Shell Sawyer, CDFA Your Financial Specialist through Divorce & Beyond

Do you need an attorney to get divorced?

The simple answer is no! 🤯

You don't necessarily need to hire an attorney to get divorced, particularly if you and your spouse agree on all major issues or you want to utilize a cost-effective method of divorcing, such as mediation.

Of course, if you are filing by yourself or utilizing mediation, it is best to have an attorney review your agreement. They can give you helpful legal advice and guidance to ensure you have considered everything.

Are there any other myths you have heard that you would like clarified? Please share👇

If you would like to learn more about mediation, let's chat! ⬇️
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Do you feel like you are not making any progress?

Remember, this is not a sprint, it's a marathon. Being the first one done does not mean you are the winner. Take your time and focus on the outcome.

When I work with my Personal Divorce Guide clients, we collaborate to complete their tasks in the manner that is right for them.

If you need to break up your tasks into tiny steps to avoid feeling overwhelmed, I will support you with that. I will keep you accountable and on track, so you can make progress. However, if you prefer to complete your tasks quickly and get them off your to-do list, we can do that too!

Every divorce is unique, and each person needs to approach it differently. I customize my services to meet your specific needs.

If you need assistance to move forward and stay on track, let's connect! ⬇️
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Hey there! I could really use your help! Can you tell me which cover you like best A, B, C or D? Thank you!!

Does it feel hard to make the first step? 🪜

I bet! Do some fears always get the best of you? Maybe it is your fear of your finances or that your children will be okay. That all makes sense.

It can feel hard to put one foot in front of the other. But you can do it! If not for yourself, for them.

We want to show them that they deserve better, that real love is real, and that they should never settle.

I'm confident that your future is filled with brightness! Remember, the first step is often the hardest, but it's also the most important.

If you're unsure about your next steps, I'm here to help. Let's start with a conversation to guide you on the right path. ⬇️https://calendly.com/findingstrengthwithshell/exploratoryconversation

Can you believe it's already August? I'm determined to embrace new opportunities this month!

🥇 I joined a social media challenge group to boost my business's online presence, and it's been incredibly inspiring and enjoyable!

🥈 Great news! My book is now in the editing phase after being written. I'm eagerly looking forward to sharing it with all of you. Stay tuned for more updates!

🥉 Our office is nearly prepared for upcoming events. Keep an eye out for some educational, fun, and exciting surprises!

What do you have planned for this last summer month of August? Share in the comments ⬇️

Come join us next Wednesday, May 22nd from 5:30 - 7:30 at the Russell Library in Middletown.

New Beginnings

Wednesday, May 22nd, from 5:30 - 7:30 pm at the Russell Library in Middletown.

I am honored to be one of the speakers at an upcoming New Beginnings Event! This event might be helpful to people you know who are going through the end of a relationship.

At New Beginnings, our mission is to provide compassionate support and guidance to individuals navigating the end of a relationship.

Through expert-led sessions and resources, we aim to equip attendees with the tools and knowledge needed to make informed decisions during this challenging time.

Together, we foster a community of resilience, empowerment, and new beginnings.

The event is scheduled for Wednesday, May 22nd, from 5:30 - 7:30 pm at the Russell Library in Middletown.

Attached is a brochure with more information regarding all of the speakers who will be present, as well as the link to register.

While this event is not specifically directed at you, I would appreciate it if you could pass along this information to anyone you know who might benefit from attending.

Your support in spreading the word is invaluable.

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Great night Stepping Up & Stepping Out in Support of the Interval House!

This is why I do what I do! I love to see a happy client testimonial in my inbox when I wake up! 💚

If you would like to schedule a free exploratory call, please use the link to my calendar to find a time that works for you.
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I just dropped off a basket for the Interval House Step Up and Step Out penny raffle.

Step Up & Step Out: Cocktails for a Cause is only two weeks away. Don't miss your chance to support survivors of domestic violence with Interval House!

YOUR attendance at this event matters! Your ticket ($150) includes a donation to support the free and confidential services Interval House provides to neighbors in need.

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Lesson #4 I learned from my divorce:

I learned that ending a marriage that is unhappy or unhealthy is actually an act of self-love.

Sometimes we outgrow relationships.

Sometimes we realize that our spouse (no matter how many times we beg and plead), just can’t meet our needs.

Sometimes big hurts or betrayals happen that we just can’t get over.

Sometimes we have a spouse that struggles with addiction and we get to a point where we’re not willing to give them one more chance.

Here’s what I know for sure: You deserve to be valued.

You deserve to be respected.

You deserve to be loved the way you need to be loved.

You deserve to be a part of a reciprocal partnership.

If you’re not, it’s ok to choose YOU.

Like and follow to find out the 30 most valuable lessons I learned from my divorce!

Are you already divorced and are looking for a group of likeminded women to support you on your journey? Join us over in The Divorced Mom Sisterhood! Link to join us in the comments.

You're done with your divorce! The ink is dry...halleluiah! But wait...you are not done!

Here are 5 important things you need to do to protect yourself after your divorce:

💻Change your passwords on everything. Yes EVERYTHING! We have all heard horror stories about exes getting into your private files, reading your emails, or sliding into your DMs. Protect yourself and change your passwords!

💳 Cancel your joint credit cards. Let's face it, credit card companies are a big, lucrative business, they do not care about what your divorce agreement says! In their eyes, you are still responsible! Get that joint account PAID and CANCEL that card. You don't want something like this to harm your future!

📃Make/update your Will. If you have a Will in place that was written with your spouse, now is the time to get that refreshed. Maybe you no longer want to give all your worthy possessions to your ex, or you do not want to be buried next to them. Wills can feel gruesome, but you want to make sure your final wishes are understood!

