Wise Guys Training

Wise Guys Training

We help organisations understand and engage the men with whom they work, to help them lead happier and healthier lives. Workshops, 1:1 coaching, strategy.

‘We don’t do deep emotional discussions’: why men lose their friends – and how they can make more 27/05/2023

‘We don’t do deep emotional discussions’: why men lose their friends – and how they can make more A quarter of British men say they have no close mates. But even in middle age, where the ‘friendship recession’ hits hardest, it’s possible to buck the trend

04/12/2022

Last night in Lancaster, four young men attended a gig and left their bikes locked outside the venue. When they came out they found their bike locks had been sawed and bikes stolen. This would be devastating for any young person. Add to that that they’re young men seeking asylum and living on £8 a week. Their bikes are literally life savers so if you’re local and have a bike you don’t use would you be willing to donate it to the men? 🙏🏼
Message us if you think you can help in any way.

The Term Alpha Male Is All A Lie 02/12/2022

The Term Alpha Male Is All A Lie Hens, wolves and a 50-year misunderstanding – it’s a wild ride.

Fighting football's 'hypermasculine' silence 06/11/2022

Fighting football's 'hypermasculine' silence David Wheeler, a 32-year-old Wycombe midfielder, explains his unique research into what he calls football's 'hypermasculinity'.

BBC Radio 4 - Woman's Hour - ‘I realised I had no male friends - here’s what I did about it and what I learnt from women’ 23/09/2022

BBC Radio 4 - Woman's Hour - ‘I realised I had no male friends - here’s what I did about it and what I learnt from women’ Max Dickins' story of male friendship and how men can learn from the bonds between women.

08/09/2022

About 40 minutes in Blndboy talks about primary and secondary emotions: the negative emotions that happen in reaction to things like anxiety, anger.

https://play.acast.com/s/9d5c107b-68d6-4c1b-8c80-45ee6a84c947/6317ebfcddd56500146f0556

24/06/2022

Great archive piece about how boys use humour to build friendships. Thanks Ben Hennessy-Garside for that 😀

24/02/2022
Mobile uploads 10/01/2022

Not advisable....

31/12/2021

Happy New Year!

Boys Like Me | CBC Podcasts | CBC Listen 11/12/2021

This is a sympathetic look at the vulnerable young men on the spectrum whose isolation has lead them to falling prey to the Incel/blackpill culture. This lead to the horrendous attacks against women committed by Elliott Rogers and Alex
Manassian. We clearly need to be doing more to supporting the social development and integration of these young men into society. And by that I specifically mean youth groups where young people on the spectrum can develop confidence, social skills and self-esteem. Worth a listen.

Boys Like Me | CBC Podcasts | CBC Listen Why are lonely, young men a growing threat to our safety? In 2018, a Toronto man drove a van down a busy sidewalk, killing 11 people and injuring many more. He was linked to the "incel" movement, a dark online world fueled by violent misogyny, extreme isolation and perceived rejection. In the wake o...

02/12/2021

Sounds like a good way of connecting with people and the environment.

The Bay: A Blueprint for Recovery The Bay is a partnership which will see people in Morecambe Bay be prescribed nature to help them recover from the effects of Covid19 and resulting social isolation, through the healing aspects of the beach and sea.

73: Eating Disorders in Yogaland (w/Jason Nagata & Chelsea Roff) - Conspirituality 21/11/2021

Interesting interview at 1:22 with Dr Jason Nagata on eating disorders in young men: one in ten cases are young men but only one in 20 treatments. Often young men do not prevent with the symptoms more typical in female anorexia such as diet restriction and weight loss. Instead, muscle gain and over exercising are more typical.

73: Eating Disorders in Yogaland (w/Jason Nagata & Chelsea Roff) - Conspirituality Meat is toxic. Dairy is toxic. Eggs? As dangerous as ci******es. Garlic stokes the hormones. Avoid nightshades at all costs. Organic or bust. Eat according to your blood type. Eat according to your chronotype. Cacao resonates with the frequency of the su

08/11/2021

This would be good to show support for, try and and get a long to some of the events if you can.

All of the planned events for the 16 days of activism against gender-based violence

08/11/2021

This 5km run is to raise awareness of domestic violence on Saturday 4th December at 2pm Williamson Park

Photos from Light Up Lancaster's post 04/11/2021
Cyclothymia: Matt Edmondson reveals impact of mental health disorder 04/11/2021

Cyclothymia: Matt Edmondson reveals impact of mental health disorder The Radio 1 presenter has spoken about how the condition, cyclothymia, affects his life.

BBC Sounds - Life Changing - Available Episodes 03/11/2021

How the decision ‘to never talk about it again” lead one man to attempt su***de.

