

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2022/07/06/forever-comfortable/

Forever Comfortable I didn’t and don’t want to become overly anxious that it’s not 100% (what is?), but I know I can do better than 85%.

Those people who we put our safety in and our trust in, they don’t ever get hurt. We get hurt. I got hurt....

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2022/06/26/trust-safety-taking-care-at-a-deeper-level/

Trust & Safety – Taking care at a deeper level. Those people who we put our safety in and our trust in, they don’t ever get hurt. We get hurt. I got hurt.

Hope is a much more beautiful thing! The really bright side to the dark of expectations....

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2022/06/05/expectations-part-2-pulling-down-strongholds-that-bind-our-hearts/

Expectations: Part 2. Pulling down strongholds that bind our hearts. Hope is a much more beautiful thing! The really bright side to the dark of expectations.

Schisms can be overcome in loving relationships....

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2022/06/04/expectations-the-silent-destructor-of-relationships/

Expectations. The silent destructor of relationships. Schisms can be overcome in loving relationships.

Crave the change!...

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2022/03/20/to-abuse-or-to-be-abused-there-are-other-options/

To abuse or to be abused – there are other options. Crave the change!

A final update from VictoryLife House.

https://thevictorylifehouseblog.wordpress.com/2022/01/27/farewell-does-not-always-mean-goodbye/

Farewell does not always mean Goodbye :) Visit the post for more.

Perhaps I am being overly dramatic, but I believe the helmet saved my life....

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2021/10/23/bike-helmets-i-didnt-need-one-as-a-kidwhy-should-i-get-one-now-as-an-adult/

Bike helmets – I didn’t need one as a kid…why should I get one now as an adult? Perhaps I am being overly dramatic, but I believe the helmet saved my life.

What is THIS though? THIS is anything that you don’t want to do or experience anymore. Wow. Just the arrogance of writing that. Who am I to take a stance of ease? If you think about it, we only get to the point of saying, “I’m done. I quit. I don’t want to do this anymore.” when we KNOW that THIS is no longer helping us, and, in fact, is probably harming us....

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2021/08/18/amazingly-enough-we-have-the-power-to-say-im-done-i-quit-i-dont-want-to-do-this-anymore/

Amazingly enough, we have the power to say, “I’m done. I quit. I don’t want to do THIS anymore.” I believe it comes down to education, perspective and the why we do the things we do….and…quite frankly…caring.

Narcissistic personality disorder - Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic What is a narcissist? The Mayo Clinic defines it as: a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism....

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2021/07/24/ive-heard-it-said-they-are-all-around-us-narcissists-that-is-for-labeling-others-they-are-closer-to-their-own-truth-than-they-realize/

I’ve heard it said, “They are all around us.” – narcissists that is – for labeling others. They are closer to their own truth than they realize. There is a balance. To label a person really limits that person down to…that label…and removes their humanity.

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Domestic Violence - dating & child abuse

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Emergency Contacts | VictoryLife House National as well as individual states resources for survivors of Domestic Abuse. Our Founder has done the hard work for you! Begin your own freedom movement today and get the professional help you need...because...life without abuse is an option! Change your mind. Change the world.

• On average, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner in the United States. During one year, this equates to more than 10 million women and men.
• 72% of all murder-suicides involve an intimate partner; 94% of the victims of these murder suicides are female.
• 1 in 15 children are exposed to intimate partner violence each year, and 90% of these children are eyewitnesses to this violence.
Statistics (ncadv.org) https://www.victorylife-house.org/

Your courage and dedication in coming forward to tell your story, and therefore be an encouragement to so many similarly imprisoned women will do wonders to their finding courage to cast off their respective shackles and break free. You are a wonderful example and inspiration, full of courage and dignity, style and grace. Honored to know you. My best to you!
Judge David (retired) - North Carolina
https://www.victorylife-house.org/testimonials

Visit our YouTube Channel to watch our Heart to Help interviews with Police Chiefs around the nation to find out how they help victims of Domestic Abuse! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8CZKe_zclGA

CHAPTER 1 - REFLECTIONS
As I looked down at the diamond wedding ring I had bought for myself, I prayed he would not come home. I hoped he would call. Tell me he was sorry. Made a mistake. That he actually loved me. Wanted to talk to me. Needed to talk to me. But he didn’t. Neither did he come home.

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Have you ever been having a conversation with someone, and you get the distinct feeling they are not listening to you…at all? Basically, that’s not a conversation. That’s a one-way dialogue with someone who doesn’t care about you at that moment. Someone who is very wrapped up with themselves. It’s all about them. So, the question begs then…WHY DID THEY CALL YOU???...

http://thevictorylifehouseblog.com/2021/07/14/he-calls-you-answer-he-begins-with-the-questions-you-answer-hes-listening-right/

HE CALLS. YOU ANSWER. HE BEGINS WITH THE QUESTIONS. YOU ANSWER. HE’S LISTENING…RIGHT? He absolutely felt the need to exert domination even through…the phone.

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