🌍 Change all your beneficiaries. Does your 401(k) have your ex listed as your beneficiary? You fought so hard to keep your retirement plan during your divorce, don't let them get now! Beneficiaries trump those wills. So --- Don't hesitate, update today!

💹Hire a Financial Advisor or Coach. Now is the time to manage your own money your own way. In my opinion, it is in your best interest to get your very own financial advisor. They will help you establish your own goals and lead you into your future, successfully!

💸 If you have never handled your finances before and this is all new to you! Hire a financial coach that specializes in helping you to move into the next chapter with ease and grace.

Contact Shell today to learn more! I have trusted partners to refer to you too!

Shell Sawyer, CDFA
[email protected]
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com

If you know any parent that would like to participate, please share this program with them

Great post by Kim LaPorte Casner ! Crucial information when divorcing!

Are you overlooking the silent but crucial aspect of divorce that could shape your financial future? Many divorcing spouses fail to recognize the profound impact divorce has on their financial and credit profiles as well as how to safeguard their economic well-being during this pivotal life change.
Please read the article below on what issues are often overlooked and how a Certified Divorce Lending Professional can help you!
https://www.divorcelendingassociation.com/blog/the-underestimated-financial-fallout-why-divorcing-spouses-often-overlook-the-impact-on-their-fi.cfm

Are you considering divorce, but have questions and concerns?
Here is your opportunity to learn more.

Presented by two divorce experts:
Lucinda Testo - Therapist and Divorce Recovery Coach
Shell Sawyer, CDFA - Personal Divorce Guide and Mediator

Attending this Workshop can help you if:
➡️You or your spouse are unsure if you should stay or you should leave.
➡️You want to know if you will be okay financially after your divorce or
➡️You want to learn about ways to manage the financial and emotional aspects of this major life transition.

Attending this Workshop will educate you on:
📗How to make informed decisions about whether to divorce and which process will most likely help you achieve your desired outcomes, and
📗How you can retain control over key decisions about your family and your future.

Spaces are limited, so sign up now! ⬇️
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So...You Wanna Get Divorced? Contemplating Divorce? Join us online on January 26, 2024, at 11:30 EST for "So...You Wanna Get Divorced?" event!

If you need help battling the storm and taking one step at a time to get you through, I am here for you.

Shell Sawyer
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]

🛑There are multiple stages when contemplating whether or not to end a marriage! 🛑

Each one can last months or even years with three distinct stages.

🪞Consideration stage is the earliest and most reversible stage. People may think about divorce but not as a serious option – in other words they do not even mention to their mother or best friend yet. But hopefully they are discussing with their therapist. In this stage they are in denial.

🤔Deliberation stage is where someone gives more serious thought to divorce but is confused and conflicted. Maybe they are starting to mention, but only to the most trusted individuals. In this stage fear and possibly anger can become real.

📃Verdict stage is the phase where they make the decision to stay or go, often with much inner turmoil. During this stage they mention that they want a divorce to their spouse.

No matter which stage you are in, the best thing you can do is get yourself educated about the process and how to make the right decision for you and your family.

If you would like to have an exploratory conversation, get in touch today! ⬇️
https://calendly.com/findingstrengthwithshell/consultation

Shell Sawyer, CDFA
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]

**FUN FACT**

Today is Elvis Presley's Birthday. I happen to share this day with him. I always felt like this was a really cool coincidence sharing a birthday with one of the most popular singers of the 20th century the "King of Rock n' Roll"!!

Happy Birthday "in heaven" Elvis!

I am celebrating for us!!🎂

Are you preparing for a Divorce, but don't know where to start? Then this guide is for you!

Going through a divorce can be challenging, but this roadmap is here to help you navigate the road ahead. These strategies have been carefully selected to help you prepare, move you forward and offer insights to help you get ready.

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Shell Sawyer, CDFA
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
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Are you feeling stuck and afraid to take the next step?

You don't have to face it alone. Allow me to offer you guidance and help you find the strength to take that leap forward with confidence.

If this speaks to you, let's have an exploratory conversation today! https://calendly.com/findingstrengthwithshell/consultation

Shell Sawyer, CDFA
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]

Considering Divorce?
Let My Expert Guidance Help You Navigate This Transition.

Leaving your future to chance is not an option. I can help you navigate the process with ease and grace, giving you the strength to begin this next chapter of your life.

Let's have an exploratory conversation today!
https://calendly.com/findingstrengthwithshell/consultation

Shell Sawyer, CDFA
Your Divorce Finance Specialist
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]

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Happy New Year!

My wish for you this year is this:
🌟 May you realize how much your worth!
💵 May your finances be plentiful.
💖 May you feel loved!
👋🏻 May all your worries and fears disappear!

If you need help finding your strength - contact me for a complimentary exploratory conversation today https://calendly.com/findingstrengthwithshell/consultation

Shell Sawyer, CDFA
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]

Divorce and Heartbreak are hard! And letting go can sometimes feel impossible, especially around the holidays! So, if you are contemplating divorce, this is your first holiday without your spouse, or even if you have been divorced for a while...Be kind to yourself!

Here are some tips for getting through today and any day that seems especially hard:
⌚Take time for yourself - Go for a walk, get a massage, or reflect. When you take time for you, your mood will definitely improve!
👍🏻 Set boundaries - If you know you are not going to like or enjoy something, rescue yourself from that feeling! Saying no to them is really saying yes to you!
🎁 Be present - Don't just get presents but take the time to enjoy the moments. Try to focus on what's around you. Think about what excites you and makes the holidays so special!
🛑Don't overextend yourself - Sometimes we do this because when we are busy our mind does not over think, or we want to make the holidays extra special for our families. This can lead to exhaustion and perhaps leave you feeling unwell.

Hope this holiday season brings you lots of Joy!
Shell Sawyer, CDFA
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com