BBC Sounds - Life Changing - Available Episodes Listen to the latest episodes of Life Changing on BBC Sounds

Timeline photos 29/10/2021

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- 2 x Peer Support Workers – Reconnect Care After Custody (Full-time) based in Preston, with travel across Lancashire
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Dude, the patriarchy messed up my life – and yours too 26/09/2021

Dude, the patriarchy messed up my life – and yours too I was a kid who adored choir practice but wanted to melt when a fly ball was hit my way, but I felt like I had to pretend to be someone else

UFOs, Artificial Intelligence and how to gain Self Acceptance | The Blindboy Podcast on Acast 24/06/2021

Some useful stuff here on self-acceptance and recovering from incidents that threaten our self esteem, or lack of it. Well worth a listen.

UFOs, Artificial Intelligence and how to gain Self Acceptance | The Blindboy Podcast on Acast Part one. Roasting take about AI and UFOs. Part two. Measured and reasoned mental health chat about developing self-acceptance See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Healthwatch Project Reports - Healthwatch Lancashire 18/06/2021

This is posted from the profile of Ahmed James, an old LCC youth work colleague.

"Just under a year ago I worked with a group of individuals from Adrian MurrellsWindrush Initiatives mens health group to develop a report by Healthwatch UK on their experiences of racism and the effects it can have on mental health.

These brave men gave their insights into the journey of a Black man living in a multi cultural society. From the workplace to social settings,where we have to endure Unconscious bias, overt racism,Institutional racism,negative cultural biasis. We have to mask elements of our identity and not be ourselves on a daily basis. Everyday day you have to tap in your mental reserves to display a positive attitude for fear of how you could be perceived (angry Black man).

What I find amazing about these gentlemen is they gave their insights to help enable others to talk and share their feelings but also a means of healing for themselves.

As Men we tend to bottle up our feelings until it gets to crisis point and explode but if we take the opportunity to release some of the pressure by just opening up a little bit you can begin to see clarity of thought and less mental fog.

Mens mental health week can a time to pause and think of of your daily pressures take advantage of the God given positive resources around you, family, friends,nature and most of all yourself.
We don't give ourselves enough credit even for the little things we do and its time to start doing that.

To all men and women for that matter don't sit in silence open up that box and start the journey of emotional healing.

There are links below for support.







https://www.lancashire.gov.uk/health-and-social-care/your-health-and-wellbeing/mental-health/

Thanks to all those great individuals who took part in this report your a credit to the community."

Nice one Ahmed!

Healthwatch Project Reports - Healthwatch Lancashire Healthwatch Project Reports gtag('config', 'UA-56579698-2'); Healthwatch Lancashire Project Reports Search documents: Our Experience: Conversations with the Windrush Health Group This report is based on conversations with the Windrush Health Group in Preston, a group of Black Caribbean men, aged 29-...

11/06/2021

Interesting that this is a male phenomenon in Japan and elsewhere. No doubt neurodiversity and mental health are factors however as the film notes a large factor is the pressure to be financially successful.

13 steps I use to manage anxiety | The Blindboy Podcast on Acast 19/05/2021

Another useful and entertaining episode.

13 steps I use to manage anxiety | The Blindboy Podcast on Acast I've been struggling with worry and anxiety recently. I outline a simple 13 step approach that I use to cope, and manage my anxiety. Also, I talk about UFO's and the sitcom Cheers See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Jason Wilson on Twitter 08/05/2021

Thug = Tramatised Human Unable to Grieve

Jason Wilson on Twitter “A THUG is a Traumatized Human Unable to Grieve....if a man can't grieve—he can't love. https://t.co/FtGiMPyDxU”

07/05/2021

You know who you are 😂😂😜😜

03/05/2021

More proof that masculinity is shaped by the culture that it emerges from!

I Thought I Was In The Truman Show | Minutes With | UNILAD 11/04/2021

I would have preferred a different title but this is a great piece by a man living with schizoaffective disorder.

I Thought I Was In The Truman Show | Minutes With | UNILAD This is part of a brand new series for this channel called "Minutes With...".In each episode we'll sit down and talk to someone who has an interesting story ...

Factually! with Adam Conover - Why Is the Fertility Rate Falling? with Dr. Shanna Swan on Stitcher 08/04/2021

Hormone disrupting pthalates, not good news for men or women.

Factually! with Adam Conover - Why Is the Fertility Rate Falling? with Dr. Shanna Swan on Stitcher There are a lot of causes of the declining global birth rate – education, freedom, and even the decline of subsistence agriculture. But what if one of the biggest factors was … plastic? Epidemiologist and author Dr. Shanna Swan joins Adam this week to break down why phthalates affect our fertili...

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