Be happy, be bright, be you

it’s been a few months since I posted on this page. I hope y’all are doing well!

I’ve had something on my mind lately. There was someone in my life for quite a bit of time that caused me so much anxiety & anger issues. Since ties were cut with this person, those issues have left TREMENDOUSLY. What was truly difficult was my attachment issue. About a month ago, it dissipated. Seriously though... one of the best feelings ever is finally losing your attachment to somebody who wasn’t good for you. Trust me. Don’t keep someone in your life even if you see red flags. It’ll cost you later. Much love ❤️❤️

Hey sweet people. I’ve been so caught up in work lately & i’ve been wiped. I hope y’all are having a great weekend so far. Here’s something that’s been on my mind lately, especially today.

You can’t continue to chase after people that obviously want nothing to do with you. If you see one red flag, you need to GO. Don’t stick around just because you’re lonely and need somebody. It’s like feeding a dead fish. Just drop em and go. When one door closes, another one opens. ❤️ seriously though... drop the toxic person the second you see one red flag.

late post. oof. i hope y’all are having a great week so far.

the human mind is so powerful. it’s insane. you need to take control of your mind before it takes control of you. i know it’s more difficult when you have anxiety, you overthink, etc, but YOU have the power to put your foot down. you can get through/accomplish anything that you set your heart & mind to. you’re stronger than you think you are ❤️💪🏼

it sucks when you waste your time & energy on someone to have them not reciprocate the same energy back. it makes you think, “what am i doing wrong? why am i wasting my time? why am i doing this?” etc. not worth it. it really isn’t. stop wasting your time and energy on people that CLEARLY don’t appreciate it & deserve it. remember when one door closes, another one opens. surround yourself with the people that truly care about you & don’t make you feel like a burden, make you feel like you’re doing something wrong, etc. quality over quantity ❤️

sooo i’m sitting here reminiscing on how blessed I am. and omgggg i’m at 15 followers. sorry y’all. high key happy about that.

anyways... be blessed with what you have. don’t take anything for granted. remember that you aren’t guaranteed to be alive tomorrow. tell your loved ones that you love them. life is WAY too short to hold grudges. seriously... BE HAPPY (but don’t fake it) 😘😘

Remember, it’s ok to not be ok. It’s not ok though to sulk in your problems and let them control you. Take over your mind before your mind takes over you. Trust me. I’m talking from experience. Let the people who love you take care of you and don’t feel like you’re an inconvenience because you’re NOT. ❤️

have a great day lovelies!

good morning you beautiful people! i’m heading to the airport right now to fly back home to Buffalo.

I want to leave you with this. today’s a good day to have a good day. only YOU are in charge of your own happiness. don’t depend on someone else to make you happy because it always backfires. i hope y’all have a great day ❤️❤️

i’m going to share my story. when i was approaching the end of my sophomore year of high school, 2013, my parents got divorced. it was one of the most difficult things i’ve ever been through. around the beginning of my junior year of high school, symptoms of anxiety started popping up. mostly social anxiety. it was hard for me to talk to people and i always thought i was being judged. i definitely did though have a couple close friends. some symptoms of depression also started appearing. October of 2014, my aunt passed away after having a stroke. then, everything hit. she was like a mom to me. my best friend, my everything. when she passed away, it felt like she took a part of me with her that i’ll NEVER get back. to add to the mix of things, about a year ago, anger issues started appearing. i’ve punched walls. i’ve punched dressers. i even managed to kick a pretty deep hole in my door about a month ago. the anger is by far the worst out of everything right now. these past few years since then have been tough, yes. I still am dealing with depression & anxiety, but not nearly as bad. some days are harder than others, yes.

i’m not sitting here and trying to make y’all feel bad for me. everyone goes through something that shapes them into the person they are today. everything truly does happen for a reason. we may not know why, but we will. time will only tell. i’m on the right path right now & now it’s my time to shine the light on myself, as well as others. 💛