Easy toddler learning

How careful you are about your self respect as an adult so IMAGINE a child with overwhelming emotions .
If you’re being told all this by your spouse goes you feel ?
Instead of this if they tell you same things in nicer manner you’ll feel loved and cared , same is the case with kids .
As I always say choose your words wisely with kids or around kids .
Even if you have to stop anyone and excuse to remind them that there are kids around .
Kids always adapt what they see .
Even I’m still figuring out and this is what helps best “change of tone and wise use of words “

Aoa everyone .
Apologies for being away and Not responding . Just in the middle of something.me and kids are fine alhamdulillah,will be back soon inshallah.
We pray everyone stay safe and healthy and growing in every way.
Love 💕
Mariam

CHOICES makes your life easier with kids but keep in mind too many can get them confused and frustrated as well. Keep it limited to 1 or 2 .

❇️even though you’re being nice and asking very politely but your child starts throwing things and hitting and screaming at the same time and says NO . It’s because we unknowingly are forcing them to do what we want them to do .

❇️bringing choices in your life makes your child help being a independent learner also things comes easier. As they have the control and power to decide . They don’t feel helpless anymore .

Know that every age group attends choices differently

⏺6-12 MONTHS ( keep 2 colors and let them pick )
⏺12-24 MONTHS ( would you like to brush your teeth first or wash your face?)
⏺2-3 YEARS ( you can pick two from these candies / toys )
⏺ 3 years and above ( self sufficiency, you want to finish this now or 10 minutes later ?)

PHONICS

Before you read this post I’d suggest you check the highlights woth phonics for better backs understanding how to start?

Honestly this post had taken good 6 months to figure out how should I start teaching my son best but the easiest way possible.

PLEASE it’s ok if you don’t understand it at first and if there’s any thing you can’t understand you can ask ❤️ we are here to help eachother

We are being told many times to put the babies away as they’re growing in their own cribs or in other rooms.
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Even with newborns they’re being shifted to nursery .

These are gentle little souls who need love and your warmth in their early times which help them grow faster better healthier .

It honestly does not matter how you’re making your baby sleep . Carry them , hold them , Rick them . How ever you and your baby are comfortable.

Countless benefits honestly. Most of all the satisfaction of safety and security you’d get that will make you and baby sleeps better is priceless .
Enjoy this time before you loose it ❤️

Its Not Over Yet!!
Palestine is under attack. Don’t give up on what is right !
We must Keep talking, keep shouting about P A L E S T I N E. Don’t get distracted, always rise your voice against I*rael. This is not about religion or Muslims versus Jews. This is about standing up for basic human rights, this is about opposing oppression and opposing the murder and arresting of innocent children and many of the other atrocities afflicted on the people of 🇵🇸
Keep sharing the word.
STAND FOR P A L E S T I N E!!!



This picture is in collaboration with

SOLID START 6+BABY
Here I have put all the important things in one post to make it easier for you guys and will help me too.
I will follow the same chart .

If you’ve anything to add or ask more than welcome in comments ❤️

Kids adapt what they see . May it be you or anyone else around your home , they act like they’re being treated . They get influenced by surroundings. If it’s not you then make you check what they’re watching during screen time .
Some kids are naturally overwhelmed with emotions . They love extra abc they get angry extra . So a little EXTRA care is needed ❤️


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Tell me if social media really makes you a toxic person ?
Yes it does , does not matter how strong weak headed/hearted you are .
ALWAYS knows it’s just the curtain , when the curtain falls the story behind changes .
And no not everyone actually living the life they show .
May it be news , glam , your friends or family . You see the updates . You’re scrolling through with all that happy jolly mood but the toxicity starts when you spending unaccounted time on social media and trust me it is addictive like that.
I have been a victim of this Alot of times when I say ALOT it means alot.
Cutting it short how to over come it , how to turn it around??
1.Manage your timings how much and when you should use social media. For example you’re and your tap insta Facebook and Twitter and then you lost the count of hours and the next thing you realize ohh well why am I not doing that ? How come they’ve got so much time for this .
Sister that’s because they use their time WISELY !!!

2. Stop fixing yourself when you see others please .If you want to fix anything make sure it’s your inner peace and only for your peace or for others .

3. Don’t try to FIT IN. You’re an individual identity. There’s no one like you . Allah has given you superpower of being you and you’re Allahs amanh in this world take care of it and that doesn’t mean so stay in corner and isolate yourself it mean eat good , look good and neat. Be happy !
4. Patience!!! I always say it’s the key to everything.
5. Last and all. We all know this “ all that glitter is not gold “ sistaaa what you see is /could be mirage . No one trust me no one tells you what goes behind that picture video. How many times that person broke , what’s happening in their personal life . How they’re dealing with their health.
Also one more important thing ( social media is not your life it’s a PART of your life ) . Your real life start when you press that side button and lock your screen and get up and look around .
Now do that and understand it’s just in your own hands literally the gadget in your hands . Use and choose wisely .

Having a active child is a challenge honestly in term of gaining weight . Every other mother goes through this dilemma having a picky eater or won’t sit at a place and eat .
Try to give 4 meals in a day
❇️Breakfast
❇️Early lunch
❇️After nap lunch
❇️Dinner

🌸If your child won’t sit in a place or eat try making small muffins and hand them over .

🌸Also be careful with allergies many kids have allergies with milk, nuts , wheat , peanutbutter. Eggs

🌸No COW Milk under 2 years of age. Give goat or formula or breast milk with good. Cow milk is extremely high in protein which is for claves not for human babies because of their low digestive tolerance.

I’ve summed up these easy recipes which you can use everyday easily and there are very less changes your kid will say no to them :)

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Be a part of HISTORY!! 🇵🇸

We’ve seen the power of social media many times before . No matter what tactics they use . There’s no greater power than ALLAH .
Do what’s in your power make dua and spread the word 🇵🇸

BASIC MILESTONES from 0-6 months

Remember all babies are different some might start earlier some will take their time 🌸 don’t panic or rush if your baby isn’t doing these things on time .
Most babies come around .

❇️always keep 2 months margin for your baby to reach that specific milestone .

Always look for the signs when your child needs somthing or there uncomfortable because your child won’t tell you directly what’s wrong or what they need or what makes them uncomfortable.
Give them the mother they need ❤️

Often first time mother are not aware of newborn facts I wasn’t either .
Babies only need love not toys . Because
🌸they can’t see any color untill they are 4 months of age
🌸. They can only see things that are 10 inches away not further. It’s develops over time after 3 months .
🌸babies imitate you all the time so why not teach them something nice . Whenever you look at them look with smile . They’ll only learn to smile . 😌

It all depends on with your child is READY . It’s not age dependent but try not to force it before 2 years of age.
The better they understand the instructions the easier it will be.

TIPS
✅ show some videos
✅ read books about potty training
✅ keep asking after every 2-3 hours if they wants to go p*e p*e
✅don’t embarrass them if they encounter any accidents

We all hav been there . Everyone gets sick it’s completely normal and in that hour of need you only want some calm rather than getting more worried.
Please be KIND to the family and patients while visiting and showing concern .
This might not be the biggest concern for some but those who are facing illness takes everything seriously.
Just BE KIND 🦋

We all have picky eater at times when they’re babies or toddlers . What we can do is serve the same food but different styles.
The trick it so make it exciting by adding
✅Colors ( pop out)
✅bites according to their size ( easily eaten)
✅somthing new (sticks ) new cutlery

We have these days here we feel so energized that everything falls in to place by it self and there are days where everything is falling apart . Know that both are just FINE ❤️
We all go through these and this is perfectly normal .
We are just humans in the end . Don’t overthink. Tomorrow is another day.
The MOTHER In you will still do and try the best ..

SWIPE....
Arrival of a new born is always difficult for older sibling , no matter how much of a good child he is , there’s always some resistance.
And it’s completely normal , you just hav ego Chanel their feeling in the right direction.

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